Serious question.... Have you read the sidebar?

You sound like you spoonfed yourself with fresh and fit for years and are completely detached from what TRP actually talks about

This post is so full of manosphere tropes and zero prize mentality. What the actual fuck

This isn't hard.

1. Get money
2. Get muscles

From there, you can either fuck your way through the decline or you can go to a place outside the U.S. where women aren't blown out and find a good woman.

Cold approach is a lone wolf fantasy imo. Outta approaching 100 women you get maybe 1-3 lays/success's. (if you're not retarded)

Yes, but you can fuck her multiple times. So if you approach 100 girls and fuck 3 of those girls 10 times each, that's one fuck per 3 approaches.

You try to use social context to your advantage dating in ecosystems like Uni. or clubs. But then I feel like "DaT GuY". Cause I don't like being around people much it's a lot of bullshit. Guess get over it.

ok, so you hate social game

My thought process: Ideally you cold approach outside your ecosystems. And build slow leads inside your ecosystems to find a good prospect.

ok...

Online dating is a dumpster fire. Its not real life. People act very differently IRL. Most of the woman either all have the same generic profile or goth/liberal chick who wants me to have a tramp stamp. I switched my profile to be labeled as a woman for 5 mins and had 20 likes. ITS CRAZY.

OLD is awful, yes

But at the end of all the work it's the women your left with.

right

I don't trust women with marriage.

Marriage is a one sided providership contract to give her a cushy retirement at your expense.

And even in LTRs when you're not there they're flirting with other guys for attention. I've had good looking girls with decent guys give me sexual attention. I know its not cheating but if I saw my gal acting like that i'd be disgusted.

right

The problem:

So i'm left with casual dating women the rest of my life. No marriage. maybe have a LTR here and there but... It's gonna get harder and harder the older I get.

It's certainly going to get harder to fuck 20 year olds after 45, yes

It's weird cold approaching in your late 30s and 40s and 50s. Im 20 so i can pass off as the young stupid guy.

It's only weird because you make it weird

How da hell do I keep this up? assuming i take care of my body to be physically attractive. Do I just end up single and alone around 40? Do I just give in a find a LTR at 40?

Well, it's easy at 40. It's harder at 50 for sure.

I'm just going be a normal guys who has his own place with generic normal salary. At some point i become 40 year old guy who's still single.

I'm uncertain of the future with todays modern landscape. Because alot of women are like scorpions and i'm playing frogger.

Well, your options are nothing, or keep it casual, or open long term relationships with multiple women (my preferred), or monogamy.

Your post though, amounts to "all my options suck".

And I feel you. We all feel you. But it reads like you are suddenly shocked that you're not going to marry a virgin and you are not going to get the 1940's horny housewife dream.

What does that leave....... well, choose from the above. Varying amounts of casual to monogamy, avoid marriage, and find fulfilment where you can in life.

I feel that hollywood glamorizes the eternal bachelor lifestyle. I'm not a rich guy backed by the script.

money doesn't help

I'm a normal guy who dosen't trust the institution of marriage and the women i'd be signing it with.

good.

stop being normal, start being amazing.

I feel my only option is to get lucky and find a good gal someday.

This is not going to happen until you make it happen.

You find a great girl by being a great guy AND LEARNING HOW TO DATE.

Even a great girl will shit test and play all the same shit. At least a little bit. She's not going to be impressed with your neo-virginal "waiting for miss right".

But i'd really just be compromising. I feel extremely vulnerable when i'm committed to a woman.

Right, and you really are.

How are you guys doing?

Facing the same shit you are, except in my case I've accepted it more than you have.

It's weird cold approaching in your late 30s and 40s and 50s. Im 20 so i can pass off as the young stupid guy. How da hell do I keep this up? assuming i take care of my body to be physically attractive. Do I just end up single and alone around 40? Do I just give in a find a LTR at 40?

You’re kinda young to be worried this far out.

One of the things I knew early on is that I was disgusted by the simp crowd, those with lifelong regrets over a woman, and whipped husbands — which I vowed never to become.

It lost me opportunities (maybe?) but I’ve had my fill of short term relationships and LTRs and I wake up everyday thanking god I’m still free.

For every happy ending, there 100 guys with dead bedrooms, cheating wives, raising kids not theirs, slaving themselves to death, a woman that openly or secretly despises them, and a manner of unhappiness etc. I have known and seen this a thousand times over, the fairytale is just that.

Anyway, learn some basic stoicism, no matter the outcome, you can save yourself a lot of anxiety.

I will give you some tips. Your forever alone feeling is a product of evolution to get you to breed. It’s not there for your personal wellbeing, control this mind monkey. We know women is not a long term cure anyway, since they can and will leave.

Second, happy endings are temporary. No permanence in this world. Imagine if Top Gun stuck with Kelly McGillis?

Women are a product of their environment. We’re in a garbage culture with a garbage environment — so you understand the quality of women being pumped out?

Every era presents the men living in it unique challenges. This is ours.