Mini field report on some minor resistance during sex I managed to breeze past thanks to trp. Call these examples shit tests bc after we were done she says to me "i love how you just used me and had your way with me". This is not brag post, just another example of how women say 1 thing but mean another.
So got round to screwing this girl after a few dates and as I'm fucking her she dishes out some minor resistance:
- before I fuck need to get my dick wet, so tell her "come eat my dick", she responds "just fuck me", so I repeat what I said more firmly and then she kinda groans and gives me a "Do I have to?" look.
In past life I would've tried to negotiate the bj with her somehow or just kept on asking until it was more hassle for her to not do it than do it. Now instead, I just placed my hand over her neck firmly in like strangle grip and I take my dick and just place it on her lips, and I give her a look to let her know I'm not backing down. She gets the message and is eating my dick for almost good 10 mins
- Doing mish and I'm pinning her legs back to her face so easier to get deeper. A few times she tries to pull my hands away or tells me to let go so her legs can come down bc she likes it that way more. Thats fine except way she wants it fucks up my stroke, and I cant fuck her good.
So after 1st time I just ignore it or I pull her hand away firmly and just keep on trucking. Again she gets the message quickly and just goes with it.
- Finally, she riding me cowgirl and I put my hands on her ass and spread her ass to get deeper. She tells me "take your hands off, i wanna do it myself". Again I ignore, then I shit you not, not even 5 minutes later she's telling me "I love way you're spreading me open"
TL;DR
Some women will shit test you even with your dick inside them. Just have to remember that she is supposed to submit to your frame, not vice versa, and taking charge and making them submit to you is actually what makes them happiest.
Peter_B_Long 6y ago
You don't get worried about sexual assault / rape accusation from being too dominant? I can see this going well from anytime after the first time, but it's risky to push for things she doesn't verbally want to do. I mean unless you give her comfort after sex but just seems too risky.
ozaku7 6y ago
Why do you even want to have a woman suck your dick against her will?
You're a man, you should be able to master most positions so you don't have to bend your bitch like a piece of origamy.
Because she just wants you to cum faster and get it over with. This is not shit testing, it's a woman that actually doesn't want to fuck you but does so against her desire just to shut you up. If a woman truly wants you, she will suck your balls through your dickhole and ride you like there's no tomorrow, or beg you to slam her into 7th heaven.
funke42 6y ago
That was my first thought when I read this. I don't like begging. I'd rather not have sex than have sex with a woman who seems reluctant.
ozaku7 6y ago
The funny thing is that I used to take a glance at these escort review forums here and there (lets be honest, I wanted to bang one). There came a review that said how much the girl sucked and how distant she was. Then the girl actually registered and explained what happened, and it turned out he was just disgusting and unhygienic with childish behaviour and not even that amount of cash could get her wet and serious enough and just "dealt with it" aka "Roll the eyes before the cock goes in".
No matter what you do, if you suck enough even escorts will dislike you.
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
Dude, that's where the fun starts. And, it's not exactly about begging winkwink nudgenudge
ozaku7 6y ago
This is ridiculous. She should beg for your cock, not roll her eyes before she sucks it.
Selentest 6y ago
Everyone and everything around will shit test you if you have low smv. You cat, your drawer, your bed, your socks, you meal. Even when you're sleeping you can't let your guard down - your bed will 100% shit-test you if you break frame.
DigitallyDisrupt 6y ago
A bed really dislikes when your break frame
dr_warlock 6y ago
Much of women's sexual arousal is only activated when you ignore resistance or 'consent'. Everyone is taught the exact opposite and then women punish you for it (no sex) if you fail to understand it while complaining there's no real men anymore. They are not aware of it and will never admit it because the entire point of putting up faux resistance is to see that the man truly doesnt care about it. He cant know it's a test overtly.
josiasx 6y ago
Its about power, w/o sex she can use sex as leverage, after good sex, she becomes addicted to you...
they don't want to just give up their power
BluepillProfessor 6y ago
Everything in the world is about sex.
Except sex.
Sex is about power.
pizzadiet 6y ago
I had this happen with someone who knew me for a long time and we finally hooked up. She kept saying things like "stoppp!" and "what are you doinggg?!" all while making out and touching each other all over the place. Never had that happen to me so I was turned off by it. We didn't end up doing anything more than that on that night but did on another date. For a sec I thought she had some weird fantasy.
dr_warlock 6y ago
It's not a fantasy, it's a condition called 'woman'.
metallicdrama 6y ago
True. I once had a woman try to slip a finger in my ass during sex. Kicked her the fuck out of apartment. Went out of her way to bring me lunch at work and suck me off later three days in a row. Never initiated contact again. Stalked me on FB for another 6 months until she moved to another state. Found out later she set her apartment on fire because her landlord pissed her off. Bitches are sick. Be careful out there and take zero shit.
MyUsrNameWasTaken 6y ago
Dude a finger in the ass is so amazing. Let it happen and be thankful she's into that
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jesus fucking christ, you dodged a bullet there
metallicdrama 6y ago
Dodged a MOAB with that one. Despite being a total borderline whacko, she still respected strength, like any bitch. I probably could have gotten her to kill for me if I was a psycho with the mental stamina for that shit.
Lucky-Mustard 6y ago
If you fuck her in the ass she might shit test you...
max_peenor 6y ago
Just don't agree and amplify.
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
Yea, if she doesn't start by herself, pull the dick out and do a sudden heimlich, bitches love that.
good_guy_submitter 6y ago
Unless ur into some nasty shit, literally
metallicdrama 6y ago
Just make sure to pull out super fast if that's what you're into.
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alexclarkbarry 6y ago
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Leonidas_79 6y ago
Happened to my mate. Pulled out an she let it go lmfao
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No waaay man, I can't believe how that would go down, i'd burn the appartment after that. I had a girl throw up on my dick and stomach as she tried to deepthroat me, the sight/smell was so disgusting that I threw up myself and felt grossed out for a week.
Squirmme 6y ago
No. You put the sheets in the wash before she gets out of the bathroom and tell her it's cool and shit happens. She laughs, you laugh, the audience laughs.
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simplisticallysimple 6y ago
Happened to me just last night. I pulled out and a stream of liquid followed. A small part of me hoped that it was squirt, but I saw her scurrying embarrassed to the bathroom. I bent down and smelled the liquid -- pure fresh steaming diarrhea.
Fuck.
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ex_addict_bro 6y ago
He's the Angry... Video Game... Nerrrrrrrd!
HILLARYS_BLUE_WAFFLE 6y ago
Why did you bend down and smell the liquid?
simplisticallysimple 6y ago
I wanted to know for sure what it was.
HILLARYS_BLUE_WAFFLE 6y ago
You couldn't have guessed? You had to bend down and smell it? Oh well I guess.
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How can anyone keep it going for so long? How can anyone deflect shit tests for ever?
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Because most of the time you're "deflecting shit tests" you're just doing what you want to do. You stand your ground and get what you want, what's not to like?
Rollo_Mayhem3 6y ago
Be a man, that's your innate MO. I think we'll all agree that life is one big shit test.
Phoenixtorment 6y ago
When you are a natural, you do it automatically and even LIKE it, because it confirms your masculinity. She wants to see it because she loves it.
brinkleybuzz 6y ago
Shit tests are easy to deflect if you're indifferent to female bullshit. Shit tests are only difficult if you care what a woman thinks about you.
MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
Don't worry about "for ever", you don't have to pass shit tests after one of you dies.
But "for the time you are with her", yes you always have to deflect shit tests.
The easiest and best way is to never commit to one woman. With other girls and other options, you stop caring if you pass them or not, and even a failed shit test isn't a big deal.
Because what happens is this:
Failed shit test -> girl acts like her claws are in you and she's won -> you dislike her behaviour and leave and bang someone else -> girl falls back in line.
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MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
Yeah. Learn to love what you can't escape from. Probably describes married men too.
I dunno. I'm fine when I know that's what they are... at least a few. After a while I tire of them though.
Usually I don't realise at the time that the girl is shit testing. What usually happens is that she shit tests, I take it at face value, and I respond as if it's truth.... but still respond correctly for what I want to achieve. Perhaps this is also why it works for me - because I'm taking her at her word and still dealing well with it, rather than laughing it off.
Not to say that laughing it off isn't a good response, because it is. As is ignoring it.
But it means I don't usually enjoy the shit testing.
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AtlasAnt 6y ago
Girls are weird.
A plate the the other day told me not to cum inside of her, then when I told her I had to cum, she locked her legs around me.
xXx420VTECxXx 6y ago
So uhh, have you had the snip?
AtlasAnt 6y ago
Nay.
Morning after pill ily
xXx420VTECxXx 6y ago
Did you know she took it for sure?
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james_the_dean 6y ago
In women's martial arts, it's called the leglock of child support.
Huskimbo9 6y ago
Well then you do the power bomb of freedom.
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Rollo_Mayhem3 6y ago
Agreed. I had a girl in bed after we clearly talked about fucking. We are both naked in bed. I say ok "now go down on me" she replies "oh you pig." As if I committed a crime. Anyway I held true, I said well you wanted me to fuck so suck, so groans, and then sucks me. That's the lesson. Hold firm and they'll obey.
antariusz 6y ago
1 hour in, 1 month in, 1 year in. When things are going good, when things are going bad. Shit tests never end.
The only things that changes is your frame and ability to deal with them.
In this particular case you knew she was in the mood for sex and she enjoys being used roughly, so it was like a joke to you. You knew she was going to blow you, so you didn't second guess yourself. It's not always such a cut and dry example. When you're at a weak moment, when you're unsure of yourself... that's why you don't have weak moments. That's why you're never unsure of yourself. Not if you want a healthy relationship.
Questionnaire7 6y ago
It read like he hadnt hooked up with her so he didnt know she would blow him
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So about 2-3 weeks ago, I went on a date with this girl I re-initiated.When I re-initiated, she basically told me she was a hoe back when we initially spoke, but now she's reformed blah blah blah(mind you, this is just 3 or 4 months later). Read my previous conversation with her (that I saved in Snapchat) and I immediately saw why we never met up in the first place: I was failing her shit tests.
So I just texted her, passed all her shit tests and setup a date. I'm not saving any of the messages, she's saving them. Go on the date, we watch Atomic Blonde. I didn't understand the plot at all because I was more focused on physically escalating. At some point, she straight up tells me we're not making out during the movie. Escalate by grabbing her face and turning her head my direction. Then I let go and look at the screen. A while later, the movie ends. We leave and by this point, my hands have been all over her body in the theater.
Get to my car in an isolated part of the parking lot and we start making out hard as fuck. I haven't had a good make out in a while, so that really got me started and I'm escalating. She tries to stop me and says "We need to leave something for the second date" or something stupid like that. A second later, resume make out. Now I'm taking off her top and I just keep escalating, despite her trying to stop things once or twice again "It's late,blah blah blah". Just kept escalating and removing clothes
"Do you have a condom?"
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
Yup, this should be a front-page field report, not some autistic "I spoke with thousands of women and I'm a virgin".
JK. Don't make it front page. But that's the way things work, there's numerous evidence all over this place. You corrected your behaviour, solid stuff.
RTsquanch 6y ago
Nice. You took a girl on a date and she wanted to fuck. nice trp bitch. How about you treat her good and if you don't want to be long you say no. I'll fuck you but I'll break your heart in two months. Been there. Done that. Not worth. Just say it now if you want the pussy but not**** eat it too Just saying. A real. Person. Now. Then. If But Now Then If Now Etc Ownup And like whatyoureallywant. Honest (redditfail)
EmSeeElRoy 6y ago
I had a chick once grinding on top of me with no top on while my dick was hard and she said "I don't know if we should have sex"
Enough said
Rollo_Mayhem3 6y ago
I mean that's par for the course, there are terms for this behavior. Lmr or asd. It it what it is.
Luckylancer96 6y ago
I dont think it was shit test. It must be joke xD
Metalageddon 6y ago
Welp. She's thinking about it. That means it's time to do it. (Often past time to do it actually)
empatheticapathetic 6y ago
I hope he had her sign the consent form first.
Mr-Ed209 6y ago
I remember when I used to let the girl take charge of sex. It just ends up boring and neither of you enjoy it very much. One thing my ex used to do was get handsy in missionary and just generally grab my head/hair lol. I remember getting sort of angry and telling her 'get the fuck off' and just grabbing her hands and pinning them to the bed while going at it. She seemed to love that.
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How do I know Im not raping her?
BluepillProfessor 6y ago
Don't worry, she will let you know later. If she cums like a racehorse but the police show up at your house then you raped her. If she cries because it hurt so bad and you refused to stop but she makes you breakfast then it is all good.
I really think the fact that you push past her bitch shields and LMR and fuck her makes her horny because it makes you vulnerable to a rape charge. They get wet as fuck because they get a brief surge of power knowing you have put it on the line for a chance at her body and they can now fuck you over any time they choose.
Cynical? Maybe. Maybe not.
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This gets complicated and it's why I pass on a lot of bitches. Louis CK had a good bit on this where he accuses this woman of expecting him to preemptively rape her in the event that she likes it after saying "no". It's hilarious and true RP.
When I was younger a lot of "no" turned into "OMG OMG IM COMING" these days when I hear no I kick them out. No second chances, get the fuck out. What if she's crazy? What if she's recording the audio with her phone? I'm not fucking going to jail. I get less pussy but as my cop friend says "that pussy is not worth your freedom".
bornredd 6y ago
When I was young, my rule was 3 "no's" and I am done.
If I attempted to escalate and got a no, back off and start again, escalate harder. 2nd no, same deal.
3rd no, and she needs to leave.
Of girls who have any "no's", maybe 50% didn't hit 3. Of the ones that said it 3 times, 9 out of 10 were back same night or next day with all "yes".
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I understand your strategy and absent the current social climate I'd have nothing to add. Given the way things are playing out publicly for many men and how their lives are being destroyed I'd say you're playing with fire.
bornredd 6y ago
Married now for over a decade and happy about it, but thanks.
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My thoughts exactly. Not risking my entire life and career just to give a bitch a better fuck
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just wondering, do any of them ever tend to ask for a second chance after hearing the GTFO? or do u just cut them off completely assuming they're ONS ?
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Most are just flat out stunned. Most have never been kicked out that quick.
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zuhbooze 6y ago
I can't be the only one where mid hump, bent over the couch, she turns around and asks, "Are you fucking anyone else?"
Moral of story, don't stick dick in crazy.
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"Hell yeah. I'm fucking everyone else."
JoeStanTheIV 6y ago
One time a girl was texting while I was fucking her lol Idk if thats a shit test or my stroke was just that weak
TehJimmyy 6y ago
The fuck man. That seems so disrespectful.I would pump her harder if she did that.
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Regardless of weak stroke or not, that was a shit test.
The only correct answer to this is get aggressive as fuck. Rip the phone out of her hands and toss it, wrap your hand around her neck, look intensely into her eyes and go as hard as you can. Maybe give her a slap to the face if she's into that.
wheresMYsteakAt 6y ago
I'm not going to lie the only time that has ever happened to me was in a mexican whore house and even then it pissed me off a little.
dr_warlock 6y ago
Next client. She's been fucked so many times with such little breaks in between that sex isnt really pleasurable anymore. Feels like a job.
wheresMYsteakAt 6y ago
Ah shit, forgot about backpage. Ok, what I meant to say was "the only times that has happened before was with whores" but in terms of the mexican whorehouse this is a real one; her next clients are mexicans sitting in the front room on the couch holding pocker chips/crayons/whatever token the house was using that night. At least with backpage I know it's the next client or crack dealer but this chick was probably talking to her mother back in Mexico or something.
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Zweihander747 6y ago
If mod can please put 'field report' flair on this, as dont seem to be able to from the app
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BobbyPeru 6y ago
This. Not sure why guys want to label everything a shit test. Way too much overthinking.
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Zweihander747 6y ago
Figured someone would say this but takeaway from this post was that whilst she kept offering resistance here and there it was clear at the end these were false flags and she wanted me to override her and make her submit.
We know all women do this, I'm just reminding you the shit tests can still happen even whilst fucking her when you've supposedly passed all the tests. Remember the price for being on top is eternal vigilance.
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Vincent_Marcus 6y ago
Then why would she say she liked it after he did the opposite?
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