The answer to this question is always the same:

WOMEN.

A 9 is still a woman.

Take her off the pedestal, don’t chase women, even if mentally.

she has unlimited options

You just answered your question. You can be 6’10”, drive a Veyron and have multiple estates and still get ghosted (especially by a 9/10); there’s always a bigger fish. The fact that you’re on the internet posting about this shows who has more power in your dynamic. The fact that she was talking about a future with you already doesn’t mean that you’re special, it means that she’s excitable - for the highest bidder, and there’s plenty of bidders.

Any woman will move mountains and skip funerals for her number one choice man - you know this.

Does this mean you can’t inquire with her? No, it’s totally normal to ask what happened, unless you want to keep up a facade of an unassailable alpha, which won’t help your case if she’s already decided that there’s a better option.

PS. What do you do for a living?

were you dating her or plating her? either way, u may have been too available. date 4 was thursday, next date is on sunday. you planned the date before finishing the other date. this was your 5th date in how long? chicks crave not knowing where they stand with you. if you are hitting 5 dates in a short amount of time it signals that you are appreciating spending time with them. unfortunately that removes the challenge for her because she knows where she stands, and now she can't appreciate spending time with you.

i find that when things happen fast, from meeting to hooking up, the girls will initially love bomb (gift by date 3). you can entertain this as sex talk but be careful taking any of it seriously (nobody's ever f***d me like that before, omg, you're different, etc).

the next move after love bombing is future faking (you and her talked about traveling together on date 3). again, a gift on date 3 is kind of extreme and looks like love bombing, so i assume this is future faking.

picking out furniture for your house is almost nesting, a subgenre of future faking (we'll move in together).

she is not lying as much as she is addicted to the honeymoon phase of that first broken heart she has, and she is trying to recreate it every single time. she is unhealed and will be bailing for new tingles as soon as the honeymoon phase feeling is gone. generally she will bail with extreme prejudice as she does not want anything to do with the feelings that come near the end of a relationship. also, if she is confident that you are appreciative of her time, she may believe that she can flutter in and out.

i would wait for her to reach out and if she does invite her over for netflix or to cook dinner and have drinks at your place. if shes compliant and comes to hook up, wait for her to initiate again, then invite her over. if this positive cycle keeps repeating, you can think about ignoring that red flag action of standing you up and doing dates again or keeping her as FWB.

tldr; she was really into you, was loving the vibes and honeymoon phase, love bombed you, future faked, pretty much started fake nesting. perhaps your availability to her combined with cooking you a meal and fucking you made her think of doing that every single night for the rest of her life and she got ThE iCk.

I haven’t heard from her even 4 hours after the planned date time. Just zero contact since Friday.

Should I continue waiting for her and not reach out?

There's always the possibility (however improbable) that something actually happened to her, or that it just slipped her mind. I don't see a problem with a short "you ok? what happened to you?" text, but nothing else until she replies.

BTW, that's 1 "should I?" @Vermillion-Rx

I’d be hard fetched to believe she found anyone better on paper.

On paper doesn't matter as much as her feeeeeeeelings.

I just can’t see how she’d be so inclined to be open to meeting anyone else, let alone finding better (on paper, I know its all about how a guy makes her feel emotionally regardless of accolades)

You said it yourself. There might be some hobo midget who makes her tingle in all the right ways. A man can check every block a woman says she wants, but still lack the chemistry with particular women.

Hell, it might not even be a different dude. There's always the possibility that something about you just set her off in all the wrong ways, and she suddenly wants nothing to do with you.

Hell dude, maybe she found shit about you on that Tea app before it got compromised or whatever.

Bottom line: unless she contacts you, you'll just never know why she flaked.

Women with healthy brains are expected to look for man that are serious with them, and expect such man to put some feelings in the table.

Awalt, of course, but before jumping into conclusions, It wouldn't hurt show some initiative and gauge the answer: anything but an enthusiastically agreement to move forward should meet a cold hard 'next'.

Attention to oneities feelings.

This is all speculation. But you could be the AF and she might be looking for her beta provider. Some girls will instinctively know that you're just there to smash. They will keep a few backups in case they get hurt.

Without more context it's really hard to say. Wait to see if she reaches out, if not, find another hoe.

Should I continue waiting for her and not reach out?

Don't reach out.

She FLAKED.

That means it's over unless SHE jumps through huge hoops. Don't chase.... what are you chasing after, a girl who flakes? Have some self respect.

My assumption is always that there is another guy she met but it’s so far outta left field, as fickle and fleeting as I know women are. I’d be hard fetched to believe she found anyone better on paper.

Delusion.

It doesn't have to be better, just enough to sweep her up in the moment.

Not to toot my own horn but I’m 6’2, bodybuild, drive a brand new McLaren and have my own house at 27.

Good work, but maybe she wants something different THIS WEEK.

I just can’t see how she’d be so inclined to be open to meeting anyone else, let alone finding better (on paper, I know its all about how a guy makes her feel emotionally regardless of accolades)

Dude.

Seriously.. listen to yourself.

You know how women are.

Here's your mistake: you are too invested too quickly. And she isn't.

Find other options, big boy.

Sometimes it be like that.

It's always frustrating when you have those ones that on paper seem to have gone really well, and then they ghost. But girls are fickle and sometimes they pull shit like this for whatever reason.

Regardless, she flaked with no warning or apology, which is very disrespectful. Unless she comes back and apologizes, move onto the next one.

She is 9/10 and attracted by fairly surface things. She doesn't need to be accountable, she is pretty enough not to worry.

Odds on its another guy but you never know, could just be she had to do something else and could not even be bothered to tell you.

Its going to need to be a great excuse if she is to save this one (if she bothers to try of course).

Anyway sorry to hear of your bad luck.

I think the comments on the travels and stuff could be her scanning you for beta bux and hooking herself up with a sugar daddy deal. Maybe you didn't give her those vibes, just the regular sex and dating guy, no yachts or planes. She may have just prioritized her search for the ATM guy, but you could be still on rotation for some detached sex.

Flaking on the plans is definitely disrespectful, get yourself another woman too, to make up for it and if she comes back then definitely empty your balls on her and leave, that respect is not coming back anyways so might as well not show any kind of consideration for her. But that next date may not happen.