Hey,
Basically i met this girl at a bar, she asked for my social media, we went to the club together & other friends, nothing crazy but we had fun, she was into me etc
I text her the day after
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Me : " went home safe yesterday?"
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Her : "Yes sure" + some chitchat
- Me : "Let's meet again this week, i'm free on wednesday"
Since i got zero reply from her after like 30 hours, i removed my text, unfollowed her
She now just texted me 2 days after asking " Hey are you in town " ?
Girls are glued to their phone 24/24, so she ignored my text on purpose - wasn't interested ?
I just next and don't reply to her ?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3mo ago
It's highly unlikely she is interested but you guys also just keep throwing one ultra specific day at these girls. What if they aren't free that day?
You guys need to try to figure out when they are free or suggest meeting and then figuring it out instead of Chucking one singular day at them to pick from
If they're interested theyll make it easy to find a day. This doesn't sound like interest to me
Always be closing (ABC) with lots of girls and stop wondering if one specific girl doesn't want to meet up. You guys need to stop fixating on this stuff.
She doesn't reply? Well next. Cause men don't double text anyway
Dxmx99 2mo ago
Is it not on women as well to say when they aren't available, and suggest an alternative? Should we have men hold all the responsibility of arranging a date?
If I say tuesday, and she says "no can do, can Wednesday", that is as basic an IOI as they come, in my opinion.
Of course, there isn't anything wrong with just telling her "Let me know when you're free, I'd like for us to arrange something". I think that's fine, I go that route myself.
But if they don't respond to that, I'm not going to think she has no brain and that I need tone that down. "Do you even like me and can i ask if youre ever free for me" lol
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2mo ago
Men should take initiative and why not give better logistics than not upon first attempt?
Also men seriously underestimate how socially brain dead many women are.
Many women will hear "he wants to go out Friday, I'm not free Friday, therefore he doesn't want to meet any other day"
If you want to reject stupid or uninterested women, then sure just throw out a random day. Many women have shit girl game so you'll have to accept that if men just want to throw out a random day
Also throwing out a random day is a high volume game strategy. Half the guys on here are trying to run high volume game on their one prospect. The single day suggestion is when you have so many girls to talk to that you want to get them out on a single day, not when men have no experience and want to mentally masturbate about whether a girl is interested or not.
Finding out when she is free is one way to find out if she's actually interested or if one day just doesn't work
GeorgeIII 1 3mo ago
@Vermillion-Rx pretty much nailed it for you. 90%+ she is not interested.
I’d only add that there is an off chance she was actually just too busy, or just getting too many messages at that time in general.
And there’s no need to remove your text. If she did see it, deleting/unfollowing shows you are kind of butthurt. And on the off chance she really was busy, she may literally not have seen it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3mo ago
Sometimes they actually were busy and they circle back around
Newbies don't understand high volume game for some reason and get stuck on one girl not messaging
I really wish newbies would treat these encounters as insignificant unless it leads somewhere