So i asked out my crush at uni yesterday to get a drink sometime(in real life), and she said sure, and i got her contact. She always asks me questions about my fam and where im from(we are from different countries) and other personal details so i guess the interest is there. I saw her again and asked her through text later what she was doing on saturday, and she sent me a voice msg saying that since "she is flying to her rents on tuesday , she wants to socially distance because of them, but maybe after christmas?" i msged her and said to hmu when she's back and she said "sure! :) have fun in ... too :)"
What do you guys think? I know i am overthinking and shouldn't care, but what i want is your opinion what you think her intentions are, or if she is letting me down politely. as far as reasons go, it is a fair one to be honest, but i'm not sure. sounds a bit flakey, we are both early 20s
thx in advance
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Redsabre2003 3y ago
This right here is golden.
If you’re not in a serious relationship for 6 months don’t wait for the women and pursue others.
Don’t message her until she is back. wait for her to message you.
Only use text to schedule a in person hangout no need for small chat now that she has already said sure to hanging out with him.
AlexBrown 3y ago
I think this message is a warning , you should go about your business but without the attention of other ladies)
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JohnnyKingD 3y ago
You're being too available, shes loosing interest thinking you have no life since it seems u guys text alot and she can easily cancel or delay plans on you means she's disrespecting you in a polite manner , you're not a sexual prize to her eyes and based on how u text it shows u lack confidence and abundance mindset, u need to detached urself and move on to other chicks hotter then her since she will be waiting for you to chase her now and string u along.
JohnnyKingD 3y ago
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Redsabre2003 3y ago
Read my reply below I think it will provide some insight. Everyone here has really good stuff to say about this situation. You will get your crush just maintain your cool and keep frame.