Currently spinning 3 plates. Have 2 as favorites; they each get 2 nights a week. Been seeing those 2 for about 6 months now.
I am about to be moving to a new job in a new city in t-3 months or so. With that in mind, I have absolutely 0 intentions or desires for more serious LTR with either.
Fav #1: worse face card, equivalent body, far superior sex. head is unparalleled; super submissive, very fun.
Fav #2: insane face card. Arm candy af; absolute head turner. sex is enjoyable but the head is like… not the best.
Issue: fav #1 is starting to push for exclusivity. slept over; “forgot” her phone at my place, comes back hangs for a bit. Proceeds to delete hinge in front of me blah blah blah.
I’m lookin at this as like I have 3 months left; wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world to just get throated on a nightly basis. Don’t wanna lose my fav eater. On the other hand, this is something I’ve struggled with in past (ability to say no firmly to exclusivity) and generally just opted to say sure and just cheat.
Any advice on how to navigate this better?
In some sense like yeah I know you’re supposed to just stand on business and say some schpeel amongst the lines of “I’m not looking for anything serious rn/im about to be moving anyways/etc” and be stoic in the sense of being okay with whatever the outcome is (plates break). I guess just looking for additional input.
Thanks all in advance.
First-light 2 2h ago
3 months is not that long. Cheating might be lower risk than having "the talk" that could go either way. Every week you get away with cheating you have less to lose as you have less weeks of plate life left anyway.
You are not risking too much either way. You have spares and nothing is going to last long. The question is how good are you at cheating? It still involves creating boundaries in your life for the women.
Whatever you do, remember to enjoy the women. Sometimes one can get so caught up with keeping things spinning that one misses half the available fun.