I feel like she’s inviting me to make a move on her but I also feel like she’s trying to beta orbiter me. Can I have some help so I can actually get something by the end of the night?
Also, sorry for the double post, I’m trying to figure out if I get more responses on the forum or on the little chatroom
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kv2_0833 1y ago
I prefer ignoring her trying to define it, just be clear in main place you're visiting and main activity and then do that and go do something else after. If she's into you she'll make excuses to see you for longer. Also wtf after "Now sir..." don't hit her up until a few hrs before plans to confirm... this is how you text a girlfriend lol
OPStolen 1y ago
I’m trying to use “amused mastery” to deflect her saying we’re going out as friends. This is the first time in two weeks she’s ever double texted me and acted desperate to know where I’m taking her. I usually was describing in full detail where we’d go and what we’d do.
I actually don’t have any plan for tomorrow. I’m just trying to spend as little as possible to fuck.
But, I feel like it’s working out because she keeps asking what she should wear and where we’re going. I just told her I’d text her tomorrow because she quadrupled texted me asking if she should do makeup or wear something nice. I just said “wear what you think I wanna see. I’ll text tomorrow” and dropped it.
I was super afraid to do this because normally I detail everything I have planned out and say “are you okay with this”. In my beta mind I feel like an absolute slob but I feel like I’m finally doing the red pill thing and just leaving it open. She REALLY wants to know what we’re doing tomorrow.
She always calls me “sir” though because she told me she was a sub and that she’d suck my dick and let me hit but I acted Beta and told her I’d respect her decision to be friends.
I started reading the sidebar and taking notes on being vague and avoiding real answers. I texted her Wednesday and told her I’d take her out Sunday but I wasn’t going to text her again until Saturday to confirm she was coming. I’ve basically done a whole personality shift on her.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
If I were her I'd want to know if I should dress formal, casual, etc. Anyway, if she tries to friend-zone you, use her for social circle game, preselection, etc. Have her play matchmaker to hook you up with her hot friends.
kv2_0833 1y ago
"I usually was describing in full detail where we’d go and what we’d do."
"She REALLY wants to know what we’re doing tomorrow."
So don't tell her xD just be chill and do something fun
"I actually don’t have any plan for tomorrow" -> do something that's chill that you wanna do anyway, or go somewhere you've always wanted to go
To master amused mastery, you literally have fun. Like you don't fake it lmao. You literally look for fun and your own enjoyment in the situation you find yourself in.
dongking 1y ago
Did you smash her yet or nah?
pofkaf 1 1y ago
Looks like she will be a waste of time. Next her and move on.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Same answer I gave you on the trp.red side of the site:
I see nothing wrong with your text game at all, except that you are wasting your efforts on a woman who is clearly not interested.
I'd next her and put that effort towards new prospects.
Anything less than a "fuck yes" should be regarded as a "fuck no".
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
Bro you're hilarious as fuck. I wanna hear from you how it turned out.
I don't know if she's a bad prospect per se or if she's just massively shit testing you, so I'd just see how it turns out.
The only thing I'd say: You could also just have said no, but getting a red bull from her is also a good compliance test, so not complete failure.
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Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
You should never let a woman think you take her seriously.
You know nothing, and 99% of your "advice" is blue-pilled garbage .
Next you'll be saying that it's important to communicate and be emotionally available.
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Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Read up on shit tests, especially the "agree and amplify" response.
The whole purpose of every tool for passing shit tests is to demonstrate to the woman that you do not take her seriously, and regard her as an overgrown child.
This particular dude in the OP was rejected before that text thread even started. She just isn't interested.
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Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Blue pilled to the core.
And evidently with zero experience with actual women.
I have had them show enormous interest before meeting in person. I've had them eating out of the palm of my hand. I've also been thoroughly rejected just like OP.
Once your experience a woman who actually wants you, nothing else will do. Trying to work your way out of the FriendZone just isn't worth your efforts, especially when there are so many other women out there.
Related:
Wait For It by Rollo Tommasi.
NAWALTing unironically. Blue pilled to the core.
They're all sluts; it's just a matter of degree and finding the ones willing to be slutty for you.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
is she fucking you?
two ways to read her text.........99% it's LJBF
Gilles 1y ago
I think your text game is fine, she just seems low interest. Amused mastery is ok, but she's giving tons of resistance. Your time is probably better spent on other prospects.
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
Dude....
She has clearly said she is only looking for orbiters to do her favours and give her validation. You continuing to text this woman is mega beta.
The phrase 'text game' made me concerned, and then I clicked on the link (that didn't quite work, needed copy past) and my fears were confirmed.
Even day in every way I see that there is no such thing as 'text game'. once you are texting, you are in the female frame. At most, text is for logistics only. Time and place and thats it. Even that is dodgy. If you are getting pulled into text threads, you are in her frame.