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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Chasing Chad

When you ask a girl to be "honest" this is what you get.
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asdf333aza

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evil-doraemon 4y ago

Sounds like a decent summer as long as nobody moves in

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Vikingbeard1 4y ago

Good post. I almost wonder if she's taking the piss though. So hard to tell in upside-down land now.

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Aatjal 4y ago

I love how if one has the gift of height, women are willing to put up with his asshole behavior.

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NightOuts 4y ago

not enough drama in her life currently.

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Mister_McDerp 4y ago

Considering I'm starting to drink, looks like she and me would get along...

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[deleted] 4y ago

tall is the most common of their demands

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Harry_Teak 4y ago

Check. Check. Check. Check.

She'd love me, but I don't do chub.

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asdf333aza 4y ago

Her mouth: "I just want a nice guy"

Her inner thoughts:

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AmbitiousHornet 4y ago

A very curious set of qualifications. Particularly emotionally unavailable.

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[deleted] 4y ago

Gentlemen, let's consider an ideal version for Men, shall we?

Looking for an emotionally available, slightly modern, non-bitchy, non-lazy, non-phobic to commitment and cooperation female, must be size 6 or less.

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asdf333aza 4y ago

Body count less than 10.

Must weigh less than 140lbs. Mind you the avg female weight is 130lbs around the world, but the average AMERICAN female weighs in at 170lbs.

No single moms.

No stds ( 1 out 5 American women have hsv2).

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FaeVandal 4y ago

Screw nut and bolt.

Tag her social media with a "remind me in 5 years"

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GiantOfTheSouthSky 4y ago

Shit like this is why men who go against redpill/manosphere doctrine are a walking punchline. These are the people you want us protect?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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Overkillengine 4y ago

My presumption is that is because she's still marginally young and good looking enough to passively collect resources and services from orbiters without having to actually have sex with them. They start needing a "ReAl mAn" right around the time no one wants to pay their bar tab for them anymore.

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SnakeEyeskid 4y ago

I guess I could start drinking... My liver for her roast jag beef. Doesnt seam like a bad deal, no sir.

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throwsFatalException 4y ago

Well at least she is honest. She needs to stick to her guns though and keep dating alcoholics . No need for her to ruin a decent dude's life.

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TheSigilStone 4y ago

I wonder what her parents think. She's 25, unmarried, and looking for cheap thrills with tall bad boys.

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asdf333aza 4y ago

They're probably just thanking god she's not a single mother, yet.

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BluepillProfessor 4y ago

I can be a douchebag and I can be emotionally unavailable for her! Alas, alack, I lack the height requirements having fallen short by just an inch.

A time for sadness or a celebration of divine intervention? You be the judge.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I think her profile will change to be more aligned with the usual content here in 5-7 years

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Throwaway90618 4y ago

Yup. Once this time is up her mind set will change. She'll say that she finally "knows her worth" and is ready to settle.

I'll bet on 2 kids at that time

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Jake-Orion 4y ago

Nah. I give her 2 once she's knocked up or has a kid. She's well on her way to unhappiness already.

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mustangfrank 4y ago

But at least he will be 6', so everything is cool.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Who? The kid? I’m sure I saw something recently suggesting that with height the mother’s height is more of a predictor. Granted if both are tall I assume it helps

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mustangfrank 4y ago

I was talking about the dude who will cream pie her, then leave her with a kid. She is well on her way to nowhereville. Soon to be here again at WAATGM, writing WAATGM?

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asdf333aza 4y ago

There's a formula we use in medicine.

Basically

If it's a GIRL subtract 5 inches from the DADS height and average it with the mom height and that give you her height with a plus or minus a few inches for standard deviation.

If it's a BOY add 5 inches to the MOMs height and average it with the dad's and that give you the son's height plus or minus 4 inches for sd

A few outliers here and there but MOST people fall into that formula.

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MTALKIEM 4y ago

Target height: Mom+dad / 2 +-7 cm

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Interesting. So despite being 5’6 there would be a reasonable chance of having an average height son with a similar height girl (although finding one of those is still a challenge)

Only chance of a close to 6ft son would realistically be with a 6ft woman. So that isn’t happening!

Who am I kidding - kids likely aren’t happening anyway

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asdf333aza 4y ago

Do what lesbians do.

Go to a sperm/egg back and request the ova of a female who is 6ft or taller and have it Inseminated. Than pay some chick 60000 to carry it for you.

That's a thing. I know a girl who is 24 and has had SIX KIDS!!!! That's her job. She has kids for other people and it pays her 40 to 80k a year depending or who the couple is. There's a whole company for shit like this.

A doctor in our hospital is 5'6" but his son is 6'1". DNA tested him and everything. It's his son. But the doctor's dad was 6'2. However his mom was like 5'2". And kids mom was like 5'8". So he ended up being shorter than expected while his son was randomly a giant. It's honestly a multifactoral thing. That formula is just for predictions.

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mustangfrank 4y ago

This is me, 5'8" first wife 5'7 1/2. Our son 30 is 6'3"

Second wife 5'7", boy 22, 6'1/2", boy 18, 5"9"(198 pounds, not fat), boy 14, 5'9".

It is a game of chance. My dad 5'5" mom 5'2".

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Overkillengine 4y ago

I've read that childhood nutrition also plays a role in resulting adult height too, which is part of why height averages in developed countries trend taller over time.

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polishknightusa 4y ago

When I found out I was having a daughter, I had mixed emotions. I was glad I wasn't going to need to pump a son full of horse HGH hormones. :-)

But knowing what we do now, that's what I'd do in a heartbeat. Young men need to be prepped early on red-pill wisdom, regimens to grow tall (lots of swimming, basketball, and HGH stimulant foods). He'd have been a warrior.

Someone said on this forum that for women, the trick is actually teaching them to not muck things up. If she's pretty, don't get face piercings and tattoos. Don't develop a nasty attitude. But even so, I'll be red pilling her and getting her prepared to be a decent, active woman who will be responsible for bringing a lot to the table, and bringing the right man to the table, to have a happy family. Wish me luck.

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mustangfrank 4y ago

I am 5'8", and I am here to tell you the shit I took at being 5'8". You see it here are the time women demanding men 6". I know my height has kept me out of management positions. I was a field engineer for GE, and made good money on OT.

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polishknightusa 4y ago

I have a theory that in a female centric society comprised of both white knight chivalry and feminists, or both, then any perceived weakness in a man is fair game to attack (particularly in intersectional privilege checking today): emotional vulnerability, being a social outsider, appearance, etc. that cause him to, er, (reverse pun) "stand out" makes him a target from women and low self-esteem men.

I never experienced bullying from alpha chads, amazingly. They were, IMO, the most likable people I've ever met (and it's no wonder that women are attracted to them) because nobody messed with them and they didn't feel a need to mess with others. When I visited more patriarchal, traditional cultures, again, general respect for men (or for that matter, human beings in general) seemed to be higher because they were taught to respect their elders and care for extended family members.

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kidruhil 4y ago

Single dad here raising 2 girls on my own. My kids are night and day different from my neices. My kids don't start stupid drama, they respect my rules, they don't engage in crocodile tears bullshit everytime they're in trouble, they don't hit... the differences are endless.

My kids are still little, 6 and 8. I know they aren't perfect and will make mistakes in life but I think RP has equipped me with the knowledge to keep them from making the worst mistakes possible. As they age and can understand more, I'll point out how pathetically miserable postwall THOTs are. And I'll always take an interest in their lives and steer then away from obvious low quality people and media. I think those strategies will do more to keep them away from feminist brainwashing than anything else I could do.

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frifrini 4y ago

Remember to vet their men for them. Fathers must be part of mate selection

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kidruhil 4y ago

Of course. But before we get that far, their friend selection is probably even more important. I'm happy to help in that department too.

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frifrini 4y ago

Exactly. Thanks God there's still reasonable people around.

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PirateDocBrown 4y ago

I was a widowered single dad, too. Brought up my daughter properly, and it turned out ok.

Would have been nice to have had a good woman with me while I did that.

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kidruhil 4y ago

Amen to that and congrats on doing a solid job with your daughter. I'm not on the hate all females train. I know there are great ones out there and I'm hoping to eventually find another partner in crime to make a few more babies with. But if that doesn't happen, I still have my current little ones to give my life purpose.

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BluepillProfessor 4y ago

Good luck.

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comptejete 4y ago

The rare planetary alignment of what they say being in line with what they do

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[deleted] 4y ago

So very true Sir, so very true.

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Gundamsafety 4y ago

Why do I get the feeling tahat I can see the fat starting to build up on her? I mean I get it she is sucking in her gut really hard in that picture, and they all can't be thin and toned. But I just get the feeling that she is going to hit a growth spurt right before the wall hits her.

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[deleted] 4y ago

Those hips/legs... big, no muscle tone. The fat grenade is about to be lobbed...

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butt_uglee 4y ago

I think she need more random trashy tattoos

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Gundamsafety 4y ago

Well at least she did not get the tramp stamp...yet.

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Martellus732 4y ago

She's trying to hide her chubbiness.

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Gundamsafety 4y ago

Chubby? No puppies and kittens are chubby and cute. She is fat in training.

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PirateDocBrown 4y ago

Shit, I'm in.

Emotionally unavailable? Check. Slightly alcoholic? Check. Douchebag? Check. Six feet? Check.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Me first! I saw her first!

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Disciple_Of_Cheesus 4y ago

Yup... Right now she's all about those AF. But just wait, in another 5 to 10 years down the line, she'll be on the hunt for a BB.

Redpill truths are inescapable.

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago

5 to 10 years? You're a generous one. She's just about grown out of that bikini. Years of sun and alcohol abuse has likely already destroyed her overall health.

For her, and women like her it's the final countdown before they slam into the wall and are desperate to settle down.

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Joaquino7997 4y ago

And the sad thing about this is...she'll find him.

Five years from now, she'll be singing a slightly different tune. At that point, not only will he need to be 6' tall, he'll need to be insanely athletic, six-figure salary, cars, house and NO kids of his own.

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ZarBandit 4y ago

No reason to stop making bad decisions now. Tattoos, putting on weight, CC.

‘I demand more Chad cock and alcohol. Stat!’

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skint_back 4y ago

If we can get them to just start saying “Woman seeking Chad” it would be perfect

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Jake-Orion 4y ago

But that would give them less validation! You know many of the women get off on themselves with the bombardment of likes/messages. Why endanger that?

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mustangfrank 4y ago

You know many of the women get off on themselves with the bombardment of likes/messages.

True

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FaeVandal 4y ago

Cat feces probably tastes worse than dog feces just based on the smell but the smell of either is more than enough to convince me I don't need to know more about either...

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DrDog09 4y ago

Fair enough.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

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Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

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