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ShittierLord 5y ago

"Someone who's ready to be a family man!"

Obviously that should have been the father of your child.

wathon2 5y ago

A woman under 28 ready to settle down means only one thing: Single mom 100% of the time.

The CC is simply too good for women; the only women that left are the one that got kicked off.

27KHHV 5y ago

Man it's so depressing girls younger than me by about half a decade are acting this fucked up lol

Women these days are screwed...

beTheAyyToMyLmao 5y ago

I do not know why that face reminds me of Sylvia Likens. Especially the nose. RIP Sylvia.

P.S. Those who don't know who that is..maybe NSFL.

shrinkshooter 5y ago

if you can ride with that

Girls ride guys, not vice versa.

than

Someone shoot me.

that whole last sentence

Gurl liek i.hear u n stuf but I mean come,on its' just so diffcult too parse teh ;shit u B super saiyan

Jake4523 5y ago

I laughed a little bit too much at this comment. Keep this up

At 20 year old you start to get maturity in my case . Work for yourself then settle around 27-33 .maybe . But mom at 21 wow . That sad for her child . Enjoy because you have a developed country so she can manage . How she would have survived if she was in India

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chalulin 5y ago

You mean say no to chad or Tyrone? Impossible!!!

smakkelijk_22 5y ago

We know you love to drink, that's how the kid happened in the first place.

tosernameschescksout 5y ago

Ironic how a woman is ready to settle down as soon as her financial independence is compromised by a child.

At this point, even the children should feel resentful for the way women behave.
Imagine getting stuck with a father that's only there for convenience. Later, you become a victim of divorce and you only have your mother to thank. Perhaps she made a brother or sister for you by cheating with alphas while using your surrogate bastard-father as a provider and life boat.

You know, nobody says this, but alphas aren't winning either. When you play the game of love with a woman, everybody loses. Unlike men, where everybody wins.

Women go into relationships completely unprepared to appreciate a man. Read their profiles, it's entirely about YOU appreciating the her, NOT the other way around.

I"ll tolerate you and give you my time, and you'll give me all of your money because you're lucky to have my time and have someone like me to spend that money. Here is my list of requirements in a partner. Excuse me? Do men have lists? Almost never.

No, thank you.

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 5y ago

"Do men have lists? Almost never."

We absolutely have lists, we just don't advertise them. That's the difference. I swipe left on:

Obesity Prostitutes Beggars Lists of Demands Over 40

I typically swipe right on everyone and unmatch/delete if they don't meet the criteria I'm looking for. It's especially satisfying when the profile says, "Don't match with me if you're not going to say anything or unmatch." They can't handle rejection at any level.

escailer 5y ago

Alphas definitely aren’t winning in the long run either. Multiple studies show that they get jaded and cynical, believing that all women will jump on any hot guy that comes along and so often never forming a stable relationship due to this other end of the same insecurity. Even alphas have been conditioned that there is no such thing as alpha bux.

BeetsbyGreens 5y ago

I'm an attractive man, and some people have called me "alpha". I've been propositioned for sex from more married women than I can even remember. I... don't have a high opinion of women.

VetteVet83 5y ago

Absolute truth here. Triple digit N count and I’ve seen such horrible sluttery, I don’t think I’ll ever be able to trust a woman. It’s kind of sad because the happiest point in my life was when I was blue pilled and married.

CuriousIncel2 5y ago

financial independence is compromised by a child.

I don't understand why these women do this. Is it because of the safety net of welfare? Or is because she's anti abortion?

I almost feel more respect for the career woman who refuses to settle down until after hitting the wall. Atleast she's a net tax payer and will have money to provide for her cats.

But then I realize that this woman is using a much more effective strategy, by reeling in a beta then divorcing him for alimony and child support. She'll probably be making half the money that the career woman makes, with zero effort.

Buchwild 5y ago

Part of the problem is you're trying to apply logic to emotional people, it just doesnt work. Truthfully there's social programs in place to help, maybe these new mother's think things won't be that different and lots of other women do it so it's no biggie, (about 40%), or they were trying to entrap someone and it didn't work out which happens more than you think.

To your second point we will see how that turns out. People are starting to not put up with certain ba

Buchwild 5y ago

The only people winning are the people who don't play.

mustangfrank 5y ago

Alphas play, betas pay.

She: Where is my Romeo (Chad)?

RRFdev 5y ago

Women show their love, appreciation and lust for FWBs, not boyfriends and husbands. This is clown world dating.

Settle down means $$$$$$$$$$.

27KHHV 5y ago

Welcome to the modern day lol

Clown world.

mustangfrank 5y ago

Settle down means $$$$$$$$$$ x 1,000

nicethingyoucanthave 5y ago

From the age of 16 until I got divorced at 29, the longest I went without a girlfriend was about six months. I had a few anonymous hookups in college but usually, they way it seemed to work with me was, if a girl liked me, I'd hop right into commitment.

Fortunately, even back then when I was "blue pill" I also had a knack for getting out of relationships without too many hurt feelings. Even my divorce was done without lawyers or any fighting.

I created this account right around the time I found the red pill. I had already gotten myself a new live-in girlfriend (single mom too) and that turned out to be the only relationship I consider to be a "bad experience." So because of that (and also because TRP changed my thinking), from that point on, I never gave any commitment. I never lied either - I was upfront right from the beginning that she could hang out with me and fuck but we were never going to be an item.

Here's how he outcomes changed: I went from having a string of one or two year relationships that kind of fizzled out and became huge chores at the end, with giant lists of obligations that I hated - to having FWBs that were entirely on my terms. I never did a single thing that I didn't want to do (to be clear though, I have money and I like treating a girl when she's treating me right, so I am taking them out on dates and such).

And this...

Women show their love, appreciation and lust for FWBs, not boyfriends and husbands.

Is 100% true. I have never in my life been treated as well, been shown such continual and earnest respect, or been fucked as passionately and consistently as when I started telling women "no."

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So what your saying is if men look for relationships, women sense their weakness? So just be friends with them?

nicethingyoucanthave 5y ago

It's not the "looking" that makes you less attractive, it's the fact that you agreed to (maybe even offered) the relationship. It makes you safe, I guess. As a result, sexual desire declines in women after entering a committed relationship, and the same pattern holds for marriage

So just be friends with them?

Well, don't let yourself be taken advantage of. Don't be "just friends." If she's sexually attracted to you, have sex, and then sure, also be friendly. But make it clear that there will be no commitment.

And if she doesn't want to have sex, then treat her as a guy friend. You can hang out with her sometimes if you like, but don't let her be taking up all your time, even with texts.

illustriousastral 5y ago

A whore who fucks other whores.

Excellent.

RRFdev 5y ago

I will say this as an explanation to why sexual desire declines in women who enter a relationship.

These women are never genuinely sexually attracted in their mates to begin with.

There is this thing called 'appeasement sex', where a woman feigns sexual attraction and makes a conscious decision to push herself into having sex with a man frequently. It is not because she enjoys doing it, but because she wants commitment from him.

FWBs are where you see women having sex with you because they want to, not because they desire commitment from you. The moment you become FWBs she ends up fucking you even more because the supply of sex is now secured.

It's also the same for the extremely rare marriages where a woman genuinely loves a guy. It's enviable to see these couples having regular sex, going to bed early and sleeping in each other's arms as a habit, remaining sexually active even to old age.

Take note that this is actually the opposite of a traditional relationship where a commitment is sought in return of having access to sex. So if you see a woman attempting to fuck her way into marrying you, run for the hills.

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What we both agree to be mutually friends, just there for one another from the beginning?

nicethingyoucanthave 5y ago

Are you looking for advice from me or validation? I've already given you advice: don't let yourself be taken advantage of.

A true friend will be there for you when you need something. It wont be a one-sided relationship. If you have that with this friend you're describing, then good for you. A lot of men are naive and they end up not having that - they end up being taken advantage of.

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Thank you.

heyheyitsdatboi 5y ago

“...someone’s who looking to be a family man”

Now why in the hell did you wait till AFTER the kid was born to desire this???

StingRayFins 5y ago

Translation, "I'm looking for a provider who will shell out

Broncoli 5y ago

ride with that

Odds on the kid being mixed?

Honest_Solution 5y ago

Who wants to bet that being a lush is how she got to become a single mom in the first place. 21 and absolutely no direction in her life whatsoever.

mariusalb 5y ago

Yeah man but don’t get her wrong, she likes to drink.

loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 5y ago

If we both bet on the same choice - I'm in!

Honest_Solution 5y ago

If betting on how women’s lives would turnout was a thing, I’d be a billionaire.

Kurt751990 5y ago

Are they retarded? I mean you gotta be something to get the order of life so wrong. You find the family man first then you have children with them. Go get Fuck McMasterson to raise yall's kid.

washingtonpanther 5y ago

Already has a kid, likely broke, clearly a conductor on the Hambone Express...

CreflowDollars 5y ago

Looks like she's already been settling down with a knife and fork

loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 5y ago

She's been getting hammered

And getting nailed

And hopes to find herself a strong construction worker

Who will help her build a home

With said hammers and nails

thebabylonbull 5y ago

I bet her son is a half-breed. You can just tell from the face she loves Tyrones.

MRMRising 5y ago

So I get to work 55 hrs/week to pay all the bills, while she sits on the couch and drinks all day?

If that is what a man does in today's society, then I want nothing to do with it.

anon_likes_tendies Jr. Hamster Analyst 5y ago

Starting early on the beta bucks hunt.

[deleted] 5y ago

I'm ready to be a family man.... But not with a single mother

[deleted] 5y ago

...someone who's ready to be a family man!

How about the father of your child? Just sayin...

MasterOfBullets 5y ago

At this point, this is just a meme. They all say the same

ClapsD 5y ago

I know it shouldn't, but it bothers me way more then it should when people don't know the difference between "then" and "than".

;)

mblazin1532 5y ago

Come on dudes! Step up and do your duty and become a ~~simp~~ "real man" for this fine upstanding young lady!

Yolomas 5y ago

There has been a huge spike in beta demands, lets see how this turns out.

kyledontcare 5y ago

Feel real sorry for the kid. She's still seeing the baby daddy.

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