Hey there guys, I have had girls going crazy for me, but it was always ugly or at max 6/10 HBs. Literally simping.
However Right now theres this 8/10 HBB at my work whos been simping me hard. Went on a date few days and everything went great, she wants to date again tomorrow.
Wierd thing I never dealed with a girl showing such high interest before that i actually liked back, and I havent found any guide about how to deal with women on this stance (High interest plus just starting to date).
I get texted all day from her, even If i take 8 hours to respond and try to cut it off a bit, i get almost instant responses and shes always trying to talk more.
I been applying a few dread game, and seems to be working fine, but dont wanna mess up cause every girl that I simped before I considered them ugly enough to just be ignored. Cheers.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
The same way you deal with any other women.
Cocky funny, dgaf, confident, treat her like a child
Don't know why you guys always think the is a longer pussy password for certain women
kardon93 3d ago
Pussy can blur our thinking, specially good pussy. I guess.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
You haven't even fucked her yet. Your pedestalization and self depreciation is ironically what is going to fuck you
Asking this post at all is symptomatic of what is going to fuck you
Why the f are you dreading her? I don't think you understand what dread even is or when to even use it or why.Make plans dude .
Also don't tell anyway they didn't warn you not to shit where you eat at work this is not a good idea
Musicgoon78 3 3d ago
Are you afraid to be happy? There's no magic or trickery behind a hot girl liking you. Just enjoy the ride. Playing it differently or trying to use dread when it's not needed will simply fuck things up.
Take the win.
First-light 2 3d ago
Enjoy. She thinks your SMV is enough to meet her bar, so you don't have to worry.
Don't freeze up like a rabbit in the headlights. Don't over act. Don't use dread game in daily life. What people misunderstand about dread is that it is like a drug. It works but you build up a tolerance to it. The more of it you give to her and the bad thing still doesn't happen, the less effective it is. She eventually stops worrying she might lose you and decides you are either not that attentive or just a jerk.
As they all say be yourself. Of course be the best version of yourself but you can't easily sustain a relationship where you are acting because you think someone is too good for you. Women set the bar. If she thinks you meet it, then all is well. Don't give her any reason to worry you might not have the value she thinks you have. Women are quite suggestible. If you suggest you not worthy, she may start to worry.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 3d ago
She's not special, so don't pedestalize her.
A) are you sure you even know what dread is?
B) why would you do that, when she's been showing such high interest?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
Another alpha bravado LARPer
"Need to dread these birches amairite?"
These guys just role play so hard in field instead of getting laid
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 3d ago
"Today, this HB9 smiled at me and said 'hi!' and so I told her 'I have 6 other bitches, but I can add you to my harem I guess'. Then she gave me this weird look and said 'well good for you' and walked away.
Where did I go wrong?"
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3d ago
"This HB 10.5 was naked in my bed and millimeters away from descending on my cock. I shit tested her to ramp up attraction and she got up and went home. Where did I go wrong?"
qzone 3d ago
Dread is specifically for if your wife isn’t fucking you.
MrSupreme 3d ago
Isn't that what you're looking for? Judt seduce,fuck, engage in a short/long term relstionship,flirt,game, don't forget she still has to be gamed, and of course establish your frame
If you feel like she is irrationally affectionate then you may have found yourself a love bomber. Just appreciate the love and don't expect it to last forever, game other women cause that one will probably leave when she's done.
Jackmoter 3d ago
"I don't want to mess this up" Too bad buddy. We can't hold your hand or give you the detailed advice on every possible situation that might occur.
You have to make your own mistakes.
Does this girl have any trauma or habits that would disqualify her from being an LTR?
You should be shit testing her, not sitting there quivering because she is 2 points higher in a sexual market place.
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mattyanon Admin 2d ago
You do not mean what you think you mean when you say this.
great
Did you touch her?
no you haven't..... but ok
Look........ girl likes boy . boy likes girl. meet, fuck.
It's fine. Apply normal game rules, but expect it to go easier and faster if she likes you already.
DO NOT GET TOO ATTACHED.
Get more options.
Care less.
Hugo_The_Great 2d ago
Dude, you should only ever use dread when a girls' treatment of you doesn't meet your standards.
It's basically a 'You better start acting right before I Next/demote you', but covertly. In the early dating phase, the only dread you should ever pull is passive dread, like not texting back asap and not being super available. (Which should not be conscious because you should have other shit to do than entertain that 1 woman, like fucking your other plates, focusing on making $, maintaining friendships, growing your network or on other interesting hobbies)
You only apply active dread (conscious manipulation) to girls who are lazy because they have become so entitled from simps bending over for them that they either don't know or are not accustomed to treating a man properly. To me, using that kind of dread is literally like punishing a dog for bad behavior because you are training it to be a good dog. You want your dog to behave well because you expect your dog to be with you for a while, and you want to make that time as enjoyable as possible for yourself. I don't even bother to dread girls who idgaf about because I don't plan on keeping them around. And you can't plan on keeping a girl for a while until after you've been fucking her for at least 2 months.
Back to passive dread, which is the best form of dread. Meaning, you are so busy being an attractive cool motherfucker, that a girl is actively doing everything she can to please you. This is the dread 'natural alpha's' exude. The problem with passive dread is that it becomes worthless when a girl starts to believe she is on your level.
In the worst case, dread is used because she is starting to think she can do better than you. If she already does (in which case she probably has a guy lined up already), you're too late anyway and no amount of dread will keep that relationship going, no matter if it's dating/ltr/marriage.
Ultimate dread is walking away, but you only do that when there is no other viable option left.
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