I was just coming out of the bus, going to work. there was an attractive woman. she was in headphones, but I tagged her and told her "you look really great". she thanked me. after that i told "u must be working here nearby". she told yes and put her headphone back into the ear. we did not stop walking all that time and now she turned another way and I had to continue forward. so, I quickly told her to have a nice day and went away. I did not even give her my contact details and now I am sorry for losing a possible lead.
now my question is how do u make a girl to stop and listen to u? or what should i have done in this situation to convert the lead? i think i definitely should not have walked away and walk her way a bit or ask her to stop. it was a spontaneous decision to talk to her, so i really did not plan ahead my behavior
mattyanon 3 days ago
Women are basically shy fearful and negative..... which you have to handle. You also have to be appealing enough that she wants to handle her own fears.
Your initial compliment was lame: instead compliment something she DID rather than something she was born with.
Following up with a closed question was bad. Instead follow up with something open ended.... why/what/how ....... something that can't be answered with yes/no.
You won't get all the girls, accept you're going to lose 50% from the start (that's fine, you don't want them wasting your time if they aren't interested).
Practice.
abitofmemory 3 days ago
i remember all the time about having to ask only open questions, but i become nervous and my brain stops to work. usually the best i can ask is "where r u going?" and "any plans for today?"
coolsocks00 2 days ago
You just need practice, it's normal.
whytehorse2021 2 days ago
That's London day game. The good video was taken down but this should suffice https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ypf7_l5jpNs
sugardaddy123 3 days ago
I usually get my girl from sugar sites. All those girls want money. I don't want to get married. I want a mistress I can pay to produce children. And that eliminate a lot of problem.
For example, you ask how to make her stop. Well, I don't have that problem.
I once got a woman moderately pretty (a 7) that talk to me. She is trying to sell coupons. I told her, if you want money she can give me handjob instead. She says she'll think about it. I moved on.
I sometimes like talking to women that are not too pretty. I have the upper hand. I can't fall in love. I can experiment new ways to pick her up cost effectively. Even asking if she wants to be stripper for me and my friends. My friends that got better result than me told me to start with 1 on 1 fucking first. So I am still learning here.
Women want money. At least women that want to do sexy things for me want money. So I just pay. It's the cheapest way.
IBelieveInTheFallen 3 days ago
Why not try to learn to pick them up normally?