those of you that are (or pretend) to be chill and non-judgemental, what are some stories your girls have told you (their past or current escapades)?
being non-judgemental is something that i'm working on, because shaming slutty behavior is just counter-productive (should just silently vet girls instead)
No-Stress-Cat 1d ago
Being judgemental is an emotional state. You need to turn it into a logical state.
How to not be judgemental? Don't give a shit about her past.
That doesn't mean you can't use the information she provides to logically decide where she is on the scale (No Go, Plate, FWB, GF, LTR).
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
Jesus Christ man you are masturbating like hell over preparing for a relationship
It is extremely obvious you are tremendously insecure and trying to rationalize being exclusive with some woman
Bozza 2 1d ago
Bro. Take some time off to go through the anger phase, fuck me. If you can't get through that without all this, you'll struggle with what comes next.
This isn't even the worst of it man.
That belief you have of finding a unicorn? Yeah bury that deep. It's never coming back. And the bitterness - well this is only the beginning.
Enjoy the decline, I guess.
Bozza 2 1d ago
It's almost like he's edging, piece by piece towards the truth.
We've gone from "how can i screen for a wife" to "are my plates whores".
We're getting somewhere.
Yes, @AbusiveFather1 - your plates ARE whores. And every girl you ever considered for a wife, are also a whores. Don't believe me? Take a look back through your memory. Align your details, see the signs.
Even the purest of purest bitch you know was only trying to pull the wool over your eyes for the benefit of commitment, for herself.
AbusiveFather1 1d ago
That’s right
Bozza 2 1d ago
Maybe ill write a post to show you the stages of grief you'll go through. It gets a lot worse. Then you think it gets better, then you get stabbed in the back. Then you become a cold, shell of a man like the rest of us.
But hey, at least you've you've got a 20 year old swallowing your loads (she'll AWALT you as well).
Those dreams of a wife and white picket fence. Yeah, they're dreams. Once you see behind the curtain, there's no turning back.
But better to see it coming, than drink the coolaid and get divorce raped.
Ronaldraygun77 19h ago
Get her comfortable and talking. She will spill her life to you.
“Hey tell me a crazy story”
“It’s fine plate #3;, I’m crazy too. I love hearing about people living free “ etc
Then feel the internal disgust when she tells you about the train ran on her in high school. Better yet, just accept it, make a mental note, and move forward.