Story of My Life Up Until Now Personal Stats
- Age:20 *Height: 5'7"
- Religion:Agnostic Ethnicity:*Punjabi Traumatic Events:
- Got molested by my cousin at the age of 10.
- Got molested by a shop owner at the same age.
- Witnessed my parents' divorce.
- Accidentally saw my mother's nudes when I was 14.
Life-Changing Events
- Experiencing my first breakup.
- The death of my grandmother.
- Discovering the "Red Pill" philosophy.
My Progress: What Has Changed From Then to Now
- I am working out, though still inconsistently.
- I am reading more books.
- I am more social than I used to be.
- I have started therapy, which is currently underway. Online situationships meh
Unanswered Questions
- How do you overcome the fear of death?
- What is the end goal of my life if it is not marriage and kids?
- How do you deal with disrespect within the family?
- What career should someone choose to make good money while being the least emotionally demanding?
Long-Term Plans
- Move to Europe and settle down.
- Build an Instagram following of at least 100k.
- Own a ranch and raise animals.
Insecurities and Observations
- If height and looks do not matter much, why are "looksmaxxing" and limb-lengthening surgeries so famous?
- Why do actors from the past (e.g., Clint Eastwood, Paul Newman, Steve McQueen) feel more relatable than the actors of today?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 9h ago
This post is way too far reaching my dude
You're asking an everything post and it's not going to yield you clear answers
AskTRP isn't supposed to be a "tell me every answer to everything in one post" forum
Most of this could be search barred (career question searches etc)
You should really use the search bar for whatever can be search bar searched from this, where there will be far more answers and already answered questions
And you should read the sidebar if you haven't
You should spread out whatever remaining questions can be found in the search bar on different posts over time
The looksmaxx and stupid stuff like limb lengthening is NOT red pill. Most of it is popular cult black pill bullshit
Hamzter 8h ago
Hey man thanks for replying, I just wanted to you know connect somewhere and this felt like the place to just delve into it Idk what advice to ask for cz ik improvement takes time 3-4 yrs to reach where I want to. I'd consider it a favor if you didn't remove my post thanks man
Vermillion-Rx Admin 7h ago
You need to remove the part where you admit to that other stuff
Otherwise I need to remove it
Cc: @Typo-MAGAshiv
Hamzter 5h ago
Edited it should be good now do let me know
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1h ago
Thank you
Musicgoon78 3 6h ago
You need to work on thinking for yourself. We do not have all the answers and answers are subjective. Decide what you want and take steps to make it happen. Looksmaxxing is for cowards and leg lengthening surgeries are for true insecure idiots. It is a surgery that won't help you get women.
Make decisions and work on one thing at a time.
mattyanon Admin 4h ago
Who the fuck says height and looks do not matter much ???
Height is nice but you can't change it so whatevs.
Looks/weight: if you are short term dating (ie not providing) then looks and weight is 50% of the game and honestly it's the easy 50%.
If you are providing then obviously money matters, but this leads to marriage and not sex, so fuck that shit.
Getting girls is:
Noone is saying height and looks don't matter. They matter A LOT. Ask any woman how much looks matter and just watch her try to find ways to lie about it.
Hamzter 3h ago
By looks and height I mean above average not ugly to look at but not a model too
Musicgoon78 3 58m ago
I completely disagree. The again we both have a vastly different world view and that helps give contrast to the guys asking on here. I managed to do quite well when I was poor and out of shape. I got by in personality alone. If I can do it, so can other guys. This idea that you have to check off a bunch of boxes is incredibly defeatist and really just falls into black pill tropes. It all insecurity based as truth.
If your ever been on Feeld, or really out in a major city you will notice that there are a lot of average or even downright fugly guys with hot women.
Sitting here making an impressionable guy feel like he's inadequate is poor leadership and simply ignores an individual's strengths.
Let's agree to disagree. The nice part of posting on here is that OP can parse the info he feels is relevant. I feel that it's healthy to have disagreements such as this.