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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / $ Bailout $

Can you help out a 39yr old with a kid (she was victime of her 15yr marriage)
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Posted 2y ago in $ Bailout $ - Permalink - Locked - 11.2K Views



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DextroShade 2y ago

The husband was the victim of that marriage. As for her finding a partner, this is what she will get:

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Single mom of underage kids = pedo trap. First time you leave the toilet seat up, you're doing 20 to life.

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Positive-Lifeguard80 2y ago

Can't help her out, my Sexual Market Value isn't high enough for a 39yo single mom.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Sadly there’s a lot who think like this. Be better than the baby daddy. Why? Well, her standards are higher, of course! What she offers doesn’t actually matter.

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Positive-Lifeguard80 2y ago

I don't offer anything interesting for a single mom. Don't own an empty family home (for some woman to move in), don't work 9-5 in a corporate cubicle (freelancing on my own schedule instead), not driving a Prius (but a two-seater). I'm not weighted down by wives and children like 95 % of the male peers my age, removing 80 % of their total energy. I'm very mobile and just do whatever I want whenever I want wherever I want and quickly get really good at that, because I'm not distracted.

Why should I "settle down" to raise someone else's child? To whom is that a "high value man"?

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yup. If you’re going to sacrifice, do it for your own kids and a woman on your program. Not one who is going to demand provision for some other man’s kid

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Positive-Lifeguard80 2y ago

Raising the other man's kid is a depiction of a matriarchal power structure. No masculine man is going to enter such an arrangement with any woman. It's an acknowledgement, that she holds the power.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Friend of mine (female) has a friend that got knocked up by some rando years ago. Not that my friend doesn’t get why that’s not ideal for dating (she gets that men don’t want to date single moms), there’s still some dismissiveness about how it was a one night stand (like that makes it any better).

But anyway, this girl “found God” and with that, a man who provides her and her son with a comfy middle class life. Dude does have one child with her, but he gets to pretend that her son is his son.

And guess what? That kid is starting to rebel. He does horrible in school. He has all the makings of a future failure to launch. And this boy’s real father is not providing much income at all, because he’s basically a jobless bum who has other baby mamas as well. Chad in a nutshell. So this dude has basically paid full price for a kid that is not his, and his return is going to be this headache.

It’s a sucker’s deal. He provides the funding and she does what she wants with the kids.

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Pic889 2y ago

And guess what? That kid is starting to rebel. He does horrible in school. He has all the makings of a future failure to launch.

It will be fun if ten years from now some group of scientists come to the conclusion that genetics is the primary factor of how a person will perform in school and in their career, which, if true, goes against the current narrative that's it's all about "access to education and opportunities" and "upbringing".

In the meantime, raising some thug's kid carries the risk of being that person who volunteered to raise a kid with rebellious/thuggish DNA when science didn't know any better.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

They’ve already shown correlation between parental IQ and child IQ. Not that two dumb parents can’t have a smart kid and vice versa, but there’s a relation. So yeah, don’t expect Chad’s kid to turn out as good as your kid.

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Positive-Lifeguard80 2y ago

But anyway, this girl “found God” and with that, a man who provides her and her son with a comfy middle class life.

If she wants to start over after a mistake, the kid is going to stay with his dad. Doesn't matter how qualified he is for that, it's the better option for all adults involved and the kid, who needs his chad dad more than a middle-class beta provider, who can't teach him anything useful for surviving adult life as a bum.

However the woman needs to let go of her mistake and doesn't want to. As she holds the power in matriarchy, she just gets what she wants. And that is a shitty deal for everyone, but especially for the kid.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yup. Teaching a son that the main role of men is to just mindlessly provide funding and then stay out of the way. How’s that supposed to develop someone that will go on to be healthy and masculine? The dynamic is not much different from a welfare queen; money flows in, but she gets to call the shots.

These single moms, for the most part (not all, but the majority) need to suffer their past. It’s the only way society will learn and improve.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

drinks sometimes [emphasis added]

All those liquor bottles on the counter suggest that "sometimes" is really "every day". I'm ok with that; just fucking own it and be honest.

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has kid(s) and might want more [emphasis added]

Either you're deluded about how much time you have left, or that's a deception intended to appeal to men who want kids someday (who have hopefully done their own research and know better).

I am the victim

Even if that's true, that's no one else's problem and a large red flag telling people to keep their distance.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2y ago

I am the victim

That's the biggest red flag, really. Getting a divorce is not great, but not unheard of. But automatically claiming victim status is quite telling about who was the one who screwed it all up.

Also, those bottles seem to be in a bar, not her place. Hers probably are half to almost empty, and of cheaper quality.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

Also, those bottles seem to be in a bar, not her place.

You might be right, now that I take another look. The counter and everything on it look like a home kitchen, but the chairs, tables, and placemats look like a restaurant.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Its funny, but how the counter is and the chairs just there I swear to god I thought it was a beauty salon and she was a manicurist. I could totally see her sharing some wine with a "client" and bitching about how men don't want used goods anymore. She probably still does, but I guess it is a bar...

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Trying to trigger the White Knight instinct with the "I'm a victim" line, but as anyone with enough red pill knowledge knows, victim = too damaged to enter into a relationship.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Younger me would take the bait. But I know better now. They don’t just need a good man; they’ve ignored hundreds (or thousands) of them in favor of the guy who treated them like garbage

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Durek_The_Bald 2y ago

Perpetual victim, no agency having, post-wall complainy pants looking for the next guy to cast as the villain in my life. There'll be no fun, I hate fun. Also no sex, I'm not a sex worker. Any takers?

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

The glare coming from those baggy eyes just tell you what's in store for the future 'man'.

God, I shudder just thinking about her being up at night when I roll home at 2am. Think she'll let me sleep? Oh hell NO.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

What the hell happened to Mick Jagger?

The victim of who or what? They never explain that part, but in the gynocracy, the answer is rhetorical. /s

As for the rest of her bio....if she is so successful and fulfilled why is she so desperate for a man? Oh, wait. A hotel business. Now it all makes sense. She wants to start an AirBnB with your second house and retire from her old business to manage that.

You do have a second house on the beach, right?

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I was literally thinking Mick Jagger too but couldn't find the words.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I’d be asking some strong questions on how a politically conservative, devout Catholic Filipina lady who has what is likely a decent income stream (at least for her native Philippines) can’t stick it out with her ex-husband. The fact that she’s discoverable on OkCupid makes me think that she’s looking for her “traditional” American man. She’s about 15 years and 1 kid too late for that.

Edit: in fairness, I think her “victim” comment was in regards to the dating market culture and not her relationship/marriage. But it’s still self aggrandizing to make such a statement. Basically implying that she deserves to be above what she gets exposed to on the dating market

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

She's 5'4" and 145lbs. BMI=24.9. Round off and she's overweight. Normally I'd take an old woman with a hot 12yr old daughter but not if she's overweight, ew.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

The daughter is off limits

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