I know many you aren't a fan of dating apps and I understand why but bear with me because the principal applies to a lot more things.
Am I making a tactical mistake by lying about my age on a dating app? Perhaps it's counterproductive? For one thing they charge your subcription based on age so it can be a lot cheaper to lie not to mention within more age limits set by girls.
Attempt to answer own question:-
I suppose you might say just own your age if you lie about it you are being an insecure bitch.
On the other hand some girls may set a cut off age. If you lie about your age you can be within the criteria giving you more options.
Women have no hesitation to lie and manipulate to get what they want so why can't I. Lots of women will lie by either posting misleading profile pictures or lying about the amount of men they are talking to on the app etc.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2h ago Stickied
Too many of you guys on here cannot figure out within yourselves what you want in life and depend so heavily on what other people think of you
Figure out what you want in life instead of aimlessly drifting from one insecurity to another.
So many men come on here with no real direction they are trying to take their journey and it shows in their AskTRP questions.
A lot of you guys come on here with absolutely no semblance of a long term goal and then get tons of varied answers because no one knows what your goal is. It's just one aimless scenario bluring into another from one week to the next and you're doing a disservice to yourself.
SwarmShawarma 14h ago
I would not g8ve 2 fucks about essentially a whore market (dating APS), as long as it doesn't affect your own image, but then sometimes you need to do something to see how does it affect you. It would become a problem if you do it constantly and you feel disgraced with yourself, then you stop or look for someone to tell you not to give fuck and start to believe it.
Farang131 10h ago
Thanks for your reply. Fair enough
Start to believe what? That you should not give a fuck?
Disgraced about what? Being on the app in the first place or the lying?
No-Stress-Cat 1 6h ago
If you got your shit together, you don't need to lie. You can just say, "This is the package, bitch. Now tell me why I should pick you."
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2h ago
Dude. What's with the overthinking.
Fix it. So many of your questions are all downstream of the same problem.
Why the fuck do you care? If you're lying merely for pussy then so what? You clearly decided to already and know it works for you. If you are lying and then later feel compelled to be honest for the sake of an eventual relationship that you weren't expecting after lying then of course it's a problem
Do you value authenticity or not? You already know honesty isn't required for sexual strategy. You know you are not asking a sexual strategy question.
Why are you so fixated on what others think. If you value authenticity then be authentic. Why do you want women to like you for someone you're not. So complicated.