She was a fatty wasn’t she?

All sex can provide beyond the same sinking feeling you get after jerking yourself off is either some connection to a girl you care about beyond the nut or validation. A tinder quickie provides neither.

Clearly you hunger for a greater feeling of self worth. Obviously the usual lifting, learning, making more money, etc applies but when you want some entertainment actually play the game and seduce hot girls in person. Don't kid yourself that tinder rises much above fapping.

Congrats, now you kinda know how girls feel. Only difference is they get to hook up with 10/10 Chad, and you get to hook up below your SMV.

Waking up half drunk at 3am and drinking Ice Water.

Makes sense.

Why would you value something that occurred so easily.

Dude you just channeled red pill perfectly in that post. Women are okay, but there are better things, alot of them. Red pill af.

Yeah sex with a committed and great LTR is infinitely better than a random hookup.

After motorboating her tits for 5 minutes straight and busting a fat load in her mouth i felt.. nothing. emptiness. Like i could have been doing better things. Don’t get me wrong busting a nut is a great feeling but after a minute of sitting there with my pants down i had this epiphany that women & sex are great but there’s so many more things in life that are just flat out better. Maybe i would have felt differently if she was a dime but all i could think about was every other feeling i found better than what i just felt.

Exactly.

Everything in life is vanity. You are the one that gives meaning to it. Orgasm is great, but lasts a minute or two. Achieving your goals provide a much long lasting pleasure than any orgasm. For instance, when I landed a nice job last year, it felt much better than any passionate sex that I had with my ex in the past 2 years prior.

You almost said it yourself.

You need emotional connection, otherwise plates aren’t fulfilling in the long run.

This was post nut clarity. The fact that you’re calling her a 6.5 means she was probably a 4-5 in reality. It probably wouldn’t have felt this way with a dime

I feel ya. The more I fuck the more I desire and derive pleasure from having a purpose in life. Nothing wrong with pussy every now and then, but only when it’s chasing me. After I fuck or get a bj I don’t really have sex drive for days to a week or 2.

Stop fucking uglies, and you won't have to reevaluate your life every time.

This is great. if any of you are interested in pornfreemen. It is only for men

For a man having sex, it becomes 1% of his life. For the man not having sex, it becomes 99% of his life.

I think OP needs to look at himself and his life. He's right in the sense a meaningless orgasm with someone you aren't seriously attracted to, is a waste of time, and a mild hassle. (I've had way better wanks, than some of my sexual conquests). However...... when you're seriously hot for someone, and you have the chase, the seduction, the foreplay.... that's one of life's great pleasures. Sex is great when it's fun for both, and there's chemistry. But pursuing sex and the orgasm for the sake of it... then yeah, obviously, a worthless nut, is a waste of time.

You’re just spewing out redpill teachings. Sex isn’t the peak of human experience but you probably didn’t like the girl. What about laughing contentedly after sex with someone you have true chemistry with. That’s a good feeling. Sex for sex’s sake isn’t satisfying. When you really want the girl it is

With Dime pieces is better, and I find if I have some sort of connection with the girl it's much better.

Some 6 off Tinder ain't really going to do it.

A girl bought me an uber to her place last weekend. When I got there I was kinda feeling her but also like whatever. Ended up facefuckin her and cumming in her mouth and IMMEDIATELY just didnt want to be there or around her. Gamed her down and got her to get me an uber home too lmao. Old me would of felt bad but once youre redpilled you just cant feel bad anymore. Ill leave the simping to the other lames who are texting her and trying to get to know her and all that wack shit.

But its an empty feeling. I skeeted and was just DONE. Was basically masturbation with extra steps.

That "emptiness" is what contentment feels like. When you totally feel the urge for nothing you are content. I remember it was after one of the best blowjobs I ever got that I felt content for about 5 seconds. I just sat there staring at the wall. For a moment the whole world as far as I was concerned stood still. Kinda underwhelming huh? But that's it.

Yeah, all my bitches love me, and I love all my bitches
But it's like as soon as I cum, I come to my senses

I feel the same way bro I used to be with a 6 myself this girl would suck a golf ball through a garden hose I could literally skull fuck this bitch...i duno man but I just snapped out of it one day I realise sex is just an accessory to life in general it is not everything, bettering yourself is key

All pussy and tits feel the same, sex is overrated. Eventual purpose is to continue mankind, not the end in itself.

I feel you buddy , that happened to me too and yeah it's feels like you are wasting your time

Sex is more of a physical need than it is a sense of accomplishment. Think of it more like eating. Getting a blowjob from a woman off of Tinder is like stopping for a quick bite on the way home from work so you are not hungry. You do not feel as though you accomplished anything. You just had a hamburger. After fulfilling your needs, you can focus on better things to do at home.

It is okay to enjoy the hamburger for what it is. But it is just a hamburger. You need to eat and should enjoy it, but it is not what any of us live to do.

I hear you on this. I recall a winter where I was in a drought. Then out one evening I met a cougar (late 40's, long hair, twinkling eyes, sexy hippy MILF vibes) and she suggested I come over the next day for a good time. I'd always wanted to bag a cougar and here was my shot. So the next day I met her for coffee, then we rode back to hers and yeah...she was the best b/j I've ever had and she was eager to please. Yet-

After it was all over, I immediately wondered what my boys were doing back at our place? Probably toking up, listening to tunes and playing video games and chatting shit- and I wanted to be back there. Because when all you have in common with a female is sexual tension and then (for lack of a better term) you get that load off...you're reminded that you are just two different people. If all you're chasing is a fun way to bust a nut, you can deal with that in 10 minutes or less and then go back to other stuff you'd rather be doing.

Thing is, when you're a younger guy you keep thinking when you finally nail THAT girl on your to-do list (double D's/ great arse/ fresh 18 y/o cutie/ redhead/ latina/ cougar/ Asian etc etc etc) that's when it'll be something special. Then you get it and you realise quickly that it didn't change your life. Without the drunkenness of lust, she's just another girl with different packaging.

Instead of spending so much time thinking about who you'd love to fuck, get an idea of the kind of girls you can stand being around for longer periods of time, get on with the other stuff you care about in your life and rest takes care of itself.

feels better with 9s/10s but still that's an important realization to reach. Abundance mentality is key.

Sex is like air, You only miss it when you don’t have it.

You were probably really horny after a long Corvid Dry patch, but the moment you bust your load, you returned to normal.

Post nut clarity... also your testosterone drops off after ejaculation and rises again steadily

I feel nothing after I get my paycheck. Getting my dick sucks by a chick with huge titties is way better.

Yeah man sex is extra, like sugar. We feel like it’s an absolute need when we don’t get it. When we get it, it’s sometimes more trouble than its worth

have yall at least tried fkin dudes

Men's sex drive shares common brain circuits with hunger. (Women's doesn't).

boom op you are now gay. Jk, I'm glad that you found the urge to pursuit something more than physical being.

You've grown as a person and as a male I guess. Sex ain't a pinnacle of your life and this is the great thing to realise; there is so much more to experience, to uncover, to see and to feel. Me being shorter that average, I used to be subbed on r-short. Damnnn, this place is crawled with thirsty species. They think that getting laid is the only thing that matters, the ultimate goal, the thing that defines you as an individual (heck it does not). To be able to purge your thirst is the first thing you ought to accomplish in these guys' cases. Nice post bro, thanks for sharing.

Women are one of the rewards from a life of self improvement. I completely feel you. I bet you were obsessed with pussy just a few years ago? And now you contemplate if its even worth meeting a girl because that'll take 2-3 hours out of your day you could have been working on that business idea, doing extra cardio and leaning down, reading etc.

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I'm glad I did enough fucking at age 19-22 to finally realise that even sex isn't that great. It's only important when you don't have it. And when you have it consistently, its like having a cheat meal all the time. It loses its excitement and you get fat.

Honestly if you even got to fuck a 8+ smv girl, would you still even feel the same? Maybe not immediately but eventually the emptiness will return. Tell me about your stories guys, how does it feel before and after.b

I just got banned from off my chest for posting here wow

All this 'after I fucked this rich pageant model and her twin sister in all positions and they said I was a love god with my nine inches rod and my chiseled abs I felt empty and wanted to something useful like lifting' shit is only EXCESS OF PROLACTIN IN YOUR SYSTEMS. Don't think of yourselves that high guys. It's not you are redpilled, it's you are mammals.

It's been smelling like vanilla here in the last few weeks.

The post nut emptiness is a real thing, especially if you're not into her. Of course self improvement or a personal milestone will feel better than nutting in a 6.5

This is the post nut truth. Some chicks you want to run from. Some you like hanging with and want to fuck again. The game of it is you're not sure which kind of chick she is until you bust.

post nut clarity saves lives

That’s called post nut clarity. I had the same feeling after a hookup with a classmate I wasn’t attracted to, which resulted in having a semi the entire time. Didn’t even bust but overall I could of been doing way more useful things in that time.

Once you can get some, some of the magic is lost. Also, I can feel bad busting a nut by myself sometimes, probably related to shame and wasting time. The sex could also be boring, because of mood. Realizing the effort and time you sometimes spend to get some pussy just makes me go "its not worth it", I'm not gonna chase it, I'll just gonna wait for a better opportunity because what I can get out of the time I sometimes spend trying to get it is more fun or more worthwhile than the sex...

Every time I dumped i feel like "bitch don't bother me anymore" and they are just starting do cuddle and asking romantic shit or talking non stop, "please shut the fuck up" is my main though and if i am at her home, i go to sleep fast or leave. If it is my place, i tell them i will go to play some before sleep.

I am a chad because of lifting and genes. I have a lot of matches on Tinder. So I dated her yesterday. She was a virgin but accepted anal sex and I flood her anus. I am very happy having casual sex with chicks. I don't want to do other stuff. Life is beautiful. What, no?

I've....never quite grasped...the..what would you call it, need people have for hook ups?

Like people in these comments keep empathizing and saying it makes them feel empty when they're done and I'm just sitting here like "Stop....doing it???"

If you want sex well damn...there's your motivation to go find a girl you actually care about.

Maybe it is just down to me being a traditionalist....but even then, traditionalist or not...I'm not understanding how you can be like

here's a thing that makes me feel empty.

I am also going to keep doing the damn thing.

Like....im sorry....what?

I wish prostitution were legal, for so many reasons. Society would be a much happier place if we could all fuck and get on with our lives without the bullshit.

The Japanese call this moment of post-nut clarity kenjataimu (wise man time)

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Post nut clarity hits hard

I have this all the time. I took a month off from blowjobs and have been making great gains on my life

Every successful man encounters this epiphany at some point on the journey to becoming successful.

When I was virign getting laid was like the only thing in life that matter. Now, any time I have sex with someone I'm not really into as soon as I'm done it feels like ,get the fuck out I want to be alone. Kinda weird.

Exactly ! Welcome to the brotherhood.

Standards are key, you should work to improve yourself and find a girl that you actively want to be with. Not settling for what's available, which while immediately satisfying tends to come with regret ...nothing of value comes easy

You feels like that because you was not in control, you was not dominant. She kept you 1 hour talking about her shit and you was impotent about that, you stayed there and suffered from the idea that you will lose her if you would do glue you would want.

I feel the same with prostitutes, I know that I cannot force her to do what I want so I don't feel a lot of pleasure.

It's not about her physical appearance.

I can feel more pressure from a 6 that I use as my fucktoy than not a 9 that put a lot of resistance and is not submissive.

The Japanese have a word for this.

けんじゃタイム kenjataimu. noun. period after orgasm when a man is free from sexual desire and can think clearly.

Post nut clarity is too real

that's called shooting your load. you're not gonna be searching for the next hole

stop putting pussy on pedestal

"Self improvement is masturbation" Tyler Durden

I feel you, bro.

The last year was full of insights like those you had. Especially when the post-nut clarity kicks in, I always thought to myself something like: that was a waste of time/(sexual) energy, I could be using it to do something way more productive than to use some girl's body to stimulate my dick into ejaculation.

NoFap and MGTOW is the path, brother.

Next time you met some chick, try to take your time and save your semen, try to have slow tantric sex without the ejaculation part, this way you won't regret after.

Post nut clarity is a thing.

you kinda sound superficial, if i do say so myself...and tbh, what i get from here is that you need to see women as human beings too...they are not some other wordly thing you use and dispose...and its not about me trying to be an annying feminist, bc the same goes for men..people are people and people have feelings and therefor, long for conection...sex is nothing compared to intimacy

Damn bro that’s too bad I had sex yesterday and it rocked

Exactly, infact when I was fucking the most is when I would feel the most empty, and drained after. I would get so horny and worked up, but after I came I would get a feeling of emptiness as well, a bit of disappointment. The next day I’d have very little energy, and I’d be down a bit. It was empty meaningless sex. But one night I had sex with a girl(who’s now my LTR) and we talked and clicked for 6 hours straight first time meeting.. we had 4 rounds and it only made me feel like wanting more. I did not feel like shit this time, so I figured I might as well come see here again since she was very attractive, and very pleasant and affectionate to be around. There was a instant connection between us, it will be night I’ll always remember. It was on my birthday as well.

Stick with your passions, and your goals in life. Saying this will happen to you, but the reason you feel the way you do is because there’s a lack of meaningful connection between the two of you . At that point it’s just masterbation, and we as men sometimes don’t learn from our mistakes.

Jesus this post is garbage and so are the replies. This is no epiphany. Unless you are 14 years old.

Sex for the sake of sex is meaningless, and someone talked about prostitution below, and it might as well be that. If you want a handjob from a hot girl, go pay for it. Or whatever. But it will always be empty, and if it isn't, you probably don't know what real sex is.

I want to say that I am amazed, but I am not amazed really.

Having sex with someone you have a real connection with is intense, amazing, and mind blowing. Having sex with a hot chick you don't know, that's just sex. And if you are just wanting to go around getting your dick wet, do it however, but don't talk about epiphanies for godssakes.

Post nut clarity hits hard

You have reached Red Pill enlightenment

While I agree with that you said, boring vanilla sex is vastly inferior to proper sex session with foreplay and roleplay, when the girl submits to you completely, when it hits all your fetishes and preferences. The orgasm itself is just a small part of enjoying sex and the so-called "emotional connection" isn't something that only girls need and I don't mean here sharing your feelings or "vulnerability", but having fun and experience emotions together. It is one thing to bang a hooker or tinderslut without even talking to her. And it is the other thing to fuck a girl with whom you have a great vibe, who isn't only hot, but also fun to be around.

its not that deep bro, she just wasnt hot.

Totally normal. Women are largely a waste of time but fun to have around from time to time. Most people come to TRP desperate for pussy and the successful ones leave hardly caring for it.

Focus your purpose and mission boys

You're not wrong in your analysis. You are very much correct.

Been there, I had something of the same thought in the last couple of days.

Had a great plate who wanted commitment and the girl was great. had to let her go because distance and had school and other hobbies to go deeper into.

The other day I was thinking about her and wondered "what if that's all there is with women?"

I mean by the great sexual experiences, the fun times outside of the bedroom, etc.

Wonder what others think, had to cut her off because I wanted to be better than who I was a year ago.

You think the feeling would be the same if she was an 8.5? Serious question

I’ve definitely had that feeling with uglier women. This just means you need to improve yourself more and get hotter chicks

I feel you on this, I have been in the game since 18 fucked somewhere in the region of 30-40 girls and I don't feel any better for it.I would rather hit a bench pr then bang a chick at this point been stuck on 125kg for too long now aha.

Thats just post-nut-clarity after a mediocre blowjob from a mediocre girl. Got the best one last week I had so far in my life and it felt great even afterwards, so its not always like this. But anyways, I get what you mean tho.

That's why you should only have sex with women you are actually attracted to. It greatly reduces that feeling of "emptiness".

99% of the time after a bang, I dip or kick her out.

Post-nut clarity. If evolution didn’t strap men with perpetual horniness, we’d have developed FTL capabilities by now long before our sun goes nova and obliterates everything in a one billion kilometer radius.

You did it! I agree. Many men does not see this and keep chasing something for nothing. Great post.

I feel you. Post nut clarity is real. I think there’s nothing wrong with sex, it feels amazing. It’s just not something us men should prioritize and chase as much as our goals. It’s all that - a by product of success and hard work. That’s when getting head/ fucked feels the best imo.

I've had that same feeling after fucking even hot ass girls. that's the game.

I thought with really hot girls it would he different. it wasn't.

external stimulation provides pleasure but it don't make you happy.