My good buddy recently told me about how he started going out with this awesome girl. He told me she has BPD but it's very minor. He also mentioned that she has 2 ex boyfriends in prison who have stabbed her (she has scars from it). He says that she is almost over her BPD but in my opinion that is a major fucking red flag and he should run for the hills. I've told him to read up on BPD relationships on r/bpdlovedones and not to be captain saveahoe.
What more can I do? I know it's not really my business but I really care about him. Also do you think I am overreacting? Maybe this girl won't be a horrible gf but judging by her history of boyfriends and mental illness I beg to differ.