It was a fucking shit test man. You zoomer guys are overly autistic and raised on soy beans watching Naruto.

You guys stand no chance in life.

next time tell her you're 6'. Women are stupid and can't measure height accurately to save their lives. If you're 5'8" or taller you can just say you're 6' and they'll believe it.

Stop giving a shit about what women think. That'll help your depression/self esteem tremendously. Realize that women are dumb and what they like or don't like is irrelevant and meaningless. I couldn't give less of a shit about their female issues and neither should you.

If you're going to the gym in order to conform to some ideal body image set by women, you've already fucked up and allowed them to control your frame. You should be going to the gym to get stronger for yourself, not to impress women. Fuck what they think.

If you try to be friends with them first, you will rarely, if ever, actually transition from a platonic to a sexual/romantic relationship. You are friendzoning yourself by doing this

You are still young and naive and have your life ahead of you. Keep focusing on yourself and building yourself up FOR YOU, not for women. Women will notice this and it'll attract them, but only if that is NOT your goal. If you do shit with the explicit purpose of attracting them, they will subconciously pick up on this and it will just turn them off. Women are disgusted by men who try to please them and conform to their standards. They're attracted to men who don't give a shit and are pursuing success for themselves

i know i wont ever reach the level of success a genetic specimen can reach without putting in any effort, but my effort I've put on for years on end to yield me failures all my life whenever I've tried puts me in depression from time to time, like id go to the gym consistently for 6 months and then it hits and i go into depression for 2 months completely starving myself and loosing all my gains .

Look...... this happens to everyone.

Oh... you're 5'10? no deal.

Meanwhile 6 foot guy....... oh...... you've got no degree? no deal.

Too old, too young, blah blah blah whatever...... happens to all of us.

Yesterday i was talking to this girl who liked me, we even talked sexual stuff, everything was going pretty well, i

Thing is, this is all an illusion. Roleplay. She didn't "like you"........ she liked some things, turns out she didn't like all of it. Fine, whatever, fucking NEXT.

For all you know she could be a guy. You just don't know. Could be married. Just looking for first excuse to bail. Or maybe it's true. Who the fuck knows - don't put any of your emotional commitment into a woman you've not fucked twice.

I've tried everything guys from cold approaching (40+)

good, how does that go?

to dating apps( got 2 matches in a month)

urgh, OLD sucks

to tried being friends with chicks irl (warm approach),

If you think that being friends with women before dating them is a good idea then you have much to learn about the basics.

and nothing has ever worked in my entire like till now. a KV no matter of how much i try and improve based on the field approaches i do, don't lead to any tangible results

for context I'm a bald(was Norwood 3 so i shaved it all) 20yo man who needs to man the fuck up but don't know how to do so.

You might try not-quite-fully-bald. Show the fuzz round the edges which will take the edge off the full bald/skinhead look which will be an issue for some women. BUT...... some other women are really into it.

As regards how to man up: you man up by getting on with it and just keeping on going.

https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/3sd8xh/bald_guys_are_hot/

good lord - this might as well have been written by Ai.

I won't lie, height will be a factor. But you need to lay off the black pill bullshit. If you can own it and not give a fuck, women will fuck you.

Height bitches are the R word.

Find quality stuff, check your inner game cause they smell your fucking negativity, be a happy guy.

Don’t answer her questions with straight answers. The issue wasn’t your height. Your issue was you qualified yourself to a bitch by answering her qualification questions. This isn’t a fucking interview where you gotta satisfy her criteria. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Let that bitch qualify yourself to you.

Her: “How tall are you?”

You: “How tall are you when you’re on your knees?”

Overcome women’s “rules” with a dominant game and frame.

Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas.

Your mindset is deeply entitled and narcissistic.

Let's get you down from you imaginary tower princess. Let's have a complete moment of honesty here. You don't want to man up. In fact, by the way you act, you don't want success.

What a fucking privilege. This week my grandmother broke a hip and is in the ICU. My mother is recovering from breast cancer surgery and chemotherapy. My daughter is cutting herself because of her mother's abuse and my car got totaled after a truck hit another vehicle and its tire flew into me. And you are bald? Boo hoo phaggot! Three of my good friends are cueball bald. All of them have hot women in their life. One of them is fat and ugly as fuck. He pulls ass. All of this is simply because the go after what they want.

It's not bodyfat percentage, it's not muscles, it's not hair. It's all about enjoying your life and strongly going after what you want.

I so tired of the whiny little boys that come on here with pathetic excuses and tiny problems expecting us to feel sorry for them and give them some magic answer.

Here's your brutal truth: you got what you went after. You went after excuses as to why you're unsuccessful, miserable and negative. And all the women around you see that like a neon sign. Congrats! You come across as the exact type of person you've strived to be.

The rest of us figured out that getting women is really easy. You just go after what you want. That means sacrificing your entitlement that everyone should feel sorry for you for stupid shit that isn't even a problem.

Come back when you actually want success. You can lie to everyone else, but I'm sick of these "woe is me" man-princess posts.

I don't feel sorry for you and you're being a little bitch, which is pussy repellant for women.

Brutal is a strong word. There isn't anything brutal to be said here. You are 20. There is plenty of time left. Manning up usually involves something along the lines of smiling and saying "It hurts/ will hurt but I don't mind that much, I am going to get on with this and come out just fine at the end" and then seeing it through in that spirit.

You haven't tried anything for years on end yet. You are 20. You have made some experiments. There is lots more to try and more to learn at the things you have tried.

So to man up get a smile on. All of life's challenges go better with a smile.

What kind of man would you like next to you in a tight scrape? A guy full of positive energy, strength and confidence (funnily enough this is the guy women would choose too). Be that guy for yourself. No one else will stand next to you in a tight spot by choice unless you can be that guy to some extent. Until you can attract others to stand with you, you must be that man for yourself. No one else will or can. Master that and they will come.

Guys who have not really suffered much in life and have lived too much in their own minds often fail to realise the value of a smile "Chin up boy, Get a smile on. Play up and play the game". In the 60's the young educators of the world mocked that advice. They thought they knew better than their fathers and grandfathers who had fought in two world wars. School masters stopped saying that to miserable boys. Fathers got told it was almost child abuse. Generations of weak mopey faggots followed. Feel sorry for yourself, few others will. Feel positive, others will stand with you.