her friends have been asking my LTR, who is officially just a plate

what?

Is this an european thing?

• Honey I'm so mad, I'm angry as hell!
• Let's have a threesome with your friend maybe, make the pain go away.

I love it.

this quest for a 3some...

In my view, it cannot end well. If you get what you want, you basically lose respect for your LTR...becuase you now know that she is depraved.

want us to have a threesome - at first she was disgusted, th

IMO very good save, instead of explaining or keeping silent you have doubled down. Shows balls. Ofc much will depend on how it was done, quoting something that sounds good in a head doesn't mean it went as good.

her friends have been asking my LTR, who is officially just a plate, a

I feel you.but if you have this LTR mindset but you think she thinks she is a plate like, you might be wrong. Your mindset might send more LTR signals than you think.

Just need a sanity check, would it be worth actually pursuing this other girl to have a threesome

You dont mention much about her positives or your investment, so it 'd be safe to assume there is a long way in front of her to get upgrsded, plus she is playing bitch, it sounds like she emulates male/feminist behaviour./ her mates have too much to say.

I cant see myself back when I was fucking friends of my LTR so I'm guessing. I was respectful to my woman but always pushing innuendos. Casual disinterested. That was proper LTR game. You mightvhave to be more direct with a bitch type.

. On the other hand it would look very bad to my LTR I somehow get rejecte

Yes. Hence you fuck beforehand. Yo7r choice.

It all sounds a bit messed up. The plate/ LTR/ desperate girl friend is not going to come out of this very sane. The best outcomes you can get here are either a threesome and some serious fall out or no threesome and a messed up relationship ending sooner or later.

From the outside the easy answer is don't shit where you eat. Don't mess up your already messed up casual girlfriend, don't mess your reputation at up med school. If you want a consequence free threesome, find two sluts who know each other but who are strangers to you and who are bang up for it that night and tell them they don't have to choose which one goes home with you. Meantime keep spinning your plate and/ or take up with the other girl.

We can get into a lot of tangles when we push messy things to get messier.

Your description of things is confusing. It sounds like you're having relationship problems. What do you mean by "she's a plate". And secondly, if she's a plate why do you give a shit about the outcome?

Now let's get to the heart of all this: I can't tell if you're happy with this current "plate"?

In my 40+ years on this planet I can say that some fantasies need to remain fantasies. Things are always more fun and uncomplicated in your girlfriend's head.

3 somes are very complicated. When I first started doing them, one girl would always inevitably leave the room in tears. You have to show extreme leadership and dominance in these scenarios.

I would warn you that a threesome will probably torch your connection with your LTR. Too many people try to introduce another person into their relationship as a band aid for it being slightly broken. I have yet to see it work out.