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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / The Big Question

Woman who fits "leftovers" and "damaged goods" flairs asks the Big Question in a very brief post that reveals she wasted her best years with a bad boy she chose.
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Typo-MAGAshiv

Posted 3y ago in The Big Question - Permalink - Locked - 2.6K Views



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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Once again, if you're here from my x-post to reddit, I encourage you to explore the site a bit and even create an account.

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Baron-von-Batman 3y ago

Abusive relationship is the free square in dating BINGO.

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Bonzai-Shaihulud 3y ago

Ahhh, the elusive Nice Guy at 30, where is he ???

After being insulted ruthlessly for years for being nice "just to get pussy", where could he be now ? After seeing countless times that being a Nice Guy is akin to being nothing in the mind of those women, where could he be now ? After having experiencing once or twice that being arrogant or treating a broad like a piece of meat got him an ersatz of what he wanted, but at least it was more that what he ever got as someone nice, what happened to the nice guy ?

Has he gone in "hiding", freed himself of those shackles that aren't worth the squeeze ? Has he changed himself into that douchebag that now only use you as a plate my dear ? Or has he simply found someone else than you, someone like... A Nice Girl ?

Truly a mindboggling enigma to solve, yeah...

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

womp, womp

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aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 3y ago

"Abusive relationship" =

-he wouldn't do what he said he'd do

--he didn't marry me

--he wouldn't give me everything I wanted

--he wanted things from me

--he had expectations and standards for me and expected me to meet them and when he didn't, he confronted me about it

--we fought about things where he didn't immediately capitulate to me and what I wanted

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

"He told me to shut up and stop complaining so goddamn much. ABUSE!"

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Durek_The_Bald 3y ago

Ah, the classic case of women casting themselves as rudderless victims in their own lives. Every relationship she got dumped from, and where the guy wouldn't jump every time she said jump, was "an abusive relationship". Every hook-up that didn't materialize into a relationship was "an abusive relationship", or a borderline rape case.

Women like that love being the victim so much, that the only thing they're really looking for is someone new to cast as the next villain in the miserable story of their life. Do.Not.Piss.On.Even.If.On.Fire. You know what you're in for, oh you do.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Do.Not.Piss.On.Even.If.On.Fire

Hey! Don't you kink-shame me!

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DextroShade 3y ago

I have no sympathy for women who are in "abusive" relationships in the modern age. Unless he had her shackled in the basement, she could always just leave. There are a large number of broken women who secretly like being abused. These are the same kind of women who write love letters to incarcerated serial killers. They are not nor will they ever be wife material and that's why men of value are shunning the OP.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Most of the time, they're lying their asses off to manipulate your protective instincts.

When they aren't lying, most of them actually liked it and/or initiated it.

If they didn't call the cops, then I don't believe they were victims.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago

Now that I'm finally free

So she got dumped? Hard to imagine that she was the one who ended things

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Ten years later: "Why is dating in your 40s so hard?". Twenty years later: "Why is dating in your 50s so hard?". So if she's 33 she's post-wall and looking for a 35-38yr old man at his peak SMV. She only swipes right on the top 1% of men. It's all downhill from here.

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Scorpion69_ 3y ago

Retarded bitch, not much else to say.

The problem is at least 80% of modern girls are like this. Gotta vet hoes like crazy

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

East Coast Nice Guy here. I'm educated, I'm rich, I'm fit, and fuck off whore.

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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3y ago

The nice guy she is now looking for was not wanted when she had the greatest means to choose whatever man she wanted. She thinks that now that she is "done with those days" that the nice guy who she ignored previously should be there the moment she needs him. Those guys either gave up or found someone who did want him.

Whether women realize it fully or not, when they play the delay game in looking for a marriageable guy, they send a message to the guys they expect to wait that they are not all that important to them. Men have received this message more and more, and more men are changing their behavior as a result. If women want the nice guys to commit to them, they need to choose them much sooner. And dare I say, as soon as possible? Yes. Many men find out that after waiting too long, it is not worth waiting for.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


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  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

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  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

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