Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Yolinna 4y ago
"It’s not that the standards are too high. It’s that women who are single and happy, tend to have higher standards than women who would take any man with the hope that he would finally make her happy."
Single women often seek consolation in believing that the only reason other women are in relationships is because they're doormats and have no "standards".
ThisIsUrIAmUr 4y ago
A woman will say "None of the men I've met are good enough for me", but no woman will ever say "I'm not good enough for this man".
bilged 4y ago
So not a myth at all then? Lol
[deleted] 4y ago
If it were so TERRIBLE, why does she spend so much time thinking about it?
MastermindX 4y ago
It's like if you go to a company and ask for a job as CEO. They notice you're not qualified for the position, however they can offer you a job as administrative assistant. But you rise your fist and declare you're not going to settle for anything less than CEO, and walk away. And that somehow proves that you're better than everyone else because you didn't settle.
Then you write an article about how you're so happy living in your parents basement and collecting food stamps.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
This attitude actually does occur in real life, I was once a social worker. Both from that experience and from my own family experience, I promise that there are people who choose unemployment over working lowly jobs, it’s not just right wing propaganda.
reggaetony88 4y ago
I can attest to this. When I graduated college, I felt I was owed a decent paying job and refused to take work that came along. Being an entitled 23 year old sucks, but I'm glad I'm done with that phase of life.
Cursedwithknowing 4y ago
This. Perfect assessment of the situation.
A_Walt_Whitman 4y ago
She doth protest too much. Men can be happy and single. Women? Not so much. There's a reason you see bridal magazines on the news stands but no groom magazines.
The_Meep_Lord 4y ago
Men are happy when they have there sexual needs fulfilled (which could have happened in the past or not), not married.
The goal for women is to secure commitment, not mens.
A_Walt_Whitman 4y ago
And the state-sanctioned resources that come with that commitment.
[deleted] 4y ago
You know who fucked that up?
Women.
Women pushed to be released from social norms and "tHe PaTrIaRcHy" and they were. Sadly, women aren't strategic thinkers and didn't stop to think "wait, if we're released from these boundaries and commitments to men, what does that mean for the men...?"
Now that they have the freedom, they're realizing that it includes the freedom to die alone, that the men that would have been there no longer have a reason to be. Women made this happen and now, in true fashion, they're mad that they got exactly what they asked for.
yoyo2850 4y ago
Shes not single and happy she has a broken family and is happy (from reading this she's not happy at all). I keep seeing this all the time "I'm single and Independent" while having a few kids. That's not single that's a broken home a divorce fatherless children etc. How many of these women are actually single with no kids and live alone? From what I've seen almost non of them.
saberwarthog 4y ago
If someone is that much "happy", would they need to write such lengthy blog post about it ? Doesn't the simple fact that being really happy means that you are living it without thinking about it ?
It never occurred to her mind that happiness is a fleeting state, something that may come and go at any moment, and it's not the normal state of the human mind...
It's basically "Philosophy 101" here.
Traksimuss 4y ago
Men can be internally happy.
Most women only be happy by external validation.
Men who need external validation - like putting their happiness on seeing his girlfriend ir wife happy, usually get into deep personality crisis when they are betrayed.
panzer22222 4y ago
The only women that say that are what we call in Australia 'bush pigs'
Snoo16680 4y ago
This is someone who is good at the woke word salad. So filled with BS in grey areas, that you have a hard time fighting it while being kind. And fighting it unkindly is seen as terrible. And is pointless anyway, in its boringness.
Most of it just saying random things, with authority and wokeness, being kind to herself, while dismissing things that feel bad for her by saying it is an evil belief and myth.
Oh, and she is getting older and more secure in herself. Part of that is to have good days, even when you don't get all you want. Explains myth 1 and 2. The same goes for men and sex too ;)
Myth 3, tho, contains probably the only meaningful signal here.
When you choose your standards, you also influence how often a possible mate appears. From no standards (every time you meet someone interested), to a kind of picky-but-realistic (must match my value, or better. Perhaps 5-10% are in the possible bracket), to the impossibly picky (Possibly once in a blue moon, and false positives abound). This is math.
She seems to understand this, but can't seem to see the middle, it's either "have standards" or "take anyone". Perhaps hailing to the alpha-20% thing: she can't differentiate one not-alpha from another.
Some people accept this, are strong enouch to say "With these standards I get very few possible matches that I like, and I am OK with that. I am not desperate". Some say "This is my standards, I will never settle for less (
Enough-Staff-2976 4y ago
Women love to say that they are not going to "settle". Meanwhile, women never think men are settling for the older and used up version of themselves.
Blogginginvicecity 4y ago
Being more brazenly confident and outspoken is usually a plus in the sisterhood, and increases with age.
That means men like it too, no?/s
me_at_myhouse 4y ago
This woman clearly hates the game, and the player.
And she represents herself as a 'life coach for single women'. Yikes.
Talk about the wolf guarding the hen house.
Devilsgun 4y ago
Powerful. Just like everything that a woman writes. So brave and inspiring.
Live, Laugh, Love.
Get Basted.
Muh Bebbie iz Muh Werld.
Cool Wine Aunt.
Blah.
Blah.
Blah.
Cope, I suppose.
MrNeurotypical 4y ago
You'd think these women would take a writing class before becoming bloggers, but nooooo....
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
We could power our entire civilization nearly carbon free if we harnessed her hamster.
GrannyLesbian 4y ago
It's 2021.
She is STILL SINGLE.