Just some learnings for my fellow red pill men:
Cluster B personality disorders
Cluster B personality disorders are characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior. They include antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder.
Antisocial personality disorder
- Disregard for others' needs or feelings
- Persistent lying, stealing, using aliases, conning others
- Recurring problems with the law
- Repeated violation of the rights of others
- Aggressive, often violent behavior
- Disregard for the safety of self or others
- Impulsive behavior
- Consistently irresponsible
- Lack of remorse for behavior
Borderline personality disorder
- Impulsive and risky behavior, such as having unsafe sex, gambling or binge eating
- Unstable or fragile self-image
- Unstable and intense relationships
- Up and down moods, often as a reaction to interpersonal stress
- Suicidal behavior or threats of self-injury
- Intense fear of being alone or abandoned
- Ongoing feelings of emptiness
- Frequent, intense displays of anger
- Stress-related paranoia that comes and goes
Histrionic personality disorder
- Constantly seeking attention
- Excessively emotional, dramatic or sexually provocative to gain attention
- Speaks dramatically with strong opinions, but few facts or details to back them up
- Easily influenced by others
- Shallow, rapidly changing emotions
- Excessive concern with physical appearance
- Thinks relationships with others are closer than they really are
Narcissistic personality disorder
- Belief that you're special and more important than others
- Fantasies about power, success and attractiveness
- Failure to recognize others' needs and feelings
- Exaggeration of achievements or talents
- Expectation of constant praise and admiration
- Arrogance
- Unreasonable expectations of favors and advantages, often taking advantage of others
- Envy of others or belief that others envy you
Pfizer 1y ago
I find this bit well explaininG BPD, by William Gorder:
On NPD this article is pretty detailed [https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/are-you-with-a-narcissist], excerpts:
NPD Behaviour is:
The list of the arsenal the narcissist holds and uses when arguing with you is this:
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
Sweet post.
2 questions:
Doesn’t this describe most women? Disregard for others feelings and lack of remorse for behavior? Ie, they don’t give a shit about your feelings and lack accountability, no remorse (hamster gets turned into overdrive) for their behavior.
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imtranscending 1y ago
Interesting post, glad it's all in one place. Are these actually disorders though and not singled out or conditioned character traits? I don't know anything about general psych so I'm a bit dumb on this subject. Like if most girls are BPD then the condition itself isn't an abnormality right? Who created these diagnoses?
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LudgerKresnik 1y ago
Can someone get mix narcisst and histrionic? Cuz all narcisst and histrionic traits that you mentioned was in my ex 2yrs ago.
And till now can’t even 100% moveon for her behavior.
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LudgerKresnik 1y ago
Not move on like i still have feelings for her no.
It was like “i can’t move on everytime i think or read something about cluster B” I always think about her cuz i experienced how horrible is it at the same time it was good, you know the love bombing, the rollercoster feeling , the sex etc.
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No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
In other words, avoid all women.
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No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Heh. NAWALT. Where have I heard that one before? /s
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