u found a woman u like. u commit into relationship with her. there is a thought in ur head: "if i would was single now i would approach tons of other girls. some of them would be prettier than my current lady. and some of those prettier i would fuck with". how do u fight back these thoughts? do u think that such thoughts demonstrate that i am insecure and trying to solve some other inner problems with the help of sex? should i ditch a woman in such case or is it normal to dream about being with other women while in a committed relationship?
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Vermillion-Rx 3 days ago
That's why you don't commit to a woman unless it's fucking hard to find a better woman (for you and what you want) or, that if you do, she won't be too much better.
At any rate, you should not be committing easily, and if you end up finding a woman that much better than a current LTR, you either are setting your standards way too fucking low or have improved a ton while she lags behind.
You're making the assumption you could find a far better woman than one your with. That you're asking this question though makes me think you're not too highly developed SMV wise or else you wouldn't be asking this, you'd already know what having a lot of better options feels like
Edit: if you commit to a woman at all, she ought to be worthy of it, low red flags, worth it to you to be committed etc. Commitment shouldn't just be tossed out easily
abitofmemory 3 days ago
that is a real red pill for me
Vermillion-Rx 3 days ago
It would be a disservice to you if I didn't hand em out
Intrepid_Place53900 2 days ago
great comments.
You young guys, don't commit so easily, you need to get experience. How many girls have you really spent time with?
*Your girl should add value to your life
Diabs 2 days ago
Bro it's normal to wanna fuck other girls having a pretty girlfriend doesn't mean shit. I still wanna fuck girls that are not as hot as my gf just because I do. Why do you wanna change nature. If your girl is good enough to be faithful to then you will be if not then don't.
abitofmemory 2 days ago
is it a good idea to tell my gf that if she wants to cheat she should agree it with me first and take into account that i will go cheat as well?
whytehorse2021 2 days ago
There are women that you marry and women that you fuck. It's like that mother/whore syndrome. My wife is a 6 and my prostitutes are 10s. I suppose some guys marry prostitutes and that's why you see a fat guy like Trump with a supermodel but it's not the norm.