Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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neptunenec 4y ago
Hang on? Don’t Sweden import male foreigners en mass? The ladies of Sweden are very vocal about their love for importing male foreigners (usually Muslim migrants) in large numbers…
So the anti-racism campaigns have WORKED because now the Swedish ex racist white men are wanting to make love to foreigners and marry them!
Excellent work! I don’t see any problem! Am I missing something? Swedish native women want to ‘stop this’?! Wow ermmmm… Wouldn’t that make them erm:
‘racist’?
Food for thought
g_nerf 4y ago
Does anyone have a link to the article?
manfrom-nantucket 4y ago
Just look at this shit. The men are looking for happiness and the women of course don't approve. What a surprise.
dildo_bagmans 4y ago
https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/special-reports/1209173/tied-in-a-knot-the-thai-wives-who-go-abroad
Marrying a Thai woman is not what you think. It's all about what you have financially and them being able to send it back home. Many women are effectively sold and passed around by different Western men.
ZZT-OOPsIdiditagain 4y ago
Imagine being one of the literally most drop-dead hot group of women on the planet and suddenly YOUR OWN MEN are looking for alternatives.
How fucking bad have you failed to get to that point?
watfordia 4y ago
As much as this article raised a smile, I have to point out that Thailand is not a signatory of The Hague Convention. As a result, many men have had their children kidnapped to Thailand without the courts being able to do a damn thing. In fact, according to an organisation that deals with child kidnappings, I was informed Asia is one of the worst offenders of kidnapping after marriage. In short: do not marry someone from a country that is not a signatory of The Hague Convention, or you’ll risk never seeing your child again.
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Had. No. Fucking. Clue.
Thanks for the knowledge.
IntentionOrdinary165 4y ago
I dont like his dyke comments. Irks me.
MrNeurotypical 4y ago
Natural selection will extinct modern women.
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yellomachine 4y ago
Yeah why aren't these Swemenists marrying Abdul the Refugee? They championed for his rights and now they won't even marry him? What bigots!
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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I think they eventually would. It is just very easy to target women as "thai brides" is a very common stereotype and stick to beat men with. Still likely associated with guys over 50 with big beer guys and at least one divorce under their belts fleeing out there and hooking up with a thai
That is what most people (I imagine) picture
That is is young men in their late 20s or 30s is what is particularly galling about it for the women. They haven't even had their chance of getting one or more kids and bunch of cash out of the guy before he heads out East. Because at that point they don't care anymore...
Blogginginvicecity 4y ago
I think that's what he was saying
Chgralac73 4y ago
well it was some Swedish Sven who put a ring on Mia Khalifa :P
RubberNipples7890 4y ago
Thai wife’s are not as well educated as Swedish women. I’d like a woman I can talk with after sex
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 4y ago
I will have to watch this video at a more opportune time, but I will share some thoughts. As far as I know, isn't Sweden one of the most pro feminist countries in the world? Men seeking women from other countries is just a consequence of feminism tainting women's attitudes and behaviors, along with the fact that the very same women also pushed for the policies that make relationships a worse deal for men. So the men respond by seeking women who were not a part of the problem and not indoctrinated by that destructive ideology.
I do not think that Swedish men seeking Thai women will ultimately solve the issue, as the women from Thailand are not immune to being tainted by feminism. But I understand the reactions and results to conditions and rules. If this law does go through, I see more men simply giving up rather than just accept the women who consistently double down on feminism.
42252252 4y ago
I had an interesting chat with a guy from there, and I bet it's about 10-15 years ahead of the USA in terms of the schism between men and women. The men vote against all the unworkable, obviously bad ideas like limitless importation of unvetted, uninvestigated people from "war zones", while the women vote vastly in favor of them. The women are extremely progressive and a total mirror image of the majority of men. They own the colleges even worse than the rest of us, like 90% plus of a class will be female. This basically exiles the men from even trying, as they have little recourse of getting along in the mainstream society without toeing the political line. According to him, just being apolitical at work got him treated as an undercover fascist.
The dude I talked to said he lives in a shithole, and he always gets a chuckle out of the very feminist, very lefty women getting harrassed by groups of thugs and 'undesireables'. The women really have this misplaced maternal love for the hypothetical, downtrodden refugees, until they're waiting at a bus stop and now have to entertain the advances of five full grown men driving really hard to the hoop. The guys approach knowing full well how to guilt the upperclass white girls into bed, or at least a coerced, awkward drink. It's a trip watching the spoiled girls who've ruled their world with nothing but the mere threat of calling someone doing a cold approach 'creepy' meet an adversary that couldn't care any less about the tools at her disposal. It's like watching a tank drive over a car that's accustomed to being able to run over all the pedestrians it wants.
(Not having seen this personally, I can only go off of what he told me, but there are websites geared towards the new arrivals that try to teach them useful stuff about living in a 1st world country like "You're not allowed to force girls to have sex with you" and "if a girl says "no", you aren't allowed to keep touching her, even if you outnumber her, and you're stronger, and you know she runs slower than you".)
He says he'll walk on by and the girls will start yelling that he's a pussy for not jumping into the fray to help bail them out. Sometimes they'll do that "Oh hey, best friend, I was waiting for you! Hey, hang out with me for a bit, (I need a rescue)" thing, which he often shrugs off if he knows who it is. In his little college area, he had a pretty good feel of which girls were holding up the "everyone's welcome in my home!" signs, anyway. It's really sad, when you think about how cancerous and broken the social fabric is at this point. No one imagines they could be the cold hearted, totally ambivalent bastard strolling off while leaving one of their own to possible doom.....but somehow his cumulative treatment was enough to get rid of any guilt he would feel.
Then again, when I think about my insufferable, know-it-all (in theory but not in practice) acquaintances, I certainly wouldn't risk getting imprisoned, or hate crimed, or stabbed on their account. They'd never risk a fingernail for me. I guess this is how society falls apart. Huh. Cool.
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Yes, those who vote for these policies deserve the results. Unfortunately, they're taking society down with them.
Overkillengine 4y ago
It's simple: if they invited the enemy in, despite your warnings, they are not yours and deserve what they get.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 4y ago
Incentives matter, whether or not people want to admit that. "Doing the right thing" stops being a good argument when the very people who expect you to do so on their behalf refuse to recant their policy preferences when they meet with the consequences of the policies they vote for and support. They simply want an immediate bailout, but refuse to consider that the consequences should mean a different outlook and different choices. They are not truly repentant, as they only seek to be alleviated from immediate consequences. They cannot receive forgiveness because they do are not really asking for it.
What is in it for the men to bail out the feminist women that despise them and would lose appreciation for the act of saving them in their distress? Men need something to motivate them to take action, as anyone does. And now that there are less reasons to act and more reasons to not act, this will only continue.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Most women wouldn't lift a fingernail to help a man and bitch about them constantly and make up lies about them based in an Apex fallacy (all white men are rich successful CEOs who can have casual sex whenever they want etc.)
You can see how reluctant they are to help when you look at something like the discussion of male suicide rates. It is ALWAYS dragged back to women with claims like "women attempt it more but men are more successful". So fucking what? How does that reply address the issue
Or the response to whenever men try to say something like "not all men". The response is hateful and vitriolic
MrNeurotypical 4y ago
This \^. When men withdraw protection from women, they're fucked.
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panzer22222 4y ago
They are literally the most privileged class in the history of man kind.
The_Meep_Lord 4y ago
They can literally be and do whatever they want.
They can get as much sex and love as they want and have more options and privileges then any group of people that has and may ever exist.
Yet they get to claim that they are the oppressed and we are the oppressors.
panzer22222 4y ago
African female friend of mine hates them, as white women are even at the top of the dating pool of women...africans are at the bottom
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Well at least we know where the "good men" are now.
Imagine being a member of a group that is known for being the most beautiful women in the world, and then losing your men because you swallowed feminism to the fucking hilt.
Then, imagine it getting so fucking bad that even the forces of in-group bias, the urge to reproduce, and a favorable gender imbalance can't make your men put their dicks in you.
If they need the government to beg men to participate in the local dating market, the market is already dead.
Edit: Dear Gentlemen and savages, a lesson:
Pussy is the world's first and only perfect commodity.
It doesn't need marketing. It doesn't need branding. It doesn't need exposure or development teams.
Pussy sells itself in every market, in every region, in every demographic, in every time period in human history. If a woman is in a position to where she has to market her pussy, then she has already failed.
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That's the thing about feminism... It will NEVER beat tingles for something new and exciting.
A feminist wants the hottest nastiest most degrading sex they can get... But they don't want to be shamed for it.
Unfortunately, they're a pain in the ass outside the bedroom so it's never worth it
yellomachine 4y ago
There was even a TV commercial paid for by their government, telling men to 'do it for Sweden' and impregnate a local woman.
It failed. Nothing will make the men put their dicks in femtards.
manfrom-nantucket 4y ago
Denmark had the same thing "do it for Denmark"
Stahlboden 4y ago
Swedish women have betrayed their men. Whatever grief befalls the Swedish women from now on, it shouldn't be Swedish men's problem.
Aronacus 4y ago
They got what they wanted.
What red-pilled men was this one line
'Consent can be withdrawn anytime, even after sex'
IE you can meet up, hook up, and 3 years later she can say it was Rape! and you are going to jail.
Most men hear that, see the courts uphold it and decide 'Nope! I'm out
And feminists don't get it.
CSM_Pepper 4y ago
I believe Denmark's done that crap too. "Just take her to Paris for a romantic weekend, bro!"
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Sir you're sprinting your way to becoming a 'Sr. Hamster Analyst' with such stacks of knowledge and insights you're unpacking and sharing here. More power to you.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Certainly seems to be. Seeing stuff like this make me wonder how I got that flair! I must have really been on it a few months ago when things were much more locked down and there was less going on
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But certainly the point about having to market pussy is an exceptional one. It is why when you see gorgeous (or even just above average) women on OLD apps you have to wonder - are they a complete psycho? Or what else is wrong. Why can't they get someone in real life
I am reminded of someone who I have seen pop up on my apps (never matched obviously) for more than 5 years. Absolutely stunning blonde who seems smart as well. Also works in a medical based field. How has she not snared a doctor in real life? Why is she on apps (and she has been on multiple different ones). It is really strange. Perhaps it is just the whole "always trying to find someone better". But it is really odd.
She seems like someone who should have been locked down early. One of the rare people who you look at and think - she could probably get the elusive Alpha Bucks and should have done. So what gives?
Even being slightly tall for a woman at 5'7" shouldn't have been a hindrance
And yes I remember aspects about this woman because she is both that gorgeous and I have seen her profile pop up multiple times over multiple apps and it is really confusing
(Incidentally - could pass for a Swedish Bikini Team member as well)
IoSonCalaf 4y ago
Maybe “she” is a catfish
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I don’t believe so as she attached her Instagram and it doesn’t suggest a catfish at all
BaconBroccoliBro 4y ago
My brother is a doctor. If she slept around in medical school rather than partnering up its kind of game over. I remember one stunning brunette I briefly dated from my brother's class who had 3 Dolph Lundgren tier guys. She is the alpha widow of all alpha widows.
She's now 32 and single. Hypergamy is hypergamy, I think nature's way of dealing with it was just getting knocked up prior to the 1960's
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
That sounds Rassist. I thought all these Scandinavians were supposed to be progressive libertines?!
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Most of them are. And now it starts to bite them in their unwashed ass
NetherIndy 4y ago
The average Thai male is a full 3.5 cm taller than the average Swedish woman. So, it seems like there's a perfectly reasonably dating pool for the Swedish ladies.
yellomachine 4y ago
He also earns 4% of the average Swedish yearly income. Perfect for the Swedish wahmyns.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
But most women walk around with their heads craned at least 6 inches upwards don't they? At least when it comes to men
upsidedownbackwards 4y ago
After they crank out a kid they claim they're done playing games, and want someone stable and rich. But they'll throw all their requirements out when they see I'm 6'4. Even "good hygiene is a must!" suddenly doesn't matter anymore (I live in my vehicle, showers happen twice a week max).
Their requirements are only for betas. I'm far from an alpha, I'm a disaster. But all women care about is securing tall genes , then worrying about who will raise their kid/how they will raise their kid later. Consequences/planning ahead are tools of the patriarchy.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I don’t blame them really. They kind of know through how they treat short guys how bad it can be for them. Even though they refuse to acknowledge it
It is when the child free ones have the same standards. Or the ones desperate for someone still do
Kids really don’t seem on the cards for me but I would be very worried about having a son as he would almost certainly be short and I know full well how awful it would be for him
ChristopherMarv 4y ago
The article is nine years old. Care to tell us what became of the alleged effort on the part of the Swedish government to prevent these marriages? I'll wait.
ingenjor 4y ago
Nothing came of it. The only thing that slowed it down was the increasingly long wait times for permanent residency applications since the immigration institution was swamped.
yellomachine 4y ago
You could try peterofsweden on YouTube. He does pretty regular updates.
Danishxd97 4y ago
Yeah its kinda crazy over here in Scandinavia. Divorce rate is sky high. Norway and denmark has been ranked nr 1 in one night stands. Most girls have sex before they even turn 16.
Then they wonder why we travel outside to find a spouse
[deleted] 4y ago
Is Scandinavia as cucked as it appears to be to us outside, in your opinion?
I was discussing the issue above of the limitless amount of men from Middle Eastern and African shit holes that you seem to be importing, while denying the problems this leads to.
Danishxd97 4y ago
Yep scandinavia especially norway is pretty cucked. Hate to say it but most women here are ran thru by age 30. casual sex is kinda encouraged over here
i got zero problems with immigrants tho, most of them are good people just trying to make it.
[deleted] 4y ago
Hard to believe your ancestors were Vikings. You're cucked beyond belief.
https://unherd.com/2021/04/swedens-migrant-rape-crisis/
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/norwegian-rape-victim-feels-guilty-man-who-raped-him-was-deported-a6975041.html
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I'm not American.
yellomachine 4y ago
I still fall in love with Norway every time I see photos. But I know Scandinavia is doomed
AlextheHun24 4y ago
I’ve never understood why people consider Swedish women the standard of hot European women. Swedish women to me are anti-social, opinionated and a pain in the ass. Like other women today.
Katowice_to_gdansk 4y ago
I would much rather date a slavic woman. slavic countries are so much poorer than their western european neighbours and when you come from a poorer background you tend to be much more appreciative of the things you have. thats why women from developed countries are such shits. they are already in the top 1% for wealth in the world and yet its still not good enough for them
shitpancake1 4y ago
she can cook
Bennyjig 4y ago
Fuck me this guy is cringe… nothing to do with waatgm. They aren’t looking for good men lol they just want white dudes
corporatenewsmedia 4y ago
The point was more about the Swedish woman going full feminist driving away the men in their country. Then getting mad when those men look elsewhere for a relationship.
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When you spend two generations making Women just like Men it's no wonder Men look elsewhere for Women.
Guerilla_Gorilla222 4y ago
just curious because I'm out of the loop here. What exactly makes swedish men dislike swedish women? I've heard something about feminism but nothing more specific
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You have a link for the article that he based this on?
PM_ME_NICE_STUFF1 4y ago
I live close to Sweden and I haven't heard of that. So it's nothing "generally known" at least. Just a data point.
42252252 4y ago
I have a screenshot of a few things he likely took this from. The clip includes a pol convo from 02/05/19.
"Sweden has emerged as the country with the highest percentage of local men with Thai wives or life partners.
As well as a growing number of thai workers travelling to Sweden as seasonal workers, the number of Thai women arriving in sweden has increased three fold over the last 10 years. Over 80% of Thai immigrants to Sweden are relationship partners or Thai wives of Swedish men and Sweden, like Germany has a long tradition of men seeking Thai women as life partners. Sweden is one of a few countries where there is now a second and third generation Thai community which maintains very close links with Thailand. However, the increased levels of younger Thai women now entering Sweden has now become a political issue.
Last year, a female governor of one rural Swedish province requested that the government look into this situation, investigate abuse and perhaps even limit the number of Thai women permitted into the country. She has now been given a mandate from the Swedish government to investigate the trend although government agencies and leading academics have also conducted qualitative studies into the nature of the growing number of relationships between Swedish men and Thai women. Although Sweden portrays itself to be one of the more liberal countries in Europe, the Swedish government is concerned with this as immigration becomes a powerful and divisive political issue. "
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One of the Russian comments on the article was funny: "So only mus.... ahem, beautiful refugees, poor little 34 year old kids, future doctors and engineers are allowed to enter Sweden uncontrollably, but more women? Traditional women? Wives? Wives for OUR Swedish cucks!??! NO THEY CAN'T GET IN! GUARDS! CLOSE THE GATES!!!!"
dildo_bagmans 4y ago
I just want to point out that that isn't a news article. It's effectively an ad from an international Thai dating site. I couldn't find any official sources that said how high the marriage rate is for Swedes and Thai women. I was only able to find that in 2016 there were about 30,000 Thai women who lived in Sweden, almost all from one province in Thailand that is experiencing extreme poverty. They could all be there on a work visa for their berry-picking or something else. I think a lot of this is highly exaggerated.
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wristcontrol 4y ago
They have already been doing this for decades and locals hate it.
yellomachine 4y ago
The Thai government doesn't mind the investment dollars they bring, nor the businesses they open.
[deleted] 4y ago
HAHA that quote is brilliant!
My friend was in a relationship with a Swede. He had many heated debates with her about the steady flow of 'engineers, doctors etc' that they were letting into her country unabated.
After he broke up with her, they stayed in touch and eventually she ended up admitting that her hometown wasn't safe anymore, and eventually moved abroad.
ZZT-OOPsIdiditagain 4y ago
One of the most hilarious extended conversations was with a female friend whose daughter hit puberty in a...very diverse Democrat-voting city. You know the kind.
By about the time she hit 13 her mother finally admitted to me that she'd had to put her little girl in private school because of "the wild animals in the public school system". And she had to win a name drawing to even get her there because of all the OTHER desperate parents.
It just went downhill from there as reality bulldozed over her little fairy-floss liberal mental fantasy.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
There's a bit of a trope/stereotype of someone from eastern europe or the middle east moving to a western country having been a doctor or engineer in their home country but they end up doing something like taxi driving
So they let them in but don't guarantee them the work? Or is that just a trope used for humour in US shows?
MrNeurotypical 4y ago
My family Dr is Filipino. My butt Dr. is Chinese. We have tons of Thai Drs in my area. The people driving taxis are usually asylum seekers.
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It's worse than that I'm afraid: after Merkel's "open invitation" circa 2015, all the Northern European countries with generous welfare systems were the most attractive destinations for immigrants from Africa and the Middle East.
Of course, they don't suddenly adopt a western mindset the minute they get off the boat (if they are even ever interested in assimilating). Sweden was one of the countries which saw myriad problems from this. Instead of admitting the truth, the liberal Swedes attempted to lie, obfuscate, and deny. One of their tropes was that the young men (and they are generally young men) coming were 'doctors and engineers' rather than barely educated, with a medieval mindset. The irony is that the feminists are some of the biggest backers of these insane policies. Apparently they didn't realise that inviting a load of men from countries where women aren't allowed to drive, have forced FGM or are considered property of men, wouldn't work out well for them.
For more information, see here:
https://unherd.com/2021/04/swedens-migrant-rape-crisis/
Sweden is one of the most cucked countries in Europe.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Is Sweden the Canada of Europe. Or is Canada the Sweden of the Americas?
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The latter, I'd say. From my experience with Swedes, most would regard anything right of Justin Trudeau and AOC as nazi.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Odd you say those two in the same sentence. Trudeau is a corny centrist like Tony Blair , Bill Clinton and Joe Biden (by European standards) whereas even by European standards AOC is on the left
AOC and Trudeau are no way near each other on the political spectrum
[deleted] 4y ago
Yes, I was referring more to the virtue-signallling, gesture politics aspect. The "people kind", "I'm proud to be a feminist" energy of the guy. Most people pay far more attention to the image than the policies, and especially if you're not from the country, you can understand why he's popular with a certain kind of person. They don't look at his policies; they see a picture of him showing of his pride socks or an attention grabbing article of some woke statement that he made.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Oh I understand
And AOC fits that criteria as she is a Latina who inexplicably uses terms like “Latinx” despite it making no sense in Spanish and being arguably offensive
So like you say open virtue signalling at the expense of sense or policy
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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I think he has moved left over time
At the start he definitely seemed like basically a Canadian Tony Blair
But I did ensure I mentioned by “European standards”. He is simply not far left by European standards.
Palembomen 4y ago
I'll offer an additional perspective on this but many times (health) professionals can't directly transfer their qualifications to the west and have to start at the bottom of the hierarchy at some advanced age.
I knew people like this from Afghanistan who had come to western Europe and then have to deliver newspapers. The trope is real. By the way you can bet that this disrupts the family structure and the first thing that goes is control over the kids, who stray from the traditional path/cause trouble. Saw a man lose his 4 daughters to the pit that is our culture.
I was young, but it was not even my first introduction to what the fuck is going with the women.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Lose his daughters? As in they just became thots?
ZZT-OOPsIdiditagain 4y ago
Basically.
Muslim culture is pretty awful overall, but one thing they can boast over Western culture is that if their daughter decides to try and become a thot, her father can actually do something about it. Western fathers haven't been able to say that since about 1960 at the very latest.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
What could they realistically do in the 60s?
I read a heart breaking article about what they did to unwed teenage single moms in parts of the U.K. in the 50s and 60s. Mostly involving hiding them from sight and then taking their children from them and putting them up for adoption
Reading the individual stories is heartbreaking at a micro level. But a nagging part of me considered it at a macro level. It may seem cold hearted but given how things are now there is a very real case to suggest it was for the best
Especially in the 50s and 60s when social stigma was a thing and women weren’t rewarded for bad choices with benefits and the like.
Don’t get me wrong I don’t believe all women successfully milk cash and prizes from the system after having kids out of wedlock. I have seen it happen where some just stay afloat due to family support, get nothing from the father (often because the father is a true waster) and get benefits that aren’t realistically enough
But even that is better than the past. And the lack of social stigma and judgement really can’t be understated
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
What? You mean 10,000 years of experience with Civilization can't be just thrown away with no consequences?
Well who knew?
Cultistofthewheel 4y ago
No no, some single, pedophiliac French philosophers know better about how to raise children and form family units
Overkillengine 4y ago
Of course the local government had an issue with that, they use the local women as a proxy weapon against the men to ensure their obedience.
The men turning around and importing foreign women subverts that control...temporarily at least.
Blogginginvicecity 4y ago
The ministry of based affairs just rang me up and said that in the future you need permission to post a comment such as this.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
It's remarkable how little incentive men have if the option of a woman/wife and family is seemingly off the table
I am personally starting (and admittedly struggling) to come to terms with the fact that it seems very unlikely to happen for me. I grew up with the blue pill fantasy that if I just studied at school (and being good at school was literally all I had back then, albeit still didn't get into one of the top Unis), kept my head down, worked hard, got a place then eventually things would fall into place
It hasn't
I even remember my ex housemate (a guy) telling me when we moved out - "you are moving to your own place, you have a good job, the women will be lining up down the street".
They didn't
Now I am left trying to think of a purpose. But it certainly doesn't involve grinding away further into the corporate machine to generate more tax revenue. And neither does it involve boosting the economy with flashy car or clothes purchases to try and peacock...
throwawayranterz 4y ago
Perhaps you could look on religious dating apps or in churches (unless religious belief bothers you)? And https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=iPhZveQt_Po
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Someone having religious belief does not bother me. My lack of religious belief would potentially bother them though...
throwawayranterz 4y ago
That is true, although I can imagine some religious women in real life (rather than on apps) potentially being open to it if you follow the rules. I've also heard of non-religious people on religious dating apps, but I have no idea how that worked out for them. Apart from that though, maybe the locations from the video are plausible options...
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I’ll watch it when I get chance - thanks
I was literally thinking just earlier before this message that I need to revise my expectations way way down (I was far too optimistic). But have realised my social circles have basically crumbled into non existence
I absolutely don’t have a problem with the general moral code taught by most faiths but slightly frown upon the structure in which it is presented
Also religious women will want marriage which despite what I said above the one sided contract is likely a step too far for me
BeholdTheHair 4y ago
Dude. Stop being me. It's freaking me out.
Right down to "I would have no problem dating a religious woman, but I suspect she'd have a problem with dating someone who doesn't share her faith."
It's fucking uncanny.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Haha. Interesting to know there are people who think similarly
Non preachy religious people who aren’t too zealous tend to be good people. Not always as there are some weird hypocrisy’s you see among them
But I am starting to think that is inevitable when comparing people with a much stricter code to people with none. Of course they can appear hypocritical . It is just when they are revealed to have done something they preach so vocally against that it gets me
Sadly most of them would seemingly require faith as some sort of guarantee of moral character when (despite what I literally just said) it really isn’t. So you go back to jumping through hoops and is it worth it?
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 4y ago
We do not know the article or source. That was not provided by the youtube personality that posted the video.
Divine-Nemesis 4y ago
Battle Axe Brenda Lol!
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
Laugh my fucking ass off!!!
This is hilarious!
It's even funnier when you consider the fact that Swedish women can be among the hottest in the world and Thai women aren't exactly the hottest among the various far eastern flavors....
Yet, men would rather have less beautiful, but feminine women and not drop dead gorgeous, but masculine women.
Hmm....
Stahlboden 4y ago
But they tend to have the biggest D's
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Daniel-01239 4y ago
Speak for yourself. I find Thai girls (SE Asian girls in general) hot as fuck!
Save some for the rest of us you scandi cunts
Groundbreaking_Tax52 4y ago
Looks are everything for women, not men. We’ve been lied to your entire life. The propaganda runs so deep. Women are the picky ones, women are the superficial ones. They share Chad cock and then expect some beta wageslave to be waiting on the sidelines when she turns 32 and share his wealth with her. Those days are over, men are wising up to the charade. They’d rather a foreign wife who is loyal and supportive and not a demanding bitch, to be frank.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
This is starting to become more apparent as I wake up to it. Both genders are superficial but women are far more so.
Men would happily go for someone within a point of themselves either side (so a 5 with a 4-6).
But (at least on the apps) you must be 8 or higher as a guy. Regardless of what the woman looks like.
Even heard this straight from an ugly British-Indian woman who mused on whether she should "settle" for a 7/10 guy. She considers 5'8" to be "short" despite being 5'2" and is obsessed with an man's education and income. Oh and she considers white men only. And is miserable and lonely to extent where she recently fled the country after being ditched by a Chad who she was FWB with and was left "heartbroken" by.
Absolutely mind boggling
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Well said but i respectfully disagree about the beauty of thai women. I have them placed as second most beautiful just closely behind the pretty pinay girls. But different strokes for different folks.
Robotemist 4y ago
Yes!
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
Thailand is definitely the place to go if you're into r/traps (NSFW - obviously).
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
This is one of my concerns about Thailand. Indeed I have this concern to an extent in the West but it would be even more over there
I mean the amount of guys that pop up in my OLD feed that specifically says I am interested in "women". Sometimes it is just actually guys. But then of course all the identify changing people
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Why is that one of your concerns? There are just around 0.6% of ladyboys or kathoeys of the whole population in thailand. You are not likely to meet one of them except you look for prostitutes as many of them work in that field.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Partly from ignorance and false assumptions
Have seen more than I would expect on U.K. based online dating and then I just applied and incorrect assumption that there is likely a higher percentage in Thailand ...and there you go
Didn’t really appreciate the percentage and where they are concentrated
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Thats an honest answer take my upvote for that.
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Morena or more pale?
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Great combination. The very pale skin of japanese and the unbelievable pretty face of a pinay.
I salute you my friend.
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Magandang araw or magandang gabi whatever time you have now.
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NoonTimeHoopsMVP 4y ago
Humans crave exotic and different. White women at rural colleges go crazy for black athletes because it was something they didn't have in high school. Same thing goes for Swedish men for Thai women and Swedish women for immigrant men. Sure, the Swedish blonde is exotic to American men but for Swedish men, she is generic.
reignoferror00 4y ago
There are two Thai women I get massages from (legit massages, unfortunate in some ways, but on the other hand a great massage by someone who is trained and knows what they are doing). Not much of sample size but both are quite attractive and have very pleasant personalities.
Panzermacher3 4y ago
True. At the end of the day there's good and bad folks in any race/nationality so the only advice I'd give my kids would be to pick a partner with a good strong character and to not rush into a marriage.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Huh? When was this [as in which decade(s)] and why did they stop?
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Traksimuss 4y ago
Turns out refugees do not pay bills of independent sassy woman. Who could have predicted that? But local Joerg or Johannes will pay the bills.
NoonTimeHoopsMVP 4y ago
It has been pushed in popular media. That is why. Plus dating outside the race is a way for people to appear woke or virtue signal.
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42252252 4y ago
That kinda points to the theory that all this immigration politicking is a kind of subconscious shit test. They get to maternally feel like they're caring for this poor little guy who just needs to be nurtured, AND she's basically thumbing her nose at the guys around her, saying "I'm gonna invite a hostile tribe to assault, invade, and take our home, and if you don't sack the fuck up I'm gonna let him breed me like a horny sow, huh? How do you like that, pussy?! Come one, fight back! Why aren't you stopping me!??! You can't be okay with this!! Someone please take my hand off the ballot, why are you letting me do this!?!?!"
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Yes! Women see hordes of violent brown men coming into their country and they think, subconsciously, that this will force "her" men to "man up" and give her more options.
Look how they react to young, attractive women competing with them.
To a woman, EVERYTHING is about putting one over on the men.
Men used to know this but we have lost this knowledge except for TRP and a few other places.
5235235352 4y ago
Yes, white men became too soft and too weak and they are failing miserably lmao.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Haha this post made me laugh. I wouldn't be surprised if it was an attempt to rile up the local men. But it seems to be backfiring.
And if the men's potential solution becomes political you usually find they loudly complain about it. Like them voting for right-wing anti-immigration parties.
So what do they actually want? The men to oppose it on a personal level and try to take their women back with none of the laws that negatively effect them changing. I mean you can see why it isn't working
BeauTofu 4y ago
Cause they are generally rich.
Big dick. Funny thought, I know a few Arab and black ladies and they won't date their own cause they aren't stupid
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Black women are odd.
On one hand, they don't want to date us because mostly, we don't deal with their shit. On the other hand, they're mad at us because we don't approach them.
On the whole, I avoid black american women. They're too damn unpredictable.
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BeauTofu 4y ago
Do you think we are discussing these poor Arab and not some rich guy that import their own lambo when they visit Sweden?
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BeauTofu 4y ago
Unsure where you think girls from Sweden are hooking up with poor college Arabs boys.. actually, unsure where you think any girls are hooking up with immigrants that's dirt poor and catching buses..
If the latter, I hate to tell you.. then it's true love and not a superficial relationship.. which isn't what this sub is about.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Excuse me.
BWAHHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA!
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Guerilla_Gorilla222 4y ago
just curious because I'm out of the loop here. What exactly makes swedish men dislike swedish women? I've heard something about feminism but nothing more specific
Katowice_to_gdansk 4y ago
I honestly find western women repulsive. especially here in australia, the women here usually fall under one of two categories: the spoiled entitled cunts that can afford to live in cities, and the really uncouth, trashy white women who live outside of the cities and in the more rural/remote areas, who are so masculine that dating them is basically just being gay with extra steps. it seems like all the good women here (all 8 of them) are taken or they move away
Cyanide-Cookies 4y ago
Lol not too different from here in the states, these bitches are large and in charge and got a shitty feminist attitude on top of it. Finding one that is actually sane is like trying to find a tiny diamond in an ocean of shit. Dating foreign women is the only real solution, the western dating scene is too far gone to bother with.
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I too am a white man thief.
MrNeurotypical 4y ago
I'm a white man. I was permanently off the market for Western women by age 32. Both my sons will not be wifing up Western women. My 12yr old already reads this sub and knows all about them. Doesn't matter what color they are. If they're feminists, they get the hoe treatment.
winniethepooh313 4y ago
You are fucking based
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Feminism really is a plague! You're w wonderful father to your boys!
yellomachine 4y ago
Great comment.
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Thank you, friend!
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Thank you!
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 4y ago
I'm flairing this one as "single woman tears."
While it doesn't exactly fit the theme of the sub in the "woman looking for commitment" aspect, it does dovetail into the theme in that it is explaining that a whole country of women, once deemed to be the most attractive, cannot find men to commit to them. They are so jealous that the men are opting for foreign women, because they are more feminine and attractive, that they are trying to enact laws preventing men from having that option.
Society is dying. Feminism is killing it.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
It is mentioned in your comment and seemingly many others but shouldn't be understated - this group of women were once considered the most attractive (or at least up there) women in the world
"Swedish Bikini Team" was a trope - although I have just read that they were American so perhaps that explains it. Perhaps they really always were very far from this stereotype even before going all-in on feminism (and seemingly losing)
theloosemoose00 4y ago
Maybe the Swedish guys have a thing for lady-boys …