A while ago she found out I chatted up this girl that's a mutual acquaintance with her. She was very angry, but a couple days later I switched it around by saying I want us to have a threesome - at first she was disgusted, then during sex she suddenly loved this idea. Over time this evolved into something she brings up frequently without me even mentioning it.
Other girl is also med student, has a huge ass and overall very attractive. She talks about me with a number of her friends and I notice them watching me, her showing up near me "coincidentally", etc. Maybe worth mentioning, I've been soft nexting her lately because she's playing hard to get (for some reason wont show any IOIs and pretends she doesn't see me, only the moment we start talking she starts flirting) and her friends have been asking my LTR, who is officially just a plate, about our relationship status which caused annoying drama.
Just need a sanity check, would it be worth actually pursuing this other girl to have a threesome? I want it badly even if just for the insane reputation boost. On the other hand it would look very bad to my LTR I somehow get rejected. I've got a good hand currently, been nexting her which probably makes the hamster wheel go insane, maybe should just keep the reputation boost and not risk anything? Thoughts?
Attempt to answer own Q: find other woman to have threesome with. I want to do this, but tbh there aren't many prospects that I'd be into.
Bozza 2 13h ago
what?
MrSupreme 12h ago
Is this an european thing?
I love it.
Bozza 2 12h ago
The Germans are a crazy bunch.
Lone_Ranger 3 10h ago
this quest for a 3some...
In my view, it cannot end well. If you get what you want, you basically lose respect for your LTR...becuase you now know that she is depraved.
SwarmShawarma 8h ago
IMO very good save, instead of explaining or keeping silent you have doubled down. Shows balls. Ofc much will depend on how it was done, quoting something that sounds good in a head doesn't mean it went as good.
I feel you.but if you have this LTR mindset but you think she thinks she is a plate like, you might be wrong. Your mindset might send more LTR signals than you think.
You dont mention much about her positives or your investment, so it 'd be safe to assume there is a long way in from of her to get upgrsded, plus she is playing bitch, it sounds like she emulates male/feminist behaviour./ her mates have too much to say.
I cant see myself back when I was fucking friends of my LTR so I'm guessing. I was respectful to my woman but always pushing innuendos. Casual disinterested. That was proper LTR game. You mightvhave to be more direct with a bitch type.
Yes. Hence you fuck beforehand. Yo7r choice.
First-light 3m ago
It all sounds a bit messed up. The plate/ LTR/ desperate girl friend is not going to come out of this very sane. The best outcomes you can get here are either a threesome and some serious fall out or no threesome and a messed up relationship ending sooner or later.
From the outside the easy answer is don't shit where you eat. Don't mess up your already messed up casual girlfriend, don't mess your reputation at up med school. If you want a consequence free threesome, find two sluts who know each other but who are strangers to you and who are bang up for it that night and tell them they don't have to choose which one goes home with you. Meantime keep spinning your plate and/ or take up with the other girl.
We can get into a lot of tangles when we push messy things to get messier.