I have an old plate. I was banging her for years, to this day she remembers my birthday, Christmas, gifts etc. But she simply has aged out of the market.
What plausible deniability, story, to use on her so she is not offended, ego defensive when I would initiate a talk to tell her to set me up with one of her friends (no one specific in mind)?
I'm going to do it anyway so I will use the input.
I didnt bang her for months.
ncstaterepted 2d ago
LOL even the bitches who crave threesomes want them with stranger women and guard me like a dog from their friends. nobody a woman hates and competes with more than her besties. maybe if you demonstrate that you're a total shit show fkboi she'll try to sabotage one of her girls with you :D
superhitops 4d ago
Plating has consequences. One is that plates always ressent you.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 4d ago
1) asking her that shit will probably make it clear to her that things are over between you
2) you can't make another person do anything. All you can do is incentivize the choice you want them to make and have consequences for the choices you want them not to make. What's in it for her?
B1ssBabe 3d ago
Fair enough, yet she probably knows since I used to see her Max every 2 weeks for several years, and twice in last 12 months
Surely I'm not planning to make her to do something, but fair point to say 'whats in it for her'. I'd say continued attention and stuff I have given before except sex (what it is in other reply).
Might be silly to think it'll work.
MrSupreme 3d ago
This is the stupidest idea i've seen in a while. You feel the need,for some reason, to tell her you're still in the market and enjoying some SMV while hers is declining or something,lowkey girly behaviour. Leave that shit alone, find your own girls.
EDIT: Also, don't you find beauty in the relationship you left with her? She's thinking of you, giving you gifts, probably talks and thinks highly of you and you're gonna go and ruin that record with some silly shit. it doesn't get better than that, apart from a blowjob here and there just because she feels like it.
B1ssBabe 3d ago
Well I understand you know nothing about it. Considering that, I'm surprised with this rushed opinion.
But here you go know the background and see how it holds.
All this years she is sharing living space (flat) with a dude (also they moved together across city twice) this dude met her familly. Even I met him accidentally on a street (while with her), nothing weird happen on his part. Apparently they didnt share bedroom. But they were exes.
Once he threatened not to let her back into the flat (or she was testing me), after meeting with me. Cant be sure.
This was a perfect plate, no dramas, no terrible shit tests I can recall, no 'what r we', but admitted she is really demanding bitchy if she gets close to someone. She was silly / out of touch telling me her sex stories with details, types of dudes she likes, (silly if she wanted anything).
But I was perfect (lets say) courtier. Never judged, listened and nodded, sometimes suggested some solutions.
She let herself go really bad. Arousal not possible. Sure she would welcome some more attention. And althought I can still respect her for being a human being there is nothing beautiful or romantic. Even is she would remain HB8 and propose to me there still would be fuck tons of questions about her past. Answers could never be plausible.
No-Stress-Cat 3d ago
Why snub your nose at free pizza?
B1ssBabe 3d ago
She started to eat so much she got stomach like 6month pregnant. It hangs. Her torso changed from petite to bodybuilder like.
Strangely otherwise she has superfit legs and ass, big tits, slimish arms.
No-Stress-Cat 2d ago
She had too much free pizza herself, huh?
Musicgoon78 2 4d ago
Dumb. Game women yourself. You can't rely on an ex plate to game for you. That's weak.
B0ssBabe 4d ago
This is social circle not a game.
'Rely' - not. I have invested my time fucking her and what not, she can still give back, but I certainly understand she might have a problem with being seen as redundant, and I would like to minimise the blow.
She is somewhat shy, tall, submissive type.
Musicgoon78 2 4d ago
That's a sunk cost fallacy. I'm sure you enjoyed fucking her. If not that's dumb.
I don't know what else to tell you other than your idea is lazy.
Whatever type she is doesn't matter. Sack up and dump her.
B0ssBabe 4d ago
Effectively she is dumped (soft dumped so no bridges burned). But keeps messaging for birthdays etc.
Lazy? Maybe you're right. I still cant justify dropping a lead and I'mnot even in sales.