Hey,
Basically i met this girl at a bar, she asked for my social media, we went to the club together & other friends, nothing crazy but we had fun, she was into me etc
I text her the day after
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Me : " went home safe yesterday?"
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Her : "Yes sure" + some chitchat
- Me : "Let's meet again this week, i'm free on wednesday"
Since i got zero reply from her after like 30 hours, i removed my text, unfollowed her
She now just texted me 2 days after asking " Hey are you in town " ?
Girls are glued to their phone 24/24, so she ignored my text on purpose - wasn't interested ?
I just next and don't reply to her ?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1w ago
It's highly unlikely she is interested but you guys also just keep throwing one ultra specific day at these girls. What if they aren't free that day?
You guys need to try to figure out when they are free or suggest meeting and then figuring it out instead of Chucking one singular day at them to pick from
If they're interested theyll make it easy to find a day. This doesn't sound like interest to me
Always be closing (ABC) with lots of girls and stop wondering if one specific girl doesn't want to meet up. You guys need to stop fixating on this stuff.
She doesn't reply? Well next. Cause men don't double text anyway
GeorgeIII 1 1w ago
@Vermillion-Rx pretty much nailed it for you. 90%+ she is not interested.
I’d only add that there is an off chance she was actually just too busy, or just getting too many messages at that time in general.
And there’s no need to remove your text. If she did see it, deleting/unfollowing shows you are kind of butthurt. And on the off chance she really was busy, she may literally not have seen it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1w ago
Sometimes they actually were busy and they circle back around
Newbies don't understand high volume game for some reason and get stuck on one girl not messaging
I really wish newbies would treat these encounters as insignificant unless it leads somewhere