I have an old plate. I was banging her for years, to this day she remembers my birthday, Christmas, gifts etc. But she simply has aged out of the market.
What plausible deniability, story, to use on her so she is not offended, ego defensive when I would initiate a talk to tell her to set me up with one of her friends (no one specific in mind)?
I'm going to do it anyway so I will use the input.
I didnt bang her for months.
Musicgoon78 2 16h ago
Dumb. Game women yourself. You can't rely on an ex plate to game for you. That's weak.
B0ssBabe 16h ago
This is social circle not a game.
'Rely' - not. I have invested my time fucking her and what not, she can still give back, but I certainly understand she might have a problem with being seen as redundant, and I would like to minimise the blow.
She is somewhat shy, tall, submissive type.
Musicgoon78 2 15h ago
That's a sunk cost fallacy. I'm sure you enjoyed fucking her. If not that's dumb.
I don't know what else to tell you other than your idea is lazy.
Whatever type she is doesn't matter. Sack up and dump her.
B0ssBabe 15h ago
Effectively she is dumped (soft dumped so no bridges burned). But keeps messaging for birthdays etc.
Lazy? Maybe you're right. I still cant justify dropping a lead and I'mnot even in sales.