Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
MuscleT
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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TheApricotCavalier 4y ago
If a man asked a question like this, he'd perform statistical studies. This moron is just complaining
[deleted] 4y ago
"The problem with you is, you're completely delusional."
-Phineas
GenericOscout 4y ago
Education is a net positive for women over all, but we did have incredibly high murder rates in the USA for a while. For the ideal marriage dynamics education is bad for women. But for productivity to the best human and as many part time hours as possible.
harharry 4y ago
“He’s not ready for marriage and kids”
Aka he’s not interested in going along with her life plan. After all, why should he if he doesn’t feel like it?
The author’s sporting quite a pikachu face with this article.
WereNotGonnaFakeIt 4y ago
Men aged 18-30. If you're under six feet, no dates. Men over 30, under six feet, no dates. You lazy cumskull thots are playing on easy mode
NotLuceBree 4y ago
Just tell them to read The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness
RRFdev 4y ago
You are a journalist - pretty much on the top of the list of typical cock carousel women jobs, just below a nurse. Men know this, and equate your profession with you hooking up and sleeping with a lot of different guys.
Even your prematurely aging, sad, unhealthy, stressed out appearance says it all.
Doing much better than men? LOL sure, in education and placement for shit jobs. Wake me up when high tech, high demand, high paying jobs like software engineering gets dominated by women.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
OLD is GREAT for the top 10% of guys.
The other guys don't exist.
Obviously Tinder is great for all guys.
Chick logic 201.
MuscleT 4y ago
This is chick logic exactly.
They think the bottom 90% of guys aren't in fact human.
tinySackVeiny-Shaft 4y ago
Lmao. Online dating is good for men guys. Bill from IT gets his cock sucked by a different slut every night from Tinder. It takes 2-3 swipes max
Dan240z 4y ago
Lol oh yeah
[deleted] 4y ago
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ratcal 4y ago
When you live alone the whole house is your man cave.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
Edit out the man shaming.
meerita Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
This is my life. I'm so happy and I get my cock full service every week then I return to ride my scooter, gym, friends, sports. Life is so much interesting that way.
Uesugi1989 4y ago
Bill from IT doesn't qualify as a man though, men are only the 6ft+ dudes making at least 100k per year
kyledontcare 4y ago
And chiseled with a house he owns outright.
JackReaper333 4y ago
Most men in their 30's fall into one of the following categories:
Chads: This is what she means by "good men". This is what she's really after. But these Chads Chadded all throughout their 20's and they have no intention of stopping now.
Married Men: Men who already married and aren't interested in her. Presumably she's not interested in them either.
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago
Listen bitch. You can't have it both ways.
On one hand you want to be free to explore your sexuality with as many men as you please.
On the other hand you want to be special enough for commitment.
These are mutually exclusive!
Furthermore, if you want to avoid this situation, don't have sex before marriage. Ever! Yes, it means that many men will reject you off the bat, but that's the price you pay. Choices have consequences.
[deleted] 4y ago
We told you. We told you when you got the right to vote. We told you during the 1960s that your ideal world would make you miserable and alone. You told us that birth control was liberation. But now you see that we were right, but you cannot admit that. Because that would mean you were wrong. And the last 100 years you've been fighting for is for nothing.
DoubleGunzChippa 4y ago
They still dont get that Tinder is a hookup site, do they?
Hell, I've never used Tinder and I know it's a site for hookups.
JakeDC 4y ago
The fact that her photo is posted right next to the article - as if to answer the question "why can't this woman find a good man" - is fucking hilarious.
throwaway4747373626 4y ago
Sorry if I’m not allowed to be posting here (using a throwaway account) but I’m a woman who finds this sub pretty amusing and funny and I get a kick out of seeing the dating app entitled princesses too. I make six figures and pay my own way in life, don’t have any kids and I’m in a LTR and my guy seems pretty happy, so I have to ask the men: what is your type? What kind of women are you looking for? Or have the men here sworn off dating. Genuinely asking, not looking to start anything.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
First, men like the type of women who are NOT profiled on this Reddit.
Second, Whether they will admit it or not, men want women to SUBMIT to them. That doesn't mean lie down and curl into a ball. It doesn't mean you don't argue or that you don't question and shit test. It DOES mean that when your man makes a decision that you support him through you words and actions, and that you accept his authority and lean into it comfortably rather than fighting and pulling away all the time!
Third, men want a woman who desires them. They want a woman who will initiate sex with them, pursue them, and genuinely enjoy being with (and inside) them.
Fourth, men want a woman who is FAITHFUL and devoted to them.
Fifth, most men want a woman who is WHOLE. That is, she has a life, she has her own friends, she has her own job and her own family. She chooses to share her life with you just as you choose to share your life with her.
That's really about it. The bar is low.
RealMcGonzo 4y ago
Thin, feminine, loyal, domestic, flexible (not a control freak), giving. That's it. And it's so unbelievably rare that men swarm to these few women.
Overkillengine 4y ago
See the profiles posted here? Consider them as examples of what not to be as a woman if you wish to garner the interest of a man for commitment.
LTDlimited 4y ago
I'm open to dating, but I'm 25. Most women my age are single moms, sometimes two times over. I don't want to be a dad, even if it was my kid. Plus, I'm short and chronically ill too, so odds are pretty against me.
FalsePositiveRethink 4y ago
Kind.
No drama.
Looks after herself.
Knows when to stop talking.
Adores her man.
packo33 4y ago
Anti-feminist, faithful, as low body count as possible, pretty and, in my case, big tits.
And i have to say, they do exist. At least one.
mustangfrank 4y ago
Peschkowskaja 4y ago
loving, caring, fit, and just not dumb aka can hold a conversation. Thats it. And maybe dont be a psycho bitch from hell.
gaia2008 4y ago
Piss off
[deleted] 4y ago
I don’t think they are or not in the way you mean. Here maybe this will answer your question.
https://no-maam.blogspot.com/2010/06/zenpriest-2-you-cant-change-pickle-back.html?m=1
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Savage!
ThatDamnedRedneck 4y ago
This isn't a good sub for serious advice, FYI. But to answer your question...
My wife and I have a lot in common: Sex drive, kinks, life goals, interests. Plus we got together when we were both in our early 20's, which holds up against the pair bonding theory you'll see a lot of in this sub. Keep your expectations realistic and you'll probably come out ok.
FewActinomycetaceae0 4y ago
the pair bonding theory is backed by statistics, one person's life experience does not a statistic make and also if you plan on making long term investment choices you want statistical probabilities.
Would you invest in Dow Jones if i said that within 20 years you are 90% to likely lose 70% of your investment, but 10% chance to 10x your investment in 20 years, how many would invest their entire life savings on that kind of investment prospectus.
[deleted] 4y ago
I was with someone for way over two years. Never once considered marriage. They can't see past how "wonderful" they are and notice how it's a raw deal for men.
And the fact that she takes graduates rates as a sign of women doing better shows how out of touch she really is. Men realized how college, just like marriage, is a horrible investment. Both have the potential to ruin your life.
jp_mra 4y ago
College is a great investment if you choose a serious degree from a top university. Men just aren't allowed the scholarships, the quotas, or support women get for university.
But yes, women seem to have a mental block whenever I ask a woman the benefit a man gets from marriage. They refuse to see passed themselves.
Chairman_Ellen_Pao 4y ago
Bitch, you UGLY AND OLD! That's why!
PM_ME_YOUR_RC51 4y ago
80/20 rule in full effect. You're going to see a lot of these articles in the next 20-30 years of 60 year old women who have no kids, 20 cats and chug wine by the gallon just to fall asleep at night.
Congratulations, you played yourselves.
MuscleT 4y ago
It's sad because they would be so much happier if they worked on just a little self improvement, rather than reflexively blaming everything on an entire sex.
PM_ME_YOUR_RC51 4y ago
You think they're that self aware? LOL
Overkillengine 4y ago
Oh just wait till they hit 70-80 and can no longer take care of themselves, assuming their lifestyles do not prematurely age them to that point. They are going to flood the nursing homes and we will be looking at an economic collapse due to their resource demand outstripping any and all supply.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Or we will warehouse them and change the sheets every few weeks. The Old Thots home is going to look like a Romanian orphanage.
Overkillengine 4y ago
Notice how it skips right past their early 20's? They really don't want to talk about what they were doing back then even though it is what landed them in their current predicament.
Maybe, just maybe, if women did not spend the period of time where they had the best negotiating position they will ever have trying to chase and lock down the type of men that will never commit to them...they would not be spending their 30's onwards miserable and alone?
Maybe, just maybe, a successful commitment minded man in his 30's is not going to settle for the jaded wreckage of a woman that would not have given him the time of day back when they were both in their 20's? That those same men have two other options: A) Younger women. B) Staying single. Both of which are objectively superior to the offer made by the kind of woman in the OP.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Maybe, just maybe, some women will stumble on this Reddit and realized the truth before it is to late?
I have a dream that one day little Betas and little princesses who joyfully submit to them, will live a satisfactory high sex life of compassion and love and raise the next generation to cherish our values.
Nah.
blakswan1976 4y ago
The mind boggles.
ihateshadylandlords 4y ago
Notice how they never define what a good man is, as doing so would show how delusional they are. So they’ll continue to throw these pity parties and hope some guy who checks all the boxes will overlook all of the younger/hotter women and commit to them.
OfficialTechLead 4y ago
This is such one side of the story bullshit.
Its easier for men in their 30s, but its easier for women in their 20s.
ugluk1 4y ago
Should be looking for BB earlier, just like many other old whores.
pablosito 4y ago
That always seems to be the only point they have “more women are going and graduating from university! We’re winning!” No you’re not. A university degree isn’t the golden ticket it once was, especially not your English/poetry/political science/bullshit degree. Men aren’t going to university in droves like we once were because were smart enough to see that on average it’s not worth it. Men are however starting their own businesses and going in to the trades. You won’t be running the world but you’ll be doing pretty good doing honest work. Meanwhile tuition costs are skyrocketing the jobs these women are likely to get coming out of university will pay shit and their financial situations will only get worse. To be clear I’m not saying university is a total waste of time obviously there are people who are really going to benefit from it and lord knows we need people like doctors and engineers to go through it. But this surface level claim of “more women in university means women are doing better than men” without any look in to anything else like I just mentioned is absolute dog shit. And it’s another one of those crappy slogans they have to keep chanting to convince themselves of something they know on some level not to be true. Like the cat lady with 3 eggs left telling herself she’s A HAPPY. STRONG. INDEPENDENT WOMAN!!!
[deleted] 4y ago
University is a fake metric. Like teaching kids the steps to solve an algebra problem and proclaiming they know algebra. No, they don’t. They only know a specific set of steps to get the answer. They’re just trained monkeys.
https://youtu.be/VW6LYuli7VU
dingodoyle 4y ago
So many of these big city delusional girls also look down on guys with trade school degrees.
https://twitter.com/luinalaska/status/1225810183764336642?s=21
Old_snowboarder 4y ago
If Tinder is so shit why are so many women using it?
MGTOW_BEASTMODE 4y ago
Fucking yeah! What the fuck.
MuscleT 4y ago
Validation.
It makes them feel good to get so many matches. But they then have a meltdown when they get a rude wakeup call about their own quality.
[deleted] 4y ago
I must be part female. It always felt good when I got a match on tinder. It was like a high.
Then I’d try talking to them and they wouldn’t answer. Not even the big 300 pounder lol.
Buchwild 4y ago
To her defense she'd have to put down the knife and fork, give her some time to respond dude!
PlainTundra 4y ago
We all like feeling desired. The main difference is that validation plays a bigger role in women's happiness while men are able to be happy with other purposes.
[deleted] 4y ago
Like some other guy said: fish and bicycles.
RunawayGrain 4y ago
Remember all those guys you exploited for free food and services back in the day? Yeah, about that...
RRFdev 4y ago
They are not good men, not according to women. Please, you guys must remember the double speak women use.
When they refer to good men, they really are referring to Chads who magically commit.
SuperGoxxer 4y ago
Makes you want to amend that statement to:
"Why are good men (I haven't thrown away) so hard to find"
Celulite2000 4y ago
That’s just tip of the iceberg. What about all the guys she flaked on, cheated on, didn’t show up for a date, or dumped because they were “too boring”. Tough shit lady, welcome to being a man in the dating scene.
[deleted] 4y ago
My general rule of thumb is to treat people the same as any of my friends. Not paying for their shit, but still being outgoing and friendly. It hardly ever works, but it helps trim out the really bad ones in under an hour.
mr_kuk 4y ago
You heard the lady, incel shit lords. Time to man up and fix this for the strong independent damsels in distress THAT DON'T NEED YOU!
BlackestPillForYou 4y ago
You have to be beyond delusional if you think online dating is a man's game
Hoodlum224 4y ago
It actually is....if your the top 1% man,
[deleted] 4y ago
I’m probably a border chad, around the 20% mark but not a top 10% super chad. I had a pretty good time with OLD.
NagyonNagy 4y ago
Haha. Let's start reading. "single women in their early to mid-30s". Ah, right no need to read the rest of this article. This horse is so dead there's nothing left of it by now.
z31fanatic 4y ago
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I love it because this is what they asked for.
FalsePositiveRethink 4y ago
Because you can't see them.
They're all around you and you can't seem them because you're blind to everything but Alpha Bucks.
MuscleT 4y ago
Archive Link
EricTheCreato 4y ago
Seeing her write splat made me laugh really good
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
"They have unparalleled sexual, reproductive and economic autonomy."
And, women are miserable, depressed, and hostile because they hate the world they created. Here we are 1/5th of the way through the 21st Century and women refuse to take responsibility for their actions and adjust their expectations. I expect the marriage market to be in near collapse with a total eradication by the end of the Century.
There are no good reasons for any man to get married anymore.
[deleted] 4y ago
Unfortunately for women, they like being told what to do. I’m literally laughing my ass off right now.
CarlSpacler 4y ago
this x10000
nessouak6 4y ago
1/5th.
[deleted] 4y ago
Just wait until the right man stands up and starts having a fully cultural conversation with males, and about how the male role in society has changed. Chivalry gone. Women and children first, gone. Men required to be the bread winner, gone. Men needing to be married to be viewed as men by society, gone. Men needing to father children to be viewed as men by society, gone. etc, etc.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Society....gone.
SeekingLevelFive 4y ago
We can only keep doing work to free others from the matrix.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
Men are slowly starting to wake up. It's only a matter of time before women are left to fend for themselves.
le_ebin_trolecel 4y ago
Cope. Government tax redistribution fends for them and pussy will always have value if it has viable eggs.
[deleted] 4y ago
Unfortunately our taxes still fund their lives.
But I did hear a rumor of another tax cut so that’s nice.
Sankdamoney 4y ago
And “...women are doing much better than men.” She cites the higher university graduation rate for women. This is proof to me that a degree doesn’t mean that much for most people, especially if it’s not a useful degree.
RRFdev 4y ago
And conveniently ignores that women tend to study for shit degrees in college too.
Peschkowskaja 4y ago
this. Saw so many girls with some bullshit "writing", "gender studies" "law" "socielogy" and other crap degrees. Cant earn shit with this
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
Education means very little to men when it comes to women. I don't give a fuck about her degree. Is she fit, pleasant to be around, can she hold a conversation, have hobbies, and can she function as an adult? If the answer to those questions is no then I'm not interested.
n2R3aJVUhTt6zFgk 4y ago
Degrees don't mean shit.
In my last job doing back office shit for Cisco I was the only one on the team not University educated yet people would defer to me more often than the fuckin so called "experts"
Overkillengine 4y ago
Just wait til the current crop of both hit nursing home age. Going to be a lot of elderly women that are destitute due to living at or beyond their means most of their adult lives, degrees notwithstanding.
Men, make sure to make as much of your wealth untaxable as you can. Millions of shrieking vulture harpies are going to try to steal your ability to retire using the government as their jackbooted thugs.
I mean, they already are, but you need to become the stone that they can get no blood from ASAP.
mustangfrank 4y ago
You are correct. If you go into any waiting room of a doctor's offfice, the majority of people there are always female. Females use more than they produce in society. This is why a feminism based society will fail, as women look to other women to do the work men used to do.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Women outnumber men in hospitals and doctor waiting rooms by at least 5 to 1.
Ramp_Up_Then_Dump 4y ago
Men go to doctor less compared to women when they have problem.
mustangfrank 4y ago
If peole think this is bias, just do what the above poster did and take note. I went to change insurance at my doctor's office this week. I counted 9 women ZERO men in the waiting room.
Sankdamoney 4y ago
Keeping physically, mentally, and spiritually fit as possible and acquiring useful skills is something the government can never take away.
[deleted] 4y ago
Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had.
le_ebin_trolecel 4y ago
Feminism threw women to the wolves and freed the top tier of men from the shackles the rest of men imposed on them. Only top tier guys are "winning", your average man is losing.
[deleted] 4y ago
Maybe. But the average man can climb up the food chain and become above average. I am not saying it's easy, I am saying that it's worth it.
I used to be below average.
le_ebin_trolecel 4y ago
You can climb up but it will never be enough to compete with a natural chad. The consequences of feminism are not a comedy, they're quite literally a civilization scale tragedy where all but the very rich and very beautiful lose. Almost 30% of american men had no sex in 2018 and the number is rising. What freedom did men get? The freedom to betabux a roastie whore or face extinction? Women are miserable, men are miserable, all but the elite have lost and been shackled to vice rather than each other.
rreot 4y ago
Climbing up doesn't matter - at best it can uplift an individual. At the worst it just moves top20% into even higher standards
blaze92x45 4y ago
Preach
Sexually literate men and they will bang as many women as possible
Sexually liberate women and they will all bang the same handful of men.
kyledontcare 4y ago
And get herpesghonasiphalaids! Don't forget!! And probably be paying some child support unless the guy got a vascetomy and he's a slick willie like Bill Clinton.
tom-anonymous 4y ago
This is profound.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
Preach! Free at last, free at last! Thank God almighty I am free at last!
hijoton 4y ago
do stop! my ribs are killing me xD
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[deleted] 4y ago
What's OLD? Online dating?
DangZagnut 4y ago
OnLine Dating.
MuscleT 4y ago
"Could it be that I'm low quality?"
"No, it is the OLD which is wrong"
nessouak6 4y ago
There are good men. How come I found one? At the age I should be in the middle of riding the carousel like my female friends. Lmao, not being a common thot pays off
mustangfrank 4y ago
And that's not just the incels, the average guy doesn't just get to sit around and have pussy show up. He has to work for it, unlike her, just existing is enough.
What you said is true, but as both men and women hit 30, the ball game changes. This is easily seen everyday here on this site.
bigdaveyl 4y ago
And most of those standards are bunk anyways. Like, yes, it's good to be attracted to your partner physically. But what happens when father time catches up with you all and you're not attractive as you once were and can't even have sex anymore?
xkulp8 4y ago
Why can't women just turn to Stoicism? You can't find any good men, so clearly there are none, so you have no control over the situation, so stop worrying about it.
[deleted] 4y ago
Haha that’s hilarious. Learn to code (and stoic).
machinerer 4y ago
Women seemingly love to worry about things that are entirely out of their control.
Such a pursuit is nothing more than a waste of energy.
nhendren23 4y ago
Yup. Then they complain to men to fix it for them instead of taking responsibility for it themselves. Feminism freed men. What a great time to be alive!
[deleted] 4y ago
This is what they wanted. Now they still arent happy. Bugger off.
EvilKlownz2 4y ago
They will never be happy, not ever. If they say they are, they are lying.
BiffBiffBiff27 4y ago
Every time she talks about men in the article she's referring to the top 10%. Online dating has obliterated dating and the dynamic between the sexes for the bottom 90% of men.
mgtowshoes 4y ago
That's BC the bottom 90% of men are invisible to her. Sixty years old or whatever she looks and she's still delusional
PlainTundra 4y ago
Every woman who talks about men is referring to the top 10%. It's funny how, for instance, in Twitter, a girl complains like "I only want a man that huges me instead of wanting to fXck me" and plenty of simps write back "I could do it, DM me". Ffs, she's not saying she wants to be with a man that huges her, she wants a top 10% man that does that in certain situations while in the other fXck her savagely.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
I would huge her but she aint getting no hugs from me.
TheVIIAnthony 4y ago
"why are good men so hard to find?"
because they are not looking for you
Dan240z 4y ago
Getting married is a fool's errand.
MuscleT 4y ago
Oh marriage can be alright.
But if you are in the 10th percentile of quality and feel entitled to someone in the 90th percentile of quality, you're gonna have a bad time.
Dan240z 4y ago
Yeah if you want you're money taken and emotional well-being ruined then by all means get married.
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Peschkowskaja 4y ago
Nothing. Just had a chat with a 26 year old woman recently. Her last tinder picture was a rant about asshole who misstreated her. Didnt like to cook or clean, had no hobbies, watched stupid show like Bachelor or "***** got Talent". Asked her why I would need her in my life with all this.
DAMN. Triggered a rage outbreak \^\^ "Youre not over your ex, youre shallow, bla bla bla"
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Peschkowskaja 4y ago
Pleasent....damn, thats gonna be rare. This girl already had a status picture in WhatsApp about "Her Atitude". One of the biggest red flags
Sumfuc 4y ago
"Good Men" this one says. LULZ!
We know our worth now. The deal is to NOT make any deals with the enemy. Your all on your own now. Sure, we might want to bang you for a while, but we prefer "leasing" instead of "buying".
And when we go on vacation? We'll Uber instead.
letmeseeantipozi 4y ago
Some are willfully delusional but at the same time I feel for those who were conned by society and didn't know any better until it was too late.
p3ngwin WAATGM Endorsed 4y ago
Did she just admit men have inequality in those two ?
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I find it particularly telling that the female demographic she cited for women wanting serious relationships and marriage was early to mid-30s, and can only assume the disinterested guys they relate to were of the same age bracket. Why did she not ask around among women in their *early to late-*20s? Because those young women were NOT seeking serious relationships and marriage in their most youthful and fertile decade. Here's the surprise, lady.....men in their early to late-20s WERE seeking serious relationships and marriage amongst their peer group back at that age, but the women wanted the CC instead. Now the worm has turned.
It's almost like what comes around, goes around...
Aladdin70 4y ago
can confirm. i wanted serious stuff since i was 23 and freshly engineeer graduate , women wanted the CC. so now i wouldn't get married or get a serious relationship even if y life depended on it.
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I'm proud of you.
toolate4redpill 4y ago
Was watch Family Guy last night with my GF, they buried a nugget there that made me laugh out loud................. I laughed out loud. Its why guy are rejecting these used up pieces of meat. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cd01xK5fBbM
Creedability 4y ago
Tl;DR: the sole group to profit from OLD and contraception are men, because all they want is sex with no price tag.
While the author clearly states that men are falling behind economically, she says "men can just buy alle the sex the want now". Right, because porn is as good as sex and men don't want solid relationships with trustworthy partners, noooo who the hell would want that?
The grade of self delusion (omg we are the victims!!!111) in face of the facts is astonishing
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
These are the Bernie voters. Fuck facts. We want to get even!
Reasonable men: But you will destroy everything and have piles of bodies in the streets and everybody will be poorer! We have seen this act played out more than 50 times in the last century.
Woman/Bernie voter: What are you, an incell?
Creedability 4y ago
Well it's part of the cycle as well, we've seen empires rise and fall. Unfortunately, the western empire(s) are about to fall in our lifetime but eventually it is our duty - as those who see it coming - to preserve as much as possible of what was good and a healthy, strong way of life. Let those be slain who call for their deaths. For me it is all about preparing for that to happen I don't feel joy when thibking about it, I feel sad even for those who are blindly following that cruse ideology but I no god and therefore I can't stop them. But at least I can try to outlive these mad(wo)men
RedPillMissionary 4y ago
University metrics are mostly women now because men are more WISE. 80% of liberal arts degrees go to women, whereas 80% of STEM degrees go to men.
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In ten years, these women will be defaulting on their college debt, which is now at 2 trillion, and we'll have another market crash
nessouak6 4y ago
Good men aren’t hard to find. Maybe just try not to be a cheap thot.
BrewingHeavyWeather 4y ago
But, being a high maintenance THOT didn't work, either!
nessouak6 4y ago
Being high maintenance isn’t bad. Being thot is.
Ithomasfreedom 4y ago
I like how in her opinion that none of this is caused by women or that they are responsible for the way things are now, it's all men's fault. At the end she says women need to fix men. I say they need to fix themselves but that would be impossible if they don't see that THEY ARE the problem. Sooooo, nothing is going to change.
I'm free and I am living in peace. I'm single and staying that way. Why complicate life by getting tangled up with a woman. What little that I'd want from a woman comes at too great a price. In other words, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
PanderjitSingh_k 4y ago
Annoys me when they say men are doing worse than women without pointing out that this is by design.
Feminists instituted affirmative action programs programs to get more women in colleges and revamped the entire education system to improve women’s grades.
I’m old enough to have watched them do it. They were explicit about it, saying exactly why they were doing it. But now they pretend the reasons are either a mystery or just due to men being flawed.
MarkBoabaca 4y ago
She says women can't find men who want a serious relationship that leads to marriage because sex is cheap & easy for men. Who does she think these men are having sex with? That's right ... other "single women [who] are more equal and empowered than ever before." She's talking out of both sides of her ass trying to defend the women who finally want a LTR & kids in their mid-30s, while simultaneously acquiescing to the "you go girl" crowd that they should keep riding the carousel until they feel like getting off.
News flash: men are not slaves, cattle, toys, or your personal property. They don't want to play the game anymore. Get over it.
Zombarts 4y ago
Lol maybe because most the the men who want to marry got married already. Also any "good man" that wants to marry a woman in her 30+ can pick which ever one he deems best. Since it seems like there are a lot more 30+ women how want to marry then those who are interested.
StingRayFins 4y ago
Actually, many men DO want to marry and have a nice family. Just because you weren't chosen by the guy you wanted doesn't mean all the men you meet didn't want to get married. Girls actually curve over 70% of the guys available, that can drastically increase her odds of finding a mate. These girls are literally walking into a buffet and leave starving because the buffet didn't have grade A5 Wagyu.
Then don't fucking move in with someone expecting them to marry you. That's a huge burden on someone. You can share spaces, rent, cohabitate, be together temporarily, or sleep with each other. But don't expect anything more, EVER, until you talk about it clearly and with intent. Just because you're dating or living together at the moment or for now doesn't mean it means marriage. If a ton of men are going around making marriage promises and curving or taking it back then that's a different story. But what we have are a ton of girl who just forcefully assume marriage... forcing and making the man feel trapped and pressured. Then the guy is like, "WTF now I'm an asshole for breaking her heart"
They wanted this. If they're really equal and empowered then they must also accept all responsibility for their actions.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
Your advice is for women to be more direct?
Good luck with that.
Probably telling them to stay off the CC will work better. Which is to say not bloody much at all.
For any advice to work the woman has to hear it, and she can't hear anything over the cacophony of femanism.
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I think the moving in together thing means the woman was an asshole and the guy was like “wait you treat me like shit and now you want to get married?”
Queue Dennis eating cereal in his car saying “You dumb bitch!”
TANQspray 4y ago
Remember the attack on a ‘Nice guy’ thinking ten times being nice = sex. Now change that to ‘Nice Girl’ and marriage.
FalsePositiveRethink 4y ago
Exactly.
FalsePositiveRethink 4y ago
They think being in a relationship for X number of months entitles them to marriage.
Its the female equivalent of the beta-orbiter thinking that X number of months being her friend entitles him to sex.
Overkillengine 4y ago
Shit, they think just having a vagina entitles them to it.
They forget over 50% of the marriageable population has one of those. (Slightly more males are born than females but this ratio per age group changes as men tend to die sooner and more often.)
StingRayFins 4y ago
Exactly, and both are stupid as fuck. I'll take it one level further to say that expecting marriage from someone is way more stressful and unfair for the other person.
And we have females initiating 80% of all the divorces... but also the one pressuring to marry. Do we see the problem here? And guess who gets fucked over the majority of the time in marriages? And guess who usually benefits more?
Everyone already knows the answers to these. I'm not throwing shade or hating. Just look at the numbers and statistics and the answers are clear as heaven.
Overkillengine 4y ago
Plus if a woman can't even make it through a vetting period of 5-7 years, why should a man consider her for a far longer contract that gives her the ability to financially ruin him?
Bortles-Senpai 4y ago
Let’s be honest, the vetting process is more like 1-2 years as you get older. Military guys get expedited shipping tho
Overkillengine 4y ago
And that's why so many guys get burned so horribly. They did not take enough time to ensure the mask would slip to see what level of crazy they were really dealing with.
mustangfrank 4y ago
And it is all the man's fault.
This is a great read, from this very site
https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html
We hear endless complaints from women about the lack of good men.
Women astonished that men don't seem to be around when they decide it is time to settle down. Women telling men to ''man up'' and stop shying away from commitment.
That's when some men start behaving very badly - as the manosphere clearly shows. These internet sites are not for the faint-hearted. The voices are often crude and misogynist. But they tell it as they see it. There is Greenlander, an apparently successful engineer in his late 30s. In his early adult life, he was unable to ''get the time of day from women''. Now he's interested only in women under 27.
''The women I know in their early 30s are just delusional,'' he says. ''I sometimes seduce them and sleep with them just because I know how to play them so well. It's just too easy. They're tired of the cock carousel and they see a guy like me as the perfect beta to settle down with before their eggs dry out … when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls … It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''