Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
DeeplyDisturbed1
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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WeRAllOnThisBlessedD 3y ago
I wonder if she’ll ever realize that feminism is the reason the modern dating scene is so shitty
Paltry_Poetaster 3y ago
That was a stupid question. Almost every guy wants a relationship. The real difficulty is in finding the few guys that don't. Obviously, this young Kween excludes 95% of all men, and only looks at the remaining 5%, who she thinks is attractive/rich/popular, and these guys only want poontang and nothing else.
Boo hoo hoo. Tell it to your therapist, sweetheart. Or like they say, check your friendzone. I bet it's twenty deep.
braucifur 3y ago
She's punching above her weight class in the SMV and her relationship eligible guys are invisible to her. She's gonna rack up a big bodycount with Chads on the CC and then in her 30s wonder WAATGMG?
NoonTimeHoopsMVP 3y ago
She wants a traditional man but wants to stay a modern woman.
Two such contrasting beliefs cannot coexist.
Stahlboden 3y ago
Show me a woman who doesn't
mustangfrank 3y ago
She is all talk. Chad shows up, the panties fly off in less than 10 seconds.
Overkillengine 3y ago
Of course, but Chad won't pay her bills. So she still needs to find a beta she can stomach the bare minimum duty sex to in order to lock in the funds.
OhBarnacles_007 3y ago
"Oops! Good thing it didn't count lol!"
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago
LOL
DeeplyDisturbed1 3y ago
Bro. This needs to be its own post on TRP.Red and linked back here.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago
I will, sooner or later
Fairwareprovidence 3y ago
80 percent of men are not permitted to drink the milk without buying the cow, or else convinced for one or another reason the milk will be spoiled if they do not buy the cow first.
ZZT-OOPsIdiditagain 3y ago
And they're also being told to ignore the fact that 100 mouths have been on the cow's teats and the cow needs to be cleared by a vet.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago
Ultimately you can only control yourself and you can only change yourself. If a deal is bad for you:
Don't take the deal!
mustangfrank 3y ago
I think you are close, but not quite on the mark. Her problem is she does not see 80% or more of the men out there. If he is not 6', she does not give a shit. Thus, boo Hoo WAATGM? She is attractive, so finding men can not possibly be a problem for her. The issue is her "Standards"
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
This is the case 110% of the time. You know a girl who looks like her has PLENTY of guys who would be interested in being in a relationship. They are just not up to her standards. Notice how the first place she thought to ask where they were at is the gym? Where is the jacked ripped guy that wants a relationship is what she meant to ask.
Average_Dad_Dude 3y ago
My 40 yr old fat, mental, deadbeat sister who lives with my folks finally went on her first date in 15 years. We were happy she finally got out of the house. She complained that the guy took her to Denny's, was overweight, and didn't seem very ambitious.
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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago
We aren't here to discuss the mistakes of men, even when warranted.
You have the rest of the internet and all of real life for that.
Sea_Chocolate9166 3y ago
Absolutely. My mistake.
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Her nails. She can’t be in a relationship because of her nails. Instant red flag on those nightmares. And the smug, slightly drunk attitude.
Overkillengine 3y ago
Yup. Long nails that like scream "I do nothing useful other than fuck" and "I will expect to sit on my ass and be catered to while I get ever fatter and more arrogant".
I'm sure our more melanistic posters here are very familiar with that "kween" attitude and wish they weren't.
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I’ve never in my 40 years seen nails like that nurture a child, or support a man or even cook a bowl of pasta.
Fucked a few at 2am though. They belong to the streets.
Flashy_Glove6208 3y ago
Men looking for LTRs are around you.
The real question is how to attract them. They are not going to approach you when your behaviour indicates hookups.
Reputation is everything.
Men looking fo LTRs will see this and will start approaching you.
nitro-666 3y ago
Don't waste your time, she's not looking for any advice apart from "you are perfect, it's all men fault".
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
Man I find the biggest trigger for them nowadays is the second point you listed. I have had female family members consult me on how to get these type of men and when I recommend they don’t dress like a whore they absolutely LOSE IT. They absolutely refuse to admit that they dress like that to garner male attention. “It makes me feel good”, “the clothes are comfortable”, every excuse but trying to draw attention.
Anonymous_fiend 3y ago
And if you do these and are halfway decent you'll most likely be set up. You never know who has an eligible cousin/brother/nephew/etc. In traditional societies the community usually tries to find compatible matches. But that's only if you're deemed relationship worthy.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
"I always drive my Tesla too fast and as a rule I only notice luxury cars so one time I changed lane and sideswiped a Honda Accord. Who's at fault here? I say it's the Honda for being in the wrong place! I mean...like...why would I even noticed it, right? Common cars are...like...so icky!"
AlinYBN1 3y ago
I see what you did there.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Unfortunately, we can't allow direct links to social media.
Overkillengine 3y ago
That doesn't sound like something she wants to hear, so she ignored it and called the messenger an incel.
paleotow 3y ago
where are they? At the gym?
Yeah sweetie, they are at the gym, going heavy and getting all oiled up, just so they can be faithful to an aging ham biscuit like you.
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
I thought it was funny that was her first guess at where they are at as well. She basically admits she is asking where the gym chad is at that wants a relationship with her. Just let them keep talking, they will always eventually spill the beans.
nipnop63 3y ago
She stops herself when asking if the relation minded guys are home playing games,,, those are not looking like the guys she want a relationstips with! Then she only meet or take to guys that want hookups, is it a Chadtype?Freudian slip?
Overkillengine 3y ago
Yeah the order she listed them in is a subconscious slip on her part.
Guys, if you are a homebody video-gamer and some woman with a history of dating dudes totally unlike you takes an interest....her interest is not genuine! You're not her first choice, you're just her last resort. And she'll divorce or cheat or both on you the moment she thinks something more in line with her actual preferences is available.
Cristoff13 3y ago
This girl is young and very attractive. Especially due to social media and online dating, she has a super abundance of men, of all types, who would interested in her for relationships, for hookups and for everything in between.
This reminds me of those reality TV shows which shows couples looking to buy a house. They have enough money that they can afford to buy most available properties. Yet despite being able to buy a huge range of properties, those available ones are all boring and uninteresting. Its the ones just out of their price range which capture their interest and they obsess over.
biccat 3y ago
I remember watching one of these shows with a man who was homeless, sleeping on his son’s couch and won some money in the lottery.
His excitement at seeing a reasonably affordable 3-BR, 1500 sq. ft. house ($150-200k in Florida) was amazing. Nothing fancy. Just a house to call his own that no one could take from him.
There was another episode with a 60+ woman buying a similarly small and unassuming house.
I’m not sure if there’s a point here, it was just very heartwarming to see these people get a windfall and have reasonable expectations.
Cristoff13 3y ago
That's the sort of reaction an average guy might give if he manages to get a reasonably attractive girlfriend
DeeplyDisturbed1 3y ago
Good point. And as I see it, she is looking for GOOD men. And good men don't go near women like her. She just doesn't realize that yet.
Just like she can be picky, they can too. And she also filters a bunch out. So that leaves her - well, alone.
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She knows all the angles to maximise her chest and minimise her waist. But it’s there. You can see the fat in her arms.
Overkillengine 3y ago
Yeah the pin on that grenade has been pulled and her subconscious is screaming at her to lock down a provider before she gets so fat that the top 20% of men start ignoring her entirely.
Otherwise she might have to settle for some average guy, the absolute horror!
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Young Kween tries to get off the CC, fails.
Sea_Chocolate9166 3y ago
She is only interested in Chad. Chad may be interested in her for a time. Chad can get all things he could ever want from anytime (i.e. sex). Therefore, Chad has no benefit to commit to her, that's why Chad would not want a relationshit. You can be mad at him and refuse to fuck him but that's inconsequential bc he has literal line of thots waiting to ride him raw. He feels no consequences. So, basically you and your fellow kweens are responsible for spoiling Chads to this degree. In the past, Chads would marry somebody and maybe cheated on her with a woman or 2, so at most 3 women. But now, the only thing limiting Chad is his sex drive, stamina, and post-nut clarity.
But the guys, who do want to be a slave, are too average, sweet or nice. You seriously can't be complaining after you check in to a 5 star hotel and it doesnt turn to your house for life. Well, there nice homes out there in the suburbs and rural areas but you'd rather spend your time moving from 1 hotel to another than settle down in a mediocre home; all because the home isn't fancy or luxurious enough. But soon enough the hotels are gonna start rejecting you and you're too broke to afford a home, and all you can afford is a run down NYC loft. But until that day comes, it'll be too late to realize.
If a man gets burnt by touching hot charcoal with his bare hands, he warns other men not to touch charcoal and the men wouldn't do it. But women are like moth; they know they'll get burnt to ashes if they touch the flames, but they do it anyway bc they are just too feeble minded to stop themselves, they are too attracted and invested in the flames despite being warned and seeing their fellow moths be completely destroyed by the flames. So many articles of women lamenting that they can't find men when they're older, they are lonely and how they regret their past, young women still do the same exact thing ignoring all the warnings. Are Chads worth destroying your life over? Are Chads so magical and irresistible that they temporarily shut women's mind when they are before them? I don't understand why generations of women keep doing it over and over again, knowing full well that the path of thot-hood only leads to a place of boxed wine and cats.
theLOLbird 3y ago
Loved it, couldn't have articulated it better myself...
I think a lot of it comes from the Disney fairy tale upbringing fantasy, no joke.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I had a back an forth on here the other day with someone suggesting that Chads are indeed that magical . They trigger the lizard brain and his claim is that we are still not evolved enough for women to resist that
Take that for what you will
mustangfrank 3y ago
Well written and so true. She wants commitment, but from Chad.
Sea_Chocolate9166 3y ago
Not to mention that their entire self worth is tied to them being able to fuck Chads. They get depressed and insulted when a normal guy even flirts or matches with her.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
You could find a bunch of guys (say 100) in real life who would want nothing more.
Put them in front of her and have them say it and she will likely say “get out of my way” whilst standing on tip toes and (mostly likely) looking up trying to find the Chad
There was a jubilee video Aba and Preach reviewed where the men were either love or money. Woman picked the tallest guy (and eliminated the shortest first) and he was in it for the money. And it wasn’t a lot of money at all. She was shocked and I think even said that she didn’t see it coming. Was rather telling
gfgdhj5784yu8 3y ago
Too much effort required for the little bit of pleasure any man would get out of it.
She is Chad's girl and might as well accept it.
Harry_Teak 3y ago
I love Freudian slips. Notice how she held her fingers when she said 'hook up?'
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
She definitely hooks up, just hasn’t been able to lock down the guy she wants through hook ups so it is “incompatible with her”.
theLOLbird 3y ago
Can you elaborate more? I went back and analyzed this trying to see what you mean, but couldn't see anything particular when she said "hook up"... Timestamp?
Harry_Teak 3y ago
About 10-12 seconds in.
theLOLbird 3y ago
Well thanks for that... Personally, I still don't really see it
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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3y ago
If you have to ask literally where physically good men are (are they in a gym?) Then let me stop you right there. Good men aren't for you. You're basically saying you have such widely divergent interests and activities in life that you never even cross paths with good men. Then how do you expect to build a shared life or have common interests?
Here's where good men are: stable but not always exciting jobs, something that you likely lack. After work, doing various hobbies doing stuff you have absolutely no interest in doing. On the weekends, hanging out with friends, none of which are in your circle because you think they're too boring, or family, which you're estranged from because they don't approve of your degenerate life.
Where they are not: getting black out drunk at the club every thurs/Fri/sat/sun (and Mon, Tues, wed as well since, well, you probably don't have a job). Hanging out with people who think getting blackout drunk and doing cocaine qualifies as a hobby. Working at a job where grotesque nails such as yours are allowed.
Get the hint? Good men aren't simply somewhere hidden to be found. You need to build a life that's compatible with having and enjoying a good guy in it.
Instead, you should continue to date/fuck the men you come across: the loser guys you see at your deadend job, the drug dealers and club promotors at your favorite club, sugar daddies you meet on your onlyfans account, etc.
But if you really truly want to find a good man, first change your life to be compatible with one. And then you'll find plenty of them out there.
DeeplyDisturbed1 3y ago
I have always appreciated your contributions. This one is no exception.
This whole thing reminds me of when Hillary Clinton claimed that "Women have always been the primary victims of war..."
What a Black Pill comment if there ever was one. The millions of men who have died to make sure she could have a chance in politics mean ZERO. Hell, she doesn't even acknowledge their fucking existence!
This is where we are.