Women in public and at PPD: "What a horrid woman! You're a terrible person! I hope your husband finds out about you doing this!!"

Women in private: "You go grrrrfraaaaand! Go for it! We want deets later! (Gee... I wonder if I could do that....?)"

It happens, women do things like this a lot. I know plenty of divorces where this has been the case.

One thing I know guys, you have to be on your best all the time in a world with temporary relationships. Honestly treat it as that because no one wants an actual relationship that may take work.

Sooner or later men have to smarten up about marriage, there are too many examples for so many men to remain clueless.

At that point it seems like the best thing for the poor husband is for the wench to go away. Even if she "settles" and stays, she'll probably just make his life miserable.

Marriage is such a risky endeavor for men these days.

Dont get married!NEVER!!!

I decided I deserve more and better

Yeah, that's now how that works. You are not the arbiter of "what you deserve." Other people are. Specifically the people who have whatever it is you want.

Those men expressing interest in you (only now that you're fit, mind)? They get to decide whether you "deserve" their time, attention and resources. Presumably many of them already know you're married. They probably also know how little you think of your husband - and why - because narcissistic cunts like you just can't help but tell on yourselves to anyone who will listen.

I expect most of those men will be only too happy to stand back and watch (and laugh) as you pull the pin on your own life, then tell you to pound sand when you come sniffing 'round their territory. Probably some of 'em will put you into rotation as a 3am weekend sport fuck, at least until you start getting clingy and they next you.

I just hope at least a couple of 'em are decent enough folks to reach out to your ex-husband and do what they can to help him through the mess you'll make of his life. And hopefully document it all to show you as he picks up the pieces and moves on to something better while you descend into bitter spinsterhood.

What about the 40s guy who is now in demand on the sexual market? Does he DESERVE to dump his wife for a younger model?

2/3rds of stomach stapling patients' marriages fail after surgery, according to the pre surgery class I took. The Plaintiff had the surgery, breast augmentation, and a tummy tuck. Yes, our marriage was one of the 2/3rds.

Beta bux is about to get divorced. Never use money or status to get women.

sickness and health, richer or poorer

dont get married if you aren't okay with being with the person dying and dirt poor.

If a woman even speaks on the concept of “manifestation”, AVOID AT ALL COSTS.

On the bright side, if she did get promoted and is now making decent money, her poor husband won't be on the hook for alimony (child support is a different matter though assuming they have kids).

Plus, he'll get to watch his wife destroy her life chasing guys who'll pump-n-dump her. Seeing the look of horror on her face when she realizes interest in fucking doesn't translate to interest in a long-term relationship, might just be worth the divorce. As a thank-you gift for freeing him from the bonds of this sham marriage, he should buy her a cat.

I'd say that this is not something unusual. There are myriads cases, where wife left husband after becoming more fit or getting promoted. But the saddest thing is that most of these instances could be avoided - if one have looked deep enough down to that woman's soul, he would find that susceptibility to this type of behavior was already there.

Hypergamy is a myth. Nothing to see here. You are misreading the sentence.

Believe social conventions, not your lying eyes.

Please let this be a troll

men are never loved unconditionally - quote from the internet :)

So sad. This kind of thing happens all the time now. What ever happened to "for richer or poorer"...

“Showing interest” is either 1. all in her head, 2. they just want to fuck her.

I hope she has to pay him alimony.

Branchswinging

You have to wonder how truly serious these women are when they take those marriage vows. Are they REALLY serious about committing to their husband forever and always; or are they only doing it for attention or because they need some excuse to be the center of attention for a day?

Getting 'attention' from male co-workers who seem to have it together could very well be a facade. They may be seeing other (younger) women. They may just want a chance to hit it and quit it. They may be narcissists.

Or all of the above.

Manifested interest in me

Has nothing to do with her being a piece of trash.

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The audacity for this person to ask on Quora...wow.

Remember: she will jump ship the moment she thinks she can get something better.

Best thing you can do is focus on yourself (body, mind, and property), and never sign a legal contract that's based on the extremely capricious whims of women. That's as good as signing your own bill of sale on your slave auction.

Ya all got this wrong. That's a masculine dude talking about dumping his husband. Almost every comment is along the lines of feminine women are messed up, but this is clearly a masculine dude, like catfishing you. I guess.

This dude has got the self improvement kick, the successful competitive job, the new gym bod, the middle age crisis expensive car, enjoying the attention and admiration from other potential mates. Surprised there's no dick size bragging, LOL.

This is not a story about a feminine person and a masculine person met and look how modern women are crappy at being feminine. Which is admittedly true in an abstract sense, but its not the point of this story. This is a story about two masculine dudes living masculine lives with masculine goals and achievements, and instead of bro-ing up as roommates typically do, they are competing and now the dominant male is not respecting the submissive male and he wants out.

Its hard to say if the story, or either side of the story, is "good" or "bad" without hearing the other side's explanation. If the "happy couple" is two masculine males and both want to try the domme - sub gay lifestyle, then they are quite literally living the dream as life is turning out just like their desires. If the other masculine guy was falsely advertised this dude is a woman who later comes out as a domme successful masculine man, well, that's like not even divorce that's more like outright fraud. Its like in 2021 if the groom doesn't grab the crotch of the bride before marriage and later discovers a dick there, it's kinda the grooms fault, it is 2021 after all. Is this like a "trans love story" or was the dude always a dude all along or what?

What I'm getting at, is if the husband is married to a successful dude, the whole tone of the story depends on what the husband thought he was originally marrying. If he thought he was marrying a woman, he's a fraud victim. If he knew all along he was going to end up a gay submissive and he likes that idea, I'm not seeing an issue (its not for me, but if he likes it, go have fun dude, or as the case is, dudes).

Luckily he will be able to avoid alimony.

They want safety nets, not husbands. Keep em on the streets Gentlemen!

Ah another example of some 304 who thinks the grass is greener on the other side..

A bitch is only as loyal as her options.

The hypergamy is strong in this one.

Nominated for best title ever on this sub.

Society is messed up guys especially the women

Funny how the first thing a woman thinks about when she earns more money is to leave her family, not help her family.

Loyalty means nothing to these women....

Sounds like my ex.

She wanted a bigger house, she wanted to stay at home and have more money, needed a fancier car than what I gave her in our first decade together (I was building a business at the time).

Today she and hubby #2 have refinanced the smaller house they purchased, now 3 times, since they married 18 years ago (they have approx. 20% equity in it as I'm informed by her brother who I still talk to, and the only reason they haven't borrowed against that is because their credit scores suck)....the house I bought 10 years after we divorced is paid off (I rented for the first 5 years after the divorce because I was still building my business). It's twice the size of the one she and I had when we were married, and, she was driving the car I bought for her until about 8 years ago (so it was something like 22 years old) and the one she replaced it with was a used version of that same car, not a better car, and to top it all off....combined, the two of them made less in each of the last three years (she's still working 20 years after we divorced) than I made in the months of July and August this year.

It looks like she got everything she worked for.

(Nothing).

Karma is truly a wonderful thing :)

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What is it that these women always say? “If he doesn’t want me at my worst, then he doesn’t deserve me at my best.”? He wanted you at your worst and now you still say he doesn’t deserve you at your best. What a piece of work. I honestly don’t see how these women can’t see why men have stopped marrying. Guess if they didn’t have double standards, they wouldn’t have any standards at all.

Husband? Didn't she say for better or worse as part of the terms and conditions for marriage? Mayby if she supported and encoraged him more rather than put him down he might do better for her?

Better cars? - probably funded by more debt. Its often a shallow illusion. I actually drive a shit car on purpose because it keeps women like this away lol

Its pretty much the same deal with houses as well.....

It's a fake question. There's a similar question replacing "husband" with "wife". Quora is nothing but a bunch of bots coming up with thousands of ways to ask the same question over and over. Fake woman, fake scenario, fake question. Nothing coming from Quora is based in reality. Is why I dumped the site years ago.

Unchecked hypergamy

Mgtow is the default option for men.

Don't settle with 23+ women. CC ruins pair bonding. Vet 18-23 women thoroughly.

Pair bonding = loyalty. If she does not want to invest her prime years in you, she's settling for you. Will cheat and leave you as soon as a better option presents itself. Then will come crawling back after Chad(s) pump and dump her.

They are never content and satisfied.

Stay single.

Gaelige - Béarla Translation:

• stiúsaí fealltach = "treacherous slut"

"Trading up" rarely, if ever works out for Women. They end up on the carousel wondering "where are the GOOD Men?"

I drive a 2022 Escalade. My home is 800k and paid off. I have no kids and divorced once in my 30s. . I'm in my 40s and single. I am sleeping with 2 women who are married and have the same mindset. They don't give a fuck regardless of the consequences. They see shiny baubles and will destroy their homes and families for perceived gratification.

/u/Maximum-Complaint-68 is that the full story in the screenshot? It seems awfully short.

I have no doubt she has a couple of female co workers who are eagerly edging her on.

"There are dozens of men at work who want to fuck me, but I'm not self-aware enough to realize that."

Jesus.

Here we go again. I can't count how many times I've seen this story. Woman has an amazing husband but starts thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Blows up the marriage to go ride the cc but keeps getting pumped and dumped by Chad and Tyrone. Regrets it later. Ends in "Where are all the good men?"

thank for checking in... Im still a piece of garbage.

Typo.

Men in the west have smartened up. Somewhat.

Only 6 out of 1000 suckers get hitched now.

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