You don't get worried about sexual assault / rape accusation from being too dominant? I can see this going well from anytime after the first time, but it's risky to push for things she doesn't verbally want to do. I mean unless you give her comfort after sex but just seems too risky.

before I fuck need to get my dick wet, so tell her "come eat my dick", she responds "just fuck me", so I repeat what I said more firmly and then she kinda groans and gives me a "Do I have to?" look.

Why do you even want to have a woman suck your dick against her will?

Doing mish and I'm pinning her legs back to her face so easier to get deeper. A few times she tries to pull my hands away or tells me to let go so her legs can come down bc she likes it that way more. Thats fine except way she wants it fucks up my stroke, and I cant fuck her good.

You're a man, you should be able to master most positions so you don't have to bend your bitch like a piece of origamy.

Finally, she riding me cowgirl and I put my hands on her ass and spread her ass to get deeper. She tells me "take your hands off, i wanna do it myself". Again I ignore, then I shit you not, not even 5 minutes later she's telling me "I love way you're spreading me open"

Because she just wants you to cum faster and get it over with. This is not shit testing, it's a woman that actually doesn't want to fuck you but does so against her desire just to shut you up. If a woman truly wants you, she will suck your balls through your dickhole and ride you like there's no tomorrow, or beg you to slam her into 7th heaven.

Everyone and everything around will shit test you if you have low smv. You cat, your drawer, your bed, your socks, you meal. Even when you're sleeping you can't let your guard down - your bed will 100% shit-test you if you break frame.

Much of women's sexual arousal is only activated when you ignore resistance or 'consent'. Everyone is taught the exact opposite and then women punish you for it (no sex) if you fail to understand it while complaining there's no real men anymore. They are not aware of it and will never admit it because the entire point of putting up faux resistance is to see that the man truly doesnt care about it. He cant know it's a test overtly.

True. I once had a woman try to slip a finger in my ass during sex. Kicked her the fuck out of apartment. Went out of her way to bring me lunch at work and suck me off later three days in a row. Never initiated contact again. Stalked me on FB for another 6 months until she moved to another state. Found out later she set her apartment on fire because her landlord pissed her off. Bitches are sick. Be careful out there and take zero shit.

If you fuck her in the ass she might shit test you...

How can anyone keep it going for so long? How can anyone deflect shit tests for ever?

Girls are weird.

A plate the the other day told me not to cum inside of her, then when I told her I had to cum, she locked her legs around me.

Agreed. I had a girl in bed after we clearly talked about fucking. We are both naked in bed. I say ok "now go down on me" she replies "oh you pig." As if I committed a crime. Anyway I held true, I said well you wanted me to fuck so suck, so groans, and then sucks me. That's the lesson. Hold firm and they'll obey.

1 hour in, 1 month in, 1 year in. When things are going good, when things are going bad. Shit tests never end.

The only things that changes is your frame and ability to deal with them.

In this particular case you knew she was in the mood for sex and she enjoys being used roughly, so it was like a joke to you. You knew she was going to blow you, so you didn't second guess yourself. It's not always such a cut and dry example. When you're at a weak moment, when you're unsure of yourself... that's why you don't have weak moments. That's why you're never unsure of yourself. Not if you want a healthy relationship.

So about 2-3 weeks ago, I went on a date with this girl I re-initiated.When I re-initiated, she basically told me she was a hoe back when we initially spoke, but now she's reformed blah blah blah(mind you, this is just 3 or 4 months later). Read my previous conversation with her (that I saved in Snapchat) and I immediately saw why we never met up in the first place: I was failing her shit tests.

So I just texted her, passed all her shit tests and setup a date. I'm not saving any of the messages, she's saving them. Go on the date, we watch Atomic Blonde. I didn't understand the plot at all because I was more focused on physically escalating. At some point, she straight up tells me we're not making out during the movie. Escalate by grabbing her face and turning her head my direction. Then I let go and look at the screen. A while later, the movie ends. We leave and by this point, my hands have been all over her body in the theater.

Get to my car in an isolated part of the parking lot and we start making out hard as fuck. I haven't had a good make out in a while, so that really got me started and I'm escalating. She tries to stop me and says "We need to leave something for the second date" or something stupid like that. A second later, resume make out. Now I'm taking off her top and I just keep escalating, despite her trying to stop things once or twice again "It's late,blah blah blah". Just kept escalating and removing clothes

"Do you have a condom?"

I had a chick once grinding on top of me with no top on while my dick was hard and she said "I don't know if we should have sex"

Enough said

I remember when I used to let the girl take charge of sex. It just ends up boring and neither of you enjoy it very much. One thing my ex used to do was get handsy in missionary and just generally grab my head/hair lol. I remember getting sort of angry and telling her 'get the fuck off' and just grabbing her hands and pinning them to the bed while going at it. She seemed to love that.

How do I know Im not raping her?

I can't be the only one where mid hump, bent over the couch, she turns around and asks, "Are you fucking anyone else?"

Moral of story, don't stick dick in crazy.

One time a girl was texting while I was fucking her lol Idk if thats a shit test or my stroke was just that weak

If mod can please put 'field report' flair on this, as dont seem to be able to from the app