So you have 12-36+ women texting you post first date, and they’re not following up for a 2nd date. In my opinion, considering someone of your success, even if that success was in the time frame of let’s say 18 months, I think you’re going very well no?

I’d imagine that you are converting 2nd dates with that much success, just not as much as you think you should.

The truth is you probably are intimidating or women get the sense that you have multiple options and only wanted her for the night. Maybe you could fix your issue with some pursuing and a strategic double text.

As mentioned in another post, you need to try to answer your own question somewhere in the post body in AskTRP

It's a self reflection and independent thought requirement for posting here

Still, I’ve got dozens of texts (unprovoked) from girls saying they had an amazing date and wanted to see me again… only to ghost or cancel right after making plans.

Well, they're female. Never forget that.

It’s not like I’m retarded socially or talk politics — first dates are light, fun, and easy.

Ok...

I’ve even had one girl (later found out she was bipolar) confirm second date, then disappear the next day.

Happens to all of us dude.

I don’t get it. Intimidation seems too easy an answer — and I doubt most of these women are meeting guys who check more boxes.

Women are renowned for making terrible life choices, so I wouldn't worry about the odd girl doing this.

But if >50% are pulling this shit, then it's down to you.

Some questions:

• Are you touching them (you should)
• Are talking about the future / future dates / future plans / next date (you shouldn't)
• Are you showing any emotional neediness?
• Are you demonstrating higher value than her? (more cool, more socially aware, more intelligent, more in control, etc)
• Are you showing interest in her? (but not too much)
• Are you qualifying her?

I read down through some of your posts, and I found this to be interesting:

I’m by the book—attractive, non-needy, maxed out in every category, any more is diminishing returns. Yet still get ghosted frequently. It makes no sense.

I get that all of that’s superficial, but it’s what women typically say they want in an “ideal man.”

Here is your problem:

You read the books. You got the looks. You got the bank. You got the game. You got the skills. For what?

CHASING PUSSY

Somewhere along the line you lost your purpose. Is it because you reached the top, reached your goals, achieved your purpose, and got it all?
Now your new purpose is chasing pussy. That's why they're ghosting you. You've reverted to a big, rich, jacked, hot-as-fuck, beta male.

You need to find a new purpose that doesn't involve women.

M9st importantly Being close to 7 fig means you can afford to pay for consult of someone from the sphere.

ApexMindset charges staggering 1k\h but since you think the problem is serious and you can pay, that means you save more m9ney by paying and answering ALL personal questions, rather than sharing you have money, house and supercar, to bunch of strangers (and I don't think its the first time).

The more I read about it, the more I am convinced of this:

The problem is 'dating'. That is the issue. The problem is the game. The dating game is just retarded for men. The only way to win this game is to stop playing it.

Modern 'dating' is fucking retarded. Just step away from it. From the way that you self describe, you do not need it. High value men do not need the dating game to score, or find women for fun, sex or LTRs.

The issue with dating is that it is broken. The only candidates that you will find in that pool are broken females, ones that like validation and attention. They are not there for what they say they are there for (to find a date) they are there to find a way to make their phone go bing. They are looking for digital interaction. They are lonely and bored, and they want to sit on their sofa and have their phone go bing all night long.

TLDR: step out of the dating game, go out into the real world, and if you are the man you say you are, you will be getting offers non-stop. Instead of wasting your precious time, energy and life force on playing the retarded dating game online, go out into the real world and slay.

Thank me later.

Oh - and to be clear - I do not mean go out IRL and start number hunting.

intimidation

I think it might be similar, but not quite that.

You know how a woman might be really hot, but you can tell that she's a high-maintenance pain in the ass? It's likely that you're the male equivalent. They aren't "intimidated" or "scared", but rather feel it won't be worth the effort.

make close to seven figures, drive a supercar, own my house,

Are you showing this shit off? Are you picking them up in your supercar? When you take them home, is your house all fancy and shit?

You might be making them doubt their ability to hang onto you, and so they aren't bothering to try.

When you lead with your wallet (and before you say that you don't, if you're taking a supercar on a date then you are), you'll only attract gold diggers, and simultaneously repel women who feel "unqualified" for lack of a better term.

Do you have a more modest vehicle you can drive on dates or to meetups?

Can you dress in decent, but not top-of-the-line clothes? Like maybe shit from Kohl's?

Can you act down-to-earth and be fun?

bipolar... disappear[ed]

Consider yourself lucky.

Putting aside this particular post, and giving some food for thought based on your entire history here:

OK, remember that time your GF left because you were messaging exes? Did you learn from that?

Are you still making an LTR your goal (big mistake), or just being open to the possibility?

Are you getting laid with the women you're talking about in this post? Because if you are, then that's fucking winning dude, and just about anyone here would trade places with you in a heartbeat. Sexual abundance and variety is about as good as it gets. If you aren't getting laid, then work on that.

Something clicked with that last line. Are you just taking them out, chatting them up, and not even trying to fuck? Because women frequently are incredibly unforgiving of a man who doesn't even try to fuck.