Most western states are in an accommodation with the Christian church that makes Christian marriage legal and it usually involves reading bans or getting a marriage license before being allowed to stand in a church. If it is possible in your country why not do it, if it is a religious woman and you want to have children with her. But check and check again first. You could end up totally screwed without realising it. When my very Catholic lady wanted to do it (because I refuse to marry her), I saw it would never work in my country.

You can do this as a Muslim in most western countries but you have to check your country and maybe even pick your mosque with care as some mosques are quite proud to be part of the state system and to be conducting state legal marriages while others are very keen to not be part of a western state.

There are quite a few pagans who get "married". I had a witch client who made her pathetic magina simp sleep in a neolithic tomb before he was re-born next day by being handfasted and jumping a broomstick. I have watched druids "marrying" couples at solstices and equinoxes. I rather like the wording they use "I join you for a thousand lives (or some such exaggeration) or as long as the love may last" We all know it will be the latter. When the love ends, they are automatically free.

One of the most amusing camp fire evenings I have ever had was before a winter solstice at a well known stone circle. It was a starry night on the high plain but my mate and I had whisky and a fire and these two things drew from the darkness a guy who claimed to be a reincarnation of the wizard Merlin. He was worried that the CIA were after him for his magic powers. We looked a bit clean cut and straight but he once he learned we had been at his wedding, conducted the previous year by none less than the re-incarnation of King Arthur (a well known local character whose "reincarnation" has got him far more pussy than he ever deserved) he knew we were OK and he could drink our whisky safely, while telling us stories about his fellow fruit loops. While trying not to laugh. I realised there is a whole group of people who are just having a laugh through life. You don't have to be hung up on the rules. If these guys had tried to conform, they would probably all have spectacularly failed but instead they found a way to live their chaotic lives making their own rules and rites of passage.

What I have also noticed is people who are not religious having a big fancy "wedding" in a villa somewhere (somewhere that is not licensed for marriages but looks cool) and then later going to a town hall to legalise it. You could do this but don't forget Mick Jagger's Beach wedding that ended in a lot of legal strife. He thought he was not married, she said she was, the lawyers feasted.

The laws in this can vary from state to state, and if you're in a state that allows such a thing but then move afterwards, it can fuck you.

This is a question best asked of a divorce attorney. Be prepared to pay for his or her time (consultation fee).

Why do you want to get married so badly, anyway? Using Red Pill knowledge for blue pill goals isn't really a wise move.

Ffs man I will keep telling you this but you clearly are extremely relationship seeking

It's extremely obvious

Stop.

Spin plates. If one actually turns out supreme you have your answer and never go through the state and only ever do it in a state that allows non-state communions

You keep looking for a relationship in nearly everything you post about

It's a feminine sexual strategy. Stop it

You need this post more than anyone in this site because you are determined to ignore all the warning signs to Jack yourself off to the idea of being with a unicorn

Green-Tinted Glasses™

I doubt any church in the U.S. would do it. Right wing churches especially want women to have the full benefits of family court. They join the family law Bar in resisting any change to divorce/custody laws; indeed, they favor alimony for life to cheating sluts who leave their husbands.

Most places will not marry you without a certificate. If they do marry you, you need to make sure not to invite anyone, don't take pictures and don't celebrate. There are too many witnesses that can testify that you got married in court.

Here's what you do: Tell yourself "I'm married! Yay"! Then pull your balls out and place them on a table. Then you beat them with a claw hammer until they are a mangled mess! Congrats, you now have all the benefits of being married without cash out of pocket.

You can't get married in church without a marriage license. Unless you're a pagan. But pagans don't have churches. You have to get married outside in the forest under a full moon while being buck naked.