@Typo-MAGAshiv Ok she didn’t let me cop anything first date. She was really socially awkward and nervous. But she was really flirty and she said “I’m just looking for a friend” but then whispered “with benefits”. So, I left the date and just said “hit me up when you feel like it” and didn’t send any text or get a text after.
I feel like I was being autistic because when we left she stared at me really hard and kept saying she was cold and tired and just wanted to go back home and sleep. I was going to make a move but I didn’t want to pressure it too much because she kept suggesting this was just a warmup to get her comfy. I was going to suggest something else but I didn’t want to suggest going back to her place cause we took separate cars.
But, I think she’ll hit me up tomorrow because she told me she’d be off at 5:30 and said she has nothing to do.
I think it’d be best to, even though I really want to beta out and ask tomorrow, just not text and see when she hits me back up.
Sorry for the long ass speech. Do you think I was okay?
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv We recovered it. I was about to beta out and triple text her but I just let it be and went on with my day. She texted about 20min ago like “hey, what’s up” and I told her “Ima pick you up tonight and you can see for yourself”. Bout to go in.
@Typo-MAGAshiv im trying to rationalize it and say “this is red pill game because I showed im not just going to stop what im doing for a quick fuck” but this memory will haunt me for a few days. Big tittied latina bruh. I should’ve just cleaned up real quick and gone.
I just blew the easiest hookup of my life. Matched with this girl, got her number in an hour, she invited me over to her place tonight, and I was like “nah, hmu tomorrow” and she said “Nah, I don’t think we’re on the same page” and I said “we are but I read faster. Drop your address and hmu tomorrow”
I didn’t want to go this late because I smell like ass from driving around all day and my breath is hot af. Really pissed now.
Hyper-Sexuality and Mixed Bipolar 1
I recently changed bipolar meds due to insurance. I was on Depakote but now im on Lamotrigine. Live in the states so can’t get a prostitute. I’m finally realizing that my desperate need to have a girlfriend was to have sex. I keep trying to think back on my relationships and I can’t even remember one thing I enjoyed doing. I hate dates, I hate being seen in public with women that aren’t that attractive, I hate being forced to meet family and meet their other girl friends.
I just really love sex. I used to fuck 4x a week with my ex and it’s crippling me having no access to sex right now. I’m so desperate right now that I have reached new levels of perversion. I started offering matches on tinder or bumble $250 to $500 cash just to skip to fucking because im tired of getting “Oh you’re a good guy, I can’t fuck on the first date with YOU” or all the BS about them not having time to talk or needing to look at their schedule before we can even go on a date.
How are you guys that do monk mode or have been in a dry spell even handle this? I’m going insane thinking about sex and trying new vags and shit. My ex was loose but moist as fuck, shit was magical. I’ve been obsessed about trying different pussies ever since.
How the fuck do I deal with this?
Read MoreDo You Guys Think This Opportunity is Worth It?
I’ve been working in cell phone stores all through college. I managed a Cricket Wireless for a few years. My old territory manager always had new cars and would talk about his mortgage and gas card. I was hoping to become the next territory manager since my store was always number 1 or 2 each month in the district. However, a different manager who’s store was always number 5 or 6 in the district (out of 7) was friends with him and worked their longer and he basically told everyone he planned on doing whatever was necessary to make her the next territory manager.
I quit my job and worked with AT&T for a few months as manager. Absolutely hated it. I hate retail in general. I quit that job as well.
However, T-Mobile needs a territory manager. I’d be traveling an hour away into Delaware and crossing the bridge every day. They told me they had to test my spanish tomorrow and then I had to meet with the DMV Operations Director at some time next week. They said I’d have to be manager of a store for 3 months to learn the systems and then they’d meet with me again to discuss moving into the territory manager position.
I’m 22 and just out of college. I’m severely in credit card debt from medical issues and porn addiction. This job would require me to travel 1hr 30min a day just to get to work(the manager position) and then I’d have to travel between all of the stores in Maryland and Delaware as Territory Manager. The pay is 80k a year and, since I’m living with family, I could have all my debts paid off and a small savings account by December.
I’m trying to decide if this is a good choice for me. If it’s worth hustling for a year or two with the title of Territory Manager so I can get another high paying job or break out of retail entirely. I’m kinda scared because cell phone sales is almost a trapped career. If you look at the people super high up at AT&T or Verizon or T-Mobile on Linkedin, they’ve basically worked in Cellular sales their entire damn lives.
I basically just don’t want to be in a position where I get a really good paying job and then can’t escape the industry. What are your guy’s thoughts? I’m asking as a boy to men as corny as that sounds. I just got out of college and I don’t have any MEN to ask, just my mother and aunts.
TL:DR: I’m 9k in debt. In three months, I could potentially be making 80k a year. This job will require a ton of travel and hustling and I’ll be on-call basically 24/7. Is this something worth taking at least for a year so I can get myself out of debt, get my car mostly paid off, and get myself into an apartment?
Read More@OPStolen No, don't ask this upfront. Look for genuine IOIs and act upon these decisively. Asking if she has a boyfriend first is like asking her permission for you to ask her out, which despite what Feminists claim, is NOT considered attractive or "good" by women.
Any woman who has a boyfriend that matters will volunteer that information to you the moment you ask. When they do, just take a no big deal approach so the situation doesn't linger in a socially awkward place. If you play it cool, she may mention her single friend next.
Do you ask if a chick has a boyfriend or husband before asking for their number?
Now that I’m on anxiety meds and bipolar meds, I’ve been talking up everyone. Having random conversations in stores, while I’m in parking lots, studying at the library.
One thing I used to do before I even started flirting with a chick is say “You got a man?” But, I’m realizing now that that’s pretty corny because after reading the sidebar and experiencing hypergamy IRL, whether she has a man or not if she’s into you she’ll fuck.
I want to make a move tomorrow on this chick I think is pretty attractive at a store I go to. Yea I know that’s horrible, they’re paid to be there, yada yada. But basically, I wanna ask for her number and I don’t know if I should preface it with “if you don’t have a man, you should let me get your number” or just a “let me hit you up, pass me your number”
I know I’m cringe. But I’ve kinda faced this before and I don’t know if it’s good to ever ask. I used to always get caught up on “I don’t know if this chick is single, let me ask before I make a move” and I feel like that ruined a lot of potential dates I could’ve gotten.
Read More2w ago TheRedPill
@Vermillion-Rx yea I’m starting over. I want to ask out this chick that works at a restaurant I go to. I’m prepared to face my first cold approach rejection. Hope it feels good.
2w ago TheRedPill
Finally decided have some self-respect. I was talking with this chick. We hooked up twice and then she hit me with the “I wanna take you serious, let’s slow down”. So we started hanging out without any sexual acts.
Eventually, she let it slip that she’s been hooking up in between our “dates”. So I went beta mode and was like “Ok, so when’s the next time we’re gonna do something”. Cue the long winded beta shit I started doing. She started cancelling our “dates” on the day of as I was driving to her place, completely disrespecting my time and I kept letting it happen.
So I finally said “Ok, since you keep flaking on dates, can I just slide by and get a blowjob or something since other dudes are getting that shit for free?”. And she hit me with the “I take you serious” shit again and I beta’ed out again.
I’d keep telling her I was going to swing by to pick her up and she’d be like “take me out to get food” or “let’s go to the boardwalk” and I kept taking her knowing dudes were fucking her in parking lots for a soda.
So today, after three weeks on my bipolar meds, I hit her up and was like “let’s meet up” and she immediately was like “we should get dinner”. 2hrs early and she’s texting me saying she’s doing her makeup and I was like “my bad, something came up.” Now something actually did come up, but in my head I was finally like “why am I about to drop $50 to $100 so we can eat when she’s literally shown she’ll give dudes head and let dudes fuck for sitting in the backseat of their car and playing Netflix on their iPhone”.
I don’t know. I wish I could get hoes to actually treat themselves like hoes and stop beta-ing me. But I feel like I’m on the right track.
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