Hi guys,
This is a repost, I didn't get any replies and am still curious. Hope someone can help me out.
I'm in South-America for the next few months. At this time Ecuador specifically, but will travel to other countries (Colombia & Mexico). If been here some time now and get a lot of attention as a 6'2, blonde white guy and k-closing is too easy. However going for the next step is extremely difficult. I've got girls that don't like me to touch there butt, but like to grind my cock. Suggesting at the end of the evening to go to their place or mine is always getting rejected.
I'm still improving myself and my game is also getting better, but in Europe I had better succes in fucking girls than in South-America. While I get a lot more attention from girls here.
So now I'm thinking I might be missing some cultural differences? Could you help me out?
TSM_Bjergson 5y ago
That's weird. I had 0 problems in Colombia. Women that I met through IG and Tinder were down to uber to my place and fuck almost immediately with no resistance and talking only through google translate. It helped that I stayed in very high end condos and made that known to these girls when gaming them.
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thetrpdino 5y ago
Thanks man! I'll keep it in mind and play the game. Colombia will be next and sounds amazing! MedellĂn won't be skipped! Thanks for all the advice!
dr_warlock 5y ago
It's shocking to see the difference between some non-western cultures and the west ie America. When I travel to Europe or venture into a 'forgiener' part of town, I feel drunk. I'll sit down at one of the local restaurants and chill with my meal. There's a hot girl every 5 mins ordering food, that's not including the staff. Ass everywhere, even the older women. The average attractiveness is so much higher and the local guys think it's normal. 'Foreigners' must be horrified when they venture into the west. I realized America died a long time ago, suffocation by fat chicks.
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InscrutablePUA 5y ago
I was just in medellin and didn't want to leave. Paisa women are ridiculously hot. Do you work remotely to support yourself? I'd move there in a heartbeat but have a high paying job lined up in the bay area. Trying to figure out how to make it work....
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InscrutablePUA 5y ago
nice... the out of town mysterious but rich gringo image will definitely get that pussy wet
antidoxdevice 5y ago
Prostitutes?
InscrutablePUA 5y ago
there are tonnes of paisa prostitutes don't be fooled
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antidoxdevice 5y ago
What city were you in? Colombia seems like the new place to be
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InscrutablePUA 5y ago
Colombia is awesome. Do you live there?
TSM_Bjergson 5y ago
No but a couple friends that travel a lot introduced me to it. I've been there 3 times in the past year now.
mrpoopistan 5y ago
Keep in mind Ecuador is much more disconnected from the global cultural mainstream. You're going to find more traditional women, and that's going to make the attitude toward a traveler more "interloper" than "exotic".
I'd be willing to bet Colombia, especially if you're traveling to the developed areas, will be a bit more open.
As for Europe . . . the hard part in Europe is not getting laid. One thing I'll say about Europe is that the history of tourism there leads to a selection bias (in this case, one we like) where local women who are interested in foreigners gravitate toward the tourist areas. This irons out matching problems, making hooking up a simplified process.
thetrpdino 5y ago
Thanks! I guess I'll have to adjust my style a bit
bondbandito 5y ago
Couldn't you just bring them somewhere in public, you know fundamentally, the escalation ramp has to be completed once you start it
antidoxdevice 5y ago
I don't have much experience myself but one of my friends was a 5'4 East Asian guy who was 24 and a virgin. He moved to Brazil for work and promptly lost his virginity with a cute girl. He fucked a few more before moving back after a year.
So yeah Brazil should be easy, idk about the rest
Wakawakaheihei 5y ago
Sounds weird. Do you build enough comfort? I've got a 5' friend who's born there and living there who can't stop getting laid there, and he's like a flirting gnome, his WhatsApp is full of girls. All he does is hanging out with groups of people and building comfort / rapport with the girls. It shouldn't be hard for you because you got the advantage of IOI's from the beginning.
Try going to clubs and watch for players, try to connect with them and ask for tips. Tell them that you can work together because you got crazy IOI's and you can get them chicks.
disorderly 5y ago
Ecuadorian girls are prudes
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thetrpdino 5y ago
That's what I experience...
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Girls in south america are generally a bit more prude. A lot of times they expect multiple dates before sex and for the man to always pay.
The only place in South America I've been that has had even close to the hookup culture of the US was Colombia.
lapeparoja 5y ago
You need to work on your logistics I think, have a decent place, not a youth hostel. That and avoid giving creepy vibes going for the same day lay. The other thing is giving the impression you will be there for long term.
thetrpdino 5y ago
Thanks man! My logistics are a problem sometimes. I'll work on that
Thefireman83 5y ago
Why not just spend $50 on a prostitute every once in a while if your Spanish isn't up to par?