Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
loneliness-inc
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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ThisIsUrIAmUr 2y ago
"Turned out to be abusive"
Translation: I decided it was abusive after I made my decision to end it (or better yet, after HE decided to end it). Relationships and people do not "turn out to be" abusive.
[deleted] 2y ago
This is why women shouldn't go to college, and why I'm not paying a cent for my daughter to go:
"Roe McDermott is a writer... with an MA in sexuality studies from San Francisco State University. She is researching a PhD in gendered and sexual citizenship..."
[deleted] 2y ago
Women are incapable of loving men the way that men love women.
More information here.
They want to GET love, but are completely incapable of GIVING love.
Mission-Document5257 2y ago
It took me far too long to figure this out. Women are incapable of love, or honesty.
[deleted] 2y ago
Yeah, most men, even red-pilled men, don't want to swallow this pill. Most of us have to learn the hard way.
TheSigilStone 2y ago
I wonder if she was raised fatherless. Would that even matter? I would think that would be the reason she stayed in the "abusive" and casual relationships since she wouldn't be raised with relationship advice from her father.
Either way I think this one will become an inspin in a few years when the wall hits her and she isn't able to find "love".
PopularBug5 2y ago
Yes, those who are in abusive relationships very likely had abusive childhoods.
Bananas_Of_Paradise 2y ago
Clearly those men aren't worth shit and didn't deserve this queen in the first place. She needs to respect herself and stop putting up with such low quality men. She needs to go out there and get the man she deserves!
BeholdTheHair 2y ago
Best part of this delicious sarcasm is it's actually correct if read genuinely. If she wants things to change she does need to start respecting herself, first and foremost by being honest with herself about what she brings to the table and the nature of the men with whom she chooses to "associate."
panzer22222 2y ago
You could cut and paste this into any relationship forum on reddit and get hundreds of up votes. Like be added to the side bar at /fds
ronoda12 2y ago
No one cares if she finds any man or not. She is not entitled to any relation. Women who feel entitled to relationship are trash.
Traksimuss 2y ago
Probably no feminine qualities, big baggage and demanding only Chads. Chads sleep with her few times and then leave.
"Cool wine aunt" is written in her future.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
Many wymyns today are big and they have more baggage than an airport luggage carousel.
You know which wines need to be cooled more?
White wines, sweet wines, rose, light wines.
silly_birb 2y ago
Older women have no attractive feminine skills to keep a man, so it's no surprise they cannot compete with younger ones.
Traksimuss 2y ago
Old old generation had. But back then a lot of men were killed in war and they often had to make soup from tree bark.
Now women live coddled life and need no personality to get handouts. It bites back later in life, but even then women refuse to change.
PopularBug5 2y ago
And living with huge conveniences of technology, yet never seemingly having the time to clean the house.
Traksimuss 2y ago
It is actually more parents fault.
I am myself with averagely low cleaning standards, as parents did not push for higher cleaning standards from me. Often it is for girls/women too, that parents do not push that parenting strong enough to teach self reliance, including cleaning flat often. That, and in Disney movies princesses never clean.
road_laya 2y ago
Once females in general started attending high school, they no longer spent those years working in the home or as maids. That's where one of my grandmothers got much of her housekeeper experience, sent away by her family to work as a live in maid with various richer families through her teen years. My other grandmother was sent to wife school for a year, her mother in law would say she was pretty useless in the home department. She became an orphan in her teens, so it was partly understandable. So while her fiancee went away to study engineering, she would go away to study home economics. If she didn't, her mother in law would not allow the marriage. Fair deal!
[deleted] 2y ago
Nothing about those "cool aunts" is cool. Trust me, I have an aunt like that and she is nothing but an abject failure in life. She is single at 41 and no one likes being around her. Everyone in the joint family treats her like trash, and she takes it all out on me most of the time (My dad died at a young age, being raised by "cool aunt", long story). My life goal has been reduced to living a peaceful life without any disturbance because I don't know what a normal healthy family dynamic looks like. I won't be marrying, because I don't want another harpy controlling my life ever again. I'll work my ass off for 10-20 years, take an early retirement and live my life the way I want.
[deleted] 2y ago
"Cool aunt" = depressed alcoholic and/or drug addicted washup, usually with plenty of tats/piercings and STIs---but she is "cool" and "has experience." The rest of the family hates her but the rebellious young girls in the family gravitate towards her as she plots to undermine the upbringing that mom and dad worked so hard to achieve.
[deleted] 2y ago
My aunt is the quintessential career woman, she focused too much on her job and she treats a relationship like an accessory. She does not need it, but would be nice to have a pet human.
Girls don't necessarily gravitate towards her because the social atmosphere in India is diametrically opposite to that of the West. Neither the girls nor the boys are given much freedom, we are held to the usual "Asian" academic standards and relationships are taboo. So she's kind of like an inspiration academically speaking but not really much to look upto as a healthy adult.
I can clearly see that she is not satisfied with her life and at this point her entire "I'm content and strong" facade is a giant cope. And even though I hate her, I can't help but feel sorry for her. But it's not my job to "fix" her and I'm just going to build my life and actually live a fulfilling life full of happiness and peace.
[deleted] 2y ago
I hate that career girls are called "successful". A successful woman is a good wife and mother. There are very few exceptions.
DoNotGoogleMyName11 2y ago
Woman A:
Woman B:
What pattern? There is no pattern in what woman A said. Creating a whole story around one piece information, namely that he got himself sex from other women. That's it. Maybe she didn't upheld her part of the deal and withheld sex, who knows.
My god, relationship advice from women is so worthless.
_Nequis_ 2y ago
Even more so cause it may well be lies spewed just to paint herself as the victim.
The hardest redpill I got last year, best friend of 13 years has the idea to marry girlfriend X that he was together with for 6 years, pretty plain girl but seemed good.
Well it turns out she broke up with him after sacking his apartment even of stuff from his recently deceased mom and told everyone he was an evil woman beater, of course everyone just assumes the woman is speaking the truth and the man is doomed.
[deleted] 2y ago
But MUH, eH IS nOt eNTitLED to sEX!
Initial-Ad463 2y ago
"That's it. Maybe she didn't upheld her part of the deal and withheld sex, who knows." - Most likely. She probably tried to control him with withholding sex to make him do things (or maybe buy her something) and she is surprised he found it somewhere else.
PopularBug5 2y ago
More like she was never attracted to him, but married because money aka 'settling down', gave duty sex, but stopped the moment she could get away with not having sex with him and live the quintessential SAHM lifestyle, then gets mad he found sex with another woman, calls him 'abusive'
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Give things out for free, surprised when people keep taking without giving back.
What are you doing wrong, honey? You're STUPID, that's what.
LaLa_Land543 2y ago
Can I ask you about your username? Is it like a play on the ‘bobs and vagene’ thing or maybe an ironic version of those Facebook senior couples who share one account like “Bob and Virginia Miller” sent you a friend request? Or.. ? Just curious lol
saberwarthog 2y ago
So, how's it going feeling almost like the common "lowly" (80%) man in the realm of dating & love, sweetie ? Yeah, not that much fun, hu ?
Now to really get the true man experience, please subtract the easy sex from FWB or one night stands, and let see what your mind will be brewing in less than 6 months.
Who am I kidding ? Empathy is as useful to her as a Synchrotron to Genghis Khan...
interstatelovedong 2y ago
This is my favorite post.
saberwarthog 2y ago
Thanks ! It may come from a very dark place inside, but it feels great to be able to write it freely...
interstatelovedong 2y ago
Liberating isn’t it.
Disciple_Of_Cheesus 2y ago
Yet another woman who fell victim to the badboy tingles. Oh well...
As ye sow, so shall ye reap.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
Then she gets to go and weep.
[deleted] 2y ago
7 years and she never realized Tyrone was a motherfucker. Jesus.
Instead of committing to the good one, she prefered to ride the cock carousel.
I've met a man that talked to me instead of inviting me to fuck, i thought I've found a beta male but then I realized he doesn't care about me at all, that's why:
Then, since he's not for me, i've meet another tyrone who basically after 6 months he confirmed me he doesn't want me.
I love how he doesn't want me. What's wrong with me?
_Shinjitsu_ 2y ago
She was in a relationship for 7 years, and when it ended, since he as the man, had to bear all the responsibility, he was... "abusive". Only him though. She never abused him emotionally or even physically during arguments, at all...
He was also apparently a "cheater", but she makes no mention of the fact that she probably deprived him of sex for long enough for him to look elsewhere.
She then met a guy and "talked" to him for a year aka not doing anything sexual with him (while simultaneously getting plowed somewhere else), but she needed "stability" from this guy aka demanded a relationship if he was to ever sleep with her. "He never confirmed anything from his side" i.e. he didn't agree to this crap deal. So, no sex for him; just talk.
After that, she got fucked by a guy who was out of her league, and was hoping he would agree to be in a relationship with her because she did her part (aka she put the sex coin in the relationship giving machine). Since he could do way better than her, he didn't bother.
Guys don't want to be in a relationship with her !
What is she doing wrong?!?
Hahahahaha
MrNeurotypical 2y ago
7 years and no marriage... That's not a relationship, that's a long ride on the cock carousel. Serial monogamy with a polygamist.
DoctorMars81 2y ago
Of course the advice given to her is by another woman, some hag with neon colored hair with pronouns in her Twitter bio named Roe...
Someone should have told her dumbass parents that roe is the technical term for fish eggs...
OpenImagination9 2y ago
When it’s not them … it’s you.
fuzzy_brb 2y ago
I swear EVERY/ALL/100% of women says thier ex was ABUSIVE. lmao
Venny_1 2y ago
To them it's a ritual of ablution. Suddenly they've been cleansed from the sins they've commited within the relationship, by making the man shoulder all of the sins, his and, more importantly, hers.
She always was a pure soul with a heart of gold. Always.
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rb5775 2y ago
Well said.
Initial-Ad463 2y ago
Exactly. I stopped reading after the "abusive" word. We all know what does it mean.
[deleted] 2y ago
Women are attracted to psychopaths then complain when the psychopath treats them like shit.
Then they date another psychopath...
VirginWizard69 2y ago
Lol this is why I'm here
mustangfrank 2y ago
I have saved this masterpiece for future use.
Quirky_Archer 2y ago
They will become your monkeys when she becomes single mom and ask for your taxes money
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
To whoever reported this comment for racism: he was responding to the phrase "not my circus, not my monkeys".
Clean the goddamn sand out of your vagina.
Comment approved.
[deleted] 2y ago
And that's the core of it. These women don't want good men because then they would have to be better and actually bring something aside from vagina to the relationship. They purposely choose men who only want their vagina because that's all they can give men.
Women of value (and/or sense) don't have these problems.
Blackbarnabyjones 2y ago
SENSE.
The_Meep_Lord 2y ago
I have known many good men who have been treated like garbage by women for being good and so I do not see how men can have sympathy for women when it comes to this.
One drowned himself in opioids until he died of a overdose.
One has cptsd due to all the abuse and gaslighting he received when he was rejected by the girl he crushed on for 4 years in high school…he was a literal angel (he would die to save you or another random man on the street), attractive and a genius. Everyone literally abandoned, betrayed and/or hurt him because he has the audacity to like a girl (want to have sex with and such).m and now he has auditory hallucinations and doesn’t trust anybody. A shell of his former self, he is red pilled now but I doubt anything can save him after 10 years of absolute torture and isolation. He wasn’t even invited to the high school reunion as the people who hurt him keep treating him as the bad guy when he will never hurt a fly going as far as making shit up and labeling him as a future school shooter.
While the girl who rejected him got with shit man’s after shitty man and then got tons of support when she cried how “nobody loves me” even though they all fucked over a innocent man who is never going to be loved.
God, just thinking about him makes me literally cry. Is women’s lust really that important to damn and hurt so many innocent men just so she can indulge in hedonism.
BluepillProfessor 2y ago
Dont cry. You should buy the guy a drink and introduce him to this sub. He sounds cool.
The_Meep_Lord 2y ago
He is a mess. I highly doubt he will ever be sane again.
Everyone that was suppose to be there for him let him down.
Tap-Apart 2y ago
Many people forget that reciprocal domestic violence, is the most common form of domestic violence.
That is to say, it's usually not one guy beating up on a girl. That is the least likely case.
It's usually the guy and girl having a screaming match and then someone does something. This definition is not well defined but you can imagine, that rarely some dude who snaps.
It's hardly women being helpless, women can be extremely confrontational.
I've known guys who were chill dudes but their gf always has to start something.
In fact, women are more likely to be the abuser in the lopsided abuse dynamic.
Edit: So whenever I read these stories about women being abused for years on end there's two conclusions.
1) She's just as bad as the guy. Maybe not punching holes in the wall but starting fights and picking away at someone till they crack.
Or
2) She's telling the truth, in which case, her ex is batshit crazy and he will kill you for talking to her.
Either way, a woman like that is a net-negative in your life.
Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved
DeeplyDisturbed1 2y ago
Bill Burr does the best job ever in addressing this.https://youtu.be/O2L4UUL8TiY
BeholdTheHair 2y ago
Sigh. I miss when Bill Burr was actually funny.
MelkorHimself Mod 2y ago
As an aside, women are the perpetrators in over 70% of non-reciprocal domestic violence cases.
Tap-Apart 2y ago
The common rebuttal is that these women are gaslighted to believe they "started it" by their abusive male partner.
And that's a fair assessment, male or female, you can break someone down and make them believe they are the reason for the abuse.
It's not out of the realm of possibility that there are bad men out there who treat their partners like crap and eventually she believes she is the one at fault, or answers this survey as "Yes I am the perpetrator"
BUT I don't think that represents a plurality of cases.
Gosh reading this stuff makes me anxious. I had an ex that always had something irksome to say.
It's not like each one was egregious, but they compound over time. You could explain away each one individually.
"(scoff)so you're really going to drink tap water?"
"That's what you're going to wear?
rb5775 2y ago
They are looking for as many reasons to be pissed as they can find. It focuses all their pathetic frustrations on you and makes you the cause of all her failures. Therefore she sails through life completely blameless.
Have you ever had a woman take responsibility for anything she did???? Not me.
Pranay_Dogra 2y ago
It took her 7 whole years to realise that the relationship was abusive. And the reason she left was him cheating. Then she went and rode the cc for a couple of months. Found a decent guy, but never entered a realtionship because he never initiated. Got lonely and found a fwb. Now is tired of hoeing around and feeling lonely. And she asks "What am I doing wrong ?"
t_a_c_s 2y ago
thanks for the tl/dr
[deleted] 2y ago
Do you believe she "left" him? LOL, he dumped her 100%!
Sumpm 2y ago
He found someone else and left = "abusive"
mustangfrank 2y ago
I was at another site and a step-father was defending his step-daughter who left her abusive husband, after 5 (FIVE) children with him. Yes, it took having 5 kids to discover he was abusive. WTF? I said so as well.
Vikingbeard1 2y ago
For once, I am going to say that's not as wild as it sounds. Ironically, this is especially true for women who are submissive, quiet, trusting, who marry their high school sweethearts...who are men that, after a few years in the real world, can't handle it. They don't budget, they can't make good decisions, they can't grow up, but she keeps on trusting him, having his kids, keeping the house, assuming everything is okay. Eventually, she starts asking questions, and he turns angry, blaming her, maybe gets violent, due to his own feelings of impotence and incompetence. I'm not saying this happens all the time, but some men, like some women, can seem perfectly fine until adversity happens, and then they fall apart, and lash out at others. I'm sure we've all seen at least one guy who, once he lost his job, started screaming at his kids at the drop of a hat.
mustangfrank 2y ago
Another point of view
Dominated- The Story of Joyce
Joyce was a beautiful girl. To give you an idea how beautiful, I remember seeing the model Kathy Ireland on a Sports Illustrated cover. I commented to a co-worker that Joyce looks just like her, only Joyce's breasts were bigger. To give you an idea how stunning good looks ran in her family, one sister was first runner up for Miss Texas, another became a trophy wife to a millionaire. Joyce was the least attractive of the three girls in the family, and she was one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen. She was 5’4”, 24 years old, perfect teeth, big breasts and had a mane of golden blonde hair and blue eyes.
One day we are in the break room, at work, and the topic of dating came up. She said that she could never find a man who could make a decision. I thought that was an odd statement, so I let her continue to talk. And what came out of the conversation is that any man who was considerate enough to ask Joyce what things she liked to do, she considered weak and indecisive because Joyce didn’t know herself.
So who did she marry? Exactly what she was looking for, a 6’2” police officer. Someone who dominated her physically, who dominated her emotionally and had a dominating job. In every aspect of the relationship, she was in the subordinate position. He made all the decisions. And she was happy as can be for about a year, until he wanted a new truck. His old truck was not worth as much as her car, so he traded in her car for a new truck. What did she get to drive? His old truck. Things got worse when she got pregnant. He didn’t like the fact her body was changing, so he was spending time and money at various strip clubs, spending hundreds of dollars per week. Both were working, but he was partying the money away. About 9 months after the birth of the child, she filed for divorce.
Do I feel sorry for her? Not in the least. She got what she wanted, and she got what she deserved. If she had evaluated his personality and character, she would have discovered his true nature. Did she choose a kind and caring man? No. She got a dominating control freak, a bad bet for a husband.
Vikingbeard1 2y ago
How do you know that she would have discovered his "true nature"? I mean, it could be true; it's entirely possible it was obvious as fuck to everyone but her from day 1. But sometimes you can't tell; fuck, sometimes people don't even realize their OWN true nature, not until push comes to shove and everyone sees what they are, or are not, capable of. Some people turn into superheroes when shit hits the fan, even people with no real training or obvious signs of it; others turn out to be garbage as soon as things get difficult, despite everyone thinking they were the nicest person ever.
RealMcGonzo 2y ago
"Turned out to be". Not "turned abusive" or "was abusive". IOW after we broke up it suddenly occurred to her that it was abusive. Stuff like this used to make me frustrated. All these "abusive" guys and I couldn't score a GF, WTF? Now I understand most of these "abusive" men are just hamster fairy tales.
[deleted] 2y ago
My ex fiance was a psycho. She screamed at me, hit me with a frying pan, and threw tantrums involving throwing objects. Then one day she hit me with her hand. I held her to the floor and told her that she needed to calm down and when she did, I left. For good. But according to her I was the abusive one because I held her down on the ground one time and "she didn't know what I was going to do to her."
[deleted] 2y ago
When women are damaged goods, they can't hide it for very long.
Southerndude62 2y ago
There's a term in Chinese (I'm not Chinese) for woman who are entitled enough they feel some simple man must come later and give her the ring, even though she was with Chad in her 20s and she couldn't get married in her 20s. The "leftover women ". This term should be normalized in the west and be applied to feminists.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
Rule one.
Southerndude62 2y ago
Oops. Edited my comment.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
Approved. Don't do that again.