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High-Fruit-Trinity 10 months ago
OH my God I hope that's fake. It sounds exactly as described in mgtow.
youreallmeatanyway 11 months ago
This explains much
One-Move 11 months ago
her family is rich, she has nothing!
futurecuckoldress 12 months ago
LMAO 30$ gift.
[deleted] 12 months ago
That response is r/pussypassdenied right there
DeltaPeng 12 months ago
she's used to riches and so she expects them (which, it can go the same way for guys too, we all tend to judge based off of past experiences). However, hypergamy makes it feel like a bad deal for her
If the shoes were flipped, and the guy was rich and the girl was not, society would say they shouldn't care about the money, but marry based on love. Which is true and ideal, albeit men are less likely to be accepted / get that kind of deal if the roles were reversed, as shown here.
djkbrown2001 12 months ago
What a piece of shit of a person. I hope you die old ,alone and miserable. Fuck off .
[deleted] 12 months ago
Ah these Hindus and their backward caste system.
fuddubandha 12 months ago
And she is Indian who will definitely get fat after sometime on her dad's money.
ShortWarrior 12 months ago
I guess you can call her FATima.
Rottinghere 12 months ago
Always remember, marriage is a sacred institution built on "love."
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Rottinghere 12 months ago
Actually, I appreciate her honesty and find it rather refreshing. It's nice to see more and more people waking up to the fact that marriage is indeed just (as you say) a financial contract, and nothing more.
Overkillengine 12 months ago
What's detestable is her gross stupidity and entitlement, and complete lack of pragmatism and long term thinking.
She's being handed some very good terms and she is complaining they were not delivered on a gold platter by a dhoti clad servant.
silly_birb 12 months ago
Great men desire skills, but even the greatest of women only desire stuffs.
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hijoton 11 months ago
We have a song in my country:Pibe Cantina.
About a nigga who wins the lotto and the guetto girls want....to be shown off in his car.
Not to get a house, not to not worrying about lack of food or security. They beg to him to take them in the carn so they can show off.
houseoftolstoy Mod 12 months ago
One question about her current work: did she get that job on her own merits alone, or did mommy/daddy have a hand in getting her that job?
And a similar question to her summer internship: did she get that through her own merits, either with her family's influence or through a gender quota?
The point of these questions is that I am guessing that just like her parent's wealth, she did not earn the job and internship she has through her own merits. I have no issue with anyone making more money than other people, but no one should be making comparisons to others circumstances based on factors outside of their control. Her parents owning 7 properties to his parents 2 has no bearing on her or his competence in earning money and being successful.
The fact that she brings up the accomplishments of her parents and compares them to the accomplishments of his parents tells me that her mindset is not about his competency, but simple access to wealth. Since he does not have that, she resents him. Never mind that most of the comparisons are not based on fair metrics, she has no ability to be patient or grateful for what he can provide and what he likely will provide in his future. She certainly has not thought about the fact that most college students are far from wealthy, and those that do not use their student loans moronically to live a luxurious lifestyle (and likely asking Bernie Sanders to bail them out when they cannot pay those loans off) are going to be like him. Living a meager lifestyle. Our princess cannot accept that she is not getting showered with money like she did with her parents. He would be better off without her.
NuclearTheology 12 months ago
That response is
PHUCK_THE_HIVE 12 months ago
Hey, at least she's honest and direct about her superficiality despite being socially unpopular.
Most women have to be superficial while pretending they're not while being socially popular. I view those more scary because the red flags are hidden.
DangZagnut 12 months ago
Berkely you say? The man hating school? So elitist that they completely ignore the massive homeless camp right next to them in favor of attacking white males on campus?
Oh right, they're racist and elitist as fuck. And they're not really into "black people" and quietly lock their doors driving by them.
I drove around Berkely, nice campus, the women are, seriously, hideously dog ugly I saw walking around. And they completely ignore the humongous poor camps right next door. Hilarious.
Silly white girls, so progressive. They make excellent socialists with how much they despise the poor and want them to die. A very Soviet mentality.
FashyPkmnConspirator 12 months ago
Fuck this bitch!
Perlmannecklace 12 months ago
Reading this just makes me appreciate my wife more. She makes almost 3x what I do, and I am barely surviving. When I get her a $30 gift, she knows that was a significant % of what I have available to me and it's a gesture of how much I love her.
djkbrown2001 12 months ago
Hold on to her. You have a gem.
rvail136 12 months ago
Holy fuck, what a self entitled twat. I hope this guy wakes up to what a miserably materialistic woman this cunt is.
TANQspray 12 months ago
So why can’t she find a rich boyfriend?
djkbrown2001 12 months ago
Question. What does she has to offer ? What does she bring to the table? Why would a rich boyfriend want her?
It's obvious her approach and value she placed on relationship is totally wrong.
Cantide756 12 months ago
Because they have much better options
Edit: wth is nexurs?
BlackendLight 12 months ago
A what?
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
Women need to learn that men consider their looks and lifestyle in women as much, if not more than women consider money on men. If you demand money from a man you better have the same level of attributes in those areas. I've never found a gold digger to offer the same.
If you're going to be a whore, at least know your value.
masterchiefpt 12 months ago
I hope she get rid of him quick. a guy deserves better than that bitch
[deleted] 12 months ago
Caste...??
So is she Indian or something. Gtfo of my country and go back to your shithole.
XavierMalory 12 months ago
If a woman makes more than you, you’re on the short list to be replaced.
I mean, she’s never truly yours; it’s just your turn. However, making less money means your turn is up that much sooner.
Enjoy the sex while it lasts, ‘cause it won’t last long.
RedditisCANCER999 12 months ago
what an absolute cunt, I hope she does dump him and finds someone more financially successful and demanding and then find out that they dont put up with her bullshit, and dump her, and the original guy finds a real gem.
i find that in my partners, the less money they have, when they buy me anything at all its far more meaningful and special, because its such a sacrifice, that it means so much more.
I only care about the thought behind a gift not the gift itself.
HNutz 12 months ago
That "friend" gave a GREAT response!
yunabladez 12 months ago
"He is of the right caste"
What the flying fuck, you ain't shopping for a racing horse!
krusecontrol91 12 months ago
Holy cunt of an entitlement complex. Holy holy fucking cunt
TheSecondComing97 12 months ago
May that guy please see that and get out.
So he doesn’t have to be with someone who doesn’t see him as worthy.
five_eight 12 months ago
"He's from the right caste"; I bet he already knows.
bobbiscotti 12 months ago
Sad thing is no amount of expense would buy a gift which would satisfy her. Guy is at least sort of smart for buying something on sale for a reasonable price.
djkbrown2001 12 months ago
If he is doing computer science he could be earning a lot later in life . I have an old colleague pulling in 250k per year plus bonus
Astral-Projector 12 months ago
Money money money. Where did the parenting go wrong to get such a whore gold digger as daughter.
jrpark05 12 months ago
Because the parents are probably just like her.
bobbiscotti 12 months ago
Solving every problem by giving her something. It’s actually way cheaper and easier for a parent who has more money than time. I’ve seen it plenty of times; these girls are driving a Mercedes at 17 and still whine on social media about anything they can get pity for. It’s as sad as it is disgusting.
Thetrvler 12 months ago
To be woman is to be prostitute. Some just dress it up better than others.
BrickBurgundy 12 months ago
If it flies, floats, or fucks, it's cheaper and easier to rent.
[deleted] 12 months ago
Very wise.
Thetrvler 12 months ago
Exactly.
ThrowawayCactus6012 12 months ago
I thought Berkeley was a left-wing school. I thought they supported the whole Marxist "workers of the world" philosophy. They react violently if anyone to the right of Obama might speak or visit their campus.
My guess is that she's a limousine liberal.
SevehnSyth 12 months ago
Any liberal with a decent standard of living is definitely a limousine liberal because they are ALL about self. They utilize the Government force to control everyone else’s lives around them in order to safeguard themselves.
HOA’s is another prime example when limousine liberals run amuck; start demanding/ dictating how we should live so they can live in their own little “utopia” on how they think it should be.
iwanttheblanketback 12 months ago
As soon as she said caste I thought her entire family must be recent immigrants.
jrpark05 12 months ago
Great point. I attended the University of Michigan, which had one of the top women's studies programs in the country. Part of my red pilling came there, where I saw these so-called "feminists" spread their legs with lightning speed for any guy with money, or who treated them like shit. They loved frat guys, who tended to be more good-ole-boyish (of course, not always).
Yeah, I learned then to never pay attention to what they said, but what they did.
hijoton 11 months ago
YESSSSS.
Actions at the end of the day make the world move. All the palatitudes mean jack shit when they get a job in McDonals.
arvzi 12 months ago
There was an article a while ago about how Asians are changing the nature of Cal. It's much more conservative than its previous reputation as a hippie hive.
urbana1 12 months ago
We say champagne socialists in Uk. Might be slightly different but same idea though.
BlackendLight 12 months ago
I've heard both in the us east coast.
CuntMonteCristo 12 months ago
Caviar Communist is a nice one too mate :-)
urbana1 12 months ago
I like it :)
EarthIsNotAGlobe 12 months ago
Material things and more “respectable” occupations are much more important to Indians than us. Minorities are mostly left wing because democratic policies disproportionately help them, not because they philosophically agree with the ideas.
jrpark05 12 months ago
LOL, left wing policies don't help minorities. Left wing policies have destroyed blacks in America, in everything from marriage, having babies out of wedlock, education attainment and crime.
SirKolbath 12 months ago
Left wing policies don't actually help minorities. They just appear to do so.
Give a man a fish (welfare) and he eats for a day (realizes it's easier than working). Teach a man to fish (assist him in finding employment by making it easier for employers to hire him and reducing overheads that interfere with wage increases and benefits) and he'll eat for a lifetime.
moroots 12 months ago
said another way: subsidize poverty and guess what you get more poverty
Honest_Solution 12 months ago
Limousine liberal. LMAO!
saltlakeshady 12 months ago
She is definately a limousine liberal. She's upset that this guys family owns "TWO PROPERTIES", most family's don't even have one and live in an apartment.
Honest_Solution 12 months ago
I know, right? For all we know the guys family owns some huge ass farm and those 2 properties are thousands of acres.
maruadventurer 12 months ago
A hot shot turd pulls into a diner in his lambo. He strikes up a conversation with a young looking fella with a John Deere hat on.
[dude] Betcha never seen anything like that $1.5m car.
[farmer] Can't say as I have.
[dude] Old pickup huh.
[farmer] yep, and 2 combines and a tractor.
[dude] Soooo....
[farmer] The pickup was my pappy's so it cost me nuttin'. A combine cost $2.2m and the tractor $800k. You might call them my daily drivers, 'cept I only drive the combines during the season. You might say I am rich enough to not have to drive all my machines every day like you do. Flo' can you total my check please....
Moral: Never judge a man by the coveralls he wears.
jrpark05 12 months ago
Love the Aesop fable style.
SuperGoxxer 12 months ago
No kidding, and the kicker is the John Deere equipment requires a dude with a laptop to come out to do field service requests at some high rate.
Apparently there's a rush for older farming equipment for this reason, easier to fix and less reliance on "technicians" being scheduled for maintenance.
ManDoIHateLiving 11 months ago
Yeah and if it works what’s the point in getting rid of it? Factories do this all the time as well.
GoyimAreSlaves 12 months ago
She's Asian so she's not a liberal
SirKolbath 12 months ago
Wat?
GoyimAreSlaves 12 months ago
Foreign Asians do not have a concept as liberal in their societys
SirKolbath 12 months ago
Yeah...no.
GoyimAreSlaves 12 months ago
Would you mind giving me some examples of Asian liberalism?
SirKolbath 12 months ago
Sure. Google "examples of socialism in Asian cultures" and you'll have 133,000 hits in 0.045 of a second. The fact that they don't call it by the same name doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
And FYI, your username alone puts you on thin ice with me. I'm not a fan of Israel shaming any more than man shaming.
AveenoFresh 12 months ago
Women: We want equal or greater pay!
Also Women:
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
Women are human beings and men are human doings. Therefore, she doesn't love you directly. She can't love you directly. She loves what you can do for her.
If you fall short of her expectations, she'll struggle with loving you. Intellectually she may want to, but emotionally she just can't.
nunhgrader 12 months ago
This 100%\^
Blogginginvicecity 12 months ago
Man, you blew my mind here. Thank you. I am sitting on this and things are really coming together.
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
LotBuilder 12 months ago
Well said. As clear as I have heard. It’s not their fault, it’s how they are wired. Know that and proceed accordingly.
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
How they're wired is not their fault. The actions they choose as a result of their wiring is absolutely, 100% their responsibility.
LotBuilder 12 months ago
No, it’s your fault for not understanding how they are wired. It’s like the scorpion and the frog... scorpions are gonna do what scorpions do. Same with women. If a woman has reason to believe she’s above you, her attraction will evaporate.
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
Are you saying that women aren't free to choose right from wrong?
BluepillProfessor 12 months ago
Let's just say the great weight of evidence suggests that they do have trouble. A lot of trouble. There are numerous bible passages affirming that women are easily decieved, flighty, unreliable, and unfaithful.
Awalt means awalt.
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
Having trouble doing something, doesn't make anyone incapable of doing said thing.
Having trouble doing something doesn't excuse not doing it.
LotBuilder 12 months ago
Are you saying it’s wrong for a woman to want to marry or date up from her financial or social status? It’s not. They are wired to take care of themselves and their babies... the “right” move for them to be able to do that is to seek mates with resources.
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
Seems like English isn't your first language. Here's what I said a few comments ago.
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loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
What nonsense are you talking about?
[deleted] 12 months ago
Might wanna get back to r/WhitePeopleTwitter.
Kurt751990 12 months ago
Women can love emotionally. Jesus F** Christ. She loves Chad. Women emotionally love chads. You can become a chad. Go mimic their behavior until your brain rewires itself. Use your mgtow wisdom to keep a woman loyal.
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
I'm gonna give you a chance to actually read what I wrote a d respond accordingly.
What's your point with this comment?
Sonicmansuperb 12 months ago
Women love chads because chads aren't dependent on them for validation. You can be a chad, and it starts by literally being yourself. Not feigning interest in her life, not trying to hide that you're broke. Literally only giving time to the women who find you worthwhile and not giving a shit about the ones who only want to use you. Once you do that, you'll find that there are plenty of women who will put up with being richer, taller, skinnier, and/or more attractive than you.
Destithen 12 months ago
But what if I want to be a Vlad?
maruadventurer 12 months ago
A good Vlad or a bad Vlad. There is a difference.
Destithen 12 months ago
A good Vlad masquerading as a bad Vlad working for the Russian Triad, who secretly has ties to the illuminati, but is in actuality a lonely 38 year old man hoping to find love in the cutthroat world of international espionage.
A romantic comedy coming this summer to theaters near you.
turtle_stank 12 months ago
Asian cultures are weird, dude
v650 12 months ago
I was thinking India.
Stateist555 12 months ago
Indians man
harrypoppy1 9 months ago
As an Indian, cast system are retarded.
FatChopSticks 12 months ago
Isn’t the caste system specifically an Indian thing?
turtle_stank 12 months ago
I don't know enough to answer that question tbh so I went more general
handdownmandown13 12 months ago
Yup, I feel like this reads as satire depending on who wrote it. I can’t imagine someone unironically writing this if they weren’t still embroiled in the caste system somehow ended in the 50s.
Also UC Berkley is very liberal, and I have some doubts of someone co-opting the word caste to refer to someone in this scenario. Unless this was an extremely entitled billionaire kid I doubt it would be posted on a forum like that.
notacrackheadofficer 12 months ago
It's a Hindu thing and various countries have lots of Hindus.
FatChopSticks 12 months ago
Just googled it
There’s approximately, 1.1 billion Hindus, and 970 million Hindus live in India. And almost all Hindu’s are Indians. So most who live with or experienced the caste system is predominantly going to be Indians
I get the distinction, one is a religious affiliation and the other is based on ethnic-geography. But for all intents and purposes, if almost the entire religion is made up of a single ethnicity and mostly congested in a single area, differentiating between what’s considered Indian and what’s considered Hindu seems redundant
Thanks for the clear up, and sorry if I’m being offensive
notacrackheadofficer 12 months ago
This is a part of reality. Click the history section.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Balinese_Hinduism
FatChopSticks 12 months ago
Looked it up,
So I see that Hinduism is considered an Indian Religion, it started about 2300 BC, and found its way to the Bali area in about 100 AD.
Most of the Indonesian Area is Muslim, with the exception of the Island of Bali. These are considered Non-indic Hindus.
They are literally categorized as non-indic Hindus, as in Hindus that are not Indian.
So I guess technically conflating Hinduism and Indian culture isn’t that wrong? I’m not sure what point you were trying to make
notacrackheadofficer 12 months ago
No one can guess where they are from.
1st century AD was a long long time ago.
Brohemond 12 months ago
2300 BC was even longer than that, both relatively and totally.
whirlislands 12 months ago
That's what stood out to me, too.
[deleted] 12 months ago
Yeah but then she goes on to mention Zales, a chain of American retail jewelers. So maybe we have an Indian/American princess here?
GoyimAreSlaves 12 months ago
Japanese are honorable at least
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RCRZ 12 months ago
Quoting Danny Devito, "suicide is bad ass"
accountforfilter 12 months ago
Kamikaze was honorable. Comparing Japanese Kamikaze fighters who attacked military warships to suicide bombers (who target civilians) is insulting. One could make a very strong case that the US nuking Japanese civilians was a war crime (IMO it was). However since the US won the war they get to write the history and decide what the war crimes were.
FatChopSticks 12 months ago
I’m not a history buff, but didn’t president Truman nuke Japan to prevent ground war, which would’ve caused even more casualties than the two cities that were destroyed?
Of course America can rewrite history any way they want, but I don’t think US bombed Japan just because it was the easy choice. It was a difficult weighted choice between one type of war over another.
maruadventurer 12 months ago
Nuking was not the only choice available. By early 1944 the US Navy had control of the waters around Japan. The Navy had proposed a naval blockade to starve the Japanese out. That was part of War Plan Orange that have been developed right after WWI -- https://www.globalsecurity.org/military/ops/war-plan-orange.htm
The problem was time. By this point, politically, the US populace wanted to see and end to the whole business as fast as possible. It might have taken another decade to starve the Japanese out. Nor did the US want the Russians mucking in Far East affairs.
accountforfilter 12 months ago
Sure that's the words that he said. From what I've read the Japanese actually surrendered because they thought that the Russians were going to invade after the fall of Germany, and US nukes weren't the primary motivator in their surrender.
jrpark05 12 months ago
He nuked TWO CITIES in Japan because it was all but confirmed that the Japanese military mobilized every single Japanese to fight in the war.
backtolurkingagain 12 months ago
So if I convinced you to kill yourself, and other people. That would be honored? The fuck out of here.
accountforfilter 12 months ago
In a war. The context matters, it's not suicide bombing.
Honored by them, not you. You don't have to value what they did, but those Kamikaze soldiers died for their people and to defend their homeland. I respect their sacrifice for their ideals. They weren't terrorists or cowardly suicide bombers blowing up civilians in a crowded place, they were attacking warships. Anyways it's off topic for the sub so I'm going to drop it.
backtolurkingagain 12 months ago
Any leader who asks for self sacrifice, while safe at home. Is not a leader. Your head is so fucked up by war propaganda that you can't even see the real problem. Sad
0nlyQuotesMovies 12 months ago
I find your version of the order of historical events here humorous.
disco_S2 12 months ago
What movie was that line in?
0nlyQuotesMovies 12 months ago
Dont tell me my business, Devil Woman
disco_S2 12 months ago
That's more like it!
GoyimAreSlaves 12 months ago
Nah dropping two nukes on Japanese civilian cities and killing 200,000 civilians (women & children & elderly) is totally NOT a war crime okay guys /s
jrpark05 12 months ago
Yeah, and the war would've lasted until 1948, with MUCH more bloodshed, because the Japanese were prepared to fight to the very last man, woman and child. This was confirmed in every Pacific battle, as each would last for months, because the Japanese would never surrender. Very few battles had above 10-15 Japanese soldiers that surrendered. Surrendering was dishonorable in the Bushido code, and Allied forces had to kill every last Japanese soldier in order to take the island.
suicidemeteor 12 months ago
Dude, seriously? You think we just dropped the bomb because "fuck it why not"?. It was due to the entire Japanese mainland being fortified to hell, children being given backpacks full of explosives and being trained to run under American tanks, the emperor himself ordering his people not to surrender (even after the first nuclear bomb) and preparations for the largest kamikaze wave ever, not because "lol why not amiright guys?". Even after dropping two nuclear bombs when the emperor surrendered there was a fucking military coup in order to stop the surrender, we would've killed and lost millions if the bombs hadn't been dropped.
JonMaMe 12 months ago
https://twitter.com/wellerstein/status/1159799358650499072?s=19
suicidemeteor 12 months ago
So this basically says that we dropped the bomb on Nagasaki, but it was accidentally dropped in the wrong area and at a secondary target. This isn't saying that the bombs were just for shits and giggles, but it does show that America was a bit too liberal with them.
GoyimAreSlaves 12 months ago
We are talking about honor and war crimes, you are justifying but it makes no difference. British did same atrocity by fire bombing civilian targets before the war even started. Can't also forget about Dresden. Is easy make excuses, but what if you and your family had nothing to do with the war and were bombed to death, wouldint that be a war crime to kill innocent lives? Yes there's always innocents going to die, but it's different when is a causality of war vs the war target
suicidemeteor 12 months ago
jrpark05 12 months ago
Yeah, peace, love, and rock and roll man. The world is full of sunshine and lollipops, and the losers definitely didn't do the same.
Get real. War has its own rules!
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backtolurkingagain 12 months ago
I'm native American. We've done enough. Prick
backtolurkingagain 12 months ago
Side note. Anyone who blows people up, they're the fucking cowards.
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backtolurkingagain 12 months ago
Said like a good white man. It took 400 fucking years to kill enough of us. Fuck you.
BluepillProfessor 12 months ago
I didn't see any japs screaming banzai and kill women or children. They targeted military ships and fought with honor.
backtolurkingagain 12 months ago
Lol. Honor. Honor is fighting you opponent one on one. Not killing yourself to kill more than your own personal honor can handle. Fucking simpleton
BluepillProfessor 12 months ago
In war there is no greater honor than victory.
Schlag96 12 months ago
You should probably take a pitstop over at the wiki page for Japanese war crimes. They killed almost 4 million civilians in China alone.
BluepillProfessor 12 months ago
I am well aware of the war crimes of the Japanese Empire and that is why I said they "fought" with honor. They did not conduct the war with much honor at all given Nanking, the Philippines, the Bataan death march, and a lot of other war crimes. Perhaps it is semantics but the fact is these all occurred after the fighting was done.
Schlag96 12 months ago
"I didn't see any japs screaming banzai and kill women or children."
Perhaps you meant "kamikazis" didn't kill women or children, but you said "Japs"
BluepillProfessor 12 months ago
Yes, you are correct. The atrocities of the Rising Sun are very well documented. My argument is that a kamikaze attacking a military target can be "honorable." What happened in Nanking and the irrational arrogance of the colonizing Jap military occupiers once the battles were won (for now) made white colonialism look like a day at the farm.
Traksimuss 12 months ago
Compared to blue and white collar castes with their own subdivisions, and untouchable caste of homeless?
Raze321 12 months ago
You're not wrong - nearly every culture has something like "castes". It's a nearly unavoidable product of society.
However, I do think there is a distinct difference. The caste system exists here, but it does not define us like it does in other cultures.
Regardless, your point is valid. You don't deserve the downotes.
SirKolbath 12 months ago
I don't know why this is being downvoted. Every society has different levels of classes. American politicians love to talk about the middle class, which implies both an upper and lower class to bracket it.
It's fairly standard that the poorer kids hang together and the more affluent kids hang together in public schools. Hell, the trope is so common that it was a staple of films in the 1980s, from Never Back Down to Can't Buy Me Love to The Karate Kid.
Naturally you're going to seek a mate from reasonably close to your own class.
TheQuatum 12 months ago
I've literally NEVER thought about someone's wealth compared to mine in a romantic relationship. That is about THE scummiest thing you can do besides cheating imo. I'd date blue collar, white collar and even homeless if that's who I chose to date and their status would NEVER have something to do with it.
[deleted] 12 months ago
This right here is why Biden won the DNC.
NohoTwoPointOh 12 months ago
...and why Trump will win the general.
[deleted] 12 months ago
Agreed
Original_Dankster 12 months ago
There's no reason why you should be downvoted. Western society has classes roughly analogous to the castes in India, we're just dishonest about admitting it.
Traksimuss 12 months ago
It is fine. I have to accept that people decide to disagree with me, even if it is truth. And yes, in the west we hide it better. While on average men test different professions better, women in general are awful to people they deem inferior. It mostly has to do with social perception of the profession. And fun social experiment - try to argue tbat garbage collectors and janitors are as necessary as doctors or teachers. Which is also truth, but women will hate you lol.
notacrackheadofficer 12 months ago
Even black America is secretly divided by last names or other things quite often. There are many black societies in the U.S. that are exclusive to certain sub groupings.
School Daze is a film by Spike Lee that has some hints about this paradigm.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/African-American_upper_class
PolukranosWordEater 12 months ago
Guess im with you. Humans will always form hierarchies. In theory, in the west, we celebrate opportunity as a way to transcend up the ladder. But, how often does that actually happen in the real world? It comes off as a dreamy ideal and oddly egalitarian, espically given conservative opposition towards political ideologies that place idealism above realism. If we have different natures we have different opportunities, and opportunities are lesser and greater depending on one's nature as they will be of greater or lesser value in the eyes of the society.
At least in the Hindu system there is a concept of responsibility towards the greater whole, in stark contrast to liberal democracies insistence of individualism.
maruadventurer 12 months ago
About 90% of the time, at least for most men. We aren't all born with a Harvaaaad degree stamped on our butts. You start with nothing in this world, and leave the same way. In between though, we earn it. One builds up the capital over a lifetime.
Now many may have it easier to climb the ladder than others. That is a fact. But here is another one -- More 'rich families' have lost all of it by the third generation. Either by one generation screwing up, or by sheer dilution of heirs as is the case with the Kennedys for example.
turtle_stank 12 months ago
We have the decency to not call them "castes" and believe that it's possible to change your station in life
SirKolbath 12 months ago
Of course, but that doesn't remove the fact that there are levels in even western society. And one thing I noted when I was married to my "new money" ex wife from Massachusetts is that "old money" still bears a grudge.
cherryreddit 12 months ago
So do we and caste is the same as race + class
WeAreMoreThanUs 12 months ago
Chiming in to add some clarity. I come from a Brahmin Hindu family. It's believed (incorrectly) by many unscholarly Indians and Westerners that the only way you can elevate your caste is in the next life. Fortunately, the Buddha (many of us consider him the 9th incarnation of Vishnu as the "common man - he began his life as a Prince, however - made holy through enlightenment") teaches that a person's "caste" is just as mutable, transient, and illusory as everything else and irrelevant to enlightenment and attaining liberation (Moksha) from Samsara (the chaos of attachment to the cycle of birth and death).
Traksimuss 12 months ago
Now that is actually a good belief. I guess changing other people beliefs is the hard part.
WeAreMoreThanUs 12 months ago
As a corollary, a Taoist might say that trying to actively change their mind would have the opposite effect.
RedditisCANCER999 12 months ago
so your argument against caste is that "Its not real/important"
well no shit sherlock, the mere fact she is referencing it means it doesnt apply in this case.
WeAreMoreThanUs 12 months ago
I was clarifying the Vaishnavite Brahmin position on the caste system, you ray of sunshine. Great username, by the way.
SuperGoxxer 12 months ago
My understanding is that the complexion of your skin is a factor too. So you could try to jump castes, but your skin color may be a hindrance.
WeAreMoreThanUs 12 months ago
Absolutely, it's a factor. For the narrow-minded and superficial. As is usually the case in many countries, too many dumb people focus on dumb things to the point where it becomes "part of the culture". What I find funny is that many Asians try to become lighter-skinned by various cosmetic methods, but many people of European descent are going to tanning salons to become darker. I suppose that means we all secretly want to be Mediterranean in complexion?
SuperGoxxer 12 months ago
Right, just something I had read somewhere. I do think its stupid.
Who knows, maybe there is a "middle" color value that we're all converging to.
moroots 12 months ago
how much do you want to bet that both her well paying job and her lucrative internship were both hooked up by her parents?
this girl-child was born on third base and she thinks she hit a triple
houseoftolstoy Mod 12 months ago
I was thinking the same thing. Being born into wealth does not mean much, but making wealth on your own is another thing altogether. So many children of wealthy parents end up losing their wealth because they often do not grow up learning what it means to struggle like their parents did. But all the same, they are the ones that go to high school driving a BMW and acting like they were the ones who earned it.
AngryTheCarp 12 months ago
Exactly. Regardless of which “caste” a person is born into, you need to consider what they actually did with their starting circumstances, and what they’ve ended up with.
Lots of people hate on Donald Trump, for example, because he started with a $10 million loan from his father. But he turned that around into a net worth of about $3 billion, rather than squandering it or merely retaining its value.
Trump started with all-star players on the bases sure, but then he hit a grand slam. This woman started on third but is about to get tagged out trying to steal home plate.
moroots 12 months ago
and yet warren buffet, who has benefited massively from cronyism and is a notorious estate tax vulture, is celebrated as having done capitalism the "right way"
that dude makes me fucking sick. charlie Munger too. awful awful people
bboywhitey 12 months ago
ShortWarrior 12 months ago
My MOM makes more than his DAD! It's 2020 and men are supposed to make more money than women!
Honest_Solution 12 months ago
Whenever I suspect a woman is all about money like this cunt, I get the hell out of Dodge. I hope this man does the same. And soon.
IWillMakeThisWorse 11 months ago
Love all the people here who talk like they’re being inundated with countless offers from women lol
Like, of course you chuds aren’t getting hit on. Stop being bitter
Honest_Solution 11 months ago
Stop being a cuck and allowing yourself to be used to women without getting anything in return.
evergreen35 12 months ago
Sorry to break it to you my dude, but ALL WOMEN ARE ABOUT MONEY.
gabeangelo 11 months ago
You clearly have not dated enough women to figure out that not all women are about money.
Faulkey 12 months ago
Thank you for sharing the video!
3DWomanHelps2DWomen 12 months ago
Some don't actually want to cause an emotional disturbance over expensive shit. The best thing to do now to survive in this world is to not worry about materialism and being a selfish bitch who does not love their partner for who they are and what they can afford.
3DWomanHelps2DWomen 12 months ago
Sure would be cool to get high end stuff for better quality (technology wise) but its very likely to find pretty cool alternatives at lower prices and only worry about the core of the product. Good sound quality for headphones but doesn't have lots of features? Who cares! Pick the best you can find and stick with it until it goddamn breaks. That's what I do because it is guilt tripping at this point whining about materialism instead of appreciating on what you have because there are homeless people out there and that may happen to anyone.
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Not true, otherwise Alfa Fucks/Beta Bucks wouldn't be a thing.
Like this woman for example, she is all about money for him.
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
I've got good money and a good life but I live far below my means. Since I'm good looking, tall and much better off than most men I get a lot of attention from women but the way I live repels a lot of gold diggers, which is just what I want.
Years ago I made the mistake of telling a female friend how much I had and shit changed immediately. I never would have anything to do with her (which is why I told her) but after that our entire interactions were about how bad off she was and how she needed money.
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HAHA. Funny story...I am short, ugly, and started making a lot of money and good investments the passed few years.
I did okay with women pre money....all of a sudden, the chicks I used to orbit started fucking me when I became wealthy. My success skyrockets.
Weird how tall, short, hot, ugly...had nothing to do with anything after this epiphany, eh?
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
That's their true face
and being around women so much and getting them so easily taught me that I don't like them very much. I won't stick around a woman I wouldn't want for a friend and very few women are friendship material. Most treat men as someone to save them, someone to show off or a temporary distraction.
SuperGoxxer 12 months ago
Yeah man, I hear you. I don't ever talk about money with chicks, but since I like nice watches and don't dress like a bum, some of them figure it out. It isn't cool when they do, because like you mentioned every interaction is a "poor wittle me" kind of bait that is designed to make you swoop in with your wallet. That is, if you weren't a member here and didn't understand her tactics. Luckily that isn't the case. We're all too aware of the golddigger meme.
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
When they bring money into it the relationship changes to quid pro quo. If that's whats important to her than she's going to have to offer something. Since it's clear she cares about money from then on it's going to be a transactional relationship.
I don't blame them. The only problem is most women have so little to offer it's not a deal for me. When I treat them badly or ignore them it's because that's what they're worth. If they wanted better they shouldn't have reduced it to a financial investment.
They just don't like being treated the same way they treat men.
3DWomanHelps2DWomen 12 months ago
I hope you escaped that situation.
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
It's far in the past. Now I'm much more careful
BurdenedChad 12 months ago
In college I loaned a girl grocery money and she ran out and bought fancy stuff from Whole Foods. Never again. They’re never as broke as they make it sound.
Women always ham up being broke to friends, coworkers, random strangers etc. Some guys will ask their parents or best friend for money but most will eat their ramen noodles in silence out of embarrassment.
Chairman_Ellen_Pao 12 months ago
This is so common there are actual sitcom episodes on this theme.
ThePrivilegedOne 12 months ago
I've noticed the same thing.
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
I made the mistake of making out with her at work. I was the night shift boss and we had the whole office to ourselves so I thought it would be fun to do a Fatal Attraction, throw everything off the desk type of thing. It was more for the experience since I wasn't into her.
This was years before the world went harassment crazy, though she did threaten to report me for it a few times. I made some stupid decisions but they didn't come back to bite me in the ass later.
I googled her a while back and the wall hit her really fucking hard
Stateist555 12 months ago
link ?
Honest_Solution 12 months ago
She tried to shoehorn you in to the friend zone. Lend money, do favors, etc but she wasn’t trying to date you. I stopped being friends with women after being burned twice.
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
I messed with her more than she messed with me. Still shouldn't have told her though.
Turns out her father got busted for embezzling a ton of money and she stood by him and saw nothing wrong with what he did. Glad I never went farther with her.
maruadventurer 12 months ago
Its not a good idea to talk about money except to a wife. Even parents should be off the finance disclosure list unless they are level headed about it. Relationships can be destroyed just because of money. The envy gene is embedded into way too much of the population these days and you never know who has the gene.
BoxofMistakes 12 months ago
I know. I was young and stupid. Since then I've had entire relationships where the woman had no idea of my financial worth.
drewc99 12 months ago
I think he should hang and milk her for all the expensive gifts she's worth.
notacrackheadofficer 12 months ago
Try to get her to spring for a vacation, with the promise of a reciprocal one down the road, and then break up with her by "confessing" you are interested in seeing other women, right when you sit down on the plane to leave. She'll surely be escorted off the plane for screaming and assaulting you, then you get to go on a fun vacation by yourself. 8D.
There. I edited out all traces of deceit.
Cheers mods.
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notacrackheadofficer 11 months ago
Worth every penny to buy a new one in first class.
loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
This is a terrible idea for several reasons.
Additionally, WAATGM is strongly opposed to deceitful behavior. This is part of our platform. Seems like you haven't been paying attention....
notacrackheadofficer 12 months ago
I never said "and break the promise and never pay her back".
I'll edit the part where it says "have a new girlfriend" to "am interested in seeing other women".
Cheers.
chewis 12 months ago
I'm not condoning or condemning, but the mods flex a lot on this sub
notacrackheadofficer 12 months ago
I never bothered to read the posting rules so I'll gladly take the heat. Thanks for the heads up.
chewis 12 months ago
Shit ladies, look no further. We got a good man right here!
SoulLess-1 12 months ago
To be fair, I imagine it probably has a lot to do with people claiming this is a 'hate sub' and trying to get it banned.
chewis 12 months ago
That is a fair point!
diaperedwoman 12 months ago
Sounds like another gold digger. I agree with that comment, she should break up with him.
Ithomasfreedom 12 months ago
Never never ever let a woman tell you that it's all about love. That one word is so completely misused that it's lost all meaning. This women demonstrates it to a T! Being a "good man"(I consider that phrase an insult to men) isn't enough, it's never enough! If you are diminished in her view in any small way it flips a womans hypergamy switch to full on monkey branching mode.
djkbrown2001 12 months ago
Good man is an insult. I used to think it was a compliment.
Ithomasfreedom 12 months ago
It's right up there with the phrase "a real man" because of how they are both are used to shame men for not meeting a womans ridiculous impossible standards. An frankly men aren't much better toward other men when it comes to the shaming language. Men don't support each other but instead do the simping deeds of women. Think about how the words good, and real are used as weapons to diminish men.
djkbrown2001 12 months ago
Real man that's another. What it's usually means: some one to come and take care of me and my kids.
five_eight 12 months ago
I'm just glad she's busy at Berkeley and not running a motel into the ground.
Nidsan 12 months ago
CS on UC Berkeley? Unless she takes law and becomes a partner or she is going to be a specialist doctor, his financial future will walk circles around hers
SilkySullivan 12 months ago
Nepotism has already secured her an internship making as much as his DAD! I’m sure her mom will have a high paying position waiting for her right after graduation.
exiledinrussia 12 months ago
It’s nearly impossible for women like this to think long-term. It seems like she’s never had to.
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ace_kantrillo 12 months ago
If she's past the age of 14, her brain is done developing.
BlackendLight 12 months ago
It's a prestige thing too, for some reason a blue collar job or engineering degree isnt as cool as like a law or medical degree even if they make the same or more than the latter.
Like the plumber who makes 70 to 100k a year vs the lawyer who makes the same but has like 150k debt.
hijoton 11 months ago
The soul crushing debt makes those long degrees a risk. Trade school.
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fmanly 12 months ago
...who apparently doesn't buy rings at Zales.
SirKolbath 12 months ago
I know a guy who was certified as an underwater welder. That asshole works three months a year and pulls in $150k. He spends the other ten months on his sailboat in the Caribbean.
Oh, and he can't work more than four hours a day, including decompression time.
hijoton 11 months ago
I'm from Uruguay and got to know an underwater welder. They got visibility issues due to our river dragging lots of debris vs clear oceanic water. He earns a nice buck.
BlackendLight 12 months ago
I joined the wrong profession
FaceAndKMS 12 months ago
Underwater welding is extremely dangerous, so the chance of fatality is a tradeoff.
SirKolbath 12 months ago
Right? Sheesh. The most I ever made with my master's degree was $85k and a growing sense of dissatisfaction from pushing a fucking desk around all day. I make slightly less now but love what I do. I scraped three knuckles yesterday changing an antenna 155ft in the air. It was a very good day.
where_muh_good_mens 12 months ago
Good on you bro! Too often men are compared to their financial equivalency and no one seems to understand that quality of life and accomplishments cannot be quantified so easily and if they could they would far outweigh any salary a man could make.
One-Move 12 months ago
Seen that a couple of times, spoiled girl from rich family, guy well of but not stinking rich, it never works, she “only” got a new lexus, not a new Mercedes
redetor13 12 months ago
This only happens if the guy is chad af
LORDLRRD 12 months ago
This reminds me of my ex, who told me she harbored resentment because we'd occasionally split our date costs. I'm still in school, and work part time and she was a full time accountant a few years out of school.
tosernameschescksout 12 months ago
I got 99 problems, but a caste ain't one!
UpperClassStout 12 months ago
The fucking name is "Confessions from UC Berkeley" and you expect any sort of human decency whatsoever?
Thats a literal shithole of liberalism, soy males, feminism, white guilt, etc, etc etc.
Stateist555 12 months ago
he should marry her divorce her . talk her half of what she got . then get a younger version of her
Kozmocom 12 months ago
I understand the whole financial aspect as in relationships people typically fight about sex and money. I also understand knowing what you want and not settling. Thus if this girl wants a man with money then by all means go for it. That said she is forgetting a few things: (1) people are supposed to be poor when in college (2) college relationships are usually about having a great time and not designed to be so fucking serious (3) though her family has money so fucking what (4) she better be beyond attractive with that kind of bs personality
frikabg 12 months ago
Here is what though she is fucking poor morally and psychologically bankrupt! Her family is rich... she is not however she sees her family as extension of herself and his family as extension of himself. She doesn't care about him at all to the point where he is being judged for his family accomplishments and not for his own capabilities and merits. She also thinks that her families success is hers for some reason which couldn't be further from the truth. All and all she is disgusting despicable horrible being which.
Im_a_Mime 12 months ago
This woman is walking piece of garbage. I pray she finds a guy just like her but richer, that would be the ultimate karma, when he breaks up with her for her parents being beneath his parents.
SirKolbath 12 months ago
That comment is platinum!
[deleted] 12 months ago
Looks like she has quite a lot already and it's not pretty.
dingusfunk 12 months ago
She admitted in the post that all her privege came from her family
nunhgrader 12 months ago
Trash - pure and simple.
prbonfanti 12 months ago
Hes is of the right caste, he should open own eyes and GYOW before it is too late.
brcn3 12 months ago
"He's of the right caste"? What kind of medieval gangster speak is that?
five_eight 12 months ago
Dot Head. Its like in China: the Beijing word for non-human is "countrysider". People are incredibly tribal, so if every one is the same you have to find ridiculous differences to create a tribe.
MGTOW_BEASTMODE 12 months ago
Her future:
https://nypost.com/2019/09/25/women-are-struggling-to-find-men-who-make-as-much-money-as-they-do/
[deleted] 12 months ago
The shallowness wow
BrickBurgundy 12 months ago
At least there is one person speaking some truth to this deranged cunt.
bubbahubba69 12 months ago
I ain't saying she a gold digger but if the shoe fits.
MyNameIsChrisHansen8 12 months ago
Essentially... mommy and daddy do everything for me and gave me a free pass in life and all my future opportunities with jobs are because they put me there through their connections. Yet the bf is a problem. Yea okay, I would love to see how little she would accomplish without her parents doing everything for her.
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loneliness-inc Mod 12 months ago
Wat