Okay. So a couple weeks ago I taught my boy (guy friend) how to country swing. I invited our mutual friend over and a chick I was just good dance partners with. It was a lot of fun. A girl I liked couldn't originally make it.
I scheduled another one on a day the chick I'm into could make it, and then proceeded to spam out invites to some of my boys and other chicks.
Long story short, two other prospects were invited amongst all the girls invited. At least 1 is coming, so 2/3 prospects are confirmed going. All three are kind of touchy with me so I have no idea how any will act towards me there
I'm mostly going to have split attention because everyone is going to want me to demonstrate moves and stuff. I shouldn't get sucked into to interacting with one more than the other. Any tips or comments on how to juggle this without them inadvertently breaking each other as prospects?
(Went on a date with one of them months ago and accidentally conveyed relationship intent when I was actually just dtf. She rejected me but has started being physical again and apparently giving me fuck me eyes from the dance floor)
P.S. part of my rational here of having them over is so that they have familiarity and fun at my place and it gets easier to pull them in the future. Plus I'll have clout and social proof with the kind of gathering I'm hosting
mattyanon about a month ago
Escalate a little with all of them in turn. Spread the love out, LET THEM GET JEALOUS, it works in your favour.
Vermillion-Rx about a month ago
They're all gonna be my demonstration partner at some point. It will be relatively easy to give attention selectively because I am the host and in have the most skill so everyone is just going to be relying on me to explain things anyway, so and I can control what I do, who I do it with,.and how I do it.
I have some experience juggling girls in front of their faces because they're used to other girls coming up to me and overtly trying to steal me from them. They all know I'm in demand there so they've already accepted it, which works in my favor.
One thing I could see going slightly wrong is the first girl I invited being more overt than the rest. She tends to not give a shit who sees it. Before I accidentally took her on a boyfriend date and got rejected after, she was hardcore physical in front of her male best friend.
I could see her flirting in a way that boxes out the other chicks. She's the most wildcard one and I don't know how to balance it if that's the case
@mattyanon oh yeah. Bonus points, the one that hasn't committed to coming yet (soft HB9) has seen me hold hands with and walked out with the wildcard one (HB 7.5) before and she got a bit butthurt
coolsocks00 about a month ago
This country club shit sounds like a fun time.
Vermillion-Rx about a month ago
It's too much fun
kurkumaonce about a month ago
you're talking its fun but I see it from here like you've got to do plenty of hard work juggling girls, don't you just sometimes think to move to farm far away from everyone?
Vermillion-Rx about a month ago
Not really, they already know what's up. I don't have to juggle much.
It's just in this case I invited three of them into my home (out of like 8 girls invited)
They expect me to have options there because of my social proof/clout, so it's not much work actually
This situation is slightly different and I am taking the risk in close quarters