This field report should serve as an example of how important it is to keep your emotions in check and use your head.

1 month ago I've approached an 19 year old chick on Social Media, using my usual routine. She went all bitchy with me and my only reply was "take it easy Karen, I wanted to make your day better, but even God has his limits, take care". He lost her temper and told me that she's sort of seeing some guy, I replied with "that's cool, wish you have a good day ahead".

She did not reply, and 3 days later she texted me apologizing that she left me on "seen". In this situation i could have lost my shit and gone full RP on her "ohhh, you got dumped by that guy and now you're back in my DMs!!! SHAME SHAME SHAME". Instead I kept myself cool because I couldn't really give two fucks about her or the situation, so i just told her that it's alright and didn't bothered me, i had other things to do anyway.

She got mad, more than likely because she couldn't comprehend that i had things to do and not care about her stupid rejection. My reply to her ramblings was simple "You think they stopped making bad bitches after they made you?".

When I heard the words "omg just shut up alreadyy" I knew that there was blood in the water and something can happen.

To keep it short, she agreed to go on a bike ride which resulted in a coffee date and making out in front of her apartment building.

Two more "Dates" ensured the following week, which resulted in me fucking her in a nice forest, bent over my motorcycle. From that point onward, she's been pushing for LTR and commitment, claiming she loves me, she desires me and I've made her feel what no man has made her feel.

What's the lesson in this though? It's pretty simple, if I'd lost my shit and scold her, I wouldn't have gotten here, having 19 year old pussy on demand daily, she buys me gifts, fuels my motorcycle and is overall a nice addition to my life. Is this going to blow in my face? more than likely, however, until that happens, I'm enjoying the ride and experience, the dating experience is also a welcomed thing, since I was lacking in that department.

What to learn:

  1. Do not lose your cool even when it seems like a good idea, just take it easy and reply with something neutral like "alright" or "whatever you say".
  2. Just because losing your cool might seem like the best approach to "show" someone how almighty you are, it's not the right approach and just shows that you are butthurt over X Y Z things.
  3. Trust the timing if it gets there, sometimes stuff doesn't work even when you do everything right, but if you stay calm and let it go, it might come back to you at a different time and it will work.