So right now I meet most of my girls online, meaning first date is always the hardest one because you have to break the ice. Usually I just do a dinner date, I know not so good idea, as since it’s first time meeting in person it sort of creates the interview vibe. I was thinking for first dates either doing bowling, mini golf, adult arcade or carnival. What do you guys think are these good idea?
My whole point is doing something fun and physical so it’s easy to break the ice, I don’t try to smash on the first date anyway, just a personal thing.
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chadinthemaking69 2y ago
Hiking, climb a mountain, a bar, whatever you want honestly.
unplugged69 2y ago
Dinner and a movie, make sure you pay for her, and bring her flowers and chocolates, at the end of the night ask her if you can kiss and enjoy being rejected.
No but seriously have you read the side bar?
I wrote a post about this a while back but now I can't find it, basically you always want to do either drinks or activities. If you're not sure if she's hot enough just do a quick coffee date, but generally speaking I recommend a bar date in the evening. You need to go to 2-3 venues to make it seem like more time has passed, go to places where people know you and you have lots of social proof.
Break the touch barrier EARLY and try to kiss her within a couple of hours at the latest, if you fail you back off and act like it's all cool and you've seen it all before and then try again a bit later. Your second attempt has a much better success chance
Just remember to be fun to talk to, don't agree to everything she says, polarize the conversation, don't give out too much info about yourself, instead get her to talk about herself or subjects that interest you. If she's boring you tell her, women like alphas not betas. If you treat her like a celebrity she'll treat you like a fan.
redpillschool Admin 2y ago
Bar trivia, museums, comedy shows, hiking, swimming, wine tasting...
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
dinner dates suck
Avoid the interview vibe!
Don't ask ANY questions....... start talking, tell her to talk,....... and if you do ask questions, ask her favourite icecream and not her job.
kinda sucks because can't talk, and competing is usually a bad idea.
same
this can work if she's into it
same
Best is live music or an interesting bar. Public enough, private enough. I wouldn't go for any sort of high quality date with a first meeting with a stranger.
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whytehorse2021 2y ago
It's usually a safety thing for women so you need to pick a neutral public place. It's usually a cost for men so you need to pick something cheap. Don't be the chump some woman uses for free food at an expensive venue.