Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Empirismus 3y ago
And she could easy figure out how not to refuse those payments aren't she.
EviltwinEdgelord 3y ago
What a garbage person
alexinfinite85 3y ago
I find this woman particularly repulsive because she has the nerve to think she outclasses her boyfriend when he very obviously just elevated her out of trailer trash status by himself. What a fucking dumb woman on top of horrible bitch to boot
DrCaduceus 3y ago
Like honestly, instead of using the resources she has to help bring him to her level she decides to shoot higher. Disgusting.
classicliberal1 3y ago
The dictionary example of Briffault's Law. Past resources count for nothing, even if a woman's entire life was made possible by them.
This is how all women act. It's biology and women do not override their biological instincts.
veevyo 3y ago
Are you kidding me? This assumedly grown man picked up a 16 year old orphan, which is already predatory unless he's looking to be an adoptive father, and used money to guilt her into staying with him by paying for her education. Really, the only thing wrong with the girl is her classism, it's gross for her to not want to date a truck driver due to money.
This entire subreddit is upsetting, but holy shit, how can you miss the point this hard?
scotchnstout 3y ago
This is revolting, literally, reading this BS just, fuck this B.
Corran_Halcyon 3y ago
That man is a saint. He could have put that effort, drive and money towards bettering himself and his prospects. Instead he worked hard and sacrificed so she could go to school and improve herself and prosper in her life, and she then wants to cast him aside as street trash unworthy of her. I heart goes out to this man. I hope he finds a good woman, a woman of quality some day soon.
This woman is utter garbage.
xdmx89 3y ago
This is a piece of garbage of a person. Who would want to marry this the I'm thing?!
Mortheous_Darkmere 3y ago
What an ungrateful bitch...
Anna45554 3y ago
He helps her, and in the end, she kicks him. When you are standing at a high position, remember those who helped you get there when you were not as high as you are now.
DusselDw4rf 3y ago
The more I think about it the more I understand why Islamic countries keep women tightly under wraps... Sad but I understand.
blaizken_420 3y ago
A classic. The go-too example when you need someone to understand who ungrateful women are.
drewc99 3y ago
This right here, this is how axe murderers are created.
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Man was good enough to pay for her entire education (in exchange of her sexual "favors" which is straight up prostitution in my book). She thinks he's beneath her now that she's a "lawyer". An absolute classic with women. To "marry down" is barely conceivable for most of them it seems. Especially in Africa. Hopefully he did not invest too much in her emotionally and just enjoyed the (costly) ride while it lasted. 10 years is not bad. Everything in life is temporary and transactional.
Synovexh001 3y ago
What's the problem? He never signed a contract for a romantic relationship. Just pay back all the money he spent on school fees (plus interest) and y'all can get right back to respecting each others as non-romantic equals. Besides, y'know, him not being 'in your class,' just a lower-class guy who'd take what little money he has and spend it on supporting a teen orphan without asking anything in return.
Drp345 3y ago
And this is why you never fund a woman's life altering decisions. Because she owes you nothing.
Thatsyourissue 3y ago
Not a surprise. Typical. She needs someone who can buy a giant ring she can post for likes Funny the revaluation came after she was done school and able to earn a paycheck
EvanGRogers 3y ago
What was the advice given?
Terrible_Presumption 3y ago
He's got more class than her.
pepeschlongphucking 3y ago
My question is what class?
EvilKlownz2 3y ago
This is why you don't pay a woman's bills, rent, boob job, etc. This is how it will end. As a woman govt daddy would have helped her. Instead she drained the life out of some guy with good intent. At 26, The wall is going to run a train on this bitch.
Kurt751990 3y ago
You know how women get alimony? Yeah this guy deserves alimony.
SomeSqueakyCleanButt 3y ago
I've seen this several times already, but it definitely bears repeating. Women are hypergamous by nature and are therefore untrustworthy. Never trust a female to do the right thing.
Mikeezy1992 3y ago
I hope this is fake because if the guy is legally allowed to work as a fruit seller and truck driver then the relationship should be that of a father figure and not an intimate one considering he paid for her to go through school at 16 years old.
Not saying the woman isn't a bitch or that she isn't trash but wouldn't there be a red flag for the guy to think along the lines of "She's not 18 yet, get out."
CestLaVie1989 3y ago
This has to be satire. The lack of self awareness is astounding.
Yuuzhan83 3y ago
Oh, my, god. This is the trashiest most awful person that ive ever seen. He elevated her to a higher class and now she thinks shes better than him and that hes below her? Wtf.....
RedditAccount628 3y ago
I just hope there's some form of judgement one day for her. One that is far harsher than any of us can imagine.
amomentafter 3y ago
So fucked up. I hope she at least tried to return the favor and fertilize the lawn before looking at someone else’s.
Lord_Teapot 3y ago
and this is why you never do anything for a woman
SuperSonicAnarchist 3y ago
This isn't even trash. She's beneath trash
GuiltySanta_ 3y ago
Woooow. Literaly said wow out loud after reading this. What an awful person.
HellishGod 3y ago
Where are those wonderful high-quality women who love and appreciate you for who you are, not for what you can do for them? Why are nowadays more and more hateful harlots like this? Sad era we live in..
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jasonmiles2014 3y ago
I hope she sees this bro
KingRobotPrince 3y ago
There's no way she can come out of this not looking like an asshole unless she arranges to pay him back the money he spent on her.
sin_cos_tan45 3y ago
She was willing to accept his help and his dedication until she succeeded according to her Q and now the profession that has helped her get to where she wants is all of a sudden beneath her? She phrased her Q in such a way that puts her in a bad light and makes her out as a bitch so that's on her. You're right no one knows what happened exactly but judging by her Q, it appears that she used him
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sin_cos_tan45 3y ago
So you take it at face value...she used him
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I've seen this one before. I would say this is shocking but I'd be lying. Never help out women. Don't be a simp. Briffault's law.
IcariusFallen 3y ago
Yeah. Saw this one like.. 2? 3? years ago in another subreddit. People were basically saying that she was a retard and that he was still higher class because he wasn't a piece of shit. As far as I remember, it was like in india or thailand or something like that. You know, where "class" means everything and if you're not in the right caste, you're considered "unclean" and "subhuman". Which is what she would have been, if he didn't bail her out.
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empatheticapathetic 3y ago
It’s a copy pasta that’s been going around for over 10 years and appears everywhere. Someone decided to send it in a magazine this time.
nem2k 3y ago
Briffault's Law and hypergamy rolled into one.
RxCubed 3y ago
Briffault's Law:
Never heard of this before. So true, and succinctly put.
evergreen35 3y ago
All Men need to know this shit.
Briffault continues with these three corollaries to his law:
Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him. (Translation: What have you done for me lately?)
If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered. (“I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today.“)
A man’s promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman’s wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.
TLDR: Women have ZERO loyalty. Your past investments in her mean NOTHING to her.
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evergreen35 3y ago
Women only have remorse when their bad actions affect THEM, not when they hurt others:
Florence Nightingale (1820-1910) the founder of modern nursing: “Women Aren’t Capable of Love”:
"Women crave for being loved, not for loving. They scream out at you for sympathy all day long, they are incapable of giving any in return, for they cannot state a fact accurately to another, nor can that other woman attend to it accurately enough for it to become information. Now is not all this the result of want of sympathy?
I am sick with indignation at what wives and mothers will do of the most shocking selfishness. And people call it all maternal or conjugal affection, and think it pretty to say so. No, no, let each person tell the truth from their own experience.
They really don’t have sympathy or the ability to empathize, because they are always judging everyone and every thing as a product on a social value scale that relates to their own egos and bounces off of themselves. There is no capability for genuine feeling.
This is what I have experienced with women, there is no capability for genuine feeling for other humans, or really in general, except when those feelings are for themselves and the other people are just proxies to bounce ideas off of."
From Florence Nightingale on Women, Medicine, Midwifery and Prostitution: Collected Works of Florence Nightingale, Volume 8.
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NotherThrowaway284 3y ago
I'd say Briffault's Law already incoroporates hypergamy. No?
nem2k 3y ago
Either can occur without the other.
BL alone: eg. taking advantage of beta orbiters, like getting them to do all the work in a group project, then ignoring then afterwards
Hypergamy alone: eg. Upgrading from a guy making $100k to one making $200k, but they both paid for all the bills, took her out to meals etc
NotherThrowaway284 3y ago
Right--I mean I do get that they're conceptually distinct, but given basic laws of evolution and psychology, wouldn't you say they make hypergamy an inevitable manifestation of Briffault's Law? I guess I always took it that way, but it could be that I didn't give it enough thought.
nem2k 3y ago
If you limit your scope to monogamous romantic relationships then yes.
I see hypergamy as maximising fulfillment of wants (I want a tall guy with a flash car, not the short poor guy I'm currently dating), whereas BL is fulfilling needs (eg. I need a guy to pay my bills because I can't afford to myself, but if I can afford to pay my bills I don't need this guy anymore)
NotherThrowaway284 3y ago
Ahhhhhhh. Now, that's a very good point I had not considered. Yes, I absolutely was operating under that implicit assumption, but my conflation of the two rules does stop working without it.
Thank you--that was very hepful.
NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago
But from an evolutionary standpoint, hypergamy is about the most basic of needs--the need for survival for her and her offspring. The symptoms appear to be 'wants' but in reality, they reflect primitive needs.
Tall = Size to fend off predators and other rivals as well as genetic material.
Flash car = resources to ensure the survival of her and her offspring.
Take your 2nd example:
But Briffault's Law comes into play here. The guy making $100K paid all the bills, took her out to meals, provided for her, etc.. But he gets dropped like a hot potato because, by her hypergamous view, $200K can provide better than Mr. $100K. So all of the things that Mr. $100 did in the past are irrelevant. He wonders why someone who he took care of could just up and leave like that. Briffault's Law at work.
Briffault's Law simply explains the mechanism of hypergamy that men do not understand (since we're programmed differently). Once the female sees an environment that looks more conducive to her survival or that of her offspring, that is the only thing that matters. The past is the past and matters not.
nem2k 3y ago
You make good points here. Thank you for your insight.
NohoTwoPointOh 3y ago
This is one of those threads where everyone is expanding our insights. Appreciate yours as well. I wish I had such discussions in my 20's or even 30's.
astrosssssssss 3y ago
Words can't describe how utterly disgusted I am with this person.No,not even a person,this utter trash.
king-of-the-light 3y ago
I like this one post when bitch was crying when she found out, that her ex boyfriend was in fact rich dude. He was just testing her, acting like he had no money. After that, she saw him in an expensive car with some other bitch and she was devastated. Justice served. Karma is a bitch.
CarlSpacler 3y ago
Well, she is a Lawyer. Some are the most vile humans on Earth.
upsidedownbackwards 3y ago
I'm going to have to choose not to believe this one is real. This morning has not been going well enough to be that disgusted in someone so early. How do they not write that and feel like the most horrible person ever?
astrosssssssss 3y ago
And I hope your morning goes better:)
astrosssssssss 3y ago
I hope it's not.
StingRayFins 3y ago
Right? Sounds like an honest, caring person who got used and leeched hard as fk. You don't expect people to just give you free money and time... this girl knew what she was doing and took advantage of him and now trying to make excuses.
"I want somebody in my own class" GET THE FK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT BULLSHIT
Shamdhun 3y ago
This man literally worked his ass off to give her that class she is talking about and suddenly she has so much made up class that SHE thinks she is too good for him? SMH.. The man is better off without her. Sad he wasted too much time and money on this ungrateful gold digging female dog.
thefilthyhermit 3y ago
Why the hell doesn't she send that guy to school and lift him up? It's the least she can do for him. That bitch has no idea what the words gratitude or respect mean.
StingRayFins 3y ago
And let's not forget a crucial message here. There's a good chance she was dating and sleeping with this guy throughout the process. I know girls like to play with words and rearrange it to change the way it can be perceived.
From the post she might just want us to think it's a random guy helping her and nothing more because that is easier to say and lifts the burden a bit compared to saying "my boyfriend isn't good enough anymore"
JakeDC 3y ago
I wonder why men are increasingly avoiding marriage. I guess it will always be a mystery.
Scourmont 3y ago
Fixed it for you
Yuuzhan83 3y ago
Its so hard to figure out lol. Its almost like we figured out it doesnt benefit anyone but the women.
inertargongas 3y ago
It always benefited the woman, but it didn't used to be so fucking lopsided.
27KHHV 3y ago
This person is literal garbage. I hope she has no success in life whatsoever and only gains misery instead.
Notice how she gives little shit about the fact her parents died as well. There was literally only 1 line then the rest was her complaints about this man who sacrificed everything for her.
She only cared about how she could benefit and who could support her all those years. What a fucking disgraceful joke. I would spit on her, but even i have my standards, so i won't.
Yuuzhan83 3y ago
Indian culture msn. Its fucked up. No excuse tho, shes garbage.
Aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 3y ago
I don't give a shit. When applied to the US sexual marketplace, plenty of men get treated exactly like this.
While these things might happen in Indian culture among people with roots on the Indian subcontinent, they have little relevance to the US SMP.
aerionkay 3y ago
What Indian culture?
thefilthyhermit 3y ago
I looked up KwaMashu. It's a place in South Africa.
Still, that chick is trash.
binkerfluid 3y ago
Lots of Indian people in South Africa too, they were brought in as slaves (or basically slaves I dont know exactly).
This person could be any ethnicity becuase SA is fairly diverse but one thing is for sure she is trashy.
aerionkay 3y ago
Dude above was successful in being both ignorant and racist.
saltlakeshady 3y ago
Eh it was ignorant but India does have a fucked up class system.
aerionkay 3y ago
Name a country that doesn't?
gaynazifurry4bernie 3y ago
Liechtenstein probably.
r2401 3y ago
Monaco. Everyone is rich.
Jake4523 3y ago
At one point I would have said the US. Why? Nobody gives you shit for free, you go out and earn it, it wasn't based on class, it was based on how much effort you put in, now everyone demands to have free shit.
aerionkay 3y ago
Lmao this guy still thinks American Dream is real
clickclackcluckcluck 3y ago
If she was in a class above him she would not need a fruit hawker to pay for her schooling.
Also, women are treated pretty shitty in India. Domestic abuse is rampant and a lot of men essentially get away with rape and murder over there. Its worse for women lower down on the caste system.
India is not full of gold digging simp slave driver women, in case you didnt know.
jrpark05 3y ago
Does that (even if it's true, which is NOT what I hear from Indian MGTOWs) negate what this golddigging hypergamous beeotcha did?
You know the answer.
Canisluous1558 3y ago
I dont believe that one bit.
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Canisluous1558 3y ago
Let me ask you a question, does the woman in question seem oppressed?
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MrHistoryLesson 3y ago
I feel the same way man, this is fucking horrible...
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
Jesus fing christ....this pisses me off. If he wasnt the type "she'd want to marry one day", she shouldn't have let him invest so much of himself in helping her get where she is. She used the fuck out of him. Women like this make me ashamed of being female. If some man had let her work her ass off to make sure he got what he needed, then decided she wasnt the type hed want to marry, she'd have put him on blast, run his name through the dirt..but she thinks it's ok that she used him. What a cunt. I'm not sorry for calling her that. Truth be told, calling her that is an understatement and I dont think theres any words I can think of that would accurately describe her.
Celticpenguin85 3y ago
You just know those harpies over on that other subreddit would say he was only doing those things for her because he wanted to get into her pants therefore he's an entitled creep who thinks he's owed sex and deserves to be shit on.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
I assume you're referring to the femidiots at fds. You hit that nail on the head so dead on, that nail went through the wood and came out the other side.
Yuuzhan83 3y ago
Harpies is the perfect term. Harpies with herpes.
saltlakeshady 3y ago
This is so on the money its scary
prestidigibator 3y ago
She didn’t let him do anything. What he does for her is somehow something she earned. Pretty convenient frame of mind to have when someone lifts you up to the point of obsolescence.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
If she'd had even one ounce of decency she would not have accepted his help knowing she didnt have genuine feelings for him. That was some entitled bitch shit she had going on in that fucked up head of hers.
Original_Dankster 3y ago
She probably did feel for him at the outset. But her success brought her into the circle of successful men, and more importantly introduced her to female peers with successful men... Then hypergamy kicked in. She now feels biologically compelled to compete with the other women, and a displaying commitment from a high status male is how they compete.
empatheticapathetic 3y ago
Her comment is pure virtue signalling. None of the ‘why’ and all of the judgement.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
I doubt her feelings were genuine for him. For his money and what he was providing for her, yes...but not for him. She knew exactly what she was doing. Now shes trying to make herself look like shes not an asshole, but shes failing miserably.
Yuuzhan83 3y ago
She hsd feelings for him, when he had things she needed. She no longer needs him and instead of returning the favor, her true colors came out. I hope she does leave him, he deserves way better.
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prestidigibator 3y ago
You don’t get it. She literally out status’d him and is thus better and deserving of better things.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
No I get it. I'm saying shes got entitled bitch shit going on in her fucked up head. No sense of loyalty whatsoever on her part. I'd say his status was higher than hers and she didnt deserve him. HE'S the one who is deserving of better things, in my opinion. She climbed the ladder to becoming a lawyer on his back. I truly hope karma comes back in her future and not only bites her in the ass, but gnaws it completely off.
prestidigibator 3y ago
I’m being facetious. Status in her mind is the same that it was when her development was arrested in her teens. The world she sees is a perpetual fantasy.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
Yeah, that bitch apparently lives in a state of delusion.
Yuuzhan83 3y ago
Status and class are so meaningless. And the higher class you go, the less you will want those people as friends.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
Absolutely. Status and class are just excuses people use to act better than those who arent as well off. Truth is, those who are not as well off seem to be more down to earth, caring, compassionate, generous, and willing to try and help others, as they know the struggle is oh so real.
Demiansky 3y ago
What's tragic is that it never dawned on her that perhaps the solution here was to lift him up the way he lifted up her. She probably would have gotten better results too, because this man is clearly made of very good matrerial. Like, it's not necessarily horrible to be status conscious and to try to do more with your life, the problem is being horrible in the pursuit of that better life.
My own wife at one point was doing better financially than I was. What was her impulse? It wasn't to kick me to the curb. It was to give me the encouragement, space, and financial help to become the better man that she knew I could be. And thanks to her support and help and love, I was able to make it there. I guarentee that my wife got better results in terms of "wealth and status" with this strategy than the woman in the OP ever did.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
Absolutely! Very well said!
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
This^ ❤❤❤ This is how women SHOULD be. THIS should be the norm. THIS is how women should treat men. THIS woman is a real woman....those FDS femidiots could learn alot from her, if they actually had the sense to do so, which they obviously dont.
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i'm curious what has driven you to be so angry at women like this.
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keep in mind i'm in 100% agreement with everything you've said so far, it's just that the way you talk is like a man who has been burned by women when you are in fact a mother with daughters.
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what's your "angle" so to speak? and i mean that in the nicest way, i'm just curious to know what experiences you've had that make you feel so strongly about the injustices that men face in situations like these?
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i wish more women had your perspective.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
I've had men who treated me the way these women treat them, in as far as being used, not for sex, but for money, etc,so I know how THAT part feels...and it totally sucks donkey ass. I've not had to deal with all the same things men have, but what I have had to deal with gave me more of an insight as to what men are put through, and when I see it done, it pisses me off. No one deserves to be treated like shit, used, manipulated, fucked over...I've had friends (who I am no longer friends with) whom I have seen treat men this way...and these men were great guys. I was friends with both of them as couples. I stopped being friends with those women because I hated what they were doing, but stayed friends with the men. They did not deserve to be hurt like that. I have no use for women who think it's ok to do this shit. Its disrespectful and its hurtful. I love men. I love talking to men more than I do other women. Men, I've found, are much easier to talk to, and less likely to stab their friends in the back. Women say all men think about or want is sex. Not true. They do think about it alot but, unlike women, at least they dont hide it. They are more fun to be around and talk to. They are more open and honest and will speak their mind, even if it hurts. Most importantly, they dont pretend to be something they're not. What you see is what you get (which I've found to NOT be the case with most women ) The men I've been friends with just wanted to be around people who accepted and liked them for who they are, not for what they have, how much they make, or what they can give. (Edited at beginning for clarity)
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
I also want to add, I'm not angry at all women...just the ones with fds attitudes, and ones who think that and treat men as if they are less than human, that they are only here to cater to women. The ones who use them and discard them, the ones who marry them, have kids with them, then leave and financially rape men. They wonder why theres so many men who have the attitude that women are to be avoided....but they dont bother to take a good look at why..what women have done to men to cause this. The women who have behaved so horribly and screwed men over so badly, make ALL of us females look bad. And THAT pisses me the fuck off.
I hope my replies answered your questions.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
You found a good one. A rare find indeed.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
And that's sad....that women like that are rare, when it should be the other way around. Bad women like the one in the op should not be the norm. I was raised to believe and act like the wife in this guys comment, and I have raised my daughters the same. If my daughters behaved like the "woman" in the OP, I'd not only literally kick their asses, I'd disown them for being assholes.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Not sure why anyone would downvote that.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
Downvote what?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
When I first viewed your reply to me, it was at -1.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
Huh...maybe an fds lurker didnt like what I said. Ah no worries...they dont like anything I say ever anyway. My views are polar opposite from theirs. Probably why, even though I'm not a member and have never posted there, they banned me. I guess they'd consider me a bad influence. I might, gasp!, convince women there to stop listening to their bullshit. If only...
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
I take special pride in their banning of me without my ever having posted/commented there, which occurred before they had their ban-bot.
The funniest thing? I probably talk about those gold-digging whores the least of anyone here. I don't give 2 shits about them. I only ever discuss them if someone else brings them up first.
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
They dont like you because you wont put up with their silly backassward ideas. I thought it was pretty hilarious the first time I visited their sub and saw I was banned.
yuvrajsama 3y ago
Modern problem required modern solutions
Beautiful_Dust 3y ago
Or the bitch could have got a job...earned her own money to go to school. But I suppose that concept never entered what passes for her mind.
jrpark05 3y ago
This is truly without defense, and if women that are watching need another reason why men are refusing to marry them, this is yet another.
No loyalty, and always looking for a better deal.
noobie107 3y ago
damn pour one out for a brotha
27KHHV 3y ago
Ayyyy pouring one for a poor Homie, he deserves all the respect he's earned. As for her, she deserves all the scorn she should get.
VRisNOTdead 3y ago
lol what scorn. she will move to a new city and no one will ever know about any of this. Invest in yourself. Put on your own oxygen mask before putting on someone else's.
Yuuzhan83 3y ago
I mean i can see why you would have this attitude, i do. And shes living proof of how evil women can be chasing this non existant, and meaningless class thing.
Money, is a bit more understandable, not condoning but hes the reason she will be wealthy. What fucking scum.
VRisNOTdead 3y ago
Imagine if he put him self through lawschool driving that truck instead of her...
BurdenedChad 3y ago
I've got a buddy whose wife wanted them to finish school. First, he worked overtime sending her back. She got a much better job and once it was her turn to support him, she kept complaining about how he wasn't pulling his weight. He got served with divorce papers during his second semester back.
There's no way to earn "brownie points" with women. It's always about what you're doing for them this very instant.
Somerandomshit123456 3y ago
A "Real Man" isn't becoming, he already is. A real man already has everything, he doesn't need anything and he isn't "becoming" anything. If a man doesn't have EVERYTHING a woman needs, he isn't "a real man".
But even though a real man that has everything she/he needs, he is never complacent. Even if you have 100 billion dollars in the bank, have 200 IQ and master every field of study, are a perfect parent and to top it off are a genetic specimen with no history if illness in the past 20 generations and have athlete's body without ever picking up a weight, you are eternally curious, always pushing yourself 24/7.
And they wonder why men die early...They don't see men as humans...
jrpark05 3y ago
Remember Wendy Davis, the c u next Tuesday who ran for governor of Texas, but got steamrolled by Greg Abbot?
Well, she was married while in Harvard Law School, and her husband paid for her education. Soon after graduating she divorced him.
Same scum here.
RedMeatTrinket 3y ago
This is where the male candidate won 54% of the female vote and 62% of the married female vote.
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Older_Miggy 3y ago
Rule 1, dumbass.
Bye Felicia.
27KHHV 3y ago
Not cool bro.
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27KHHV 3y ago
However this sub doesn't tolerate man-shaming and neither do the mods. Good luck with that.
Zorojuroturo 3y ago
The rodents in the sewers are more befitting than this biology trash
derealchad 3y ago
I won't defend her but gotta say that is easy to quit studying and go from unqualified job to unqualified job to survive and get comfortable with that life style of no responsibilities besides your 8hours job and no intentions of improvement.
Wjamie420 3y ago
Pretty sure this is a repost
Klonoxanium 3y ago
Ungrateful bitch smh
pebblefromwell 3y ago
He should sue the bitch for all his money back after all she is sooo far above him she can afford it.
yellomachine 3y ago
That should have been a written, witnessed agreement from the start.
Screw your 'love' bitch. Just sign here, then repay me when you succeed.
washingtonpanther 3y ago
"I feel."
Feels before reals.
Every time I start hoping and wishing I could find something romantic, stories like this convince me monk mode is best.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
No calls for violence.
AveenoFresh 3y ago
Ugh why am I still subscribed here. So much rage fuel.
ajl987 3y ago
This is so incredibly disgusting. What a vile person, absolutely gross.
CptFizz 3y ago
Can't buy love
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Never help a woman... Problem solved.
Cissnowflake 3y ago
This is why you never pay to upgrade a woman — especially boob jobs, but anything like this.
Then they know they can do better.
Curo_san 3y ago
I remember when I first saw this. It's absolutely horrible. I honestly hope if she gets married her husband treats her like garbage
dankelwankel 3y ago
She is a selfish cunt who only thinks of herself.
CaptainjustusIII 3y ago
I want somebody of my own class. Omg the most arrogant sentence I have read today
Dean_Clean 3y ago
Hypergamy in action. They can't help it.
hatefulreason 3y ago
no wonder the muslims don't let them go to school too much, or drive, or vote. same with the gypsies in my country. and they only get divorced if he is abusive or she is not fulfilling her duties as a wife
HellishGod 3y ago
Where do you live? In my country are a lot of gypsies as well. And they are more firm with their wives
hatefulreason 3y ago
Romania, land of choice :))))
HellishGod 3y ago
Oh, we're neighbours then:)) I live in Kiev, and I see that the gypsy wives, are more faithful and selfless. Now of course, I'm talking about the more decent and integrated gypsies.
dorballom09 3y ago
Omg
EpsilonChurchAlpha 3y ago
Please that poor guy is way above her level
Gloomy_Commission 3y ago
That is absolutely utterly fucking horrendous
MC_Batsy 3y ago
I am absolutely amazed by the lack of gratitude and loyalty. I guess it's not so much that she feels like she does, but the fact that she can shamelessly express that.
Also, notice: They met when she was 16, and she's now 24. 8 years he put her through school, and now that she makes more money, she just wants to dump him. And so many women wonder where all the good men have gone. Ya'll drove them away with toxic behavior like that.
Gman3152 3y ago
I hope that's a fucking troll attempt, otherwise press F to pay respects for the dude. Damn, man... I can't even imagine his feelings when he learns that
DarthBroker 3y ago
I’m speechless
Mrbig_1210 3y ago
Hmm this sounds fishy It almost sounds like what actually happened was she was probably a sugar baby, she was giving him sexual favors in return and then reneged on the deal after she got what she wanted
youngandaspire 3y ago
The future of society is canceled.
Ishabaka 3y ago
There's a lot for men to learn from this one.
WeAreLostSoAreYou 3y ago
This is so old but the rage is still fresh every time I see it.
I’m a lawyer. We are NOT anything special. Pretty sure truck drivers do a hell a lot of more than most of us when it comes to supporting society.
lorum_ipsum_dolor 3y ago
You'll be glad to know I heard Saul Goodman's voice as I read that.
HUSLIME 3y ago
Hypergamy does not care.
thenotoriousdougie 3y ago
And yet society will still expect men to make all the sacrifices for the sake of predatory, parasitic creatures like this thing.
ClubZlut 3y ago
Not the first time this was posted but the message hits just as hard every time.
Fuck em. Literally. That's it. Fuck em and move on. Sad as it may be the majority just aren't worth the time otherwise.
jtzxc123 3y ago
Human trash. Just reading makes your blood boil. The audacity to post that shit.
Ocinea 3y ago
Poor guy.
_The_Scarecrow 3y ago
wow, now she looks down on him after he paid for all her shit. because he is "Just a truck driver" this women are unbelievable.
MixthePixel 3y ago
Women date up not down or across. Poor guy made a mistake helping her out.
Newbosterone 3y ago
The worst part will be all the people who shame him if he asks for spousal support.
StingRayFins 3y ago
He's supposed to just "take it" like a man.
window_licker84 3y ago
Omfg. Monkey branching bitch.
innerpeice 3y ago
this sounds like the stuff i hear from India. this behavior is not uncommon.
mustangfrank 3y ago
She could put him through school. But that would require her to do something for someone else. Maybe he always wanted to go to college, she could do so for him. But she is trash.
StingRayFins 3y ago
Exactly. Or they can start a business together. Anything, really.
But what she chose to do shows that he was nothing to her all along except for a ladder to climb over, money to spend, someone to use. A means to an end.
This is, hands down, one of the dirtiest and scummiest shit I hate to hear happen to people.
mustangfrank 3y ago
If she really didn't like him, at least she could pay him back for the money he spent on her. Then, she could split for she repaid him. If she cared for him, she could put him though school. They might make a good team, but she is a female.
HNutz 3y ago
Fucking disgusting.
When he met her, he was a contributing member of society and she was a high school dropout.
She doesn't deserve him.
Fucking trash.
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This can’t be real.
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does this even surprise men? this type of behavior is what I expect from women, the contrary would surprise me honestly.
Freelance_Sector 3y ago
Solipsism and hypergamy at its finest... I mean lowest. This female deserves nothing. Literally. I hope she monkey branches, the branch breaks, she falls to the forest floor and can't get up again. Best possible scenario for her, and the man. At least then he'll be free of this resource leech.
This is why you never trust them. They will use you up and discard you once they feel it's in their best interest. A real human being would lift the other person up as he has. I truly hope he finds someone more worthy of his obviously magnificent self.
zetaconvex 3y ago
This is something fathers should keep in a scrapbook and show their sons when they become teenagers.
"How best can I tell you he is not my type without hurting his feelings?" Perfect. Just fucking perfect. Not "I don't want him to go ape shit because of my treachery"; no no, no, my hands are clean, I just want to protect his feelings.
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Rex-Holes 3y ago
You can tell she's a manipulator after the first sentence. Doesn't try to explain the scenario first but instead tries to build a victim narrative mentioning the death of her parents at 14 which is irrelevant to the story. Shes probably a shitty lawyer too.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Nice catch on the victim points.
With how manipulative she is? She'll likely become good, if she learns to hide it better.
Rex-Holes 3y ago
I meant she's probably a shitty lawyer because her persuasions are so blatant and immature. Say she broke a lamp. She would probably cry and blame everyone else but herself instead of explaining the scenario in a rational manner that would bolster support for what actually happend to the lamp.
toeshotz 3y ago
Same thing happened to one of my coworkers. Put his wife thru college to become a lawyer. She started working and she met another female coworker that had gone thru a divorce. This friend convince her to take trips to vegas to enjoy her life. One day my coworker over heard them talking about him and it was not nice. Wifes new friend convince her to leave him. That was a year ago and she still lives with her parents and she is miserable and regrets leaving him.
27KHHV 3y ago
Good, let her suffer. May she never find happiness ever again, just as readily as she felt in stripping his happiness from him.
PunishedNomad 3y ago
Nobody can destroy a woman's life quite like a divorced woman.
Unhappy-Technician 3y ago
Why does she live with her parents if she's a lawyer
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The lawyer job market is super over saturated. Unless you have connections with a hiring practice/company you’re going to end up as a paycheck to paycheck public defender.
oh_no_aliens 3y ago
South African women be like
asdf333aza 3y ago
Stop saving these hoes! Everything you're doing for them, they would not do for you. He should of left her to the damn streets, so she could start working the corner like she was destined to, without male intervention.
They're only loyal to you when you have something to offer. Second you're weak or you elevate them to your level or higher, they will ditch you. We've seen these post multiple time. Female starts making more and suddenly, her mate isn't attractive anymore. That's how fickle and full of bs the female nature is.
mjr_awesome 3y ago
Shit move to be milking the guy for money like that, but fine... if the bitch wants out, then she should give him all his money back PLUS interest. I know for a fact that lawyers understand the concept of interest.
There usually is a honourable way out in situations like this, but I have yet to hear about a woman that went through with it.
chilldude1993 3y ago
Most fucked up thing I’ve read in a long time... I hope the dude didn’t kill himself over her. Holy shit!
masterchiefpt 3y ago
this must be fake...NO NO i dont want to belive
toeshotz 3y ago
Idk all I know is that he paid her out to keep the house and she ended back with her parents.
SanatanaDharmic 3y ago
Disgusting...
UltimaterializerX 3y ago
F
Wtfbyamey 3y ago
Moral: never girlfriends use you, don’t give a gf wifey benefits
Obediah_Stane 3y ago
You can't negotiate or pay for true attraction.
Folkncoke7 3y ago
Women love men opportunistically...
Savixe 3y ago
Gentlemen, AWALT, never give women ONE CENT.
simpslayer888 3y ago
Meme gender
CuntMonteCristo 3y ago
This is simply female red pill psychology. Females are attracted to males of higher status. If you raise her status, you are diminishing yours and her attraction to you. That is how they are wired, it is not something personal.
PurpleLemon4de 3y ago
AWALT
Han_GYOW 3y ago
I mean it’s kind of his fault busting his ass to put some woman through school
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jasonmiles2014 3y ago
I hope she sees this bro
sin_cos_tan45 3y ago
You know nothing about me maggot. The timing was suspect and the language in her post is suggesting that you dumbass lol
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sin_cos_tan45 3y ago
???? What? Lol whatever dude stick to your video games and porn.
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sin_cos_tan45 3y ago
Oh shit your a woman! Lmao no wonder your defending this point so ferverously. Probably an empty egg carton too lmao!
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sin_cos_tan45 3y ago
Of course of course I believe you. Listen sweetheart treat your partner with respect and don't pull stunts like that. You'll be fine just be patient. The right guy will come along