Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
sleepyweaselisawake
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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me-dgaf 2y ago
It's going to get worse. The wall is undefeated.
FitnessEnthusiast98 2y ago
This is typically a CC, doesn't show loyalty to a man and man feels insecurity and gone away.
FirefighterOk6944 2y ago
Suggest "Friendship"? That just means free dinners, moving help, and shoulder to cry on when Chad dumps you. No thanks. No man needs a woman who is a "friend"
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 2y ago
Nope, not even once. Because if she's not fucking you, she's fucking someone. If it's not me, then why should I bother sticking around?
Raracath 2y ago
Well, we clearly aren't ready. And I personally won't be ready even after my death. I feel that I want a hedonist lifestyle in debauchery. Escorts are perfect for this so I am looking for money rn.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 2y ago
I find that hedonism and self satisfaction are much more fulfilling than a relationship where I'm constantly trying to entertain someone else. I guess that makes me a bad person.
givemethatrandom 2y ago
And why's she's offering friendship when she's looking for a romantic relationship anyway? Does she want to friendship her way into a relationship the same way some guys try to friendship their way into pussy?
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IAmMadeOfNope 2y ago
I take 3 psych meds. Yeah that's pretty accurate
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IAmMadeOfNope 2y ago
Haha i'm good my dude, thanks for asking. Don't worry about it, I thought it was hilarious. ^^^I'm ^^^Bipolar ^^^and ^^^have ^^^ADD
I wasn't kidding, i'm either fun or batshit
Ok-Adeptness4906 2y ago
You have described women with borderline personality disorder. Pysch meds have minimal benefit for people with personality disorders - althought 99.99% of people with personality disorders are prescribed them.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Yeah, this comment caught the attention of someone who wants to clutch their pearls as they point and sputter, but unfortunately, we have to go by reddit's rules.
BluepillProfessor 2y ago
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I remember my first date. We were still in high school. I remember holding hands as we walked. I remember the blades of grass, the forest floor, the warmth on my cheeks. We were so young. We were our first everything. On gloomy days, I touch my heart and remember the fireflies around us. It soothes me. A decade later, and I still blush when he looks at me.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that those days for her are gone. She missed the chance. She missed it because she chose to. It's very sad. She wants something that she won't ever experience, because that part of her life has come and gone. She chose to be promiscuous, a career, "independence", "liberated".
It's all so very sad. I feel sad because she won't ever experience losing her virginity to the songs of cicadas, and grow up and grow old with the man she lost it to. And she wont ever experience comparing aging bodies and embrace aging with grace.
Sometimes female pickyness is funny. This time, it's sad. I don't know if she knows deep down how sad it is.
Sove131 2y ago
It's melancholic how the further women start exploring /discovering themselves, the more they are lost in the facade of short lived relationships.
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It is. It's the wrong kind of exploring too. : /
Harry_Teak 2y ago
Well written, but 20 guys in 30 days? Being picky doesn't seem to be her main problem. She could probably open a thrift shop with the amount of clothing these guys leave behind as they hit the floor running like the Flash after the deed is done.
MrNeurotypical 2y ago
I have similar stories from my youth except with the plot twist of her aborting our kid and running off with Chad. That's why I have no sympathy for these women. They made their choices. I checked up on my first girlfriend and boy did the wall hit her hard. All fat with a bunch of kids too. Meanwhile I'm over here with my fit, petite, horny-as-hell, Asian MILF wife. <snicker>
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That's pure evil, what that hoe did. Im sorry you had to go through that. Thankfully, you are now blessed with a happy life! Imagine if you had stayed with the goblin, you'd miserably and sleep on a bed of junk food wrappers!
DeeplyDisturbed1 2y ago
Damn. That was deep. I bet for many women this is their exact reality - they gave up wholesomeness for blue smoke and mirrors.
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Thank you! I appreciate you~ Growing up, I actually had school mates that kept suggesting I sleep around to "see what I like". One ended up pinning her brat to some dumb joe. The other one got pregnant from a one night sex. Both are single moms now, probably. Ah yes, but they sure did bully me for choosing my husband. Actually, every woman I've met has had that "blue smoke and mirrors" outlook to life. I do hope that when my husband gifts me a daughter, she will grow in a farm, far away from carousel riders. It's selfish, but I want her to play with dolls in her teens and grow flowers. I want her to collect interesting rocks, not dicks.
Sorry for long rant. Tldr; housewife babbles on about stuff.
MrNeurotypical 2y ago
My wife got all kinds of shit from my sisters and mom for being a submissive housewife, unlike them. Misery loves company I guess. Anyway, can you guess who are the single mothers and who is happily married to a high value man that loves and appreciates her in a stable family relationship?
+1 for the Cinderellas of the world
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I think your wife and I might have the same mom and sisters lol Im so happy for you and your wife~! Please do something very sweet for her! <3
MrNeurotypical 2y ago
Oh she's pretty spoiled
askmrcia 2y ago
Obviously she's leaving a ton out. Guarantee the way her profile is set up it screams for causal only, but her words in the post are much different.
That and she's going after guys way out of her league.
Funny how she claims she's this interesting person that has everything going on, but her only way to meet guys are from dating sites. That right there tells me how much effort she puts in when it comes to dating. She spends more time whining and complaining then anything else.
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Shit, I never thought about her leaving a ton of crucial detail out.
What do you think she's leaving out?
lorum_ipsum_dolor 2y ago
Everything bad.
BluepillProfessor 2y ago
That she is an uncooperative, challenging bitch who thinks she is being cute and then gets offended when men are not interested in a "strong" woman.
jzdelona 2y ago
Her "weird sarcastic" humor? She's a crazy negative asshole who and uses thinly veiled sarcasm as a way to insult people.
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Probably. I mean, I tried to be nice in my long spiel up there. I tried to be thorough and lay it out. I was patient and kind.
We'll see if anyone ever takes this to heart.
68w92 2y ago
Her tits
ThaiEscapePlan 2y ago
so she is using fuck apps to meet guys. and complains guys she finds on tinder only want to fuck her?
Considered_Dissent 2y ago
Need a parody version where a guy is complaining that he's looking for a Christian woman to marry on Grindr, but all he's getting is "creepy" guys looking to bone.
Overkillengine 2y ago
Her and every other woman on fuck apps: "But my pussy is totally unique and magical and will make Chad commit!"
Meanwhile Chad can't even be bothered to remember any of their names without looking it up in his burner phone.
BluepillProfessor 2y ago
And SHE IS SWIPING RIGHT ONLY ON CHADS AND FUCKBOOIS.
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Another episode of...As The Hamster Wheel Turns...
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That's a great title for a sarcastic sitcom based off of the ridiculousness of feminism. Maybe it should be launched on SPIKE TV (unless that channel has gotten "woke"....it's been forever since I've watch any type of cable tv).
Harry_Teak 2y ago
I think they call that the Amy Schumer show. However, it's only interesting if you find a walrus that's learned to approximate human speech funny.
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I cut the cord long ago, and my cable bill in half. Not paying for their woke bullshit.
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silly_birb 2y ago
It's funny because they want but can't get down the cock carousel.
It looks like one of those wishes granted by the devil, where all is great at first until that thing you desired keeps going on and on forever, becoming your hell on earth.
CommentingOnVoat 2y ago
This is what women wanted. Enjoy it. Men now want p+d or a young women with a low n count and low weight count for relationships. Give that fat, short, bald guy a chance. Though he may not want you either.
Sumpm 2y ago
I feel like a lot of the women who are pumped and dumped, only got pumped because they offered it up. Like, maybe the guy was already underwhelmed by her, and would have just had a mediocre date, then gone home. But she was enjoying the attention, and probably fairly horny (no judgment there; it's normal), and offered it up, so he just figured, "hey, might as well."
It's like walking through the grocery store, and there's the old lady with the samples cart, and you were all set to just pass by, but she called out. You weren't going to walk over and ask for a piece of summer sausage, but she held it up, smiled, and said it was free. So you were like, fuck it, might as well take a free piece of summer sausage.
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Traksimuss 2y ago
Pump and dump, just short fling for few days or weeks. This is what women wanted and they hate it now.
kidruhil 2y ago
They hate it if it's not with Chad*
Jihocech_Honza 2y ago
Chad's privilege.
Traksimuss 2y ago
Later they hate it with Chad too, as they want Chad to commit and he switches to next plate instead.
There is no winning for men lol.
CisgenderPig 2y ago
I don't know about that, I feel like I'm winning on the current marketplace. I'm actually amazed that given the choice, women have willingly decided to sort themselves into harems, just like the Babylonian times that they supposedly despised. But now you don't even have to be a king, just whatever passes as "tall" in your area and go to the gym a little bit (and not even that depending on how lucky your genetic lottery spins were on your other features). This is the best timeline, for me at least.
Traksimuss 2y ago
Until one of them stabs you or babytraps, or makes rape accusations while privately telling you that she will take rhat accusation back if you marry her.
CisgenderPig 2y ago
I have my contingencies for these things. First line of defense is no woman I play around with ever knows my real identity. When I decide it's time to ghost, it really is a full on ghost. Everything is done on burner phones paid with cash exclusively. Additionally, I travel around several countries in my professions, so my net is spread wide. I'm long gone by the time their love haze for me dissipates and they realize I'm not committing. I keep most of my money in offshore accounts, so if the worst happens, my polyglot ass is ditching whatever country is threatening to detain me and going to live with family in whatever country is least likely to assist in searching or extraditing me.
This has worked for me for fifteen years. I know many of us on this subreddit have gone monk mode, but I just can't do it.
Traksimuss 2y ago
Ok, being pretty hard to trace helps a lot. Still, a lot of work to keep that anonimity.
Yes, that is why many have went no interaction with women, but you do you. Good luck with avoiding the mines in pussywaters.
Loud-Bottle-7879 2y ago
She basically said she is still looking for chad, just a “nice” version of him LOL.
ATypicalTalifan 2y ago
Guarantee this chicks "quirky dark humor" is nothing more than listening to true crime podcasts while she almost breaks a sweat on the elliptical before she goes home to eat a frozen pizza
wathon2 2y ago
FACT: what every man needs to understand is that when women refer to "men" they meant Chad. 100% of the time. when women speak, just replace with word 'men/man' with Chad and it all makes sense.
In their world, average or below men don't exist.
galacticpaw 2y ago
Lol I started doing this a while back. Everytime they bitch about men, I think, oh they mean Chad, doesn't apply to me since I don't really exist to them, and continue about my day.
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TLDR: If you're a woman and you're getting ghosted after one date repeatedly, one or more of the following is happening:
1) you lied about your appearance in your OLD profiles. You don't look like your photos.
2) you're not as physically attractive as you think you are.
3) you're expecting all men to be about relationships when most men are going for immediate sex and moving on when they don't get it, or the sex sucks. This is OLD, after all.
4) right out of the gate, you're coming off as weird, bitchy, slutty, desperate, crazy, or unstable.
OK look, dear. Something's going on. But I will do you a solid. Good old Uncle Al will lay it out for you - something no other man will do for you. After I am done with you, you will be cleaned up and well on your way to at least getting a decent friend with benefits.
I don't know whether you really are a CC rider. You've been on dates with over 20 men in the past months. You've been dating since last year, which would be at least 6 months. I'm gonna be generous and say you've had sex with only half of them. I know you've had sex with more men than that, because when women talk about men they've dated, they mean men they've fucked. So there's that.
You're having trouble figuring out why these men go on first dates and then disappear. Here are the problems I see.
--quirky = disturbingly weird. That's not attractive, except to niche men. Most men aren't into the geek, the gamergirl, the chub, the goth, the Skrillex girl, or the manic pixie dream girl. If you're one of these, you will be attractive to a narrower swath of men.
--dark humor and sarcasm are not attractive in women. Men do not like women with dry, wry senses of humor. Men are not attracted to sarcastic women.
Sarcasm and dark humor in women are not cute, funny, or endearing. They're bitchy and cunty. They're the relational equivalent of a fork on a silver filling. They're like toothpaste and orange juice. They're like fingernails on a chalkboard.
You need to work on that. Downplay all that around men. We don't like it.
--work out? Take care of yourself? Pics, please. I'll be the judge of that. Hint: What most women call "curvy" is really "obese".
--"talk for the whole world": Not endearing, not interesting. You probably should talk less and listen more.
--job, car, degrees, "independent", pay bills - blah blah blah don't care so what. Stop talking about that.
We aren't attracted to your intelligence, degrees, jobs, or money. It's not our money, you'll never share it with us, and we'll never get access to it anyway.
--the men are just looking for casual. This means:
Something or things about you are not relationship material. You are actively turning men off from relationships with you. Or, you are picking men who want relationships, but not with you. Or you are picking men who don't want relationships at all. Or, you are picking men who themselves are not relationship material.
You need to check the following:
--how old are you, how old are the men. If you're over 30, you're not relationship material for a lot of men. If they're over 35, they are probably open to relationships, but not with you.
--You're gravitating to men who don't want relationships. You're not attracted to men who DO want relationships.
--You're coming across as a slut. You dress, act, and/or talk like a slut. Sluts are fun for fucking, but bad bets for relationships.
--You're coming off as desperate. Men can tell when you're desperate. Desperate = crazy. That last paragraph is why I think you might be coming off as desperate.
--Speaking of crazy - you might be doing something weird, offputting, or bitchy. Men who recognize crazy will run the other way. "Run the other way" = ghosting after first date.
--You have a substance abuse problem. You drink too much. You use drugs. Serious dudes don't like smoking, toking, coking, bonging, snorting, or shooting. It's dangerous. Alcoholism and drug addiction are major life ruiners for men and women. If you have an active problem with substances, men can tell.
--Asking "why are you on Hinge/Tinder" makes it sound like you're probing them for their intentions on the very first date. Why do you think they're on Hinge/Tinder? To meet women for relationships or casual sex.
--In 2021 America, sex is on the table immediately for most men. If you're not down for sex by date 1 or 2, men will conclude you're not sexually attracted to them, and will move on.
--If men are moving on after no sex on date 1, they've decided you aren't worth waiting for. (See above - not attractive, slut, desperate, crazy, etc.)
--If men are moving on after you sleep with them on date 1, they've decided you're not relationship material. Or they got you undressed and discovered your body isn't anywhere close to as good as they thought it would be. They went ahead and took the sex, once, and decided that was enough.
--You're not as good at sex as you think you are. You're not as physically attractive as you think you are.
You act like you don't like sex.
You act uncomfortable and weirded out by sex.
Your BJ technique isn't very good (you drag your teeth, you don't take it all in, you don't get to the underside where the sensitive spots are, you act like you don't like it).
Your pussy reeks (work on your diet, drink more water, keep it clean down there).
Your pussy isn't well groomed. Look honey. Girls haven't been full bush since about 1988. Trim that quim. Wax or shave it.
Your ass reeks. You've got dingleberries back there. Get wet wipes and wipe your ass thoroughly before getting busy.
You have hair in places it shouldn't be. Shave your pits and legs. Pluck the brows. Pluck hair everywhere else it shouldn't be. (I dated a girl once who had a few hairs growing around her nipples. Gross AF. Goddamn it, get rid of that hair. Pluck it. Electrolysis. Shave it. Do something, but get rid of it.)
You have BO. Take a shower and put on some perfume.
You have bad breath. Fix that.
You have jacked teeth. Fix them.
Your feet stink.
You're overweight or obese.
This is a big one: You lied about your appearance in your photos.
-You used photos that don't accurately reflect your current appearance: You've changed your hair or you've gained or lost significant weight. Your skin tone is different due to tanning/faded tan/lighting.
-You used photos that were more than 3 months old.
-you used a bunch of smoothing/slimming filters.
-you used IG "furry filters" that obscure your true features.
-you took all iceberg photos designed to make you look thinner than you really are.
-you used colored contact lenses.
-you're using wigs, weaves, extensions, and fake lashes.
-The 'real life' you does not look anything like how you look in photos.
So. There you go, sweetie. I hope this helps. You probably have a lot of work to do.
BluepillProfessor 2y ago
For a sub and mod who supposedly hate women you have provided a road map to help more women than you can possibly imagine. If they would only listen.....
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
If I had ever encountered that, I'd have probably just left. IMMEDIATELY.
Yuck.
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givemethatrandom 2y ago
Damn you really went deep with this comment. The OP would probably get mad if she read it but there are some actionable advices here.
raducu123 2y ago
They all say they want things casual, that's the zen of it and the only politically correct advice to give.
If the guy says he wants just casual sex, LISTEN and find guys who at least say they want a relationship.
Sure, that won't probably work for reasons that you listed.
Most likely she's going for guys out of her league, but that's taboo to say to a woman.
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You just can't do enough for some people. I hope she reads this. We put some work into this and we are genuinely trying to help.
Never let it be said that we here at WAATGM hate women. We don't. We just want to help.
I suppose I could have just shouted "INSPIN!!" at her, and left it at that. I thought we should try to help. Maybe some young women will read this and it will help them, I don't know.
fiofav 2y ago
Won't happen. Women don't understand logic and certainly don't chase it.
ChadTheImpailer 2y ago
I can confirm whatever it says on there they're not. Possibly just materialistic goods which more often than not were handouts.
GrannyLesbian 2y ago
Has anyone shown this High Value Woman the Female Destruction Stratagem Handbook?
I think if she at least knows about handbook she will be able to even the oods.
MostlyPeacefulRiot 2y ago
Women who are carrying a ton of trauma always have two traits: sarcasm and dark humour. They use it to mask their pain (men do too). These guys probably just got a glimpse of what lies beneath the facade she puts on for first dates. This isn't a gendered thing though. Women would do the same
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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 2y ago
Don't link other subreddits to this one. It's against the rules.
SebastianSio 2y ago
I wonder what it means to these people to "be in love" with another person at this age. It seems they only want a relationship for the sake of saying it. They want a relationship but still want to sleep around, like what's the point?
Loud-Bottle-7879 2y ago
They just want the appearance of being stable enough to have a partner. Everyone knows how easy the dating game is for women, so if a woman her age is single it is usually a pretty clear indicator that they are unstable mentally. Social acceptance is the driver.
EfficientBadger 2y ago
Is dark sense of humor code for I say abhorrent things that I back peddle as jokes? Because fluent in sarcasm = I'm a bitch.
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 2y ago
There is a disconnect between these two sentences and her description of herself earlier in the post. IF she is what she said she is AND she has been on 20 first dates with no interest in second dates, THEN she is:
My vote is on option number 3. If she was attractive, then she would get at least a little play until the guys got bored or fed up. Her career, masters degree, car, house, income level, and independent streak is not as attractive to men as it is to women. She is projecting her values and demands upon those that she is trying to date. No man gives a fuck about your job or edumacation. Look good, be feminine, and be respectful is the bare bones requirements of most men and she can't pull that off for longer than a few minutes at dinner.
What we have here is a version of the Coyote woman. Either by looks or by attitude after a short period of time in her presence a man would be willing to gnaw his own arm off to escape her.
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Fixed that for you. Now the clause makes much more sense.
MastermindX 2y ago
It's hard to believe that if you took a random sample of 20 single men, NONE of them were looking for a relationship. It's much more likely that she's the problem, or that she's lying about what she's looking for.
panzer22222 2y ago
For a guy that is just Adulthood 101 by your 30s
MastermindX 2y ago
I laughed when she said "I pay my bills each month". Can you also tie up your shoes by yourself?
Martellus732 2y ago
It's pretty pathetic if you're having to list paying your bills as a positive; welcome to the Patriarchy.
panzer22222 2y ago
A guy will talk to a plank of wood for some pussy...once post nut clarity hits he knows there is nothing to keep him.
Harry_Teak 2y ago
Bingo. One chick I vaguely dated admitted that she just sit there and make up crazy shit to say to see if the guy could be dissuaded from his monomaniacal thirst for poontang. Of course then I found out that she actually was a schizo so... Nevermind.
[deleted] 2y ago
Ah, sarcasm. The substitute for an actual personality.
(Yes, I see the irony in that statement.)
Joaquino7997 2y ago
Wow, she sounds easy like Sunday morning (sorry, Commodores).
Seriously, for all we know she 're-wrote' the story in a way that presents herself as the innocent victim.
Thoughts and prayers to all those men who dated and skated on this woman. Please get tested.
plainnsimpleforever 2y ago
So she's on a hookup app and complaining about hookup attitudes. Got it. Why don't they join a team sport? Like tennis, flag football, mixed basketball, hiking groups. Or she's a MSc: join networking/academic groups. Anything to get out and actually meet people.
But they are lazy. That's the bottom line. Fucking lazy and then they spend 30 minutes writing a sad story. Get your ass out in this beautiful world, girl.
Harry_Teak 2y ago
She needs to be on one of those Jesus dating sites if she wants guys to pretend to want forever with that very special someone before they stamp and mail her then disappear.
Chabranigdo 2y ago
Unpopular opinion: She might not be the town bicycle and the reason she's only getting first dates is because she's not fucking every guy she meets. Lets be real, if she ain't ugly, someone would have strung her along a couple more dates for easy sex before moving on. Hell, even if she is ugly, someone would have still done it.
Her problem is that she's trying to get a relationship on fucking Tinder.
42252252 2y ago
I kinda get that too. If she hasn't been in the dating market from \~2014 onwards it can be a very different experience. Everyone learned that it's not for friendships or solid relationships, just squishin'. If you missed out on class, then you have to go to summer school to catch up or keep banging your head against the wall like her.
Sadly, there aren't many dependable routes to just trot out and find a husband these days. Guys are getting wise and leaving the poker table in most instances, and anyone who has options (i.e. anyone she would be willing to marry) won't have much reason to quit enjoying them just to gamble his entire life one one of them.
From what I see, guys aren't asking women out in public, either, unless they have some method of ensuring pre-approval. A dude doesn't think it's worth the risk to ruin his work or school environ now that everywhere has constant meetings about fighting white supremacist rapists hiding underneath every man's skin. The earnest wife seekers left tinder and POF years ago, unless they're just now getting into it like her. I guess stuff like hobbies or churches could kinda help meet some more guys, but even then, it's not like she'll be able to find a huge spectrum of fellas to pick through.
TheApricotCavalier 2y ago
This seems like that 'McMan' story to a tee. After years of eating trash, shes ready for the world to hand her steak
Harry_Teak 2y ago
Perhaps you should work on developing a personality bearable enough that someone might be willing to fuck you twice. There's something wrong if these guys won't come 'round for a second helping of easy tail. It's that simple.
Are you sure you're in the "dating scene" Cupcake, or are you in the Netflix & Chill scene? What we used to call the "y'just wanna come over and watch a movie?" scene. She's probably just getting slam dunked by a series of one-night wonders having an off week.
Heavenonearth12 2y ago
Lol imagine getting into relationship with women nowadays
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 2y ago
No shit, right? Women have 0 value and have no idea.
Heavenonearth12 2y ago
Nah its not that they dont have value. They just become public assets since "sexual liberation" shits. Oh well, I bailed, who gaf about those single moms.
Chgralac73 2y ago
"i clean for you"
"see the roomba in corner?"
"roomba cant clean everything"
"heres a cleaning flier"
"REEE"
mustangfrank 2y ago
What is missing is her age and her photo. Women always over state their looks value. She may think she is a 9, but is really a 6. Her selection process must be a mess. If she chose guys covered in tats and ex-cons, well there is your problem. If she is 30-40 pounds over weight, that is an issue, too.
If she rode the CC into the wall, she is beyond repair.
DicamVeritatem 2y ago
“I want. I want. I want.”
Does she ever get sick of herself?
DemDelVarth 2y ago
"I have dark humour" im going to abuse you then if you say anything back im going to cry.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2y ago
She claims that she wants a "nice guy" to date long term and not just sex. But does she even appreciate that kind of guy? If she is indeed able to get 20 individual dates, it is not as if she has problems with her physical attractiveness. So the problem appears to be her selection criteria. If every guy just wants something casual, why is she even meeting with them in the first place? I am assuming that most profile she sees should provide that preference, so is she just fooling herself every time into thinking that she will get something different?
Perhaps an actual nice guy would bore her, because she has lost any sense of appreciation for stability and reliability. It is not that that kind of guy is actually boring, but rather he is not having the mannerisms that guys who are clearly just wanting sex display. That is, all the short term signals and aspects that do not translate to long term relationships.
Also, I would bet every guy she is meeting with is high in physical attractiveness. The kind that could attract many women by looks alone. Which would mean she is filtering for looks but hoping to get a stable guy. While a good looking guy can be good long term relationship material, it is the wrong way to look for a relationship. Men are told not to just value a woman's looks, so it is quite reasonable to tell women the same.
Loud-Bottle-7879 2y ago
“Stability” aka boredom, is one of the main drivers of women. The other is jealousy. They need that chaos in their life, hence how they all describe spontaneous activities they like in their profiles. “Random plane trips to X”, etc. no matter their age they still thrive on chaos. They will not appreciate stability until about 45.
jzdelona 2y ago
She could be getting so many initial dates because she's catfishing with photos that are heavily filtered or inaccurate portrayals of what she currently looks like.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2y ago
A valid theory.
No idea what is exactly true, though I am guessing that if the guys are still interested in sex with her and nothing else, she is at least physically attractive enough on a pass/fail criteria.
IronicBepis 2y ago
“wHaT’s WrOnG wItH gHoStInG pEoPlE aFtEr A dAtE aNd FuCkInG tHeM”
bruh holy shit ur ruining peoples lives can’t ya fucking see that?
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
I don't know if you knew this or not, but u/sleepyweaselisawake doesn't know the bitch in question. He just shared with us the whining of an anonymous internet hag.
Regardless, people like you always amaze me. Because you don't believe that women are functioning adults who are capable of making choices.
Here you have a fully grown, adult woman who chose to pull down her pants for multiple men. She chose to do that. No one yanked off her pants. No one hiked up her skirt. No one got her aroused. No one forced their dick into her pussy.
She said: yeah baby, fuck me now! I need your dick inside of me.....
She chose that.
She chose that!
It was HER choice!!!
Yet, all you can do u/IronicBepis is to blame the man for ruining her life?!?!?!?!
No my dude. No man ruined her life. She ruined her own life. She made choices and choices have consequences.
Stop blaming men for women's bad choices.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 2y ago
Who's ruining whose life in this scenario?
IronicBepis 2y ago
maybe the man’s life might be ruined, but it depends on if he’s sensitive or not
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 2y ago
Why would the man's life be ruined? Women are abundant and easy.