Yesterday i was talking to this girl who liked me, we even talked sexual stuff, everything was going pretty well, i was interesting(cool hobbies), agreed and amplified, i sent her my body pic with 12% bodyfat(visible 6 packs) and decent muscles, she found it to be really hot, she's an unemployed skinny fat chick who's never set a foot in the gym(im sure even her dms are full with dudes). Then she asked my height and i told 5'10 (actually 5'8) and it was over, she said she wont sleep with anyone under 6' as her previous bf was 6' skinny dude, brutal slap straight in the face.
i know i wont ever reach the level of success a genetic specimen can reach without putting in any effort, but my effort I've put on for years on end to yield me failures all my life whenever I've tried puts me in depression from time to time, like id go to the gym consistently for 6 months and then it hits and i go into depression for 2 months completely starving myself and loosing all my gains .
I've tried everything guys from cold approaching (40+) to dating apps( got 2 matches in a month) to tried being friends with chicks irl (warm approach), and nothing has ever worked in my entire like till now. a KV no matter of how much i try and improve based on the field approaches i do, don't lead to any tangible results
for context I'm a bald(was Norwood 3 so i shaved it all) 20yo man who needs to man the fuck up but don't know how to do so.
Lone_Ranger 3 21h ago
good lord - this might as well have been written by Ai.
Manofcave 21h ago
for my case it is autism i guess, AI's are also prolly made by autists
Bozza 2 21h ago
I won't lie, height will be a factor. But you need to lay off the black pill bullshit. If you can own it and not give a fuck, women will fuck you.
Manofcave 21h ago
i owned my height, albeit halfway, look where it got me. its the whole premise of redpill to be as close to the truth as possible, i try and i fail, i improve and i fail. i dont ask for success handed to me but i also dont want to fall into depression periodically as its fucks up a lot of months of a good year
Bozza 2 20h ago
How jacked are you? What can you bench?
Sounds like you might be in the shitty lul period between getting started and when the success really starts rolling in.
Manofcave 19h ago
2.5years of lifting, 90kg bench, 13% bodyfat, 72kg bodyweight, 5'8 height, about 21 FFMI
Bozza 2 12h ago
Just keep at it bro. Took me 3 years of monk mode before I even started dating and seeing success - and I'm 6'2", so it's not all about height.
Then I had to learn game to keep the ones who expressed interest, so that was another battle.
All in all, it's taken me 6 years to get where I am today wrt RP. It's not a quick or easy process by any means.
Manofcave 3h ago
its like saying my parents were millionaires but i was always broke. but i see your point to stfu and man up. keep putting in the work and expect no reward, and someday you'll be given breadcrumbs.
MrSupreme 15h ago
Height bitches are the R word.
Find quality stuff, check your inner game cause they smell your fucking negativity, be a happy guy.
Manofcave 14h ago
Yup, but I guess I'm a retard magnet. I might have to seriously change my ways or change my name
JPCantell 10h ago
Don’t answer her questions with straight answers. The issue wasn’t your height. Your issue was you qualified yourself to a bitch by answering her qualification questions. This isn’t a fucking interview where you gotta satisfy her criteria. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Let that bitch qualify yourself to you.
Her: “How tall are you?”
You: “How tall are you when you’re on your knees?”
Overcome women’s “rules” with a dominant game and frame.
Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas.
Manofcave 3h ago
best answer so far, i thought i shouldve said im 3'2 lilliput smurf with blue skin but sexual escalation would be better