what's the stereotype/cold-read for asians, Mexicans or other europeans?

Two things regarding the expensive nightclub

1) Sex is so easy to get I never understood the need for dudes to spend gobs of money to get it.

2) If the idea is "just to be seen," my advice to you is perform better in your job so you dont feel the need to front to compensate for a perceived inadequacy,

Chris Rock ends a particular joke with "He ain't old, just a little too old to be in the club"

So in your industry opinion...how old is too old to be in the club?

Great post Ryan. Any stereotypes of Pakistani guys?

Question: some say Tinder is killing night clubs. True? Not true?

lol @ "You looking for the girl who is down to just let you and your friends turn her face into a Toaster Streudel I got you"

Any tips to a college kid who will be starting a bouncing gig in a month? Major city at the on campus bar. Thanks!

What is your height/weight? How does it compare to the rest of the security guys?

Stereotypes have only been shunned the Blue-Pill PC retard crowd, otherwise they're incredibly useful indicators of who you're dealing with.

As always though, you should be perspicacious with whom you're dealing with. You never know who the exception to the rule is, and as such your measures to deal with any person shouldn't always be too extreme.

What was the point of this post? That stereotypes exist for a reason? That a chick that looks like a slut and a black dude who looks like a thug are those things? Well no shit.

A more interesting and helpful post would be about the behind the scenes shit you get to witness. Like, the types of guys you see the girls fucking, what kind of game they're running, how they behave with you a guy of authority, etc.

High-end nightclub worker here:

listen to this guy.

Stereotypes exist for a reason, and if a full tattooed up mini skirt wearing hoe pretends she isn't a slut and tells you all about "wanting a relationship", be amused that you know better and escalate anyway.

That shy girl in your college class you dream about? Last thursday I saw her going home with a dude in his 40's who bought several bottles of Vodka. That cute nerdy girl at the library you thought about having a fulfilling conversation with? yeah... let me tell you, I overheard her telling her friends she's in a relationship with a disgusting guy in his 50's who's racking stacks of cash, you wouldn't believe it.

Nightclub is all about status and money. You better have some serious game if you want to pull 8's out of a high end nightclub.

So, disregard females, acquire currency and don't work in the nightlife except as a bartender.

When I was in the nightclub industry 20 years ago as a co-owner, we would spend about an hour every night after closing looking for our whales and printing photos of them to show the bouncers and staff so they always recognized potential income streams.

Hot young chicks always. Dudes who tipped bouncers always. Guys who never stopped bottle service at just 1 bottle always.

The club scene is a great place to learn about real alphadom versus fake alpha theater. There are rarely alphas buying alcohol, they're just guys who want to feel powerful and the people owning and managing the place know exactly what buttons to push to make every man feel special.

Chicks were all disposable and were only invited in because of what you said: the rich dudes dropping stacks have to see a few dark light hotties around. When last call comes around and the lights go to 100%, most of those hotties looked like winter potholed pavement.

You dont talk about anything about asians. Im assuming you are going to say that the bulk of them are timid who have no game and scrap for the bottom of the barrel. Obviously, not all are like that but what can I do make an impression to the bouncer and staff that im above that. I know social proof is key in a bar and I want your thoughts on making a better impression to both the staff and hoes in da club.

I want to hear your opinion on PC (political correctness). Your opinions sounds"triggering" to the SJW silly people

I am surprised body language isn't talked about more here. It is quite a learning experience if you know what to look for and you just sit in the back and just watch people you can pick up on things that people do unknowingly, Placement of feet, movement of there hands to the direction of the crouch if they want to get lucky with the person they are talking to, quick glances and playing with hair.

This is great education you've got yourself. You got a lot of example, all of them a little bit singleway since you see people mostly in clubs. But experience is experience.

I'd recommend you to gradually drift away from bouncer job and learn . If you like to analyze people you can go to the business analysis kind of job (grow till the CEO) or you can be a psychotherapist which unfortunately require additional education where you live.

Now if you sit and read books - starting from the sidebar and gradually moving to advanced topics like strategy and psychology (which is really business is about) or even put advanced psychology in a mix you would be able to learn extremely fast since you'd map this ideas or statements on your bouncer job experience.

I don't understand btw why people are rush to get title or position. Clearly now you have a great advantage comparing with typical MBA student.

Grow and learn.

Hey Ryan. How much money does it take to start a night club?

That's probably true in US but in European clubs you just get in and dance without too much drama.

Just reading this theory I probably gained three months experiences as a doorman in 15 minutes.

Question, how can someone identify if a nightclub is high-end enough for this type for wealth individual shop often?

Question for all who work at nightclubs/bars/stripclubs. How open to bribes/tips is everyone? I've started hanging out with old divorcees with lots of their ex-husbands money. We will go into a crowded spot, and they always seem to be able to "buy" us a table. These places will be nuts to butts. Maybe 10-12 people at a table. I'll be ordering a drink at the bar when I'll get a tap on the shoulder, turn around, and it's the bouncer. "Are you Swoledinger?" "Yeah" "A blonde lady got you a table over there". All of the sudden 5 of us are at a table that he just kicked 10 people out of.

I've never asked how much cash they are dropping on this, I'm just kind of curious in the event I want to try it. I'm not talking Vegas or LA clubs. More mid sized city. Say I wanted to jump the line or get a table, how much cash should I flow?

Side note. Older divorcees can make some amazing wing women.

I'm looking forward to reading more from you

I've just got a hunch here but something tells me you're Hispanic. I like to gamble so tell me if I'm right on.

Apart from that, you're post really interested me at the start. I profess myself to be good at reading people. Living in a though neighborhood, going to a shit school- makes it mandatory. You're experience is invaluable for the inexperienced guy and the people person alike.

So on to what you said

-I've actually got a topic on statistics tomorrow that goes into depth here.

Could you share the entire list of indicators/stereo types and the fitting behavior. I'd love to cross check it with my own mental list. Thanks.

Hello, my name is Ryan Grey, a stage name of course, or, more apropos, a glorious sobriquet devised from the world's greatest novel, and before I tread on the verbose, I would like to inform new readers of my position and and outlook

This makes it really hard for me to continue reading your post. I feel like someone who would say this has no valuable advice to give.

EDIT: Read the post because you can't judge a book by it's cover. This post is entirely some self promoting Chad who needed a place to brag about his superhuman ability to attract drunk women as a bouncer and play guys for extra cash. This "Tiger" metaphor is just a BS afterthought.

Very good post man. Started working as a bouncer when I was 20 in college, 22 now. I never got a chance to work door since I didn't have the experience(also most of them were either older men or even partners/professionals) but I worked inside in multiple upscale nightclubs with bottle service and VIP areas, taught me so much.

I would read a lot of good TRP theory and then watch it being applied in the real life setting when alchohal made all actions primal. I would and still do test out theories I read and apply a lot of the theory when I work.

Sadly I leave for medschool soon, so I never will get to work as a doorman but damn did i learn a shit ton working nights their as a 20 year old .

The modern world we live in consists of a bunch of people pretending to be special and unique and the secret is NONE OF THEM ARE.

Fuck, this is exactly the thought I had yesterday night. Got back from a cafe with my FWB. I thought we're one of thousands people who probably live very similar life, but shit, we want to live it. We want to experience it. Our egos, our brains make this feel unique for us -- but, we're a small sample of thousands or millions people who do the same thing.

Also, if you consider addiction, all addicts' stories sound the same - because, as every disease affects our bodies in the same way and addiction is a disease, you will have the same effects - in thoughts and behavior patterns.

Thanks for sharing!