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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / $ Bailout $

She needs the benefits of a husband
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Bljman98

Posted 3y ago in $ Bailout $ - Permalink - Locked - 3.5K Views



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IllLead2864 3y ago

I literally got permanently banned from another sub reddit for saying this lady is a piece of shit and now here I am!

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Rish83 3y ago

She just want free house and provider of food, no respect for marriage or love

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rando1456 3y ago

She wants what he provides. Nothing more.

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BrewingHeavyWeather 3y ago

How feel old: read 180+ comments, and not one went for the low hanging fruit of asking if she had family in Bel Aire (Kansas, of course).

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DarthBroker 3y ago

dire need..

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i love to see it

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[deleted] 3y ago

Here: Let me show the laydeeez how repulsive this is:

Not gonna lie I need a wife ASAP

Not even joking. My life got turned upside down last year. Can't get laid for shit. I need a sex partner to take care of all this pent up jizz. I'm underemployed and work at the local dollar store. If you need a dildo or a guy to eat you out, let's chat. I went from not wanting a serious relationship (hey, cuz porn amirite) to dire need of one. I like to cum and would love a submissive woman who does what I say. I am very simple. This past year I was made literally sexless and it is terrifying.

Cud you pleez help

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mustangfrank 3y ago

You would find many women if you were 6'4" and a Chad with a prison record.

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Saianna 3y ago

shoulder and neck injury

Must have been very difficult sex pose with chad and probably another mini-chad on the way.

I so damn wish people like her were literally banned by law from participating in looking for relationship. Meh

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Snoo16680 3y ago

This came over from the nicegirls sub. Some of the women there genuinely did not get why a ton of men get angry over this. "It is an age old way to date". "Good on her for being honest". And so on.

"Get marred, have kids together, support each other in thick and thin" is a culture of dating, and of life. She did not want to go that route, and that is fine, the world is a new* place after all. Suddenly, when her choices bite her, she wants the stability of that route. But she has not "paid her insurance" by living that life. Why should people of that culture suddenly help her? Why would anyone trust her to keep living that life, after the crisis is over?

Besides, where is the baby daddy? I smell a trainwreck human life story, that finally found some kind of injury to pin the lack of work on.

*I honestly believe that we are at a crossroads where we are fundamentally changing dating, life, having kids, and all that. It is broken wide open, the shards of the past is floating around, and I wonder how it will set again. I would love to talk to a young man born in 2121 about how dating, marriage, kids and life works.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

She: I am not going to lie, I need a bail out ASAP. I used to be a feminist until I had to support myself. Now, the patriarchy is my friend. I can't do much and I have a kid, so you will need a big paycheck. Sex if you are good enough and when I am not in pain, and I am in pain a lot. I am a Kween looking for my King (who will get treated like a slave.)

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CSM_Pepper 3y ago

I am very simple.

  • lol
  • I like to laugh
  • {emoji}

No mierda, Miss Marple.

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bartbitsu 3y ago

That's kind of why people got married in the first place, but there has to be good times to back it up.

No good times here.

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Snoo16680 3y ago

She wants someone to sign up for "..and in bad times". As in "in good times and in bad times", just that the good times have already passed.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

just that the good times have already passed and there is no money.

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polishknightusa 3y ago

One of my all-time favorite movie scenes, that just grew on me over time, is the courtship of Michael and Apollonia in The Godfather. It begins with Michael asking a stunned father to court his daughter under his supervision and Michael effectively dating the family for the first part of it. They fed him while he gave small gifts to the daughter and mother and he drank and relaxed with the family as they each got to know each other better. Then, with the whole family walking behind, he took her on a walk and chatted with her presumably about happy things. Throughout that whole courtship scene, there was such respect, appreciation, and support.

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PirateDocBrown 3y ago

In the day, such was the norm. This was in fact how marriages were arranged between families, since time immemorial. Michaels father was still in New York, so he had to ask on his own behalf. Had Vito been there, it would have been him that made the approach. The reason the Vitellis were so surprised, was that they were relatively poor, while Michael was seen as fabulously rich. The reason Michael did it the way he did was that he needed to show that his interest was truly matrimonial, and not prurient. Normally, families would arrange marriages as best they could within their social class, or if the bride was spectacularly beautiful or the groom very successful, one small step up in class. Everyone had an interest in seeing that the match was lasting and successful. This was the great benefit of patriarchy. Without it, we get a small number of high status men gathering harems, and all the others making do with leftovers.

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Sufficient_Winter_45 3y ago

If that's your idea of perfect dating, I am out. That's some infantile shit.

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cryptothrow2 3y ago

It's not infantile. It's one of the old ways, short of an arranged marriage

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NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago

How has the current alternative worked out for us?

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polishknightusa 3y ago

Michael's speech to his (future) father-in-law was so touching, masculine, and respectful. "infantile". He said he respected the father, his family, and Apollonia. He showed everyone respect and appreciation and it was returned.

For the record, it was a lot like how I dated my wife and her family. I took them out to a nice show, not only with my wife, THEM as well. We had a wonderful time, drank, and came back. They look after my daughter. With their support, I've been married 17 years.

I never liked modern dating and I see now why. It's awful. What is your idea of "perfect dating?"

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Texan2116 3y ago

I would say, that about half the women I dated from OLD were looking for some form of bailout.

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whyserenity 3y ago

Single mothers are bad decision machines. Run like hell.

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CryingMadGirl 3y ago

“House wife. I have shoulder and neck injuries” so by house wife’s she means a wife who stays at home and does nothingg

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Rob141414 3y ago

She needs to go to the nearest welfare office..

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BeholdTheHair 3y ago

Fuck that. Her shitty life choices are not my (or your) financial responsibility. What she needs to do is give the kid(s) up for adoption and join a fucking nunnery so she can't ruin anymore lives.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago

Why? There are men closer than that.

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littlestminks 3y ago

For some fucking reason some women think it’s easier to find a man to provide than to go fill out paperwork. Idk but if it was me, my ego would feel better about the government rejecting me versus a man I’m trying to shack up with. But who am I. Just another happily married citizen

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mustangfrank 3y ago

You have a big problem! You have morals and common sense.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago

Idk but if it was me, my ego would feel better about the government rejecting me versus a man I’m trying to shack up with.

Since they only see men as wallets, not as people, I don't think the same thought process applies.

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TomFool3ry 3y ago

The bar is in hell.

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KidPowered17 3y ago

If her neck hurts too much to work, you can bet your bottom dollar it’s going to hurt to much for any type of fun once you get home from beating yourself up to provide for her and another man’s kid. Why didn’t she make it work with him? Oh she was strong and independent until she wasn’t. I feel sorry for the poor soul that falls in this trap, she’s a stray that wants a place to stay.

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LongLiveSmoove 3y ago

Ah yes a HOMELESS and UNEMPLOYED woman with a child.! At least she’s changing the game a litttle

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CarpAndTunnel 3y ago

Not my circus, not my monkeys. Let the people who created this mess clean it up

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sugarfoot_mghee 3y ago

Another woman who loves to laugh...so quirky

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Sumpm 3y ago

I like to laugh

OMG, I've been looking my whole life for a woman who likes to laugh, finally found one!

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LCOSPARELT1 3y ago

This reads like one of those old-timey newspaper classified ads from pioneer times. Men, mostly, would literally advertise that their wife had just died and they needed a new wife to help raise the children and work the farm. Women did it to in a very similar manner to the woman in this post. I wouldn’t contact her in a million years, but if this were 1870’s Nebraska, this advertisement would not be out of place.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I was in Douglas, WY about 30 years ago. I was in a museum and there was a steamer trunk with a woman's possessions that she came with from England. I want to say this was in 1880's. She was a mail order bride. She packed everything she had to live with a man who paid her fare. Her decedents donated everything as an example how things worked back then. Now, women complain about the Patriarchy while dodging military Serice. Equality for me but not for thee.

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phlents 3y ago

What she has to offer? She likes to laugh!

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I 'm laughing,

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DoTheSnoopyDance 3y ago

Step right up and rescue her. Don’t worry, as soon as she’s back on her feet she’ll be happy to get that no fault ticket right out of your life and take that cut of your pay on an ongoing basis she deserves for all the work she put in being rescued by you.

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Bljman98 3y ago

I respect her honesty, but I’m not sure how enticing this is.

She used to not want a man but now that she needs husband benefits all of a sudden she wants a husband…

I’m not sure if anyone would buy her comment about loving a respectful man either. If he’s not providing what she wants I highly doubt she’ll respect him.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Coddled woman learns the hard way that the real world can be a cruel mistress. I’m sure there were scores of women back in the day that would’ve loved doing whatever they want, but instead settled down with a man that they decently liked because they needed the security.

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[deleted] 3y ago

She'll need a husband until he says I do, then she'll need to garnish his pay check because she never stopped not needing a man, also he abused her?

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winteryknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

If she's been choosing no-commitment bad boys when she had a choice, that's what she really wants. Whoever she settles for will not get any respect... he's not what she is attracted to.

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Cristoff13 3y ago

I would respect her more if she just came out and asked for money. That's what she wants, money. She doesn't want a husband. If she wanted a husband then she wouldn't be a single mother. She might think she wants a husband, but she couldn't stand the actual boring (to her) reality of marriage. Thankfully, I doubt if any man will fall for this BS spiel.

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the_last_scoundrel 3y ago

An honesty born of having the self-awarenes of a rotten cabbage.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

another way to put it is "There is nothing so desperate than a woman who has made a lifetime a bad decisions wanting some pay to pay the consequences for them."

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mustangfrank 3y ago

So she wants to have a guy pay for everything and raise her kid while she lays on the couch and recovers?

She may have some entertainment while the man is working.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

It would be interesting to know her history. Was she one of those "a woman needs a man like a fish does a bicycle" types? What type of men did she associate with? Now, broke and disabled, a husband, not a man, is exactly what she wants. BTW The man pays for everything. What a deal?

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

She's a single mother. This is all you need to know.

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[deleted] 3y ago

and women call me "entitled" for just wanting to date them lol

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

That accusation is almost always projection, along with "insecure".

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Not the focus, bud

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devine_zen 3y ago

Honestly what house work can she do with a neck and shoulder injury. I'd say zero! So she's not being entirely honest from the get go is she

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Machomuk89 3y ago

Not to mention the future addiction to pain killers and ballooning in size you're likely facing in her situation. Hard pass

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

My guess is she will do it initially then after a month or two it will rapidly drop off and she will start expecting you to do more and more until the point you are doing it all yourself while she sits on her ass watching reality TV or playing with her phone. I am saying this because one woman I was friends with was about to be homeless due to being unemployed so I did the nice thing of letting her move in to help her catch a break and within a month or two she told me I needed to contribute around the apartment more cleaning etc. Bitch first off this is my apartment you are just a guest, secondly you don't even have a fucking job while I am working and attending university! So you have way more free time. The audacity to tell me what to do when we are not dating and I was doing her a massive favor and in my own fucking home! I told her to get out.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

she told me I needed to contribute around the apartment more cleaning etc. Bitch first off this is my apartment you are just a guest

I'm highlighting this as another example of how women overly project communal attributes to things that are not. She sees it as "the" apartment, really meaning "our" apartment. This way she can re-frame and mentally dismiss the truth that it really is just yours.

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sassboysamJr 3y ago

What was her response or reaction and the fall out ?

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

She called me all sorts of names then moved out to someone elses place.

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-SharkDog- 3y ago

Yeah I respect that too. She got a reality check, and yeah, being homeless is probably fucking terrifying. I think this is the way to go, be honest.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

I think this is the way to go, be honest.

Straight up using somebody?!

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-SharkDog- 3y ago

No, but being upfront about who you are and what you want. If she tells you "I am X, Y and Z." It is up to you to decide what to do with that. If she is X, Y and Z but says she is A, B and C. Then she is a liar and will probably end up using you.

In this scenario, at least she is straight up with it and you can make the decision if you think you'd get a reasonable return on what you put in or if you want to pass.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

The only return any man would get would be this

Any man that would marry her would be the excessively compassionate type - not the controlling type. He would do so because he would already see her as a victim and just in need of a good man - he's a good man. He will soon realize that she is neither thankful nor giving. He will soon experience misery and then more misery when she divorces him and asks the court for continued support for remainder of his days.

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-SharkDog- 3y ago

Probably. But I'd still prefer a simp to find his bitch, than for the bitch to lie and manipulate in her profile.

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cel-shaded 3y ago

She's playing the pity game. I'm sure some man will read this and think "i can save her".

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mustangfrank 3y ago

5 years later, to be divorced raped by her

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devine_zen 3y ago

After he pays her surgery and medical bills the second she feels better again, shes gone girl

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Did you ever see the movie "Gone Girl". It is an eye opener. And there are women out there just like her.

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theLOLbird 3y ago

She'll definitely wait and secure half YOUR house first.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I worked with a man who married a single mom. She had 2 young boys. They were together for about 5 years. He paid for her to finish her RN degree. One year later, she dumped him and stuck him with $5,000 in credit card debt. That was 25 years ago, so that would be about $15,000 today. She worked in a prison as a RN, and started hanging out with the ex-cons who were released i.e. bikers, gangbangers, thugs, etc. True story, nothing made up.

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PirateDocBrown 3y ago

Grounds for alimony.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Alimony was illegal in Texas 25 years ago. Some millionaire dumped his ex with nothing, so the Religious White Knights in Texas government changed the law. Also, Common Law marriage is so vague, that almost anything can be used to create a legal marriage.

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polywha 3y ago

The only man she is going to find is someone who wants a house slave. They are definitely not going to treat her right, they are going to see a woman in a dire situation and see the control they can have over her because they know she can't leave.

Is this can put her and her daughter in a terrible predicament.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

I disagree.

First let's establish: she's not wanting to marry ANY man. She wants to marry a particular provider man with a good job with good health benefits.

Any man that would marry her would be the excessively compassionate type - not the controlling type. He would do so because he would already see her as a victim and just in need of a good man - he's a good man. He will soon realize that she is neither thankful nor giving. He will soon experience misery and then more misery when she divorces him and asks the court for continued support for remainder of his days.

Allow me to also say that this would not be a blue-pilled, liberal man. A liberal man would NOT marry her; he would instead direct her to seek out social programs that are there to help women like her - poor helpless victims of no fault of their own.

Also, her chances of getting married at all are incredibly low as marriage is dying out in America due to increasing awareness of divorce law.

I find your comment attempts to cast her as the victim and men as controlling and abusive.

this can put her and her daughter in a terrible predicament.

Even your last statement attempts to frame this as a situation acting on her rather than her making decisions and acting within the situation - her as an object being acted upon rather than a person herself.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Well written and all true.

Any man that would marry her would be the excessively compassionate type - not the controlling type. He would do so because he would already see her as a victim and just in need of a good man - he's a good man. He will soon realize that she is neither thankful nor giving. He will soon experience misery and then more misery when she divorces him and asks the court for continued support for remainder of his days.

This is exactly what would happen.

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NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago

Enough with the Handmaids Tale hyperbole. If you’re doing it right, everyone is a slave in a family. A man is a wage slave, home defense slave, lifting slave, jar opening slave, fixit slave…

The sheer sloth of some modern women to think that they are exempt from work and undesirable tasks. Like running a joint home is somehow oppressive.

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OwnerAndMaster 3y ago

1000%

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LordFlakkko 3y ago

Seriously. And some women act like they should be getting paid to vacuum and raise their own kids. I get giving your wife money so she can buy clothes and makeup and the kids stuff but some women are demanding $50,000 - $100,000 a year for that.

But the moment you mention that you fix things around the house mow the lawn fix the toilet and you should charge her then you are oppressing her. Modern women are a joke

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I agree with you. Fixing the car, house, and stuff that breaks is not even considered anything to most women. It is a given you are to do that. I changed out the garbage disposal last week. A couple of weeks ago, worked on the garage door opener. All little things, but things most women could not fix.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Slaving for corporate overlords = strong and independent!

Running a household and raising kids = oppression!

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NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago

Incredible, isn’t it?

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Slaving for corporate overlords = strong and independent!

I would use whoring oneself out. I did it for years and was proud of it. I have no issue being a money ho. I like money. 2021 Dodge Challenger 6.4 485 HP and parked in front of that is my HD.

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NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago

Same here. To those who shun agency and accountability, choices are slavery.

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grim210x2 3y ago

Don't slaves do things they wouldn't want to do? I have no problems with taking care of my family in any way because I love them and want to see them flourish. A slave on the other hand does not have that attachment. I think you need reevaluate your definitions.

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NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago

Yeah. I fucking LOVE grabbing the shotgun and investigating the bump in the night, knowing my ass may be ventilated as a result.

I adore 60+ hour work weeks. Yes sireeeee!

Did you grow up with a man in your household? You actually think that women are the only ones doing involuntary and undesirable work?

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grim210x2 3y ago

Where did you get the idea of gender roles in my comment? I know you mentioned them, I didn't, you sound like an incel right now.

If you don't love your family enough to justify the sacrifice it takes to have maybe you should just abandon them like it sounds your dad did to you.

Edit: nvm seen your profile troll away.

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NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago

The same should apply evenly, no?

Although I was responding to the “house slave” comment. One is a “slave” but not the other?

Nope. Everyone contributes. No one is a slave OR everyone is.

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littlestminks 3y ago

Right it’s pretty damn honest. Marry me so I won’t be homeless. But basically her life is saved and her child’s, and you? You got a two more mouths to feed and listen to while a crippled woman cleans your house.

Sounds rude but if she’s got pain that’s too crippling to work, ain’t no way she’s doing your house and your kids any favors. Let alone you.

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GutsGloryAndGuinness 3y ago

Good points. I'm also thinking does Daddy Government not jump in and make the save for cases like this?

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

Sounds rude but if she’s got pain that’s too crippling to work, ain’t no way she’s doing your house and your kids any favors. Let alone you.

I agree most people think housework and raising a kid is a lot less physically demanding and demanding in general than they think.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

I agree most people think housework and raising a kid is a lot less physically demanding and demanding in general than they think.

bEiNg a mOtHeR iS tHe hArDeSt jOb iN tHe wOrLd.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

bEiNg a mOtHeR iS tHe hArDeSt jOb iN tHe wOrLd.

Said Oprah Winfrey. I will have to remind roofers, cement masons, brick layers, welders, etc of how much harder it is to be a mom.

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littlestminks 3y ago

Yep. Thank you for even recognizing.. a lot of people don’t, including my dad haha. I’m a house mom/wife and my husband feels bad leaving me alone at the house cause he’s done it himself and knows it’s hard work. (Along with our Belgian mal) Different kind of hard, but hard nonetheless.

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

My dad was worthless at that sort of thing considering it all womens work so I saw the hard work my mom put in raising me and running a household. It really made me not want to treat my future wife that way, but unfortunately it turning me into a "nice guy" just means I have mostly attracted people trying to take advantage of my nature.

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littlestminks 3y ago

You sound a lot like my husband. He provided for his wife before me, got cheated on, but somehow didn’t let it change who he was and now has a great wife with a beautiful family. Finally happened for him at 36. Can’t say I wouldn’t let it change me, but.. he’s much stronger than I. Hold out for the right person because it’s worth it. 98% of dating pool is trash so I wish you luck.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

The world of men need more women like you. Where were you hiding?

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Hold out for the right person because it’s worth it.

That's a really expensive risk to take.

98% of dating pool is trash so I wish you luck.

You aren't helping your argument at all.

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littlestminks 3y ago

I mean it just depends on who you ask. Some people don’t want a family, etc. so it’s not a risk worth taking. Some people don’t want to devote their life to someone else. But some people do. All of those things are okay. My opinion is not an “argument.”

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downvote_to_feed_me 3y ago

What the fuck do you seriously need a house wife for anyway? I just go to god damn Publix when I want a pie.

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botfiddler 3y ago

do you seriously need a house wife for anyway?

One can move to a cheaper place outside of urban areas, where there are no take-out or food delivery services nor any maid services.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

"What kind of pie?"

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HedgeRunner 3y ago

Publix - I LOVE THEM. Not from the south but went there on a long driving trip for fun working remotely. It's the ONLY grocery store I know that bags your items and sometimes 2 people on top of your casher comes and helps you bag. I will say I'm more often so embarrassed at the kindness and level of service!

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Deport-snek 3y ago

The deli sandwiches are amazing also!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

And the deli fried chicken.

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

I have done my own cleaning for 15+ years and because most women can't clean we would likely have to hire a maid service to come twice a month. I do my own cooking and half the women I have dealt with can't make anything more complicated than store bought macaroni and cheese. If I want sex a hooker would be cheaper in the long term.

With all that said it brings up the question of what do I need a wife for anyway? Few single women are good enough to marry and few are good enough people or have a good personality which are the other two things I look for. They don't provide anything instead coming with more work for me and don't have the things I want and are usually too god damn old or have kids so most women are not good enough to marry!

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maruadventurer 3y ago

Besides with shoulder and back pain she would not be able to do it even if she wanted to.

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waterfoiler 3y ago

You rent a hooker, lease a girlfriend and finance a wife.

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

And no matter what she isn't yours it is just your turn because most women aren't actually capable of long term love.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

most women aren't actually capable of long term love.

ftfy

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panda_ammonium 3y ago

If I want sex a hooker would be cheaper in the long term.

You don't pay a hooker to fuck you. You pay her to go away.

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

I would agree but I am ugly so I am doing the first category.

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SnakeEyeskid 3y ago

Steal jokes. Making them laugh is a cheat code. I guess I'm mad enough to make up my own material, but how many women watch stand-up?

Should work... I dont do casual sex myself but, well I make ppl laugh (often at me...) and that makes girls rly, comfortable around you.

Ye I have a face not even a mother could love. She told me that, every month for 20y...

I definitly can answer the "who hurt you"-shit, but I know women lack empathy for weak men so it's not like I'm going to tell them about what it's like being raised by a narcissistic mother. Thank God she dumped my father so he could be my mentor. I was about yo leave this world, now I am close with dad and his 4 brothers.

Children needs strong male role models. I was basically 30 before I got that. But things is going well.

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panda_ammonium 3y ago

By it's very definition, there are far more ugly guys than physically attractive guys. And a vast majority of those ugly guys are having sex. So it's simple stats why your argument doesn't hold good.

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SnakeEyeskid 3y ago

A minority of guys even among attractive ones are sexually active. I worked with two photomodels (OK 2 male and 3 female ones). Like facial shots, gigachad look.

The most known one lived celibate which made many female colleges pissed.

Didn't have many shifts with him but he had only one girl in mind and she was busy riding the CC. He did get her after 3 years.

And he definitly was a high earner, consulting and modelling high end in both. Fat wallet, could live of his looks. Was always complaining that she wasn't responding.

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panda_ammonium 3y ago

Absolutely, I've known guys who were absolute chads, but completely oblivious of it, and women chased them with no luck. Then I've known super attractive guys who knew fully well, but they all came off as absolute douches, partied hard at the wrong time of their lives with all the women, and now fat, bald and not in a high income bracket. Interestingly, a lot of the ugly geeks are now financially secure and fit (in our forties) and are now seen as attractive.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

You don't pay a hooker to fuck you. You pay her to go away.

I heard this line before. I still don't see how it makes any sense at all.

Reality is that the hooker wouldn't touch their clients with a ten foot pole. The only reason they have sex is because of the money.

Sure, you're technically also paying her to leave, but you're primarily paying her for sex.

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SnakeEyeskid 3y ago

I get the feelng that hey would leave for free...

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SnakeEyeskid 3y ago

That makes sense. Sheen, king!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

I love Charlie Sheen's joke, though I've never patronized a hooker and strongly doubt I ever will or would.

/u/loneliness-inc - to further explain why it's so funny: usually in post-coital bliss, all I would want to do is fall asleep and maybe snuggle. Most women won't shut the fuck up in their post-coital state, so I totally get "here's some money, GTFO".

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

I see....

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Typically all men pay (provisions if not cash) for sex - even girlfriends and wives. The "go away" is just part of the bundled package deal hookers provide. Therefore, you don't "pay" for the sex; you pay for the "go away", because the sex cost is universal.

Perhaps another way of thinking is: why you pay vs. what you pay for.

I'll add another note for the prostitute's package deal: another implied part of the package deal is privacy and secrecy, but Stormy Daniels has shown us to never trust they'll uphold this part of the package.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

oh no, someone downvoted you! Not your heckin karmarino!

Don't worry; I upvoted you to offset it.

That was close!

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Here is an extra upvote in case you need it.

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zeepbar 3y ago

Depends on the guy.

I can easily get sex.

I can't get them to leave me alone.

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panda_ammonium 3y ago

Absolutely. I don't know what that guy is going on about.

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Funny_Wolverine_9 3y ago

If I want sex a hooker would be cheaper in the long term.

Can confirm. 3-year divorce has so far cost me $225k in legal fees, not counting the $2000/month child support payments for 3 years and for the next 18 years I'll need to be making them.

Not to mention the false abuse allegations also.

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SirOssis 3y ago

Fuck, I’m so sorry. I had to give my ex wife $20K from my IRA but got sole custody and $1840/month in child support for 31 months…

Your story is vomit inducing. Hang in there!

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TatersMog 3y ago

Blimey that's intense. I got some false abuse allegations a long time ago now. They stick to you though. Fortunately I got away without the financial burden you have.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Hey u/Funny_Wolverine_9

Would you write your story on our sister sub - r/whereallthegoodmenare

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Funny_Wolverine_9 3y ago

Hello there! Yes, I've been meaning to write-up a story for some time when things settle down. I'm still in litigation so want to make sure the story captures the finality as well. The story will also include a false rape charge from my ex-wife who used it to kick me out of the house and keep kids away from me. She had no proof, yet was successful in getting me criminally (and falsely) charged.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Seconded.

As much as your experience had correction, has to suck as it's ongoing, if sharing it helps other men be more informed and hopefully cautious, we're all for it.

Tag: /u/loneliness-inc

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Funny_Wolverine_9 3y ago

Good point. I try to make comments here and there to inform men about the dangers, but I'll look into making a post. Thanks

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cautionTomorrow555 3y ago

That means it is going to cost you about $657,000 total and each year of those three cost about $219,000. think about how much sex you could have over 3 years with $219,000 per year or about 4200 per week. You could bang a $1400 dollar a session hooker 3 days a week for 3 years and how many guys are getting consistent 3 days a week sex from their hot wife?

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razuten 3y ago

... or even like 6 hookers for $100 each every day! Or even cheaper hookers!

Or fine, just get 1 per day - at that point you might as well recruit pornstars to be at your beck and call lmao

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Funny_Wolverine_9 3y ago

Yup. I try not to think about it because it's very daunting and hopeless situation.

If you DON'T pay child support, first they take away your driver's license, then if you still don't pay, they throw you in jail, but somehow, you're expected to pay that recurring CS while still in jail!

They can garnish your wages, empty your savings, all with a court order.

Unfortunately, many men do not know the dangers of family court until it's way too late! If you happen to go over to the divorce_men subreddit, you will see all the stories...

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Noitrasama 3y ago

Save money and get out of the country. Run away. I'd rather be a minimum wage earner than be a slave.

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Funny_Wolverine_9 3y ago

The only thing keeping me back are the kids....It would crush them if they found out I left....since they're mom just neglects them all day

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Noitrasama 3y ago

I read somewhere of a guy who started compiling evidence and later regained custody.. there are some tips and tricks u can employ

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WeRAllOnThisBlessedD 3y ago

I like to laugh

Ok. Is there anyone who doesn’t? This is one of the laziest things anyone can put in their profile.

This thing reads like a classified ad for a maid. Go ahead and wife her up, boys. You’ll get starfish duty sex once a month while some other dude is fucking her brains out when you’re at work. What more can you ask for?

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mustangfrank 3y ago

some other dude is fucking her brains out when you’re at work.

Exactly what will happen, then divorced raped in 5 years.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

The "I like to laugh" phrase is womanspeak for you had better be entertaining.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Dance, monkey, dance!

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Good point.

"I like to laugh" should be read as, "I like to laugh. This is something YOU can DO for ME. You can ensure that I'm ENTERTAINED. Do it now!"

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OhBarnacles_007 3y ago

I like to breathe.

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Sumpm 3y ago

I like to be happy.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I like to eat.

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gfgdhj5784yu8 3y ago

Inviting a troll to live in your home will not end well. Leave them under the bridges where they belong.

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SnakeEyeskid 3y ago

Oh she's desperate. Nothing builds loving relationship like the pursuit for resources.

I mean, I rly love my crypto wallet!

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Nothing builds loving relationship like the pursuit for resources, says FDS.

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SnakeEyeskid 3y ago

Oh shieeet I've been found out!

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Silver-Discipline550 3y ago

Funny how when in danger or poverty, they instantly get the good housewife attitude

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human-potato_hybrid 3y ago

Imagine there being reasons to have a partner besides sex or money. Especially in a country like America which does not have the best social support system out there. Imagine...

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FatherUnbannable 3y ago

"My life got turned upside down"

The fresh hoe from Bel Air

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Has anyone noticed that women are often more critical of other women than men are? 

This is because of the patriarchy and internalized misogyny!!!

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PirateDocBrown 3y ago

Were I a widower with kids, and worked from home with a nice house, I'd respond to this, not as a prospective romantic partner, but as an employer. For child care, housekeeping, cooking, and gardening. She'd get rooms and board for herself and her kid, and a small stipend for sundries, a few dollars a week. Her task would be to make my home life as orderly and quiet as possible, tend to kids and grow fresh vegetables, while I work undisturbed.

It would never be a romantic pairing, and there would be an employment contract.

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littlestminks 3y ago

Lmfao ah helllll nah

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manfrom-nantucket 3y ago

So a neck injury keeps you from working. Okay given that this woman can't work, what sort of housewife is she going to make?

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RedLeg21 3y ago

I’m sure all the quality guys are lining up for her

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BeholdTheHair 3y ago

Sorry, bitch. Your shitty life choices are not my financial responsibility.

Tell you what, though; I'll offer an alternative:

Put your daughter, for whom you obviously can't provide, up for adoption. It's the best thing for both of you. Keeping her by your side as you live on the street isn't love, it's selfishness, and it's exposing her to all kinds o' risks she wouldn't face otherwise.

Once your daughter's being provided for by someone as can actually afford to do so, join a nunnery. They'll take care of all your worldly needs and, God willing, even restore some measure of morality to your broken ass. Moreover, they'll prevent you continuing to make shitty life choices and ruining more lives.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Women are so awesome they don't even need a seat when they do ride a bicycle.

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I-am-the-lul 3y ago

Ignoring the fact for the moment that you are a single mother, the way the law exists in the present day, once you are married, you are under no legal obligation to provide your husband with sex or other wifely duties like you would have been expected to provide back during pre first wave feminism times while he is fully obligated to provide his husband duties.

The odds are the only men still willing to take you in are the sorts of men you cringe at just thinking about them touching you.

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[deleted] 3y ago

She doesn't realize how much a red flag is to be that much honest.

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SolidStateDynamite 3y ago

I went from not wanting a serious relationship to dire need of one.

Ah yes, the timeless, perfect start/motivation for marriage. One has to wonder why more and more men aren't interested in marriage when women like this are available.

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flakula 3y ago

About me: I'm injured and can't work. I'll sit around the house all day, laughing, because it's the only thing I love. Don't expect me to actually do anything besides spend money and laugh and blame my injury and eventually you for all my life problems.

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vtec__ 3y ago

before the advent of the modern welfare state and corporate america, this is precisely why most women got married in the first place. they couldnt fend for themselves so they needed a man and if they didnt get married they had to find work as an escort/prostitute.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

One of my favorite exercises: flip the gender and see the response. So here goes...

"Not going to lie, I need a wife ASAP. Due to a vague injury, I can no longer cook or clean. I am a single father to an amazing son. If your place needs a handyman or a father, let's talk. I went from not wanting a serious relationship to being in dire need of one. I like to laugh and I would love a respectful woman. This last year I was literally starving and unclothed and it was terrifying."

I wonder how much invective such a personal ad would generate?

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I wonder how much invective such a personal ad would generate?

Answer: Zero

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Not sure about “invective”. But it wouldn’t generate much interest

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

One of my favorite exercises: flip the gender and see the response. So here goes...

It can be fun and to point out hypocrisy and double standards. However, the real reason for double standards is because men and women aren't equal to each other.

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Snoo16680 3y ago

I get into some heated debates in conservative circles because a lot of those guys are against the way M>F transsexuals are getting women's athletic scholarships. I have no issue with it. Feminists demanded - and got - access for women into every last space that used to be exclusively male, so what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

The sport thing is interesting, because it highlights two areas of uncomfortable, unspoken, lies.

  1. Men are way better at physical stuff than women, both on average, and in the extremes of high level sports. Even when we admit this, there is a ton of what-about-ism, "but what about the top female competitors, they beat a ton of men!" And arguing about the normal people point, without being absolutely murdered as a bad person, is really hard if at all possible.
  2. Athletes are greek demi-gods of being really great. Their genetics does not have anything to do with it (free competiton! Anyone can do it! It is all willpower! It is all being a really really great person!). Both counts are wrong. High level sporting is a good thing, don't get me wrong, but most people will be limited by their genetics long before reaching the tops. And high level athletes are just normal folk, with great genetics for a sport, a good amount of willpower, and family money or grant money.

Admitting M->F trans to compete highlights both issues. The female competition is a way to elliminate a specific genetic drawback* to the sport, to remake the fantasy "you could have done this, as a better you" for women. Could easily have "short people basketball" or "broad people ski flying" and stuff as well. Admitting M->F into F classes shows how big advantage genetics has, and how big advantage men has, at the same time!

They need to rework the shared story of sports, again, to overcome this. And this threathens the story of sporting, generally, if handled real badly.

*I am very specifically talking about genetics with regards to "being the best at X sport". Not as a drawback generally.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

We can treat women as equals all day long, but they will never be equal to men. Hence the double standards.

We are adults with agency. We don't have to accept anything that isn't fair. We don't have to perpetuate an unfair double standard, but we do need to know that the double standards will always be with us.

I get into some heated debates in conservative circles because a lot of those guys are against the way M>F transsexuals are getting women's athletic scholarships. I have no issue with it. Feminists demanded - and got - access for women into every last space that used to be exclusively male, so what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

This is just one more example of how retarded the CUNTcervatives actually are.

Let's be real for a minute. Trannies did more for men's rights than 100+ years of a failed MRA movement.

All you have to do now is to recognize your true self, your inner feeeeeeeeeeeelingz deep in your heart, the fact that you too are a struhng empywyered wauhmynz and you too can enjoy 100+ years of female privilege, gained for you by feminism.

All for a letter on your driver's license.

These retards are offended by trannies ruining women's sports. Why? Are women equal to men or are they not? Can women do anything a man can do, better, in high heels, while pregnant or can they not.

Pick one or the other. It can't be both.

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Sub-Sero 3y ago

Nobody offered little-old me a D-1 basketball or football scholarship because no amount of training discipline would allow me to compete at that level in those sports.I don't recall anyone getting outraged on my behalf about how unfair that was... I was treated as an equal in that if I couldn't get the result I was not going to get the reward. That's what equality looks like, and equality is not a smorgasbord.

Nothing to do with equality, it's called a meritocracy. E.g. we have defined standards, if you're not 6'5" or taller, you don't get to play basketball with the professional big boys, height is largely a genetic factor, despite the risky leg lengthening surgery available today which would have to be done when you're a kid/teen and will always be a risky weakness area. For the same reason a scrawny 5'4" 90 pound guy is never going to be selected in American football as the offensive guard position as it would be detrimental to the entire team.

Feminism has nothing to do with equality either. Feminism was about creating rules, laws and institutions to manufacture benefits for women in society without the burden of responsibility, while desperately clinging to maintain the old benefits of the patriarchal world with it's pro-women traditions. Egalitarianism is about equality. There can never be equality, because a man and a woman are not equal, both excel in different areas, both have different priorities in different stages of their lives.

Conservatives for the longest time have tried to tell lefties to just create a special league for trans individuals, and likely do so on the spectrum of the XY chromosomes. So you don't get former males competing against former females which would give the former male due to the innate male's genetic advantage an edge over the former female. This avoids the whole 'he/she has to have tits' 'dick removal surgery', or 'has to have taken pre-puberty blockers' arguments.

Currently; the lefties have set the standard that if a male has taken estrogen for X amount of months; the male is now suddenly a female and can compete in female sports. This is ridiculous. Nothing to do with equality, but straight up idiocy. The male is still a male; you don't lose muscle mass on estrogen in a few months. Hence why the weightlifter dude won all first prizes in female weight lifting.

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pianole 3y ago

Wow, this is perfect! I just got a 10ft tapeworm removed from my colon and I was looking for something to fill the void.

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Wumplin 3y ago

Sorry man, but I doubt she's 10ft tall...

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IoSonCalaf 3y ago

I’ve also had similar injuries and I still worked. What does she do? Lumberjack?

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She was in bad shape to start, so it complicated other problems.

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TheUnspecialist 3y ago

The injuries are either that serious or she isn't tough enough to push through. Either way that's a bad deal.

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steveguster 3y ago

Prob neck/shoulder strain from watching too much Netflix on her phone while laying in bed.

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hunnerbunner2000 3y ago

Ugh. Been there, done that. I guess that means I need a husband now. Too bad I'm already a dude.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

That's ok. It's the Current Year, so just identify as a woman and go get that husband!

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Machomuk89 3y ago

Despite not knowing what this woman looks like, the profile reminded me of a gem of a quote from Rick and Morty.

"I mean, it's not like he's a hot girl. He can't just bail on his life and set up shop in someone else's."

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bowhunter_fta 3y ago

She's injured and can't work, but she's going to clean your house and take care of kids.

Yeah, right.

Suckers only. Real men need not apply.

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TheREexpert44 3y ago

Exactly. You would probably get one week of "Showtime!" until it becomes "I cant do any more house work. My neck hurts too much".

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Ive seen this before. They kept wanting that quickie marriage to get on the husbands insurance so they can lay on the couch and gobble pills like pac man all day.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

$10.00 says she’s pregnant, from a guy whose last name eludes her.

She: But he was Hawt.

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KangarooCrapper 3y ago

Let me help her out...C. Thundershlong...I believe it's slavic...

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LordFlakkko 3y ago

No she knows him. His first name is chad his last name is thundercock. She tried to get him to man up at the bar but he told her to fuck off. Now its your turn to step up and pay for raise chad jr

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cleverbutnotoverlyso 3y ago

Then, if she can squeeze 10 years married out of you, she can get your social security retirement benefits too. Regardless of whether you’re still married or not.

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kapriece 3y ago

Translation: I was a modern woman/fem. Now I want to be a traditional wife bc life is hard. I realize men are important....now.

As soon as she's back on her feet she's gone with cash and prizes.

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FromIranWithHate 3y ago

Oh hurry up guys. This is the opportunity of a life time. I sure as hell don't wanna lose it

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ItsJustMeMaggie 3y ago

Get married for the completely wrong reasons! That’ll end well! /s She’s going to attract a ton of creepers who want a bang maid.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

who want a bang maid.

Frank Reynolds! Calling Frank Reynolds!

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madriverdog 3y ago

too bad, so sad, next.

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[deleted] 3y ago

http://www.quickmeme.com/img/f9/f92b4dedc6a68bf5d99884c87a536819a1ab0e09fdeea69bbfa0ecafa8688647.jpg

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IntroductionNew3421 3y ago

Hobo looking for generous donor.

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b_a_d_r0b0t 3y ago

I like to laugh as well. That’s why I am running away from you.

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Joaquino7997 3y ago

I was once taught that love was something that could not be forced and must be allowed to grow at its own natural pace.

Except when you're a woman who's desperate. Then all that shit goes right out the window.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Same thing happens when she sees an attractive man, then it is anything goes.

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BambiisaBoy 3y ago

Yeah, but..... how she look?

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FormerBTfan 3y ago

Ah...... So I need a man now that I can't work or masturbate on video effectively for my only fans top 1% page. Yup she needs a man and will treat him like a king until she gets healed up and can dump his ass get a lawyer take his house and get paid for a bunch of years. I just bet she would treat his kid or kids exactly the same as her daughter also LOL.

Would rather have a grenade up the arse and the pin pulled....... Just as fucking messy but at least over super quick.

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NBA_MSG 3y ago

I am very simple. I need a wallet and you have one

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Wildhouse83 3y ago

She ran out of money and now needs a host she can leach off.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

A tapeworm with a kid.

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KurtWagnersBamfSmoke 3y ago

All of a sudden she's fine with being a bangmaid that FDS says it's so evil for guys wanting.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

  • 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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  • WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
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