I'll keep this short as possible. She's completely Alpha widowed and can't cope with the idea that a man wants nothing to do with her.

I have made the mistake of living with her and she moved out last year when we broke up. I still went back and hooked up with her a few times but have done everything I can to create as much distance as possible.

So here's a list of things she's done. Sent harassing text messages to my mom. Sent harassing text messages to my dad. Sent harassing text messages to one of my friends. Send harassing text messages to someone I was dating. Made a mess in the kitchen and bedroom when she was moving out. Broke stuff. Stole condoms!!! Shoved me during a break up argument.

Now on three separate occasions she's harassed me in public.

The first time I was at a bar on a date with someone. I saw that she was there so went as far away as possible. She brought the guy that she was with over to right in front of where I was sitting with my date and started mugging down with him. Just a couple feet away from me. I asked if they wouldn't mind taking the act somewhere else. The guy starts to talk shit. He's kind of fat and has a smoker's cough. I've done kickboxing, karate, boxing, and BJJ for years, so although I would have liked to have waxed this guy it would not be a fair fight and I try to keep it on the mats. Then she starts bumping her gums to the woman I'm with. We finish our drinks and go somewhere else.

A few weeks later I'm out with someone else. Different bar. I'm closing my bar tab and she walks up and makes a scene. Starts insulting the woman I'm with and generally running her mouth. I walk that woman back to her car, tell her goodnight. Crazy ex starts to text me, says she's sorry, and asks if we can have one drink. I say sure what the heck. She's asking me if I'll go home with her that night. I'm considering it until she is really rude to a guy there at the bar. He said we were a cute couple and she goes off, says this is my ex-boyfriend blah blah blah and fuck you dude. I tell her that she is classless and there's no way I'm going home with her. She storms out.

That was three or four months ago. Last night was the last straw. I have a girlfriend now. Smoking hot, good head on her shoulders, not possessive or clingy, not jealous, has a damn good job, owns her own house, drama free to this point. I had warned her that if we run into my ex in public this situation might arise. Ex comes up to the table where we're at and puts her face in my face. Starts going off to my new girl about what a piece of garbage I am, that I'll cheat on her, blah blah blah. My girl takes it in stride and handles it magnificently. She leaves. As I'm leaving I asked a table full of guys if I can buy a cigarette. My ex screams don't give that guy a cigarette he's a cheater. I tell them yeah I cheated. On HER. I buy cigarette for a dollar and she starts walking over to that table. This is outside. I'm trying to go to my truck at this point. I tell her loudly and clearly so everyone can hear don't touch me, don't block my way. If you do I'll call the cops. She follows me to my truck. I get in and she holds the door open so I can't close it. Her beta Orbiter friend is there consoling her. She's in tears. I can't shut the door to my truck and it also occurs to me that I don't have a light. I asked beta Orbiter for a light and he says no. I get out of my truck lock it shut the door, walk back to the table of guys. Tell them God damn when I deny a bitch the D she gets withdrawals. They all laugh and give me a light.

Beta Orbiter is back at the table with her while she cries and I'm free to leave.

So I just called and made a police report. I hate that it comes to this but it does. This is a small town (good sized city but everyone knows everyone it seems) and we are bound to bump into each other.

Also the fact of the matter is that I got divorce raped a couple of years ago, my ex wife gamed the system. So I have supervised visitation with my children (she accused me of beating the shit out of them), she has a restraining order on me (lol I don't want to be within a light year of her, much less go over to her place), and I'm on probation now. So all the cards are stacked against me in this situation. I have no choice but to be the first one to take action.

I was raised to avoid fights when possible, but was also taught that when a fight is inevitable the intelligent thing to do is to strike first.

Keep that in mind gentlemen. When a woman escalates, get the law involved before she does.

A good offense is the best defense.

She's about to get it. This is what a hard next looks like.

Bye Felicia.