Being met with reciprocated interest when I'd pass her shit tests, the early stages of seduction when she'd text her sexual thoughts, the thrill of fucking a hot woman.. it was all very exciting. In that time I've gone through multiple withdrawals and crazes about her. My brain had never experienced such pleasure and novelty.
I was less serious about cold approach and gathering new leads, and even stopped swiping on hinge. I didn't pursue a warm lead from a 38 who gave IOIs, and has a history of seeing men my age. It's like my interest was turned off, I didn't want any of that.
However after this latest craze, something changed. Interest or thrill significantly dropped, and I started eyeing and pursuing new women. Additionally, focusing on school work became easier. I've gotten busier, but I'm not blaming that for this interest drop because I'm cold approaching again. I'm plate spinning now.
2 days ago I had a great 5 minute conversation full of laughts with an hb7 in Walmart. It was full of laughs and giggles, and thus I number closed. She's a hot lead that's responding to my plans to hangout.
Following the advice of a Mod here on this site, I made some female friends. Within those 2 months I drew closer to a friend (overweight, but cute and feminine = 5), still a pass. This friend confessed to liking me and said she's "like a little girl" when around me. She's falling hard.
I was a cocky/flirty with her, but also there for her (unlike an aloof RP sperg), so we drew emotionally close. I think she's in love or infatuated with me now, I sense she'd smash. However I said we're just friends, and she responded how she's usually the one that friend zones her guy friends that try to smash.
She's less attractive than my FWB, but she's ready to be plucked. I'm having thoughts of fingering her or something, but I honestly think I'd be disappointed by her body. I also let our hands touch in public, it’s strange. I think this shows I want variety. I now have my eye out for petite girls under 100lb that I wanna fuck. I wanna experience that.
Back to my FWB We've been seeing each other for over 2 months and have been through a lot already (including a pregnancy scare, condom broke twice). I didn't think this was possible within myself, but it seems she's more in love with me than I'm with her. I think this is good because I can be a better leader in our situationship now. I care about her, and we're close as friends.. but I want to see multiple women now. She will still be my friend.
This also killed anxiety I had about us. I now know that I will have pussy no matter the outcome.
I’m still figuring out how this masculine RP thing works This could be abundance or maturity, but I know this is the healthiest place I've been in regard to women. I just didn't expect this kind of internal shift, interesting.
mattyanon Admin 3w ago
how many other girls are you fucking?
oowiw 1mo ago
Deep down, some part of you recognizes you have options now, and is shifting sexual strategies from a centralized to distributed strategy - the strategy for times of abundance.
Hamza99 1mo ago
how did you meet that FWB?
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 4w ago
Not reading the word-vomit, but just answering the question in the subject line.
She's just an FWB. if you want variety, get some variety. Duh.
First-light 4w ago
In terms of excitement, nothing compares to a new woman to learn all about and enjoy. If you are looking for excitement alone, you will need other women. This tends to go against the benefits of LTR. One usually wants to have a go and see what its like having multiple women and compare it to LTR to see what one really prefers. Without having done both you just have what others say to go on and they often see the world only their way. Everyone is individual.
Intrepid_Place53900 4w ago
( I didn't think this was possible within myself, but it seems she's more in love with me than I'm with her)
I've had FWB, I've never , ever, thought of being in love with them. Never even entered my mind that we could be in a LTR.
Ya, you need to be with more women.
ObliviousDuck 4w ago
Sexual variety is beneficial and don't let anyone shame you for pursuing it. Now that you have the option, go for it.
However, just be aware there is a big difference between obtaining sexual variety and seeking sexual validation from as many women as possible. The former is embracing your masculinity and will naturally weave with your life goals, the latter is destructive and only leads to emptiness.
Keep your life goals clear in your mind at all time and make sure you are the only judge of your progress, not whether or not some
randomgirl wants your dick.redpillschool Admin 4w ago
Spin more plates.
MrSupreme 4w ago
That's what plates are , variety, and a FWB is basically a steady plate. There's not much to it
whytehorse2021 4w ago
There are stages men go through and stages to relationships. Without knowing where you're at it's hard to give advice. If a woman doesn't get pregnant after 3 ovulatory cycles, men instinctively feel that the woman is infertile and begin to move on to fertile women. Enter birth control and you have all this weird shit with hook-ups, FWB, etc. If the woman does get pregnant men start to pair bond and become paternal, territorial, etc. ONEITIS is actually an evolved mechanism to ensure the survival of the species. Enter feminism and you have weird crap like simps, orbiters, Chads, etc.
Simply put, wanting variety is due to a lack of procreation with a specific mate. Even if you procreate, after 7 years if there's not another child you will wanderlust again.
Gilles 4w ago
Bro just imagine where you were 2 years ago. You should be proud of yourself buddy