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bigtuna45

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Today I realized how big of a disadvantage 80% guys are at on Tinder.

I myself don't use the app, but today I was on the bus and saw a girl on the bus using the app. This girl is a solid 6.5 - 7; about 25% bf, cute face, decent body, around 28. I saw her open the tinder app and expected her to start reading each profile (BP programming still at play "looks don't matter"). What I saw was the complete opposite.

With a smile on her face she quickly started swiping left. I was shocked then I thought I would start counting. She literally swiped left on 23 guys before the swiped right on one, and matched him. Instantly, she sends him a message and goes back to her inbox which is full. After all that, she went back and read his profile.....

Remember guys: 1) Be attractive and 2) Don't be unattractive!

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seanlarson 8y ago

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seanlarson 8y ago

Tinder works best in THIS type of city (Backed by statistics)

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The biggest and most important concept in dating that so many men just don’t understand is the concept of supply and demand.

I am a big supporter of the idea that dating is essentially a business and getting laid is kind of like making sales in a business. A crucial factor in determining whether your business (dating life) will be successful is to first look at supply and demand.

Let’s analyze your city (where you are currently living) for a minute.

Ask yourself: Are there actually enough women living around me such that meeting them via mobile dating apps / online dating sites would be possible?

The answer to this question is of HUGE importance in whether you’ll be successful with Tinder vs whether you’ll waste 3 months chasing fake bots disguised as hot women. Trust me… we at Hookups On Autopilot know… we’ve tested it.

Do this exercise for me right now… I want you to go to Google and search the following exact phrase:

“Wikipedia [your city name] population”

For example, for my city of New York, I searched:

“Wikipedia New York, NY population”

Here is what I saw in google search results:

[img]http://hookupsonautopilot.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Capture.png

Click on the Wikipedia article and you will get a good idea of how many people are in your city…

[img]http://hookupsonautopilot.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Capture2.png

Alright… so on the right side of the Wikipedia article on my city, the first thing to check is the metro population, which is just over 20 million people. I can see that the city itself has a population of around 8.5 million people. And the next most important thing for me to look at is the population density, which we can see is 28K people per square mile. Keep in mind that the population density here is the density of people within a mile of each other throughout the entire state (not just the city). Your city’s population could be higher or lower. For the purposes of Tinder, a higher city population density is much better.

The next thing we want to look at is the male to female ratio and the age groups of the city that we live in, so go to google and search:

“[Your city] male to female ratio”

[img]http://hookupsonautopilot.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Capture3.png

The first result shows me that currently the population consists of 53% women, and 47% men. For Tinder, you want a higher female population than male population. This makes NYC a winner since a majority of people in NYC are female.

Now the final thing to look at is the age group and how many of the women in NYC are within the age range that I would possibly hook up with. Let’s find that out now… Go to Google and search for:

“[Your city] Age demographics”

For my search, I came across an excellent resource and here is a screenshot of my findings:

[img]http://hookupsonautopilot.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Capture4.png

(Source: http://www.baruch.cuny.edu/nycdata/population-geography/age_distribution.htm)

Now that we have all the data gathered, let’s make some quick calculations:

If I live in Manhattan and my goal is to meet girls who are age 18 to 39, then how many women will I have access to (in the best case scenario)?

**Use this formula:

TOTAL CITY POPULATION x (PERCENTAGE OF FEMALES/100) x (COMBINED AGE PERCENTAGES/100) = TOTAL WOMEN AVAILABLE IN YOUR CITY**

In my case, this comes out to:

8,550,405 x (53%/100) x ((7.1%+9.4%+8.5%+7.3%)/100) = ???

8,550,405 x (53%/100) x (32.3%/100) = ???

8,550,405 x (0.53) x (0.323) = 1,463,743

So, basically I have almost 1.5 million women to choose from who live around me (near enough to drive to me to meet up for a date).

Now, it is not likely that all 1.5 million of these women have Tinder installed in their phones. But, it IS likely that they have at least one of the many dating apps currently available installed on their phone. This is why I highly recommend downloading like 5+ different dating apps and using programming software to have your computer swipe right on girls and match with girls while you sit back, relax, and drink a smoothie or something.

Let’s go a bit further in our analysis and we will soon realize that a certain percentage of the girls who ARE using a dating app are ugly, fat, or unattractive, but there is no way to know statistically how many girls are ugly. This is why I recommend getting an auto-swiper and swiping all the girls within 25 to 50 miles of you and just letting the matches trickle in. Then, YOU can be the selector and CHOOSE which girls you want to go out with, and which girls YOU want to ignore.

Side Note: Men who are extremely attractive want to avoid swiping right on every girl because that would result in 10,000+ matches and it would be hard to sort through the girls at that point, but if you are an average guy who has made a big effort to max out your looks, you should be swiping right on every girl because chances are you still will not be getting 10,000+ matches like a male model would.

What to do if you live in a city smaller than 1 million people and you want to use online dating to meet women:

As I mentioned in the last paragraph. NOT EVERY girl who lives in your city is going to have 1 specific dating app installed on her phone. In order to be able to have a shot with every girl in your small city, you should install every dating app that your city is known to use. For example: in my hometown of Columbus, Ohio, a lot of girls also use Okcupid and POF. So, in order to have access to the most amount of girls possible in the city of Columbus (which only has a 700,000 population BTW) I would download Tinder + Okcupid + POF + many other apps, and start auto-swiping using my computer and just set everything on autopilot. Then I would come back a few days later, and start messaging girls who matched with me and whom I am interested in.

What to do if you live in bumble-fuck Kansas:

Stop reading the stuff I have on this site regarding dating apps and online dating. That stuff will most likely not work for you, because you need a population of at least 1 million people living around you in order for dating apps / online dating to work.

City Population is Inversely Proportional to Your Required SMV when it comes to online dating:

What does that mean?

It means that the lower the population of the city that you live in, the higher your sexual market value needs to be in order to get laid with the hottest girls in that city.

This is great because it essentially means that you don’t have to have model looks to bang models in big cities.

However, if you live in a small city and you look average… even if you max out your looks and try to be the best version of yourself, you may fall short because the atmosphere is more competitive there. The demand is high and the supply of women is short. Hence, a small group of men with good looks are usually banging all the super-hot girls in that small city.

Moral of the story: Don’t limit yourself by living in a small city. Move to a big city and have great logistics and you will be able to sit on your ass and get laid with models off of a cheap dating app like Tinder (even if you’re just an average looking guy).

Big P.S. You will still need the texting skills and physical escalation skills to close the girls you meet up with in big cities. Don’t become egotistical and start thinking that just because you’re above average looking, you have a goldmine, because you don’t. Why do you think good looking men still have trouble getting laid despite getting tons of matches on Tinder? (Trust me, it’s a holistic skill that I can help you attain, if you join me in my e-mail newsletter. Subscribe now and I will show you how to attain the entire skillset, from A to Z)

justinjj1 8y ago

I'm not great looking, but I'm not bad either. I'm probably top 33% maybe, and I had tons of luck on Tinder in the one year I was on it. I had sex with 20 women from it, and could have had even more if I didn't date some of them for periods of time. It's pretty goddamn simple, swipe right on every one and talk to the ones you want, don't be a douche (never talk about sex), tell them where to meet you, escalate things hard on the first date, and then invite them back to your place and fuck them hard. I never had much much dating luck prior to Tinder, but it made it so fucking easy for me. I read about all these guys having such a hard time on there, but I'm pretty average and it worked like a charm for me.

CraigAchilles 8y ago

It's tinder, I do exactly the same thing she does ( maybe not to the same volume as her). What do you expect on an an app where you judge based on a photo?

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Not to mention, physical attractiveness is only a green light.

So many dudes have pathetic self-defeating perspectives in life.. Low self-esteem, and crappy loser attitudes that just set themselves up for failure or a thirsty AF desperate position.

On the front page is a cool graphic design addressing obesity in America. Reading some of the comments in that thread really made me cringe and face palm. So many fat losers saying "it's just too hard though!" Fuck.

Folks, we truly are blessed to have this community. The vast majority of men out there are losers. Today is the best and most advantageous time to be a red pill guy.

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Galactic-Unicorn 8y ago

This needs to be higher up. I keep seeing so many men that should be doing better.

Qualified doctors with almost no self esteem. That medical degree didn't drop out of the sky into their laps, yet they are still BP.

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Lots of people go to med school out of societal pressure from family and general expectation of being a provider. If someone pursues higher education for these reasons theyre still blue no matter how booksmart they are.

Go to medical school because you are passionate about what it is you're studying and want to help people.. Not just for comfortable living. Go to music school if you're passionate about music. Go study physics if you want to be a physicist or whatever it is you can apply that to that you're passionate about.

If you're passionate about something, that means that its the path nature designed you for. It's your responsibility to figure out how to make money at it.

The people you hear about whining "useless degree" are jackasses who put no effort into their studies or they're just getting beat out by the competition. The guys who are winning that competition are red-pill types of guys. Winners and go-getters.. The "useless degree" whiners are the types of guys who are still plugged in; expecting someone to just go "HERE YOU GO ONE FREE JOB WRITING SCRIPTS FOR GAME OF THRONES. YOU WORKED REALLY HARD TO EARN THAT 2.7 GPA IN CREATIVE WRITING BILLY HERE'S YOUR DREAM JOB NOW!"

Galactic-Unicorn 8y ago

This is where my general rule of not socialising much with colleagues shows its head.

You make some good points. The number of BP men out there is frightening.

ITSTIMETOSKIP 8y ago

Most of those guys look like shit, dress like shit, take bathroom selfies and have the personality of an empty Tupperware container.

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but Tupperware comes with a lifetime warranty.

FCBLegacy 8y ago

A lot of girls look like shit, dress like shit, take bathroom selfies and have the personality of an ogre. But they still get matched with higher SMV men.

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ponkyol 8y ago

Women can punch way above their weight for casual sex.

Aiadon 8y ago

It's because men can get pregnant how many women accept them wheneveve they accept them while women can only get pregnant with one person at a time. I know that mostly people fuck for fun and sue protection in our days but until now, but this is just recent so in the minds of men is coded: fuck many beautiful women while in the mind of women is coded: fuck only the best.

LexaBinsr 8y ago

Please. You can't be this delusional.

Why would higher SMV men be interested in low SMV women when they have so many options? The only people interested in them are not high SMV men because they are busy with high SMV women.

That's like a millionaire buying an old Nokia phone instead of some new high tech crap.

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That's just the order of things though, while guys have no problem dipping below their SMV to get their dick wet, women aren't going to do that.

Women have a finite amount of eggs for reproduction, so subconsciously from a biological perspective, she's searching for the best seed she can get for her eggs. Even if her intention is not to get pregnant, that's still the programming operating to vet for attractiveness.

Usually low quality chicks who do score a chad get a really stupid chad who probably has like a chinese letter tattooed on his neck that means "air" or some shit and wears those tacky kohl's plaid shorts.

joeyjojosharknado 8y ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bateman%27s_principle

Biological reality.

[deleted] 8y ago

I totally expected some Patrick Bateman quotes.

LordThunderbolt 8y ago

Pussy is on high demand my man.

vagbutters 8y ago

This is it-- we live in a feminized society where men are largely effiminate beta bitched. This has driven the price of pussy sky-high. But as the misandry bubble grows, the tides will shift and drive it way back down.

joeyjojosharknado 8y ago

we live in a feminized society where men are largely effiminate beta bitched

And you know, I totally get why women have pushed for this, simply because it's beneficial to them. That actually makes sense. The truly sad and illogical thing is how the beta pussies have happily marched to their own obsolescence. The greatest trick the she-devil ever pulled was convincing men to willingly cut their own balls off.

cat_magnet 8y ago

Its still easier to get laid now then any other time in history.

seattleron 8y ago

Its still easier to get laid now then any other time in history.

Even easier than the 60's where everyone had to go outside and free love was the rage?

Old guys, chime in.

clockwork_blue 8y ago

How are you sure about that? From what I heard, getting pussy in the old days was not much harder, especially with more people not being stuck in their homes imagining false scenarios. Even more so with the lack of social media, people had to actually see IRL, and your average Joe had an increased chance of getting his dick wet, because of the lack of tens of white knights putting the pussy on a pedestal at the same time.

cat_magnet 8y ago

Yea true. I find it pretty easy using dating apps. In my early 20s I didnt really have the confidence to approach girls a d I was overweight. I always still had girlfriends but just seems so easy these days. Im a fairly average guy (high income, normal weight) but regularly spin 3 or 4 plates. So might not be the times I guess I was just beta and it seemed hard.

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boredepression 8y ago

3) Lift like you life depends on it

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slay_it_forward 8y ago

Or stop being a pussy and talk to women in real life. Approaching is the only leverage we have.

Fraffrilla 8y ago

really? You think that losing weight and putting on muscles is the solution? What about the bone structure? No matter how much you lift in the gym, if you have an ugly face, short legs, you are a lost case. I really don't understand this emphasis on losing weight. Have you ever considered that there are very ugly people who happen to be thin and in shape?

SetConsumes 8y ago

Game. Attitude. Confidence. Ambition. Success. Have these things.

Unless you're literally repulsive your looks don't make you unfuckable.

yomo86 8y ago

Never lift to appeal to someone. Gains are a wonderful reward system not female attention.

Believe me Tinder is used by the top 20 in a more degrading way than women ever will. Why? Because every man knows that there is an end to things; that women do not care about personality - and there is not romantic feeling involved.

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prodigy2throw 8y ago

And don't be disgusting curl bro. Aesthetics is what makes girls soak.

casemodsalt 8y ago

Looking like some circus freak won't get you laid. Your face and personality will.

maxbrooksmacbook 8y ago

I do bjj and I think lifting because my life depends on it is a reality.

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mjmqc 8y ago

So true, I used to be a skinny fat virgin gamer; now chicks dream about my body and having me in their bed.

Truth is: I'm still that gamer guy inside, but I'm smarter and act much more like a leader/alpha than before.

Oh and btw, the fitter the better for male mates too; they'll respect you much more when you're fit.

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SetConsumes 8y ago

It makes sense, but hearing men respect you because you're more fit can be a surprise at first.

aanarchist 8y ago

why, so i get a shot with some used up 6.5 pussy? go ahead and have my share bro

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lol yeah, if you're doing all that work just to get tindr whores, it's pretty goddamn sad. I dunno, i'd personally rather enjoy life with a good, fit body than kill myself for abs in order to succed on tindr. The truth is that most of the girls on Tindr WILL be responsive to you off the app, assuming you're fit and toned while having decent game. I dunno, im not feeling the abs for tindr thing either

aanarchist 8y ago

the core of trp is self respect, self mastery. the truth is, most of the red pill betas are doing exactly the same thing when they were still blue pills, pandering to women's expectations hoping to get some low quality pussy. congrats bros you finally playing by the new rules, but you're still a simp, still a slave.

don't like lifting 5x a week and dieting down to 8%? fuck it then, do what you feel is best for you, that's how you become a strong and ultimately an attractive man. i like lifting myself, deadlifts are life, but these tumblrinas we've got hanging in the red pill going LIFT LIFT LIFT is enough to make me consider quitting lol, they kill whatever meaning the barbell has, and completely miss the point of fitness and strength.

Fraffrilla 8y ago

I am a woman and I hate most women. However, I have to say that what I read here is simply stupid. The advice you keep giving people to lift weights. Trust me, there is much more than that. If someone is ugly, with bad teeth, a small head (I hate men with small heads and faces) no matter how much weight he lifts, if his bone structure is fucked up, he will still be unattractive.

RenaissanceMan79 8y ago

you can't lift past bad genetics... AWALT

bornredd 8y ago

Some people need a motivator to get them through the beginning until the iron teaches the the real lesson:

Struggle makes the man.

In that case, I have NO problem with dudes lifting to land girls. They'll learn the truth once they get into it and stick with it.

aanarchist 8y ago

based on what i've seen they generally don't. they get laid a few times and become gym rats. their life becomes another rut except sometimes they get laid now.

bornredd 8y ago

Maybe not, but what percentage need to succeed to be happy with progress? 1%? 10%? 50%?

LexaBinsr 8y ago

You are absolutely right but the thing is you can't really self respect yourself and find any worth if you do not actually exercise*. You can lie to yourself and be a bitch about it or you can just keep doing what you are doing not for anyone else BUT YOU. Lifting is a big part of it all and you shouldn't stop by no means.

(yes, I prefer to use the term exercise/work out because people just saying lift i imagine those buff dudes with chicken legs.. cardio is important too).

aanarchist 8y ago

yes you can actually. there's plenty of guys who don't lift and they are living life on their own terms, achieving their goals, living their dreams. some of them are pudgy or have noodle arms, and that's because they don't give a shit about what people and women especially think about them, they have more important things to worry about.

lifting is not a big part of it all, it is a part, and one that you can decide for yourself if it is a part you want or not.

this is an unpopular opinion, but the blue pills who took the red pill are becoming slaves of the red pill. if the red pill doesn't work the way they want it to, they then move on and become slave to a new master, a new label, a new mantra.

i'm not saying don't lift to spite trp, i'm saying don't be a slave.

when trps say lift, i imagine a beta, because they are beta, they are parroting things they have been told by the red pill. most of them don't lift because they enjoy it, they don't care about it because it's good for them. they do it because they've noticed it gets them more pussy. that's the most fucking pathetic thing i have ever heard, because they've been shown a window to freedom, and choose to be a slave to another master instead.

the red pill is a metaphor for freedom, but what people have done to it over the years is make it another prison, because they wouldn't know what to do with freedom if they had it, because all their life they've been following orders, they aren't capable of making their own choices, "the red pill" makes it for them: "lift, plate, awalt, frame" bawk bawk repeat. most of them still don't understand the true meaning of performing a deadlift, the value and significance behind the movement, they still don't understand the meaning of frame and the significance or value of it. they just do as they're told, they are in the 80% who just happen to be higher up on the chain than sjw cucks. i guess if that's their lot in life then so be it. real alpha men will know better than to throw in their lot with them, except to use them for all they're worth.

LexaBinsr 8y ago

I am a personal believer that you can't feel good about yourself if you do not lift or exercise in general but maybe that is just me. Put those pudgy noodle arms "self respecting" people up near buff dudes with strong firm bodies and you will notice how insecure they are gonna get from 0 - 100. That "idgaf" frame is going to be crushed fast and they will feel jealousy and spite and lack of worth which are all the traits of a bitch. If you were lifting and you looked great then you wouldn't feel those things. You'd think "good on you man, you work on yourself and that is awesome" instead of silently hating yourself wishing you looked like that. Reminds me of this quote.

Deadlifts, jogging, benching, cardio, leg day, any physical activity is really necessary if you want to be the best version of yourself. Neglect some or any of those and you will be wishing in some time that you'd be doing it sooner. Tho I do agree about people repeating stuff like a parrot, it is annoying to me, too. Last two paragraphs were spot on.

PS: Dgaf attitude works to an extent. You can't go overboard extreme on it but just some is fine. Look at HAES fat slobs. Look at hobos and homeless people. Those are all "DGAF" that were taken to an extreme length. You need to look good, dress great, have a job and smell nice because whether you like it or not you interact with humans on a day to day basis. People on here, they give a fuck, but to an extent. Otherwise they wouldn't care about personal apperance. Everyone gives some fucks, they just lie if they say they don't.

aanarchist 8y ago

idk where you're getting jealousy and spite from, projection is a woman's thing. it's like yes we'd all like to look awesome, but for some it's just not a priority to them. male nature is to accept and appreciate himself as he is, the blue pill is all about making you zoom in on whatever "deficiencies you have and being insecure about them, the red pill is about accepting yourself as you are. strive for improvement yes, but understand that who you are at this very moment has value, and you as you are at this very moment could get pussy if you wanted it, from women who aren't porkers.

you make great points. extremes are always bad. don't be a needy bitch, but also don't be so idgaf that you piss your pants cuz you're too cool for the toilet. that's some hobo shit right there rofl.

it always goes both ways. guys need to realize that there's a difference between self acceptance/self love and sloth, gluttony, laziness. they also need to understand the difference between working hard towards a worthy goal, and trying to compensate because you feel like you aren't good enough.

i was once at a point where i tried doing steroid bodybuilders workout routine cuz i felt i wasn't trying hard enough to make my gains(i had gained like 10 lbs in the previous 8 months doing standard routines 3x a week). that tryhard mentality led to an injury, and it came from me not accepting myself and appreciating my already impressive progress, i needed more more more. i was already getting compliments on my body but it wasn't enough for me. all it woulda take was a slight shift in mentality and you have an alpha badass as opposed to an insecure beta. love yourself. trp never says it, but it's like the root of the issue, you have to love yourself right now, with no price tag or goal post attached to that love.

[deleted] 8y ago

there are other viable looks other than buff though. I have friends who absolutely slay within their niche and being buff doesn't matter

LexaBinsr 8y ago

It doesn't matter but it helps a lot.

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mehdreamer 8y ago

haha...Was thinking the same. These tinder bitches are not worth it. Day game 8's

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LexaBinsr 8y ago

If you do not exercise/lift that "used up 6.5 pussy" is going to look like heavensent.

That is a pretty toxic mindset to have and you should honestly get rid of it. You work out to improve yourself; the rest will come to you.

The whole point of it is having options. The less attractive you are the less options you have.

aanarchist 8y ago

you should check your own mindset, if you have the balls for it. it's always the same shit, hurr you don't lift? no shitlord, i do lift, and my work ethic and approach towards lifting is superior to yours. i don't do it for the pussy like you do, i do it because it makes me better. then again pussy is a great motivator for a beta, so who am i to judge, the end matters more than the journey or the experience, right?

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FCBLegacy 8y ago

I like where you were going with this but you ended up sounding trollish by the end of the paragraph.

aanarchist 8y ago

sorry forgot to add i like turtles at the end there. i should start saying retarded shit at the end of my posts to get people out of the mindset of every post has to look a certain way to be valid. the words are supposed to make you think, not feel, and we have this neurotic obsession with feeling what people are saying rather than actually processing the data.

that's my frame, my underlying goal is i get to troll to my heart's content even in intellectual discussions.

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FCBLegacy 8y ago

You basically contradicted yourself by saying "the words are supposed to make you think, not feel." I'm sensing a lot of aggression from you. You can do whatever you want, I'm not stopping you. But consider what you say before "trolling to your heart's content." No offense.

aanarchist 8y ago

0 aggression dude, none. i'm just telling it how i see it. just cuz i make snarky jokes does not make me a bad person, ya cis white pig :)

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stay_anon_stay_safe 8y ago

your air of superiority is pure faggotry, whatever gay ass reason you have for lifting, which you may call "self improvement" but probably u just meant to say "dick", is no better than whoever lifts for pussy.

aanarchist 8y ago

you ok brah? why the amog attempt? did i strike a deep nerve that you didn't want to address? there's no air of superiority, i'm simply stating truths, the truth always tends to extract a person's anger.

stay_anon_stay_safe 8y ago

amog attempt? im just calling you out for being a fag since you believe you are so above anyone that lifts to get laid

aanarchist 8y ago

Call out deez nuts in your mouth.

Btw feminism wants you to bicker with other men.

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bigtuna45 8y ago

and more importantly, lose fat like your life depends on it! For years I have been hiding behind the stupid excuse of not wanting to lose my muscle and would rather be strong. Sure, it attracts some girls but I know the really hot ones want abs!

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[deleted] 8y ago

And sleep decent. I run half marathons with some bodyweight training in between. Ever since I hit that 15% Body fat, girls think im special. But today I barely slept and im not getting those looks at me. Just treat your body well, that's the first step in becoming happy in this world. Even my gf wants me to fuck other girls so she knows she's dating the alpha she wants. Just running and losing fat and getting that healthy look does wonders.

[deleted] 8y ago

These last 15-20 lbs are pretty fucking resilient. Any tips for that last bit of fat before the abs start to shine?

mightysultan 8y ago

First, Keto. After you're adapted, start intermitent fasting WHILE RESPECTING KETO - and exercise during the fast.

When you are comfortable with fasting, start warrior diet WHILE RESPECTING KETO.

Keep in mind that Keto is way more effective if you do it 100% sugar and starch free, which means you don't eat even fruits or sweet-potatoes/carrots.

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SetConsumes 8y ago

Fasted cardio, more conditioning.

RedDeadlift 8y ago

Avoid sugar, artificial sweeteners, and simple carbs like bread and pasta. Eat mostly meat and vegetables.

Most importantly, do not drink anything sweetened. It spikes your insulin and turns your body into a fat storing machine.

Drink: water, milk (unsweetened almond if you don't do dairy), and coffee or tea for energy.

Drink hard liquor on the rocks. No beer or wine.

Esthermont 8y ago

Isn't the calories in hard liquor about the same as in beer and wine? Liquor is very calorie dense, hence why it burns well

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Jax77789 8y ago

Also keep you workout sessions at max 45 minutes. After that anti-T hormones take over.

ransay3277 8y ago

I agree, I gave up all sweetened drinks for water and lost 10 pounds. I altered nothing else.

RedDeadlift 8y ago

Right? Results don't lie. The results I've seen in my physique from strictly cutting sweets from my diet are amazing. The best part is that after awhile, I don't even want anything sweet. Normal whole foods taste much better.

bornredd 8y ago

Yup, dropped soda and lost 15 lbs in 2-3 months from that change alone.

Was 1/3 of my total weight loss - all because of sugar water.

DigitalDegenerate 8y ago

Is there problems with drinking hemp milk?

Themeparkmaker 8y ago

Hemp milk? Damn yall are fucking inventive withe that shit

RedDeadlift 8y ago

No. Hemp milk is another good alternative.

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welcome_to 8y ago

But I caaaaant stop drinking beer

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vagbutters 8y ago

Either stop being a little bitch who's addicted to his passions or suffer the consequences that come along with being an addict. You know where the successful guys fall on this line.

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limit yourself to light beers or something. Or have a couple as a rare treat. Honestly, drinking beer is the worst fucking thing you can do

Cum_on_doorknob 8y ago

Get a shot of Naltrexone every month, bye bye beer cravings.

getRedPill 8y ago

A few questions:

What about oats?
What's your opinion on eating fruits and natural fruit unsweetened juices?
Would you still consume honey –not artificial syrup, but real honey.

Thanks for advices.

TheTrenTrain 8y ago

Pats are fine

Fruits have a lot of sugar in them (they are called nature's dessert for a reason), fruit juices are also laden with sugar... As is honey.

If you are dying for fruit, id suggest strawberries (low calorie) or pineapple (pre-workout only).

RedDeadlift 8y ago

Good questions.

Steel cut oats (unsweetened, unprocessed oatmeal) is great for you. Especially good for breakfast in addition to eggs.

Fruits are okay in moderation. When you eat whole fruit, you eat the skin, which is high in fiber and slows the sugar absorption.

Fruit juice is not good for you. Even if it doesn't have added sweetener. This is because with fruit juice, you are consuming all the fruit sugar but none of the fiber so you'll get a sugar rush followed by a crash.

I don't consume honey, it'll have a similar effect as raw sugar. Maybe consider it as a slightly better alternative to wean you off sweets. But try to give it up in the long term.

Igetitnow2 8y ago

I have trouble hitting my carb macro(300g or more) without juice or honey. I guess I'll try oats, though it seems like everytime I find something to add I read somewhere else that it's not good.

SMKS 8y ago

I used to consume sugary food without fail every day. Loved chocolate with a passion. I've cut out all of this (somehow) for months now and I feel so much better, and I don't really crave chocolate anymore. I've trimmed so well (I also go to the gym now) so bulking up nicely.

RedDeadlift 8y ago

Yup. People think you need to do a ton of cardio. Not unless you're seriously overweight. I just lift a few days a week and don't eat sweets and I've been able to maintain a nice six pack with relative ease for years now.

Hang10Dude 8y ago

Can I ask your age, and if age has had any effect on this?

RedDeadlift 8y ago

I'm 32 years old. I used to run and lift. Now I just lift intensely and eat clean. When I lift, I go for an hour and don't rest much between sets (except for deadlift, squat, and bench). Keeps my heart rate up. I'm in better shape now than in my 20s.

I know a lot of people really into long distance running, biking, etc., and many have bellies and frail looking limbs. It's great they do what they enjoy but I prefer the build I have. In my experience, short intense workouts (lifting in particular) coupled with clean eating shreds fat much faster than cardio, but to each their own.

You make a good point about age. It'll be more difficult to maintain a six pack as I get older but abs mostly come from diet so it's still possible to keep them for a long time.

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Guess I'm on the right track. I drink diet Dr Pepper and I've had only 3 beers in the past two months.

lIlIIIlll 8y ago

Iirc Alcohol actually benefits the production of ketones, and provides a test spike if consumed after lifting.

I'll try to find some sources.

zintarweb 8y ago

On a philosophical level, artificial sweetener is NOT fine. Just as the artificial cooking fats are NOT fine, artificial food is NOT fine.

On a research level, here's an interesting one. Artificial sweeteners may change the gut flora to increase risk of diabeetus: http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2014/10/01/artificial-sweeteners-raise-diabetes-risk.aspx

High FAT, moderate protein and low carb is the way to go. Unless you live in poverty conditions and have forced restriction of calories. IE., can't afford animal fat and subsist on rice and potatoes.

Refined sugar, refined grain products, fruit juices and all other modern processed foods that distill and concentrate carbs are bad. Distillation and concentration of carbs is by definition, NOT moderation.

slay_it_forward 8y ago

1000 calories of sugar is not the same as 1000 calories of meat and vegetables....

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jcadsexfree 8y ago

Carbs in : carbs out is something the soft drink industry has pushed. You need to cut out sugar and reduce alcohol. The American Heart Association now recommends a minimal amount of sugar intake to reduce fat in the gut (visceral fat). The experts there show how sucrose is metabolized differently from plain carbs (glucose) and that's why sucrose may be harmful.

Sugar: the bitter truth which is a lecture from a leader in the American Heart Association.

seattleron 8y ago

Artificial sweeteners are fine. There has been no proven studies that show insulin spikes with artificial sweeteners in humans and it's a great way to add some sweets to an already restrictive diet.

Might be the most tested man made concoction ever. It basically does nothing bad to you. The amount of aspartame you have to consume to even start to show anything negative is basically impossible to consume.

Calories in, calories out. Drink whatever the fuck you want(excluding alcohol) as long as it fits your caloric goals. Obviously, I'd prefer water to save my calories for actual food, but you can lose weight either way. It just depends on how you decide to tackle the weight loss.

Yes. You can still lose weight if you drink beer. You can lose weight eating anything if you're in a deficit, but being smart about choices sure does make it a hell of a lot easier. I.e. eating 500 calories of chicken breast and broccoli rather than two 20z bottles of Mountain Dew.

Preferably no alcohol at all and if so, very moderated. Yeah, we can avoid drinking up too many calories by going with heavier ABV% drinks such as cuervo at 96 calories per 1.5oz and get pretty fucked up. However, alcohol does stall weight loss by making the metabolization of the alcohol a priority. This means that your body is now focusing on metabolizing that alcohol that you consumed rather than oxidizing your fat.

Another good one.

Ochreata 8y ago

Might be the most tested man made concoction ever. It basically does nothing bad to you. The amount of aspartame you have to consume to even start to show anything negative is basically impossible to consume.

Personally I don't rely too much on industry funded studies as opposed to independent ones.

Quote: ABSTRACT

Studies of aspartame in the peer reviewed medical literature were surveyed for funding source and study outcome. Of the 166 studies felt to have relevance for questions of human safety, 74 had Nutrasweet® industry related funding and 92 were independently funded. One hundred percent of the industry funded research attested to aspartame's safety, whereas 92% of the independently funded research identified a problem. A bibliography supplied by the Nutrasweet® Company included many studies of questionable validity and relevance, with multiple instances of the same study being cited up to 6 times. Questions are raised both about aspartame's safety and the broader issue of the appropriateness of industry sponsorship of medical research. Reference

pdpbigbang 8y ago

I disagree on drinking whatever the fuck you want. You're not getting ripped abs drinking coke all the time. Drinkable calories will go down easy and your body does not have to work hard to break them down (this includes blended smoothies or juices). This will leave access sugar calories that exceeds your body's needs and will turn into fat.

Cut out all drinks that has any shred of sugar. If you can't do it right away, do it slowly. Read the fucking nutrition labels and cut down on the amount of sugar you're drinking slowly. The goal is to cut out any drink that has sugar (maybe except milk). Don't shoot for mediocre. Shoot for excellence.

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I got ripped one year drinking a coke with dinner every night

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ANGRY_ATHEIST 8y ago

I believe there's a very good scientific argument for the paleo diet. 10,000 years ago (or even just 1000 years ago) man's diet was vastly different than it is today. We evolved over millions of years, so that time frame is really just a drop in the bucket when it comes to what our bodies have evolved to eat.

Think about it this way though, take two different scenarios: one, you eat nothing but steak and always eat until you're full; and two you eat nothing but doughnuts and always eat until you're full. What do you think the caloric difference would be between the two diets?

In my experience, carbs are "cheap" calories. They're not just cheap monetarily (1000 calories of carbs will cost you vastly less than 1000 calories of protein), but they're cheap in the sense that it's easier to eat more and they generally taste better. I tend to be a paleo evangelist because I lost 20lbs in 6 months by doing nothing other than eating paleo.

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ANGRY_ATHEIST 8y ago

One of the reasons I brought it up is because the "default" diet these days is very rich in carbs. Just being aware of that can make a huge impact.

We chant the "lift" mantra here at TRP, but it's really diet and exercise... what doctors have been telling us to do for years.

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7thAnvil 8y ago

It's also not as simple as you explain it. For example, calories in vs. calories burned is not that simple. There is a concept called net energy. If you were going to eat an extra 200 calories a day, would you choose a can of coke or carrots? Your body will use almost no calories to digest the coke. Your body will use almost as many calories to digest the carrots as you have taken in. Net calories provided AFTER DIGESTION is critical.

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7thAnvil 8y ago

Google net energy of food after digestion. The first result explains it. Net energy available to the body after converting the input (the actual food) to the usable output (glucose, etc.) is critical and not hard to understand. It make sense to me, it has worked for me, and it's supported by at least some authoritative sources.

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pdpbigbang 8y ago

So you must have a six pack. Can I see yours as a proof?

KurtMcGurt_ 8y ago

Basic science that was paid for by the food lobbyists? K, bruh.

PENIS__FINGERS 8y ago

Lmao sure thing it's science that is wrong

KurtMcGurt_ 8y ago

Are you denying the fact that the food industry has essentially created the eating habits of Americans and common knowledge of what is a "balanced meal"?

Research the history of the food pyramid, bruh.

RedDeadlift 8y ago

Artificial sweeteners are fine. There has been no proven studies that show insulin spikes with artificial sweeteners in humans and it's a great way to add some sweets to an already restrictive diet.

Artificial sweeteners may be used to wean you off of sweets in the short term, but I wouldn't take them for very long. Many studies have shown a rise in insulin over time. One such study in Israel in 2014 showed artificial sweeteners changed gut bacteria causing a rise in insulin (source).

Calories in, calories out. Drink whatever the fuck you want (excluding alcohol) as long as it fits your caloric goals.

The "calories in, calories out" is absolutely false. A lie sold by sugar industry funded scientists to keep their profits high. Go ahead and try to eat as many calories of lean meat, eggs, and vegetables you possibly can. It will be almost impossible to get fat. Different types of calories are metabolized differently and have vastly different effects on the body.

I highly recommend you look into work by Dr. Robert Lustig. Watch his TED talk here. Or if you have the time, watch his more thorough video on what sweeteners do to the body here. It's worth the 90 minutes.

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lIlIIIlll 8y ago

Okay, so 3 decades of research saying Sweetener has no adverse effects, vs one guy shilling his own diet regime. Hmmmmmm

seattleron 8y ago

One such study in Israel in 2014 showed artificial sweeteners changed gut bacteria causing a rise in insulin (source).

Extremely interesting. I have read that artificial sweeteners can kill good gut bacteria. What do you mean by changed?

The "calories in, calories out" is absolutely false. A lie sold by sugar industry funded scientists to keep their profits high. Go ahead and try to eat as many calories of lean meat, eggs, and vegetables you possibly can. It will be almost impossible to get fat. Different types of calories are metabolized differently and have vastly different effects on the body.

That's only because you get so full from the protein and fiber. You say go try and eat as many calories as you can from lean meats, eggs, and vegetables, but if you ignored your satiety and continued to eat to 1,000 calories over maintenance it won't matter what you eat, you will gain weight. The only positive with what you suggested is the increase in protein which will spare/create muscle.

There have been studies done on body composition that showed when calories and protein are constant, it didn't matter whether the rest of the calories other than protein were carbs or fat, body composition/fat loss was constant. Protein and calories are what matters, the rest is bullshit. Here's an article with multiple sources.

Nicolay77 8y ago

Actually, 'calories in, calories out' is quite the contrary, it is absolute truth.

The problem is that it is such an extreme oversimplification, that it doesn't help at all with fat loss or muscle gain, for all the reasons you stated.

Yes, pure calorie restriction will make people lose weight. But more often than not, that weight will be muscle instead of fat. Making the people more susceptible to get fatter if they eat just a little over their calorie consumption.

Calories in, calories out is a total failure because the ideal human state is not being just skin and bones but having healthy muscles, and because it requires an iron will that is better used for weight lifting.

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RedDeadlift 8y ago

I understand your point about total energy conservation.

I suppose I should have elaborated a bit. My point may be better stated as "it's not as simple as calorie in, calorie out". A calorie of soda will cause the body to do something completely different than a calorie from a whole food source. The body may store that calorie from soda as fat, and trigger other calories to be stored as fat as well, whereas the calorie from a whole food would be used to repair/build muscle or other key parts of the body.

Also, drinking a "zero calorie" sweetened drink like vitamin water or Coke Zero triggers the body to store fat and causes a whole host of other problems, even though technically the next energy change is zero.

ScalingAedes 8y ago

This is why you don't listen to physicists about the nuances of biochemistry.

While you are technically correct about calories in/calories out, the amount of energy it takes your body to digest, convert, utilize and store consumed calories differs drastically depending on the format in which they are consumed. You can significantly alter your "out" by changing the format of the "in".

Consuming 2000 calories of refined sugar in a liquid/gelatin medium will have a different impact on your bodyfat than consuming 2000 calories of meat and veg.

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logicalthinker1 8y ago

Protein calories don't stay in your system though. You piss away any you don't use. So from that standpoint, protein is good for weightloss. But if you're eating at a caloric deficit, that doesn't matter because you'll use all the protein you eat.

If you burn more calories than you take in, you will lose weight. It's literally impossible not to.

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Calories are a unit of energy. Putting more energy into a system than you take out will lead to some kind of increase in overall energy in the system (since energy is conserved).

This might be true, but how do we establish the number of calories in a food? Its all a question of what kind of percentage the body can or will absorp.

This will be different for different people, due to gut bacteria. That's the whole problem with the saying. Someone having even a 5-10% higher or lower absorption rate matters on the long run.

seattleron 8y ago

This will be different for different people, due to gut bacteria. That's the whole problem with the saying. Someone having even a 5-10% higher or lower absorption rate matters on the long run.

Can you go more into this? How do you know whether or not you have good or bad gut bacteria? And if you have a higher or lower absorption rate, what happens?

lIlIIIlll 8y ago

Well that's why they say to decrease your calories in, if you're not losing weight.

Fuck how can such a simple concept be beyond so many people.

The_Man11 8y ago

They don't want the accountability.

_newbeginnings_ 8y ago

Exactly right. My niece has a condition called SIBO which totally wreaks havoc on her gut bacteria. She does water fasts for 2 weeks at a time and still gains weight.

seattleron 8y ago

Wow, that's awful. Is she gaining water weight or fat weight?

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bassline8 8y ago

Reading about diet/lifting in TRP is pure torture sometimes.

TheElite3740 8y ago

Because 90% of it is rubbish. Eat less calories than you need and you'll lose weight, it really is that simple. Source - graduated in Biomedicine

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beginner_ 8y ago

Yes, our bodies defy the laws of physics, more precisely thermodynamics.

They don't. Yet they are far more complex than simple Physics. Let me explain you and all the other calories in=calories out fans.

The main issue here is how the calories in food are measured. It's an very old method (based in 19th century) and has nothing to do how humans process food. But even if that issue were removed, calories in=calories out would not be 100% true.

Example 1: Effect of alcohol

I'm sure most here have consumed alcohol fasted and just after eating a lot. It's common knowledge that drinking after eating delays and diminishes effects of alcohol. So you clearly get a different response from taking the exact same amount of alcohol, what changed was the surrounding conditions (eg food or no food). Your logic would say: same amount of alcohol = same effect.

Now the real calories example.

Example 2: Calories as Orange or as Orange Juice

You take up the same amount of calories, once by eating an orange and once by drinking orange juice. The difference here is that the fruit contains a lot of fibers which are depending on orange choice mostly or totally missing. As we have seen with alcohol, the context (or here the matrix) matters. Fiber will delay the uptake of nutrients which has at least 2 effects.

1) lower spikes of blood sugar which leads to different hormonal responses (insulin) which triggers different biochemical pathways or balance of them (for example storing glycogen or storing fat).

2) Delayed uptake means a lot more of the food you eat gets eaten by your gut bacteria and never even reaches your system. That's also why taking lots of fiber will make you fart more because your gut bacteria get more food and hence produce more gas. This is best know to people with lactose intolerance were all of it gets consumed by bacteria because they miss an enzyme that splits up lactose into glucose and galactose.

So this is a great example were you take up same amount of calories but with vastly different effects.

Conclusion

calories in = calories out is bullshit. It's something you can tell the guy that weights 500lbs but not if we are talking about reducing body fat and seeing abs.

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-contrarian- 8y ago

You are full of shit. I am walking proof.

lIlIIIlll 8y ago

Dude. Stop spouting your bioscience bullshit.

Alcohol is metabolized slower when you eat food because the food absorbs the alcohol in your stomach and it takes longer to reach your blood.

Also orange juice you buy from the store is not real orange juice, it's perfumed water. Real OJ goes bad a day after squeezing.

You really misunderstand calories in calories out, probably because you've never taken a math or science course above grade 11.

beginner_ 8y ago

Alcohol is metabolized slower when you eat food because the food absorbs the alcohol in your stomach and it takes longer to reach your blood.

Exactly. Context matters. And context is the matrix. in case of alcohol it's the food, in case of sugar fiber. Slower uptake = lower spike = different biochemical reaction.

You really misunderstand calories in calories out, probably because you've never taken a math or science course above grade 11.

lol. Yeah sure.

i don't see an logical argument in your post except shaming. You argue like a feminist. The orange juice comment just shows that. That you understood pretty much nothing. You can replace it with coke or sugared water. The argument is the same. Consuming sugar with fiber is completely different from consuming sugar without it. The only reason I choose orange juice was that even retards understand it but I clearly failed in that regard.

GnomeSkill 8y ago

Wake up, drink a cup of black coffee no sweetners or anythin and do some fasted cardio. A very prominent way to lose the last bit of fat from the trouble areas (lower stomach and back for guys)

thInc 8y ago

That fucks my stomach up. I at least have some yogurt first.

GnomeSkill 8y ago

no you cant because you take your self out of the fasted state if you do that which gets rid of the whole benefit of fasted cardio.

thInc 8y ago

Maybe so but I'd skip the coffee personally

GnomeSkill 8y ago

The Coffee is for the caffeine. Caffeine boost certain fat burning hormones in the body

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Surfincloud9 8y ago

Run/Lift and keep your calories lower than your BMR. Don't do TDEE. Just do BMR. You will lose weight quickly. It'll be hard but once you get around 12% body fat, it's easier to just maintain that lifestyle.

anihilistlol 8y ago

Three words: Calorie counting & BMR.

I_Need_More_Space_ 8y ago

Look up intermittent fasting.

Yashugan00 8y ago

Abs are made in the kitchen.

vagbutters 8y ago

Cardio. Cardio. Cardio. Lost over 100 pounds a couple of years ago and I had the same problem. Cardio decreases ghrelin (hunger harmone) so that you don't want to eat a fuckton after your workout. Strength training tends to have the opposite effect where you want to eat a horse. Not saying that you should omit it entirely, but make cardio the mainstay while you're dieting to lose fat.

Flash-Lightning 8y ago

I had the problem of too much cardio and not enough weights. I plateaued after losing 15 pounds and couldn't lose the rest even with clean eating. It was when I was lifting that actually lost the majority of my weight.

ex_addict_bro 8y ago

Go away you minion of Broki

[deleted] 8y ago

what you're talking about is your metabolism shooting through the roof. that thing that burns calories.

but you've described how one can get vagina neck to a T.

mehdreamer 8y ago

Calories deficit. I am having 1600 Calories a day. My maintainance is 2200. I am losing fat and a bit of muscle too but I lift..so I maintain my gains as much as I can. I do cardio twice a week.

I am currently around 16% BF

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I counted 1700 a day for about 5 days and felt like I was going to die. Is that normal?

seattleron 8y ago

Not eating enough protein. Up the protein, lower the carbs/fat. Keep calories the same. You will feel better. You can get a good amount of food in 1700 calories if you're smart about it.

mehdreamer 8y ago

yes It is. I have terrible cravings sometimes specially during the week end.

I am also suffering during lifting as I feel I am weak. But the good thing is that I am loosing fat quite fast. (From 95 kg to 78 kg in 4 months) I have cheat days and high calories days to keep myself motivated. It is worth it. My face is leaner, my jawline is visible and I get more IOIs than ever before.

My goal is to reach 10 - 12 % BF and build some muscle(not too much) till I reach 79 kg. It is hard...quite hard but you won't get to the top 10% of men easilly..it makes sense. Willing to do this for two additional months, then I'll increase my calories intake to 2000- 2200 a day

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I've been making some real progress all summer working toward a 6 pack. I've successfully cut a lot of belly fat out that I still had from years of eating like shit and drinking way too much alcohol/soda.

I've been eating a diet about 1500-2000 calories per day.. Mainly plant based. For protein, my go to is grilled chicken breast, or salmon. Throughout the day I'll eat a handful of almonds every hour or so. I try to think of eating as a "punch per calorie", as in getting the most nutrients I can per calorie. I kind of just wing nutrition so I'm not sure if I'm doing this right. I mostly estimate my daily caloric intake with just ballpark ideas based on google searches for "calories in a serving of tuna" and stuff like that. Don't drink sugary crap or eat garbage processed food from the center of the grocery store. Eat REAL FOOD.

For my exercise routine, I go to the gym every day. I alternate between upper body and lower body. Lots of people here might shit on me for this, but I just stick to the machines. I'm still ignorant of proper lifting and have been really procrastinating on getting educated with free weights.

I start out with a mile run at the fastest I can go.. Usually set the pace on the treadmill for 9.0 at this point and gradually go up to 9.5 by the end. At this speed I usually make a mile in 6:30 to 6:45.

Afterwards, I do a sit up routine I learned on youtube. I can't find the video anymore, but it goes like..

-1 set of 20 reps reverse crunch

-1 set of 20 reps jackknife sirup

-30 second plank

Repeat 4 times.

After this, I just do all machines that are designated for upper body (shoulder press, bicep curl, rows, lats pull down, chest fly, etc..) or lower body on leg day. For every machine, I do 4 sets of 12 reps. Obviously push yourself and add weight as you get stronger.

In the last month, I've also been going for bike rides on top of the gym routine, Usually 5-10 mile rides.

I have no idea if I'm doing it right or if I can do it better.. I'm pretty new to gym life (started last march) but I've seen great progress so far.

acetylcysteine 8y ago

um if you're eating a handful of almonds every hour, that's approx 150 calories (on the low side)... and assuming you're up for 12 hours a day, that's already 1800 cals.

you're workout plan can have a lot of improvements. i'd check out the fitness subreddits for better programming.

Lo-G 8y ago

this sounds like the worst thing you could possibly be doing...

Squat deadlift and bench press. Follow stronglifts. Do this 3-5x a week. If you really want to do cardio, do cardio on your off days. Eat 10% below maintenance.

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[deleted] 8y ago

Intermittent fasting. Thank me when those abs be poppin.

Hang10Dude 8y ago

I eat about 5000 calories a day (started extremely skinny, now look damn good, if I do say so myself).

I've heard about intermittent fasting, but I'm afraid that I won't get enough calories in per day.

Is it just for fat guys, or is a viable stratagy for thin guys as well?

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Theoretically, yes you should be able to do IF if you want to put on muscle. It really is just a strategy that 'coaxes' your body into burning fat while being able to eat 1 or 2 man sized meals. If your metabolism requires you to eat 5000cal/day, personally, I couldn't eat that in a 6 or 8 hour window. Also, that is a fuck load of calories. Unless your running up mountains all day I find it hard to believe you wouldn't be putting fat on. Just jack your protein up to 1-5g/lb of body mass, lift heavy like your life depends on it, and you'll put on muscle.

Edit: sorry 1-2g/lb** haha

Hang10Dude 8y ago

yea i know it sounds crazy. I am 6'3 though, which has at least a big part in my caloric needs.

So basically that program is for burning fat, now putting on muscle. Roger. That isn't what I'm looking for right now, however.

bigtuna45 8y ago

Oh.. I wish I had abs! I was just saying I know that's what women want. I myself am still in the 80%

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Run!!

Not to be confused with jogging!!

LordThunderbolt 8y ago

80% body fat? Majin Buu is that you?

Kharn0 8y ago

Careful. He might turn you into ice cream

banica24 8y ago

I think OP meant the 80% on Tinder aka not the Olympic Gods

LordThunderbolt 8y ago

I know dude. It was a joke. Do you even DBZ?

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Jabba is that you? omg lol 80%

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[deleted] 8y ago

I do a lot of MMA and workout on gymnastic rings. If you want abs that is the way to go. Check out any gymnastic dudes. They have best of both worlds. Example. The best thing is yea you can work out 6 days a week (recommended taking a day off). Lifting weights breaks down your body and you need that 48 hour rest period. Body weight workouts is what humans have been doing forever.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Do you have a preferred gymnastics or bodyweight routine?

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I do. My jiu jitsu coach taught me a few Upside pull ups Dips Deep pushups using a chair

If I don't have enough time in the day to do all I normally always do the pushups. I can get a full upper body workout by allowing my arms to come above my head and pulling back. It is not about the # of reps you do it's about the quality of it. Go slow and do it correct. Here are some other great ones.

bigtuna45 8y ago

Thank you. I am training for a Spartan race right now and incorporating a lot of body weight stuff. I did KM a few years ago and just about died, I'll look into MMA.

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Racing is great for cutting.. I used to run a 5 k on the weekends.. If you actually treat the race like a competition the results are great

AshyBoneVR4 8y ago

Boxing checking in. I've been in boxing since I was about 8. Boxing is mostly cardio but when you throw in lifting you are solid. I've had an 8 pack since I was 12 and a 10 pack at 16. I've been close to a 12 pack but then I get lazy. I'm 6'6" by the way, and always have been tall for my age. So results may vary.

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[deleted] 8y ago

I miss my old punching bag.. Maybe I should find a boxing gym

AshyBoneVR4 8y ago

Find a community center. Most boxing gyms will ridiculously over charge you.

-contrarian- 8y ago

Diet. Myfitnesspal. Eat 200 cals under maintenance until abs. Keep lifting.

Gain muscle or lose fat. Choose one.

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-contrarian- 8y ago

I'm of the mind that the most effective way forwards is to cut down to 8-9%. You won't like how you look at first. You'll be skinny. But you'll be able to see your progress much better. And me personally, I find low BF people more attractive than the standard American norm of 15-35%.

Cut first, and then slow, slow bulk, no more than 2 lbs a month on CLEAN food. 10-20% carbs max, 20% protein, rest healthy fats. Will take you a year, but you'll be a new man at the end of it.

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-contrarian- 8y ago

Nope.

You keep lifting to give your body a reason to not cannibalize your muscle. When in starvation mode (losing weight), the human body saves its fat stores, and instead eats muscle for energy.

Give it a reason to keep the muscle around. You'll still lose some muscle, that's unavoidable. But you'll lose a lot less if you keep stressing your muscles under load.

slay_it_forward 8y ago

Or just go keto for 30 days. Can gain muscle and be shredded.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz3AG-oCXTE

-contrarian- 8y ago

Won't work without a calorie deficit. I'm all for very low carb, but thermodynamics still apply.

francisco_DANKonia 8y ago

True, but it is very easy to have a calorie deficit when you eat things that take longer to digest.

lIlIIIlll 8y ago

+1 for keto. Went from 195 to 165 in 4 months @ 6ft.

Gains suffered a bit but it's worth it.

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lIlIIIlll 8y ago

Yeah I look way better. Especially in the face.

Tbh it doesn't seem that skinny. I'm still at about 15%bf somehow.

My lifts are finally back where they are when I started my cut, so we'll see if it continues to improve.

slay_it_forward 8y ago

all the people saying all calories are the same are idiots. If you eat 2000 calories of keto or you eat 2000 calories of Mcdonalds you will have to drastically different results.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Not really. I've been cutting and having ice cream several times a week. Been easier than keto honestly.

It all comes down to calories in the end but eating fast food is terrible for your health.

Whole food based diet(plus whey) is the way to go.

bornredd 8y ago

All calories are the same for the purposes of weight loss. 2000 calories of chicken breast and broccoli will result in the same weight loss as 2000 calories of McDonald's.

However, you'll be far hungrier on the McD's diet, and you won't be able to build muscle for shit.

HappyMexican 8y ago

I do both lol (Burgers from mcdonalds! So good). Lost 90 pounds doing it!

trippinallday 8y ago

The only benefit of keto is that it reduces cravings, which making it easier to control urges for people who have shit self control. If you aren't eating at a deficit though, you won't get different results than eating the same amount in shitty food. The whole point of keto is to make it easier to eat less.

melxer 8y ago

nice broscience, tell us some more please I'm interested in your theories.

nutritionist loses 27 pounds eating oreos

HeyKidsFreeCandy 8y ago

Lol it's like you didn't read his post.

Yes, eating a deficit will ALWAYS lead to weight loss.

NO, eating maintenance of Oreos is NOT going to have the same effect as eating maintenance with Proteins and fats.

Deadren 8y ago

Right... losing weight, no problem, count calories. But macro-nutrients do matter... Imagine a person who only eats snickers bars.. they would have little to no muscle mass and a little budha belly, where as someone that ate chicken breasts for the same amount of calories would have much more pronounced muscularity.

slay_it_forward 8y ago

eat 2000 calories of cookies every day and see how that works out for you dude. I wish you luck.

lIlIIIlll 8y ago

No, you won't. Because calories in food are a weighted unit by nutritional scientists.

Whats heavier, a pound of feathers, or a pound of lead?

The only reason keto makes you lose weight is because carbs are so incredibly calorie dense. People eat a sandwich and think they're being healthy when really the bread alone has 500 calories in it.

Also it's hard to binge eat meat and veggies, which is the problem most fatties have. Good luck eating 10 chicken breast in a row, but put a bag or doritos in front of a hamplanet and that fucker is gone in 5 minute.

HappyMexican 8y ago

I have to disagree as the "keto effect" is still up in the air. I can't say you are wrong, but I can say there is more to it then "Poeple are just over eating carbs". Having done keto myself.

I do believe the two biggest factors in the keto is:

You feel fuller/satisfied off fats way better then carbs (so you are kind of right). So it feels like you are eating more on keto then you are usually. Fats are slower to digest so you stay full for MUCH, Much longer. I usually go half a day before I even eat breakfast, because of the meal I had the night before.
Keto does seem to have an effect on how your body uses its energy, and the priorities change. It does seem to target body fat first over anything else it can find, and replacing the body fat seems to be less rapid too.

Not a lot of studies able to support me or you right now, but I have had lots of poeple I know do keto and they seem to come to the same conclusions I have. They were unable to lose weight on low cal diet, but it seem to MELT off on keto (3++ pounds a week). But we are also talking 300++ pound people here. So this maybe not the target market of this post.

All I know is, I am on keto right now and I just feel "Different" when I am on it. Brain seems to work faster, and I general have more energy. On a side note, I am happy to see this much talk of Keto on this sub latly, third post i have read in the last 2 days pretaining to Keto. Lots of naysayers who have never tried it, and praise from those who has. Havn't seen one person who has tried it for a long while and not gotten results. Good to see.

Project_Thor 8y ago

I think of it this way, did we survive winter months/ice ages eating plants?

Jac1nto 8y ago

Small correction, fat is the calorie dense macro. Carbs and protein come in at 4 calories per gram as opposed to fats containing 9 calories per gram.

But I do agree with your point that binge eating empty carbs is much more likely to happen than your average person getting a guy from lean proteins and sauteed spinach or roasted asparagus.

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Also remember that protein has a higher Thermogenic Food Effect (TFE) where the body burns more calories digesting protein than carbs. 1000 calories of pistachios is not the sames as 1000 calories of white bread.

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You're speaking like breads are unhealthy, which they aren't. Calories are not unhealthy...

-contrarian- 8y ago

Bread isn't healthy. It get metabolized as glucose, same as any other sugar.

ANGRY_ATHEIST 8y ago

I've had a lot of success with paleo too, but I think the type of foods the paleo diet forces you to eat keeps you from eating as many calories. Carbs are cheap calories, you can pack them away fast and quickly after get hungry again. Eat a nice 16oz ribeye and you'll feel full for a good long while.

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Beef jerky is one of my go tos for calorie counting. When you compare the nutritional value of a 6.5oz of jerky (if you don't make your own), versus a lot of other foods. You get a far higher amount of protein versus calories than with other foods. Protein shake in the morning with orange slices and strawberries or raspberries in the smoothie, and apple slices for breakfast. 6.5oz bag of Jerky for lunch with an orange, baked chicken breast with cauliflower for dinner. And you can get in at 1700 calories pretty easy while still getting over 100 grams of protein.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Problem with jerky is that it's a cured meat which creates nitrates in the process as well as other carcinogens because it's sustained high temperature cooking.

Eating some a little is fine but you don't want it as your staple.

That said if you do make it a staple, trying to counteract it with lots of veggies would be wise.

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That's essentially what I do. Jerky day is only twice a week at the most. It's a lunch time meal typically for when I'm on the go and don't want to eat fast food. That said, I eat fruit in the morning and typically in the evening with veggies. Last night was squash and zucchini with apple slices with submerged broiled Pork tenderloin (essentially an open boil).

Tuna packs can get oppressive after a few days around lunch time.

GoingTheHardWay 8y ago

Beef jerky is one of my go tos for calorie counting

The salt content makes me horde water. Do you get yours from a local butcher?

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Now I do turkey jerkey and pork jerkey from places like Walgreens and Costco. I do make venison jerkey when I can and even turkey jerky, but the salt content is not incredibly high when compared to fast food.

maje5678 8y ago

Just eat less food and do some cardio brother

frys180 8y ago

Go to the gym everyday. Or at least try to. In essence, try to go to the gym everyday. Do sets of pullups, situps, and squats. I guarantee you after about 2 months you'll see a difference. I know exactly what you mean by those last 20. That's how I'm starting to lose mine. It's finally working

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Arcturus_ 8y ago

No. Your body needs rest, don't fucking go every day.

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I follow StrongLifts 5 by 5 protocol. I also do incline and decline presses every lift day.

Instead of doing it 3 days a week, I do 2 days of StrongLifts, one day of cardio, 2 days of StrongLifts, then another day of cardio.

The seventh day is for rest.

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Inserting lifts into a kettlebells routine sounds like a good mix. Good job brother.

Make sure to give yourself a solid day off every week.

Was following Pavel's "Simple Sinister" kettlebells protocol for around a year, saw some solid gains in the legs and lower abdomen. My obliques are sick.

Turkish get-ups were brutal at first.

Switched 5x5 to build chest and shoulders. So far I have the most trouble with OHP..

Cardio day means treadmill, set it to 10 and sprint 1/4 mile. Rest for 10 minutes, do it again, 5 times total. It takes a solid hour.

Tman5691 8y ago

Sandbags are fun as well, if you have space for one. Builds great functional strength as well since slinging a 70kg sandbag around is hard work, even if you can do heavier with normal weights.

boredepression 8y ago

Totally agree. Gotta cut and not skip core day.

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aherne18 8y ago

One of BP lies T"RP" likes to sugarcoat reality with. Lifting improves "dating" maybe in the 5% of unsuccessful men who have good genetic material but are unkept (because they are fat or badly dressed).

Don't listen to false preachers: there is no magic "cure" against bad genetics. You lift, you protest, you suffer: NOBODY GIVES A FUCK! You are as invisible as before...

Only your force of will makes a difference! Those who have it can become successful even while being unattractive (but even they just CANNOT be successful on Tinder).

stay_anon_stay_safe 8y ago

I feel sorry for you bro, you must be really fucking ugly for it not to be of any help

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corsega 8y ago

I'm not attractive and I have become successful on Tinder because I lift and I have good Tinder game. So my case already proves your point wrong.

aherne18 8y ago

Your case, even if true, doesn't negate the rest of 99.9% where my point applies. Since we are talking about personal experience, actually I've had FAR more success BEFORE I started to lift...

SetConsumes 8y ago

It's hard for me to understand what it's like to be invisible. I've never been invisible, people see me and get the fuck out of my way more often than not.

People may feel invisible, and that in itself makes them invisible to others.

Do you not strike up conversations with people around you when you can? Are you just sitting on your phone instead?

aherne18 8y ago

It's hard for me to understand what it's like to be invisible.

It's easy: women pass by you as if you don't exist. Then if you are too close, you start noticing a different behavior: avoidance or hostility.

Do you not strike up conversations with people around you when you can? Are you just sitting on your phone instead?

Once again there are no recipes. I actually happen to be friendly/sociable, but consistent negative experience in social interactions shapes a person's behavior so that today I find myself trying to avoid social contact as much as possible.

There is no point to feel sorry about yourself, though: whatever you are, you have a duty to fight, conquer and never lay down weapons. There is no excuse to defeat... That was my original point!

SetConsumes 8y ago

It's hard for me to understand what it's like to be invisible.

It's easy: women pass by you as if you don't exist. Then if you are too close, you start noticing a different behavior: avoidance or hostility.

Avoidance or hostility means you do exist then. But you're repulsing...

Do you not strike up conversations with people around you when you can? Are you just sitting on your phone instead?

Once again there are no recipes. I actually happen to be friendly/sociable, but consistent negative experience in social interactions shapes a person's behavior so that today I find myself trying to avoid social contact as much as possible.

Why not instead try to figure out why the interactions keep becoming negative and change?

There is no point to feel sorry about yourself, though: whatever you are, you have a duty to fight, conquer and never lay down weapons. There is no excuse to defeat... That was my original point!

That's a good spirit to have. Never give up, an attitude behind every alpha.

aherne18 8y ago

Why not instead try to figure out why the interactions keep becoming negative and change?

It's negative experience feeding on itself: after first dosage you start feeling shy and inadequate. After new doses stacking up, your face starts to project failure. All of the latter are controllable psychological phenomena, but the uncontrollable root cause (my baby face) keeps on feeding them.

Never give up, an attitude behind every alpha.

This is actually more than this! The huge satisfaction of having fought your destiny for no matter how brief a time. The flood of female tingles that come while exercising it. Above all: inner peace without an inch of self-delusion.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Why not instead try to figure out why the interactions keep becoming negative and change?

It's negative experience feeding on itself: after first dosage you start feeling shy and inadequate. After new doses stacking up, your face starts to project failure. All of the latter are controllable psychological phenomena, but the uncontrollable root cause (my baby face) keeps on feeding them.

I see what you mean, but surely someone eventually gets some positive interactions that they can then get some positive feedback and validation from.

Like even becoming friends with a girl is a large step towards becoming comfortable and secure with women.

Idk how I did it other than controlling my emotions and talking to lots of women.

Never give up, an attitude behind every alpha.

This is actually more than this! The huge satisfaction of having fought your destiny for no matter how brief a time. The flood of female tingles that come while exercising it. Above all: inner peace without an inch of self-delusion.

Fight your destiny? Or create your destiny?

There is a such thing as useful and healthy self delusion.

aherne18 8y ago

I see what you mean, but surely someone eventually gets some positive interactions that they can then get some positive feedback and validation from.

My problem is that I'm a VERY impulsive person with absolutely zero self-control. It's not like I didn't have positive experiences, it's the offense I took in the negative ones that prevents me from moving on.

SetConsumes 8y ago

I see what you mean, but surely someone eventually gets some positive interactions that they can then get some positive feedback and validation from.

My problem is that I'm a VERY impulsive person with absolutely zero self-control. It's not like I didn't have positive experiences, it's the offense I took in the negative ones that prevents me from moving on.

What would you get offended by?

Okay so now you know your problem. Lack of self control can be addressed by improving your self control.

I get it, self control isn't by any means easy, but it can be trained for sure. With self control and discipline you're going to be much better at doing anything you want to do.

aherne18 8y ago

What would you get offended by?

By the kind of behavior I have spoken about earlier, which happens much more often than the positive opposite.

I get it, self control isn't by any means easy, but it can be trained for sure.

Impulsiveness, when not channeled at self-destruction, is something positive: it makes you react and think later. For example, whenever I feel tingles for someone, I let the auto-pilot take in and "magically" transmute into a pussy magnet.

Anyway, thanks for your interest:)

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Compound this with the fact that 80% of the women on Tinder have no intention of sleeping with anyone - it's merely another source of validation and entertainment for them. Then you've got the 20% who are actually looking to fuck who go straight to the dudes with the best 6-pack

stawek 8y ago

They never have an intention to hook up, that would make them sluts. It always "just happens".

They will all "just see who's there", then "just match for lols", then "just go for a drink", then "just a little make out", then "just let him walk me home", then "it just happened"

Don't kid yourself, they will not refuse if a Chad shows up.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Sure, but once you figure out their stupid mind games they play with themselves, it becomes all the easier.

Rooster1111 8y ago

So true, online dating, instagram, youtube, even twitch has made women window shoppers for free validation.

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Tinder should be renamed AlphaFux because thats what women use it for

VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

Black Dragon wrote a thing on this, about how dating sites/apps go through 5 stages:

Early Adopters.

Hyper Effectiveness

Normal Effectiveness

Problems

Effective for only a small, specific group of people.

Tinder is basically for hot, youngish guys to hook up with hot young women. Ex. I am 48 so I would get slaughtered on Tinder (I assume; I've never bothered to sign up). On match, I'd be matched with old, fat, post-Wall bitches (e.g. women in my age cohort, who are old, usually fat, and definitely post-Wall). But in the three-dimensional space of Meat Reality? That's my wheelhouse.

The problem with dating sites/apps is two-fold. First, men typically outnumber women on such sites--the exception, as I understand it, is eHarmony which might as well be called e-PostWall. Second, it requires basically zero effort, guys flood the inboxes of hotties who get validated by how much attention they receive, yada-yada. People treat it like ordering off of Amazon, in that they're only going to "buy" exactly what they want. That's fine, but at the Feast of the Ego, everyone leaves hungry.

My 20 y.o. plate would have broken the sound barrier swiping left on me on Tinder (if she was on Tinder), but IRL, we never had a chance up against Uncle Vasya's gaming skillz. Muhahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

So each of us must adopt strategies that work for us. For me that's to be a hunter out in three-dimensional space. For others of you, it's going to be nailing tail on Tinder. Determine what works for you, and go do that.

AlerioX 8y ago

When I used lovoo (german tinder; therefore most used OG app in germany) three years ago I could easily arrange dates with three decent girls in one week. Two of those I banged after 30 minutes (one blonde HB9 and a brunette HB7).
Now I created a lovoo account yesterday to verify your statement and it's shocking:
I only get matches with girls that are 150lbs+ and have piercings and tattoos.
smh

NaughtyFred 8y ago

As a 48 year old where do you meet 20 year olds? Assuming you don't go to clubs, you gaming them at the grocery store/coffee shop kind of locations?

BusterVadge 8y ago

Day game works best for older men. Generally speaking, if we have any game whatsoever, we don't get much of the initial resistance that women put up for younger men in day game.

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Not saying You guys are like that, but I fucking cringe at the ammount of 40-50+ men who go around trying to day-game 16-20 year old girls who work as cashiers to pay for a Hawai-trip, clerking at Starbucks/McDonalds/whatever. If a girl will fuck a dude the age of her dad, she is broken trash. Everytime I´m in the line at the grocery store, some divorced middle aged balding wuzz tries to chat up an obviously tired cashier.

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SetConsumes 8y ago

There is absolutely nothing wrong with women dating older men. Age is not real. How men make the woman feel and what the man has accomplished in creating himself is.

BusterVadge 8y ago

It's not like that at all. 16-20 is way too young for most of us older guys, unless these older men have some sort of fetish or something. I like mine to at least be out of college.

The guys you're seeing are pervs and are not running day game because the worst person to run day game with is someone who's at work. If you see a well dressed, in shape older guy talking to a college grad about random BS, you're closer to the truth.

VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

I'm gaming everywhere. You have to approach like a motherfucker. As /u/BusterVadge says, for older guys, day game is king.

I met my current plates as follows: Karaoke, cold approach, blind date and at my band's gigs. Also, a plate emeritus set me up with her roommate a few years ago, and then wanted to jump back in so I had 2x22 y.o. roommates.

From another post:

Ex. I was being introduced to a young, doe-eyed blonde girl by a late 20s black girl that I know. The black chick went out of her way to portray me as a wolf...which, really, is pretty fair. So after girl fills blondie's head with what a horndog I am and she (blondie) turns her attention to me, I say to her, in deep voice, "Well hello there, Little Red Riding Hood..." and everyone laughs. The introduction, while "outing" me as a hound, actually worked in my favor because it established me as (likely) having sexual interest in the blonde, and then I "Agreed & Amplified".

Meanwhile, lucky for you, someone has written a handy guide about "How to be an Old Guy":

Life After 30: How to Be an Old Guy

You're welcome.

iii694 8y ago

late 20s

yawn. That's real impressive...

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VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

That was the woman who introduced me to the younger woman. Perhaps you don't read good?

NaughtyFred 8y ago

I asked for specific locations.

VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

So you want the address of the karaoke place? /blinks

The location doesn't matter. What matters is your ability to Day Game. So I didn't meet any of my current plates as the supermarket, but if I saw a girl in a supermarket that I liked, I would definitely go chat her up. The location, itself, is unimportant.

NaughtyFred 8y ago

Yes and the exact seat you were sitting in.

How's my agree and amplify?

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VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

No, I live in the Decadent West. When I visit the Eastern Branch of the family--I got custody of them after my mother died--I wake up covered in bitches. Different ball game over there.

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VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

Does it matter? When I'm in the Rodina, I'm gaming, like I do here. It's a different ball game, as I said, and girls there are far less likely to obsess over some or other minor issue, but also come with their own set of problems. /shrugs

The Eastern Branch would luuurve for me to marry a nice Slavic girl, preferably one that they had vetted and approved, because I am now the pater familias of the Western Branch of the family and so anything that ties me more to the Rodina (and so also to them) would be a net positive for them. Thus, when I visit, I am introduced, whether I want to be or not, to whichever attractive single girls are in the Oblast that day.

antman333 8y ago

Embrace the double standard guys... http://i.imgur.com/2wuogtn.jpg

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ex_addict_bro 8y ago

Kirby. Like that video game. Round and swallows.

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LexaBinsr 8y ago

What double standard? She's a fat single gold digger mom. Delusional and no one likes that. No one.

Everyone swipes left on that lol. Unless they are desperate, but same works for ugly girls and ugly men.

afkb39sdfb 8y ago

Yep, she is the female equivalent of a fat neckbeard who expects no less than Jessica Alba.

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jimmyscrackncorn 8y ago

That gave me an erection. I want to fuck her hard.

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casemodsalt 8y ago

I'm a 8/10 guy and I literally do the same thing with womens profiles dude. I don't give a shit about their life unless they've established attraction first.

But I've been very tired of having to do all the work for the vagina. Girls aren't interesting, witty, smart, or good at conversation. They don't bring anything to the table. They're boring.

Guess they don't have to be intesting if they can just wait for a dumb ass who is her personal comedian.

Rooster1111 8y ago

This, on dates women will tell me that most guys are boring and have no conversation. I'm just sitting there like bitch? You haven't contributed a damn thing, It's like herding cats trying to run a conversation with you.

dingman58 8y ago

Girls aren't interesting, witty, smart, or good at conversation. They don't bring anything to the table. They're boring.

You could start going for dudes

corsega 8y ago

I'm a 8/10 guy

oh god, no you aren't. I've seen your photo on AskTRP with dat moustache. You were asking how to game a girl who was 5/10 at best. Sorry, dude.

casemodsalt 8y ago

No, I am. Don't be jealous.

knightSwolaire 8y ago

Solid 6.5-7

25% bf

Choose one

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grewapair 8y ago

No point in investing any time if the guy isn't interested. A lot of men just swipe right every profile and look at the girl if there's a match. So matching doesn't mean anything.

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Yakatonker 8y ago

Because women are just as shallow if not more then men. You don't like ugly pussy, they don't like ugly dick and it so happens 60-80% of men fit that profile.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Women have no depth. They are not even shallow.

PantsonFire1234 8y ago

I once matched with a girl on Tinder that I ended up plating. Used my standard tactic of blindly swiping right. She on the other hand purposefully selected her matches. When we matched we quickly hooked up.

After banging her this info leaked out and it mortified her. The power balance has settled and she was now my bitch. Funny since my SMV was shit low at the time.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Haha, mortified her. What did she say? Why do you think she went for you if your SMV sucked?

PantsonFire1234 8y ago

Hers sucked to (more than mine) fuck me I was young. When I confessed I blindly swipe right (to see who swipes me left) it made her furious- and wet. I called her 'my little mistake' and teased her constantly. I had never seen a woman become that submissive in my life.

Though she had big issues, probably being bpd. Which explains the ease of difficulty I had to plate her whilst plugged in. This worked so well I incorporated it into my game. Sometime later one thing led to another and poof, now I'm here.

Tinder is a worthless time sink though, you're better off laying women at a bar whilst actually having fun.

MyLittleAtomBomb 8y ago

I did the fake chad experiment and had 1,800 matches in two weeks. Me and my IRL friends had like 20 between us in that same period of time. It's a modern day harem generator. Tinder probably has the stats to back this up but they will never see the light of day so that average and above-average guys continue to download the app.

I could send literally anything and I'd get a response within minutes. My opening line was that my dick was the size of a baby carrot, didn't fucking matter.

It was probably the most eye opening experience of my life. It's the closest thing I've ever witnessed to a legitimate Illuminati-level secret-society. I deleted the app long ago and focus 100% of my efforts on my own life now.

HellHounded 8y ago

If you can't get laid on Tinder you're a bridge troll.

I don't understand this sub. It's a bunch of people crying about how they can't get laid or all women cheat on them calling other people beta.

highenergysanders 8y ago

It didn't used to be like this. It used to be focused on making yourself better and helping the perpetual friend zone doormat turn into a confident, independent, well rounded man.

Now it's nonsense like this. Some bullshit thread about "omg women are so shallow." The takeaway and advice is almost always something meaningless like "be attractive."

marianasentmenudes 8y ago

The more and more time I spend on here, the less of an urge I have to get married

I honestly wonder what's gonna happen to all of these Alpha Widows once they hit the Wall besides the 300% increase in "Where have all the good men gone?" articles on websites like Huffington Post and Buzzfeed

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Same thing they do now.

Find some loser schlub to marry.

jackandjill22 8y ago

Those posts are already all over Twitter. No joke. Saw one with 3000+ maybe more retweets with that exact phrase verbatim.

stemgang 8y ago

What will happen?

Cats and bachelor tax.

dr_warlock 8y ago

There's already a bachelor's tax, married people get tax breaks.

recoveringPHPDev 8y ago

Gay marriage will see a huge spike if a bachelor tax is passed. I wonder if the feminists well then tell us we are destroying traditional marriage.

stemgang 8y ago

This....is completely true.

You know how the INS can rule marriages to be fake if they were arranged just to get someone a green card?

Well, they are going to have to implement anti-gay-marriage enforcement to prevent people from escaping the bachelor tax.

I guess I might gay-marry too if it meant huge tax benefits.

RedPillFreedom 8y ago

I guess I might gay-marry too if it meant huge tax benefits..

Marry your RP bro for the benefits. Go out every night and wingman for each other. When asked why or how, just say you "love" each other but you are bisexual swingers.

This is a hilarious way of abusing the system.

PantsonFire1234 8y ago

Hahahah the govt can fuck themselves, I ain't paying no bachelor tax- fucking lunatics.

Original_Dankster 8y ago

You'll pay it indirectly. Married couples, women and parents will get tax breaks / deductions while the overall level of taxation rises. The only way to avoid it is to embrace the grey economy and work for cash under the table... And don't get caught.

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I'm going to try it. I'm 44, so it's not looking good, but I'll try anyway....I live right next to a university. I'm going to use a professional headshot from work, suit and tie. I don't know if I'm far enough on the right side of good looking to pull it off (yeah, I'm good looking for sure, 150 pounds and in good shape, symmetrical face, full head of hair), but a shirtless pic from a guy my age would be pathetic.

I have a sweet apartment, no kids, no desire for kids, and am recently out of a 4.5 year relationship with a super smart hottie 1/2 my age. I'm totally hooked on younger women. I'm betting that there will at least be occasional younger women who is tired of the maturity levels of guys their age. I'm not looking to run for office, I just need a few votes to have fun.

Day game will be critical. And keeping fucking frame will be critical. I feel like I have a target painted on my back.......I'd rather pull the occasional younger woman (grad school or early career) than someone looking for BB.....I'm primed for that shit and need to avoid putting myself in jeopardy.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Careful with suit and tie pics, they tend to attract more blatant gold diggers.

[deleted] 8y ago

That's a good point. Joke's on them, though.....my student debt is high (worth it for a mathematics degree that got me good work) and I own no property and have nothing in retirement. No gold to dig but my time (which I'm getting way more stingy with).

SetConsumes 8y ago

Jeez you still have student debt? Won't it be forgiven soon? Care to share what you consider to be good money?

I hate having debt. So fucking much. And women don't give a fuck about debt in trying to pay theirs off or caring about yours.

[deleted] 8y ago

Got laid off during the Great Recession, hid in school and lived on loans in my late thirties. Not a great idea, but it paid off in my opinion. No forgiveness, I make too much money, $65K, which isn't "bank" but it's not too bad, and incidentally is about how much I owe. I'm not doing anything stupid like taking on a car payment....my '94 Saturn has 197K miles on it. I hope it will last during the next 4 years while I make heroic payments on my student debt to clear it out fucking asap.

I don't agree that women don't give a fuck about paying their own debt....most of the ltr's I've been in, they're actually relatively conservative...perhaps that's just my experience...but at the end of the day, you're right: I'm on my own now (recent breakup) and women I meet moving forward won't give a fuck about my debt, and I fully expect to be called cheap because fuck going to dinner, not only it's too much money and too many calories, my cooking level is pretty high. Competing with other dudes on the basis of money would fuck me over permanently.

My user name is my user name for a reason.....I'm on Red Pill for a reason.....I'm so goddamn tired of my needs coming last, and I'm absolutely determined to change it.

[deleted] 8y ago

All you need to know is right here: http://www.tinderseduction.com/male-model-tinder-case-study/

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MyGoalIsToBeAnEcho 8y ago

Read this and it's fucking depressing. Unsurprising, but depressing for people who aren't models. Motivation for more lifting.

PantsonFire1234 8y ago

All these bitches are failures at life. Can't extract commitment from a guy if their live depended on it. Sex is easy to obtain. Commitment is not.

For a guy, obtaining commitment is easy. He has it every day. It's with him when he goes to bed, it's there when he goes to his job, it's present when he meets with his mates. Commitment is easy to have, sex is not.

A guy that can't fuck women is a worthless guy and a women who can't extract male commitment is a worthless women.

I can walk up to the hottest bimbo in town and give her all my commitment like a weak beta. Allow her to friendzone me, giving me zero sex while I pay for her shit and listen to her stories. Easy as pie, I need medium SMV to pull that off.

Same with HB5-6's fucking high value Chads. All they need is medium looks in order to get accepted for cumdumping. Give him all the sex, get none of the commitment.

There will always be winner and losers.

iii694 8y ago

lifting won't get you shit guy. If you want any real progress get good plastic surgery.

I know this is too extreme for "theredpill" but lifting is meaningless when you're face isn't aesthetic

corsega 8y ago

I thought the same thing when I first read it, but I'm not a model and I've had conversations like this (I'm a bit less direct) and got numbers within a few messages.

It's all about catching a girl on a horny day and having great photos.

DeepRelay 8y ago

OkCupid did a study on it. Personally I love those things because I'm somewhat successful, but if you are like my one buddy who just isn't photogenic it's brutal (still a good looking dude, but that's the game I guess). But while rules 1 and 2 get you the date (you can say anything at that point) if you are a clingy BP fuck you will never plate a woman off Tinder let alone LTR her, less she's a desperate single mother. At work people would take my phone and play LMFAO's 'Shots' memeing "Match, Match, Match! MATCH! MATCH!" but I never did anything other than a few hookups here and there. I was that BP fuck and it was pathetic.

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Your buddy sounds like me.. I found a friend that has a professional camera take my pics.. Big difference in matches

maxbrooksmacbook 8y ago

Has he tried posting action pictures where he's rock climbing or playing a sport or something?

greatmikeshark 8y ago

Do you actually have proof to back up your 80% claim or did you pull it out of your ass?

allnamesfckintaken 8y ago

that's because tinder is for sex only. if the app was for "marriage" she wouldnt get nearly as many suitors and she'll have to carefully look through them. lol. any decently looking girl can get a dick in her pussy. then she gets thrown out like trash. we end up in such a weird situation these days. every girl comes up in the world and doesnt know how it works. they end up riding the cock carousel til their late 20s and settle on some beta. if this was the 50s and women couldnt/wont give up the pussy before marriage, all those girls would've been married in their early 20s at best and they WOULD end up with the alpha male that they always wanted. radical feminism fucked it all up for them and made them think it was for their benefit.

i recently saw an article about highly educated women in college who get friends with benefits zoned by guys and end up pining after him and scrutinizing his every action in hopes of getting a hint of affection or commitment. she was saying how her and all her friends were leaders, doctors and academics and shit and they are so pathetic. that's what you end up with feminism.

obviously it feels good to have sex with someone who is attractive. you can't blame women for wanting to do that. they do it because they can. men would act the same if they could. the important thing here is, is it good for society? both men and women lose in this deal, the only winner is the alpha male. that's it. this alpha male asshole doesnt improve society, he just takes it all and gives nothing back. by the way, if you're here reading this on redpill, you're not an alpha male and you probably wont ever be one. if it was possible to change yourself that much, most of us wouldnt ever lose in life.

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No, they wouldn't. They would've gotten married to the beta male. There's like 10-20 alpha males out of every 100 men. Whereas there are 50-60 bangable women out of every 100 girls. In 2016, these girls can get access to the alpha males through sex but, no commitment. The alpha males would never be caught dead with them outside of sex. In 1950, the girls would be forced to settle with beta bob. If they tried to get an alpha male (and got pregnant), they would basically get a scarlet letter for the rest of their lives. And if they just got fucked and chucked, they would have to hide that fact and hope no one around town found out, as they would get a scarlet letter for that too and scare off the beta bobs from marrying them.

This was the whole point of fathers and older female relatives watching over the young girls in their family. They didn't want some Alpha Chad Lothario snooping around their stupid naive daughters for easy poon when THEY KNEW he wasn't going to marry her, only to ruin her for all the betas who would have. That was one of the secondary reasons for the sexual liberation movement. So women could be free to chase Chad without the shaming or ostracization that followed. But you can't change biology, no matter how much society changes. Men just don't want to take care of another guys kids or a chick who has fucked 100 guys. So these girls end up paying for it later on when no guy (read: beta bob) wants her. A few generations ago this didn't need to be said. In modern day, feminazis and SJWs try to shame guys for not dating single mothers or for not wanting girls with high N-counts and can't understand why no guys are biting.

RenaissanceMan79 8y ago

this is straight cold truth here

GetrichonIMP 8y ago

I was also thinking if women are really doing the 80/20 rule. Women en masse must be having sex with guys who have hundreds of partners increasing std chances. This is why i avoid tinder chicks

Tarnsman4Life 8y ago

They are all "Tinder Chicks" though. Unless you go above and beyond and pull a nerdy looking introvert who works in the back of a library in this day and age odds are she has taken more cocks than the piss trough at Wrigley Field during the 7th inning stretch.

The difference between "tinder chicks" and normal sluts is tinder chicks are totally 100% shameless about the fact they are just trying to take as much cock as possible to the point where it is literally advertised on an app. Your normal bar slut still hamsters not being a slut for banging a different guy in a different bar very other night.

TL:DR Unless you pull them very very young, they are probably taking lots of cock.

Luckyluke23 8y ago

i started using tinder like a week or so ago i have liked quite a few profiles and i haven't even got 1 god dam single like yet. I was starting to think the app was bugged. then i got a like! i was like ok cool...

turn out she was a hooker bot. or rather wanted me to sign up and send her money for shit.

and I'm not even " THAT BAD". I guess I'm just not up the very high "20% of guys"

it's kind of sad to think about some times, that you aren't even good enough to get the low quality girls on tinder. good job I'm working on myself

Esthermont 8y ago

This is some hardcore stuff.

Don't punish yourself, most women are on Tinder for the acknowledgement.

askmrcia 8y ago

All I can say is it's a crap shoot. I use tinder and am ok with it. I can get dates and sleep with them, but there are times when I can swipe for days and get no action. It's a hit and miss.

Summers are the hardest because women are going to friend's weddings and taking vacations.

When I first started using it like 3 years ago I experienced what you were going through. The only changes I've made was take better pictures. The guys on ig with 1000s of likes. I just stole their poses and style.

With all that said tinder can be a waste of time. I played college football and am still in very great shape. Just because I said I was successful on there ; doesn't really mean much. I still struggle to get matches. The hottest girls I match with usually won't text back and when we agree to set up a date they often flake.

You're much better off in real life. Again I had a few hookups but it wasn't really worth it in my opinion

Luckyluke23 8y ago

You're much better off in real life.

yeah man ALWAYS, I'm not using it at a substitute just to add to my club game while it rains mid-week.

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ferengiprophet 8y ago

I prefer the kazakh approach. Find a girl you find attractive and stuff her in a bag.

90% success. If Borat can do it, so can you.

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PantsonFire1234 8y ago

Don't forget to bring barb wire and duct tape. Can't let this one escape later on. Fritzl would approve.

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This. I'm always grateful I had exposure to dudes who are top (but not model top) in looks. Its retarded how easy shit is for them.

I don't blame most of the men who seek to unplug though. Majority of men will NEVER know how its like being around those guys.

I agree on the RP needing to keep it real on the facial aesthetics. It really is all about the face.

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[deleted] 8y ago

Yep sounds about right. Its ridiculous but it is the truth. As I commented on an older post a while back looks are the most valuable currency.

slutnip 8y ago

pic your niche.... ive had terrible luck on tinder....

ive had girls that i know have swiped no on me on tinder and i fucked them because they chased me at a club in the past which in itself is funny.

women cant sense 'alpha' on tinder, its pure looks (which is fine) plus i know some ugly guys on tinder score some hotties every now and then. right place right time is all its about

[deleted] 8y ago

Your dating life with women is black and white, you are either:

Given female attention en masse because of how alpha you are. You can say even the creepiest of things to women or say you are unemployed and live in your moms basement, but they won't care, they still want the cock. You will have everything you want with women.
Get minimal attention. You won't have many one night stands but you'll have a couple of relationships from women looking for a consistent male partner. You'll always be confused as to why women "make no sense", but the blue pill programming will keep your doubts away.

victor_knight 8y ago

Or... get a hooker or a surrogate.

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abbafishhead 8y ago

I'm not even that attractive (5'6", sub-10% body fat no doubt, Asian, shitty apartment in shitty neighborhood, "classic" sports car), but I lay consistently 2-3 girls on average weekly. Swiping in downtown Los Angeles. A lot of black girls, some Hispanic and Asians, and from time to time a white girl. I pay for Tinder Plus, swipe on two phones.

Go for quantity. You'll be fine. My N-count is nearing three digits thanks to Tinder alone.

MrBowlfish 8y ago

This is a good tip. That swipe limit crushes your chances. However, this only applies in cities. If you go for Tinder plus in rural areas you will quickly run out of people to swipe on.

abbafishhead 8y ago

Well this goes without saying. Trying to have any semblance of a dating life in rural areas is just crazy. You need population density for anything to happen. Think NYC/LA/Chicago/San Francisco.

HiGuysiamkewl 8y ago

I used to use tinder like "bus girl" in op's post, until i realized that its just a numbers game so I swipe right on every single one.

Galactic-Unicorn 8y ago

Even the fat and ugly ones?

[deleted] 8y ago

Easier to unmatch them than it is to filter them out when swiping right on every one. I set my phone down sideways and use pointer and middle finger to swipe right.

yumyumgivemesome 8y ago

Not only that, where I live there are sooo many spam accounts that you'll just waste all of your likes. I do quick swipes on the first picture.

Leaz31 8y ago

Sounds like me when i'm using Tinder.

Except that my box isn't full at all.

[deleted] 8y ago

I would recommend everyone here make a tinder profile of a girl to see what it's like for them.

Plus you also get to see what the competition is.

redarkane 8y ago

We're jumping through hoops to satiate such a primal urge.. Sometimes I wonder if we really are in control of our lives, or if it's just the human body's alarming urge to procreate that truly is controlling us.

slay_it_forward 8y ago

I recently sat with a young hottie and watched her on Tinder. Swiped left on virtually every guy, even good looking ones. In nature men will fuck about 90% of women. You can see this playing out on Tinder. Men swipe right on pretty much every woman while women swipe left. If they're even half decent looking they will match with every guy.

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Pillredpopper 8y ago

The Paretto principle applies highly to women and todays dating, especially online dating. 20% of the men on tinder have a lock on 80% of the females on Tinder. Being 6'1 and up with low body fat, a chiseled jawline with a 6 figure income is the gold standard all women look for on dating sites. A nice 5'6" guy with a little extra body fat, maybe with a receding hairline, with a stable government job pulling down 42k a year will be fighting for scraps and will be probably deemed creepy by most girls he messages. In bigger cities like New York, these are the guys that are constantly getting manhattan meal plan'd to death.

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zephyrprime 8y ago

Going by your numbers, it's actually ~95% of guys who have no chance on tinder - even more depressing.

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corsega 8y ago

There's no need for a field report for this. It has been proven by many studies.

https://sirtyrionlannister.wordpress.com/ is a good starting point. Also http://worst-online-dater.tumblr.com/.

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It's still interesting to come across in real life.. I always find it interesting when I come across things we talk about here

ReddittFeist 8y ago

The Pareto Principle holds in the sexual marketplace just as much as it does in any other marketplace.

This distribution has been found in other studies of human sexual success, dating back to ancient times. And it has even been found in other primates. Here's an interesting video that summarizes some of the data

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wpca1ZDIRQ

[deleted] 8y ago

I knew Tindr was a waste of time when I asked an attractive friend what his rate of success was on the app. Needless to say, his results weren't that promising, and he's a very good looking dude. It was then that I knew the app was worthless. Why would I bother with it when i'm not even at my target weight and my face is average at best? I'll just take my chances with day game and other 'in person' avenues of picking up chicks. Its always worked for me.

Not gonna lie though, with the massive numbers of women on these apps, I wish I could garner success. But I know I wont so why fucking bother

SetConsumes 8y ago

How do you know you won't? Let me see this crystal ball of yours.

[deleted] 8y ago

well I might try it when I get to my desired weight and lifting goals, but as of right now? no fucking way. And like I said, my face isn't horrendously ugly or any such thing, but it's not something a woman would write home about. Look, i've had success with hotties in my time, even when I was a chubby fuck, but it never started from pure lust. I never had a hottie just lust for me that night without me getting to know her/work some game. That is what im hoping to change here, but I want to be realistic about my chances is all

RealMcGonzo 8y ago

Dating apps, OL dating, all this inflates vagina prices. Hippoglotamuses aren't settling for less than Brad Pitt, especially on the left side of the age curve. Gonna be a LOT of miserable post wallers in the future (I mean, even more than we have now).

VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

Gonna be a LOT of miserable post wallers in the future (I mean, even more than we have now).

We have plenty now. In my age cohort, there are a lot of women who are like "WHOOOSH!!" what happened? I used to be young and hot and guys satisfied my every whim. Now they're cat colonists working at a shitty job and living in a 1 BR flat.

Meanwhile, as a guy, so long as you (a) don't become an unemployable drug addict, or (b) get enormously fat, you should do just fine. And if you have Game Skillz you will do really well.

seattleron 8y ago

Meanwhile, as a guy, so long as you (a) don't become an unemployable drug addict, or (b) get enormously fat, you should do just fine. And if you have Game Skillz you will do really well.

I thank God everyday I was born with testicles. It's harder for us at first, but the 2nd half of life can so much better for us it more than makes up for it.

Fraffrilla 8y ago

not true. More and more women do not want old farts, especially because old farts have bad sperm quality. You might get swindled by a foreigner looking to come in the country, but, after a few years, she will rightly dump you like a piece of garbage.

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VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago

It's harder for us at first, but the 2nd half of life can so much better for us it more than makes up for it.

And the 2nd half lasts way longer.

seattleron 8y ago

And the 2nd half lasts way longer.

You have a lot more freedom in the 2nd half of life. Yeah, you're not young and invincible any more, but you can do whatever tf you want.

Fraffrilla 8y ago

this is self-deluding BS. I see plenty of old farts around being rejected by young girls. You are out of your mind if you think that an old fart with a catheter can still do whatever he wants.

SetConsumes 8y ago

Old farts cant do shit. Old fucks can.

iii694 8y ago

except the second half they're also old. And desperate. So yup big win...

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seattleron 8y ago

Yeah, well i'm not gaming the old ones, but you have fun with that.

vagbutters 8y ago

This is the schadenfreude that comes along with the decline-- seeing former sluts who become post-wall hags suffer. Until that time comes, boys, lift and focus on making money while being in that 20% that gets laid.

yaysmr 8y ago

Unfortunately most of them will probably make out just find. That 80% of guys who couldn't get laid with these women is going to become their betabux because they'll be so desperate for love and take any attention they can get. The thirst is strong.

So I think most of them won't end up being alone, they'll just be stuck in a loveless, sexually stagnant marriage with maybe some kids and they'll just long for their glory days. Maybe if they're lucky the latch on to a wealthier beta and suck him dry (his wallet, not his cock) before divorcing and moving to the next one, but she'll survive either way.

In other words, they'll completely get away with slutting it up. Not really the just desserts, and not as entertaining to view, but still a realization that will hit them with the force of 1000 suns.

joeyjojosharknado 8y ago

I think you're right. I've seen 50yr+ ugly slutty hags get decent looking guys in their 20's. There's been a hard sell by women and their mindless cohorts in recent years to push the 'cougar' thing (the reasons for this seem obvious). The sell has targeted both angles too - both to normalise young guys shagging decrepit old crones and for the crones themselves to chase young guys (further, to condemn this when the genders are reversed). Also, the more guys that are pushed out of the dating pool due to the Tinder effect, the more that will go for post wall hags.

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Would you call being in a marriage with a guy you're disgusted by just so you have access to money happiness? Because it sure as shit doesn't seem that way to me

FreeRadical5 8y ago

Oh no, they won't get the absolute best in life for being useless fat cunts. How terrible must it be.

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It would be like if you dated HB8s for 20 years and then got stuck with a HB4 who was rich. It would blow.

FreeRadical5 8y ago

20 years fucking different hb8s while I laugh at the fat below average hb4s which are really my level. Eventually having to finally marry the hb4 so I can get half her net worth.

You're right, I'm the real victim here. How terrible. Poor me.

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Lol, you're missing the point, but ok

FreeRadical5 8y ago

I understand what you're saying. It would feel like a huge downgrade. But it's because they got a massive underserved advantage to begin with that they got used to.

MattyAnon Admin 8y ago

Seen the same thing. Very average 30's woman (let's say a 4 ... not a warthog, but perhaps a wart or two. thin. no figure. not special at all). Instantly dismissed all but Chad.

They're so entitled.... later she'll be saying how all men are bastards because Chad wouldn't buy her dinner / marry her / ignored her or pumped and dumped her.

It's never her standards that are to blame, it's never her fault.

OP - Yup, by giving women the illusion of choice, they instantly discount the bottom 90%. They aren't all going to marry those top 10% looking guys. And yes, it all goes on looks.

Tarnsman4Life 8y ago

Part of the reason the Wart acts like that is either Social Media tells her she too can have Chad if only for a night, or some lazy Chad took the first match he got and fucked her senseless a few years ago. Such an experience is so life changing she will not settle for anything less than re-creating it. The woman is literally "changed" for life. From Cinderella to thinking she is Kim Kardashian all from one Chad cock.

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Bpgiissues 8y ago

My experience with tinder. I'm now in my late 40s and started using it a little over three years ago when I was 44. At 44 I had a reasonable success rate probably a 1 in 10 to 1 in 20 match rate number of dates that ended up in bed. About 1 to 1.5 years after I started using the app my match rate plummeted to the point that it became a waste of time. I didn't change my pictures at all in that time period.

Not sure at this point if it was crossing 45 that did it or just that the average picture quality has gone up. I'm in am ltr now so I haven't bothered with it in quite a while but if I do I'm going to try getting some pro pics taken to see what the difference there would be. For reference I'm 6'4 successful and extremely fit for my age / industry and have a lot of iois going my way in daily life.

SexySmexxy 8y ago

Because most guys suck at tinder.

I used to suck at tinder , then I took two nice selfie and I get on average 20-40 matches a day.

Most guys just don't really know how to play the tinder game, instead of learning they just go on the internet and cry about it.

I had tinder before,months ago and hot on average one match a day of very sub par women.

Re downloaded it at the start of the month bit have only really been using it since about 4-5 days now and in these 4 days I must've had at least 150 matches.

Now I'm matching with women that are actually really attractive, even some hb9s and maybe even 10s.

I'm also getting lots of matches of girls that are actually attractive and have a lot of anime/gaming stuff in their bio/pictures.

Tinder is a game. Learn to play it.

Blesss 8y ago

sooo, what exactly did you do differently besides the two new selfies?

SexySmexxy 8y ago

Pretty much the selfies.

All girls care about is how you look.

I took a decent mirror facial shot, and a decent gym mirror shot where I'm wearing an uchiha T-shirt (from the anime called naruto) abd I have nice posture / my biceps are slightly accentuated.

Tinder is like an advert for yourself.

acetylcysteine 8y ago

essentially it's marketing yourself. throw in some good pictures of yourself doing activities, and a simple profile line, and you'll get matches.

SexySmexxy 8y ago

Precisely.

And tinder is probably the easier way to improve your pictures too. How?

Set your preference to men, and look at what you would consider"great pictures". Now all you have to do is emulate them.

TheRealMouseRat 8y ago

I'm a guy and my behavior on tinder is exactly the same as hers. But the same applies to girls: 1) be somewhat attractive 2)don't be a crazy or massive narcissist 3)don't be fat.

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Well tinder is for fucking, I only fuck girls I'm attracted to.

MOCKxTHExCROSS 8y ago

Per your anecdote, top 96% is more accurate. The goal of hypergamy is to shift that figure higher yet.

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play_time_is_over 8y ago

Not only that but it scales exponentially.

Top 50% = 0% match rate
Top 20% = 2% match rate
Top 10% = 10% matche rate
Top 5% = 40% match rate
Top 2% = ??% match rate, close to 90% i rekon.

All girls want the best males. At the moment I get about 20 matches a week which is enough to sustain a sex life but I really want to get into the 50 matches a week range.

Top 2%

Im 6'4", ripped abs and only getting 15-20 matches a week (I only match with 7+) i need to upgrade my profile.

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breathewater 8y ago

"I'm angry because a girl is attracted to some people and not to others"

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spootsnoopy 8y ago

I agree that the girls are hard to keep around if you act BP.

I slept with 6 girls from tinder from about 12 meet ups In a 6 month period . the first 5 only stuck around for between 1-3 weeks. Then I found red pill, so I treated the 6th one in a red pill fashion. She is the hottest one of them all (HB8) and is still gagging on my dick 13 weeks later.

Go figure.

icantloveyou 8y ago

How did you treat the 6th person differently? What different tactics did you use? Any examples?

spootsnoopy 8y ago

Dominate in bedroom. Pull hair. Choke her. Spank her. Dirty talk. Throw her around. Just be an animal and be in the moment

The biggest difference is realising when you are being tested. Ignore her crazy brattyness with amused mastery. Demonstrate a willingness to walk away.

Hold frame

Make it so you are the prize.

Withdraw your attention when she acts up. Ask her to leave jokingly when she says something against something you enjoy. Simple example:

Me in the morning: acts more excited about the fact that I'll be eating bacon for breakfast soon than the fact that I'm actually getting a blowjob.

After she swallows she says : I'm not In The mood for bacon

Me: you are everything that is wrong with the world. You should leave

I puts heaps of emphasis on the little things I enjoy in life. And playfully act super offended when someone thinks otherwise

fruguy 8y ago

I hooked up with a girl off Tinder the other week. She's the hottest girl I've ever fucked and was some of the hottest sex I've ever had. Slapped her arse raw (she couldn't get enough), dirty talk, hair pulling, biting, etc.

She has ghosted though. The fuck? She asked after if I'm as dominating outside of bed as I am in, repeatedly said I'm a take charge type of guy, etc., so that wasnt my problem.

I have about the same rate of success as you, but they never stick around. I guess this is how it feels to be pumped and dumped haha.

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What the actual fuck? Lol that is fantastic

postreformedpua 8y ago

My whole life has changed since learning TRP. Understanding you are constantly being tested is a big part. It lets me truly stop worrying what some girl thinks and get on with my life. When you expect it you can deal with it.

jewishsupremacist88 8y ago

This is why the (((elites))) are dumping so much Venture Capital shekels into start-ups..they need to keep you gentiles in a trance and distracted from the real issues.