So i asked out my crush at uni yesterday to get a drink sometime(in real life), and she said sure, and i got her contact. She always asks me questions about my fam and where im from(we are from different countries) and other personal details so i guess the interest is there. I saw her again and asked her through text later what she was doing on saturday, and she sent me a voice msg saying that since "she is flying to her rents on tuesday , she wants to socially distance because of them, but maybe after christmas?" i msged her and said to hmu when she's back and she said "sure! :) have fun in ... too :)"
What do you guys think? I know i am overthinking and shouldn't care, but what i want is your opinion what you think her intentions are, or if she is letting me down politely. as far as reasons go, it is a fair one to be honest, but i'm not sure. sounds a bit flakey, we are both early 20s
thx in advance
Redsabre2003 3y ago
Read my reply below I think it will provide some insight. Everyone here has really good stuff to say about this situation. You will get your crush just maintain your cool and keep frame.
JohnnyKingD 3y ago
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JohnnyKingD 3y ago
You're being too available, shes loosing interest thinking you have no life since it seems u guys text alot and she can easily cancel or delay plans on you means she's disrespecting you in a polite manner , you're not a sexual prize to her eyes and based on how u text it shows u lack confidence and abundance mindset, u need to detached urself and move on to other chicks hotter then her since she will be waiting for you to chase her now and string u along.
AlexBrown 3y ago
I think this message is a warning , you should go about your business but without the attention of other ladies)
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Redsabre2003 3y ago
This right here is golden.
If you’re not in a serious relationship for 6 months don’t wait for the women and pursue others.
Don’t message her until she is back. wait for her to message you.
Only use text to schedule a in person hangout no need for small chat now that she has already said sure to hanging out with him.
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