TLDR: female psychopath has contempt for the men she conned.

She doesn’t sound very good at her job.

Her "agency" exploits men for their money, point blank lies to them and then that writer has the nerve to express moral outrage.

Let this be a lesson to all of you: Don't look for shortcuts or cheats. Awalt. Don't get married. There is no miracle solution out there waiting for you to discover it.

This woman didn't learn anything about men that couldn't have been learned from a 2 minute conversation with someone who isn't afraid of being punished for their opinion - that men prefer young, submissive, fit women for long term partners who they can have children with.

“They don’t care about their men; they don’t care even about their looks anymore. Only about their careers,” Bob explained with an angry smile emoji.

That's the comment that made you clutch your pearls? Get real. This has been a problem for decades. You are entitled to your career and you are entitled to look like garbage or be a trashy hoe, but you are NOT entitled to a man's commitment via marriage. That is a traditional institution and feminists hate tradition.

The ultimate irony is the fact that this woman talks trash about the men while she is conning them out of money. Maybe that is why a man's view of western women is so low? These feminists care when men have standards, but not when men are fleeced for their time, attention and money by fakes and scammers.

And she thought it was OK? Why are women like this? I know we got incel men and stuff but, I can't think of a man deliberately ruining a woman for no reason other than spite. Even then, as far as I know, men just leave things well enough alone. Not women however, apparently.

Its from Vice, so of course its the most retarded shit on the internet

Most bloggers talk about my kind as a lump of exotic meat. That kind of attitude from Western men isn’t completely unique to us—plenty of other nations, often ones with struggling or developing economies, face similar exploitative practices.

Those scummy men just want one thing!

Our job was to chat with as many different men as possible and keep them online as long as possible since they were paying $2 for every 10 minutes of online chat.

It's ok to exploit them, they started it. No mention of what the female clients were paying the agency (if they even existed).

I think it was only last week that the bbc ran a story about a guy conned out of his life savings through a Ukrainian agency.

It was more than just that he had been talking to the translator. He went out there to marry the woman he was talking to and ended up being married to the translator. Then drugged on his wedding night

I decided to write him again, now as 34-year-old Svitlana. This chat was short. Sorry, darling, you are beautiful, but I am looking for a younger woman here,” Bob replied. I told Bob he was rude. Bob said, no offense, but with a younger woman, he had a better chance to have a child.

Based Bob XD

This sounds like that guy David Murphey from 90 Day Fiancee and his ukrainian girlfriend, Lana.

Read up on it here.

While this is a little outside our theme as stated in rule 5, I'm approving it for the following reasons:

1) it offers much information to help any of you who are young bachelors be careful about how you go about seeking companionship (if you even bother).

2) /u/p3ngwin is an endorsed member and offers his analysis in the comments.

That was eye opening, thanks for sharing.

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Majority of men are conned then fleeced.........women most affected! Same old bullshit from these harpy's whether they live in north america or eastern europe.

Women seeing men as interchangeable objects annoyed that men see them as interchangeable objects.

Yeah, I takes a special kind of fucked uppery to write a piece admitting you were literally a professional con artist, preying on the lonely and still try and turn it around into a 'men are bad' hit piece. Still..... I guess these fuckers have to justify their actions to themselves somehow.

The gynocentric society and victim culture of women really have men blind to the realities of this world. Men need to realize that we're seen as nothing more than means of exploitation, even in situations where we think we have control like these dating websites. Men need to realize it's time to walk through life with a professional skepticism of everything we're told and everything we involve ourselves in. Especially white men. You're being told you're an oppressing privileged class throughout life solely so you can let your guard down and make it easier to exploit you. Even though right now there has never been a more equitable time in society. It gives you a false sense of security as explained by this article, these men never thought twice about how these so called professional women were talking to them with such a time difference and never wanted to video chat.

Nice to see she's still in the game of lies and fuckery by writing nonsense for Vice.

A quick search of her name of you'll find her IG. Big surprise, she has a face like a slapped arse crack.

We wouldn’t meet or talk to the women ourselves until we’d secured them a date with a foreigner, luring him to come to Ukraine on their behalf.

*My male colleague Olexiy, who was assigned the profiles of two young women, joked, “I know what men want. So it would not be much of a problem for me to flirt with them.”*

So right off the bat, she admits that the women in the profiles will NOT be doing ANY talking to the clients at all, it will all be faked, and this "translator" will be handling MULTIPLE clients simultaneously. All faked to prey on the men to come to the Ukraine.

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*Karina explained to us that our clients “want to fall in love” but that they were “working women, who have lives and have no time to spend the nights chatting with their possible dream men. So you will have to do it for them.”*

Again, the clients want men, but don't want to put ANY effort to get them, so they outsource to these "foreign dating" platforms to fake all the courtship, while pretending to "get to know you", enough that you will come to the Ukraine.

At no point does this feminist see a problem with lying and preying on someone make them travel and get married to someone they don't really know.

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*I was also assigned two women’s sparsely-detailed online dating profiles. The 22-year-old dancer Olena had freakishly long legs and long blonde hair, while Svitlana, 34, a tiny brunette with a short haircut, worked as an accountant. I had to create two different personalities for both of them and stick to each character. Our boss was the only one who was in contact with our female clients. “A woman can always say she has changed her beliefs,” she told me about us translators conjuring up characters for women we’d never met.*

Wow, again, it doesn't matter to this feminist that she's asked to LIE about these girl's personalities, as long as it is MEN who are the victims, and girl can apparently completely change their personality whenever they want, not schizzo at all !

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Our job was to chat with as many different men as possible and keep them online as long as possible since they were paying $2 for every 10 minutes of online chat. We were chatting during the nights in Ukraine, due to different time zones, but the men never found it suspicious that the women, who had jobs, were always chatting with them hours after our midnight.

and i bet this feminist had no trouble fleecing men by such lies. It's apparently wrong for men to seek sex from women, but for women to seek money from men is totally legit!

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For obvious reasons, we had to deny their video chat requests*, instead attempting to* get them to send our clients pricey gifts (flower bouquets, candy, jewelry) the matchmaking agency offered.

If a man agreed to send money to the agency for a present, he got a picture or even a pre-recorded video of her saying a short, simple phrase, like “thank you so much” or “I love you.”.

The ultimate goal was to get a man to the country, where he would meet the woman he thought he had been talking to for months.

We would have to prepare her for a first date and sit in on it as a translator. What we were doing was unethical, but it was not a crime by law*—*just a sweet lie those Western men prefered to buy as a “unique experience” of dating a Ukrainian woman.

Wow, no words, this feminist has the gall to admit it's unethical to fleece men like this, but hey, "it's not against the law right ?".

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The Ukrainian women I know are strong, independent, and smart. But the men on those online dating websites see Ukrainian women as foreign sex dolls, ready to serve every need of their generous saviors.

Oh, it's the MEN who are preying on the women ?? I'm sorry, did i miss the part when these men lie and fleece the women by stringing them on for weeks on end having someone else court the women, asking for gifts, etc ?

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There are numerous nasty blogs instructing Western men on how to seduce a Ukrainian woman—and still others that do the same for women in other countries deemed in economically precarious situations.

and this justifies what you're doing here how ? Also, there are plenty of "nasty blogs instructing Easter women how to seduce...." too, but i guess that's not a problem because it's "empowering women", etc right ?

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Most bloggers talk about my kind as a lump of exotic meat. That kind of attitude from Western men isn’t completely unique to us—plenty of other nations, often ones with struggling or developing economies, face similar exploitative practices. Some of the authors cite Ukraine’s status as the poorest in Europe, with a shortage of men, as advantages for a thirsty foreigner’s safari for a young lady.

Strange how again it's viewed as men preying on "vulnerable women", when the article doesn't cite a SINGLE instance of a man doing that, yet EXPLICITLY shows how the women, and the platform, lie to financially stable, yet emotionally vulnerable men.

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At first, these suitors were cautious. Ukrainian online dating sites, just like other international dating sites, have a reputation for potential scams—after all, suitors are paying to talk to women online. But as soon as I inflated their ego with a compliment or two, they let their guards down.

You mean their reputation for being scams was accurate, and justified, as you literally are part of the problem ?

"But as soon as I preyed on their vulnerable ego with a compliment or two, they let their guards down for me to scam them." - FTFY

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“You are in your 30s and have not been married yet? Should I worry? Haha!” Howard, a 48-year-old teacher from Oregon, joked. I didn’t know why Svitlana wasn’t married, so I told him that she was looking for the right man. Howard thought he was the right man, and agreed to consider marrying her, but only on the condition that he would come to Ukraine and live in Svitlana’s apartment to test their relationship before taking her to America. I laughed and never responded to his messages again.

Translation, "how DARE he ask why she is unmarried, and how DARE he suggest he meet the woman and stay with her for a while instead of marrying her immediately, does he not know how this scam works?!"

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Bob started flirting, said that he loved my profession and my profile picture. When I asked why he wanted to date a Ukrainian woman, not an American woman, he replied that American women have become too emancipated.

“They don’t care about their men; they don’t care even about their looks anymore. Only about their careers,” Bob explained with an angry smile emoji.

As a feminist, I was disgusted to read that, yet Olena expressed her understanding and promised to care for Bob, hinting she wanted a present. Two weeks later, Bob sent her flowers, but soon afterward he shamed her for profiteering from his affections and stopped responding to messages. I decided to write him again, now as 34-year-old Svitlana. This chat was short. “Sorry, darling, you are beautiful, but I am looking for a younger woman here,” Bob replied. I told Bob he was rude. Bob said, no offense, but with a younger woman, he had a better chance to have a child.

I was done with the industry after Bob. Otherwise, I was sure I would be done with men.

AHAHAHAHA so here a man has a preference, but this offends our scamming feminist in ways she can't stand.

Well there you have it, hypergamy in ways you wouldn't believe unless you witnessed it with your own eyes. Scammy women preying on vulnerable men, don't like when when men have preferences who also don't open their wallets to simple lies.

As a feminist, I was disgusted to read that, yet Olena expressed her understanding and promised to care for Bob, hinting she wanted a present. Two weeks later, Bob sent her flowers, but soon afterward he shamed her for profiteering from his affections and stopped responding to messages.

This paragraph is unbelievable. "As a feminist" she demands gifts and money from the guy, and when the guy "shames" her by saying she's only interested in his money, which is the objective truth, SHE's the one who's disgusted!

Classic woman logic: "I can't believe he implied I only want him for his money! I mean, it's true, but it's still offensive and sexist!"

Men,

PAY VERY CLOSE ATTENTION!

Match making services are a scam. ALL of them.

A few years ago I stumbled upon a documentary "Seeking Asian Female" I watched it for free either on Hulu or Netflix - so you should be able to get it free somehow. The level of cringe and desperation and ignorance throughout this film was depressing like few things I have ever watched.

Warning: Do not watch this movie if you are feeling sad, depressed, or just got out of a bad relationship.

Men who think that they are shopping for a wife are deluding themselves. Men are NOT the customer, they are the PRODUCT. Men pay these women and agencies to deliberately deceive them. And that is the GOOD news!

What happens after the honeymoon is the real story. And it is ugly.

So if you think it is YOU who is doing the searching and the shopping on dating/hookup apps, you are WRONG. YOU are the commodity, and you are cheap in their eyes.

Please stay away from these crappy systems. They are designed for a very small segment of the population and YOU ain't in that segment.

Don't delude yourself.

Watch the movie.

Sincerely,

DD1

Shaming men for following their sexual strategies (men are attracted to younger, hotter, tighter as Rollo says)? Check!

"After working at an agency myself, I couldn’t believe that those middle-aged men, like James, still think they can only find love with much younger women from a different country."

Decrying men for focusing on carnal issues before "love?" Check! No critique at all of the Ukrainian gold diggers, of course:

But the men on those online dating websites see Ukrainian women as foreign
sex dolls, ready to serve every need of their generous saviors."

It's typical Feminist claptrap, really.

She is quite right. I knew a chick from Donetsk who was working as "interpreter" for a dating site. Since war, she moved to Karkiv. I lost touch with her for past few years.

Anyways, Don't be lured by Ukrainian women to Ukraine in dating sites. It might be a hairy Andrei on the other side of keyboard. Go to Ukraine, better meet a chick through acquaintance if you don't speak the language...and definitely stay the fuck away from chicks in/from Odessa. They are usually spoiled and fucked by Turkish/Ukrainian/Georgian/Russian mafia dudes.

Most of the Ukrainian chicks have orthodox crucifix hanging around their necks. This means absolutely nothing.

Source: Married to a Ukrainian

Looks like the devil is training substitutes.

If women could get a sample of an average man's life, feminism would end.

Reminds me of that classic Eddie Murphy skit where he jokes about finding an African girl untouched by feminism and bringing her to America. After spending a few minutes with American women she's all "what have you done for me lately Eddie? I am leaving you Eddie. I want half Eddie. Half!"

Different response for those on the hunt of a foreign wife, you need to know.

• Once you land one, you get to sign a whole bunch of papers. One of which I-864, Affidavit of Support. Now this one is a ditty. You are signing a contract with the Feds to support your pending spouse at 125% of the poverty rate for your given metro area. It also provide that your State of residency may assume that role as agent of the Feds. Once you sign it you are married without the honeymoon for divorce purposes.
• Now consider VAWA (Violence against women), your partner can scream that to the USICS and they will believe her in a heartbeat. You could lose everything.

You have been warned. Yeah, few men have an AS triggered, but some have.

I never wanted to leave Ukraine, as I believed that things would change for the better and I could be a part of that.

By running romance scams? Her hamster is working overtime.

From the title I thought the translator had sympathy for these men, but it’s just more cherry picking to shame desperate men.

I suppose it’s expected from Vice, organization that employs 20s female reporters themselves and have a series called Slutever.

Is from VICE, what you expect. That is their journalism from the core.